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Politics › Re: Pic: Nigerian Prostitute Leads Protest For Sex Workers' Rights In Lagos by vicadex07(op): 5:13pm On Aug 04, 2014
Balkan: This pix is not from 9ja op.
Nobleval: Op you must be high on crack!
Something tells me you're both Ibolas. You better go and join your people in solidarity
Politics › Re: OSUN 2014 Nairaland Elections. APC Vs PDP...let's See Who Wins by vicadex07(op): 4:52pm On Aug 04, 2014
WIZGUY69: @ op, sorry for commenting, i want to ask, AREGBESOLA and who is contesting for the Governorship election? As far as am concerned Aregbesola is not having an Opponent @ all, and if Omisore the murderer trya harder the election might be AREGBESOLA : 85 OMISORE : 15
grin.
Comment away...as long as you have registered your likes first...

Everybody come out and vote o...I see APC leading already
Politics › Pic: Nigerian Prostitute Leads Protest For Sex Workers' Rights In Lagos by vicadex07(op): 4:23pm On Aug 04, 2014
Pictured below is a proud Nigerian prostitute named Patoo Abraham who led a protest for sex workers' rights in Lagos recently.

Patoo Abraham has become famous for
fighting for the rights of prostitutes, but
what she - and those she is trying to help
- do to make a living is illegal and
frowned upon by many in the country.
Abraham is not only proud of her
profession but is also campaigning to
ensure that prostitution is legalised and
that sex workers are respected in Africa's
most populous country.

The 48-year-old has led a couple of
protests in Lagos, Nigeria's commercial
capital, demanding the rights of
prostitutes in a country where sex
vendors suffer physical harm at the hands
of their punters.

Under the auspices of different organisations, scores of prostitutes marched on the streets of Lagos, chanting provocative slogans. This boldness is unprecedented, and the protesters carried their signature red umbrellas and T-shirts with the inscription "Sex work is work, we need our rights." "We are tired of dying in silence," Abraham, who heads the Nigerian chapter of African Sex Workers Alliance (ASWA), told Al Jazeera. "We want to be able to practise our profession with pride like every other person. We want an end to name-calling and stigmatisation. We are sex workers and not asawo [a Yoruba derogatory name for prostitutes]."

Sex work, said Abraham, is normal work and
that there are "sex workers everywhere under one form of disguise or the other". "[The] government should stop criminalising our work," said the woman who is also the
president of the Women of Power Initiative
(WOPI), a non-governmental organisation
established to advance the cause of sex work in Nigeria.

Although Nigeria has posted impressive
economic growth, overtaking South Africa to
become Africa's largest economy,
unemployment remains widespread and many Nigerian women have ended up working as prostitutes in part because they cannot find work.

Finance Minister Ngozi Okonjo-Iweala said in
April that no fewer than 5.3 million youths are jobless, and the World Bank last year put the number of Nigerians living in destitution at 100 million.

Sister's advice
With large earrings and a face flamboyantly
made up, Abraham sat in her busy office,
which she shares with another organisation,
and told Al Jazeera how she took the advice of her sister, a former prostitute, when life as a single parent became too tough for her.
Though reluctant then, she now sees it as any other business and has no regrets.

"Just as you are proud of your profession,
that is how I am proud of mine. Just as you
are respected for being a journalist, that is
how I want to be respected," said Abraham.

Abraham uses the pseudonym "Patoo" in her daily work - a name she chose to hide her identity when she began work as a prostitute.
She said her two children - a son and a
daughter - are at university and she pays
tuition fees for them. They do not know her
occupation, she said, although she marched on the streets of Lagos for all to see.

In this oil-rich country of more than 160
million people ravaged by poverty and
deprivation, Abraham's work seems lucrative. But Abraham and other women in this business still have the authorities and people to contend with.

One of the prostitutes who identified herself only as Janet, spoke of how police arrest them indiscriminately, raiding their brothel even when they are with their clients.
"Sometimes, after reluctantly paying for our
services, they arrest us and take us to the
[police] station and ask us to bail ourselves
with the same amount they paid us, thereby
recovering their money," Janet said in pidgin English.

"Some of us sustain serious injuries when our customers beat us up and there is no one to protect us," she added.
Other women raise even more serious
complaints. Outspoken and HIV-positive, 35-
year-old Ayide, the only name she gave in
order to be quoted, attended one of the
rallies and said it is not only the police to
blame.

"When we talk about police, we are pointing
accusing fingers at only one group. The fact is that all the uniformed men, especially the
mobile police [paramilitary arm of the police], are oppressing us. They use their uniform to harass us. They extort money from us, beat us and rape us," she said. Abraham corroborated the claims of Janet and Ayide, saying that people who stigmatised them and the security agents who harassed them were a serious problem.
"People call us names but the funny thing is
that they don't even know if their wives,
sisters or daughters are one of us," she said
in-between laughter.
"If I don't tell you that I am a sex worker, you won’t know unless you see me here. Most of us are working as nurses in big hospitals, some are bankers and even students, but you won’t know."

Raids on brothels
Philip Eze, the police officer in charge of Elere Police Division, Lagos, explained that the police would not arrest prostitutes were it not for the country's criminal code outlawing prostitution.
"In the Nigerian criminal code, if somebody is soliciting for men, it is against the law and vice versa. The law does not cause confusions; we are the ones causing confusion in the name of the law. I don't care if they have a world association, it is illegal in Nigeria and their assembly is illegal too," Eze said.

Responding to allegations of extortion, sexual harassment, and rape by police, Eze said victims should report such cases and the offenders would be prosecuted.
"Even though they are prostitutes, they have
every right to report rape and other human
right abuses," he told Al Jazeera.
Meanwhile, the fight between prostitutes and the authorities continue.

Police occasionally raid brothels in Lagos and make sweeping arrests in red light areas like Kofo Abayomi, Victoria Island, Isaac John Street, and Allen Avenue.
Some of the lucky prostitutes end up in police cells where they are interrogated and
eventually released on bail. Others end up
serving jail terms of three to four months
without an option of paying a fine after being charged for loitering, public indecency or disorderly conduct or engaging in acts inimical to the public good.

To stage the protest to mark the International Sex Workers Rights Day 2014 without a clash with the authorities, the prostitutes outsmarted the police, obtaining a permit under the auspices of WOPI.
They took their demands to the authorities at Shomolu Local Government, Lagos, where
they were advised that legislators held the key to their demand.

Previous attempts by lawmakers to have
prostitution legalised were unsuccessful.
In 2011, Senator Ike Ekweremadu, the Deputy Senate President of Nigeria, called for the complete legalisation of prostitution, saying this would enable the government to regulate the activities of prostitutes. The move sparked widespread criticism across the country and Ekweremadu later regretted his comment.
But Margaret Onah, the founder of Safe Haven Development Initiative and WOPI, who has campaigned for the rights of prostitutes, said she is still planning to take protests to the national assembly, and push for legislation that will decriminalise sex work and empower women.

"Nigerian law does not specifically say
anything against prostitution," Onah said.
"What it says is that if a girl is caught openly
soliciting for sex, and money is being
exchanged, she should be arrested. But we
know that if a girl is staying in a brothel, and is a sex worker, the brothel is more or less like her home

Education › Re: Whats The Secret Behind Speaking Good English? by vicadex07(m): 2:51pm On Aug 04, 2014
jayseehe: Viewing this topic: illuminatic , DJDOLA (m ) , MamaPeace (f) , softsparkyy ( f ), and 3
guest(s) grin
Politics › Re: REVEALED: APC FINANCIER OF THE BRINGBACKOURGIRLS CAMPAIGN by vicadex07(m): 2:39pm On Aug 04, 2014
Whether sponsored or not...Bring back our girls simple. angry

PDP are not even ashamed. Are the girls back yet? Why the chest beating.
Politics › Re: Crook Governor Of The Year Award! by vicadex07(m): 2:17pm On Aug 04, 2014
This thread is so 2010
Politics › Re: OSUN 2014 Nairaland Elections. APC Vs PDP...let's See Who Wins by vicadex07(op): 2:10pm On Aug 04, 2014
Mentcee: Pdp
I said click like not comment. We'll judge from the amount of likes each party gets
Politics › Re: Osun Guber: Ladoja Allays Fear Over Use Of Soldiers by vicadex07(m): 2:03pm On Aug 04, 2014
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Politics › Re: If You Are Asked To Rate Jonathan Administration by vicadex07(m): 2:01pm On Aug 04, 2014
I rate him A1 as regards encouraging corruption
Politics › Re: OSUN 2014 Nairaland Elections. APC Vs PDP...let's See Who Wins by vicadex07(op): 1:54pm On Aug 04, 2014
Voting Starts now...let's see who wins
Politics › Re: OSUN 2014 Nairaland Elections. APC Vs PDP...let's See Who Wins by vicadex07(op):
Click like below for Omisore/PDP
Politics › OSUN 2014 Nairaland Elections. APC Vs PDP...let's See Who Wins by vicadex07(op):
Click like below for Aregbesola/APC
Politics › Re: Hilarious Picture Of "FUFU AREGBE" From Aregbesola's Supporter by vicadex07(m): 1:44pm On Aug 04, 2014
Ibolas...pls leave Aregbe and Osun State alone.

Your aproko too much...
Politics › Re: Kwankwaso Dares GEJ:“Send Soldiers You Deploy For Elections To Sambisa Forest by vicadex07(m): 1:15pm On Aug 04, 2014
Make Jonathan send soldiers to go and kill his BOKO BOYS...I don't think that will ever happen
Politics › Re: 3 Fulani Killed In Abakaliki (pictures) by vicadex07(m): 1:04pm On Aug 04, 2014
Balkan: Igbos are not cowards like our
sisters from the South West
You guyz have started again. If we descend on you now, you will start forming victim looking for sympathy
Education › Re: Whats The Secret Behind Speaking Good English? by vicadex07(m): 12:59pm On Aug 04, 2014
Just speak from your nose and form "phoneh"
Politics › Re: How President Jonathan Protects Boko Haram Sponsors by vicadex07(m): 1:31am On Aug 04, 2014
Na now you just Soji.
Politics › Re: I Can't Be Impeached-gov Kwankwaso by vicadex07(m): 1:26am On Aug 04, 2014
Sunofgod: But you can be blown up!

So shut the .....
I said it...PDP = Boko Haram
Politics › Re: Borno Youth Submit Passionate Plea For FGN To Investigate Ali Modu Sheriff by vicadex07(m): 1:20am On Aug 04, 2014
Eldavido1: previously a member of APC and considered a founder of BH by FFK. But recently decamp to PDP and suddenly became FFK "brother".
Now that he is in PDP, Insurance don cover am now...no matter what the level of his atrocities are
Food › Re: The Nutritional Value Of Popcorn!! by vicadex07(m): 1:07am On Aug 04, 2014
@ OP...is that you. OMISOREhuh
Travel › Re: Travelling From Nigeria To Jamaica by vicadex07(m): 1:05am On Aug 04, 2014
Lie...Jamaica na better place o...especially if you go there legitimately. My mom was once a nurse in Jamaica before she relocated to UK and she always complained of how much she misses Jamaica.
Politics › Re: Battle For Lagos: APC Leadership Only Interested In Taking Over Public Property, by vicadex07(m): 12:57am On Aug 04, 2014
PDP - Power Drunken People. Your party has been in power at the federal level since 1999...it all ends 2015
Politics › Re: Borno Youth Submit Passionate Plea For FGN To Investigate Ali Modu Sheriff by vicadex07(m): 12:55am On Aug 04, 2014
OP pls Which party is that guy affiliated with before I make my comment...because justice in Nigeria nowadays depends your political party.
Culture › Re: How Do Various Tribes Deal With Stress Or Immediate Threats? by vicadex07(m): 12:52am On Aug 04, 2014
After one wrap of SK, you go turn jet li...even while you're dying sef, you go still think say na film you dey watch
Family › Re: 1st Birthday Parties by vicadex07(m): 12:47am On Aug 04, 2014
They'll be more than glad when they grow up and see the pictures...
Christianity Etc › Re: It is well by vicadex07(m): 12:45am On Aug 04, 2014
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Politics › Re: Why PDP May Win Again By Osita Okechukwu by vicadex07(m): 12:30am On Aug 04, 2014
The title of the thread is misleading

Meanwhile PDP believe the presidency is their birthright. They will be shocked...
Romance › Re: Why Do You Nigerian Guys Prefer Light Skin Girls by vicadex07(m): 12:28am On Aug 04, 2014
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Politics › Re: Bola Hammed Tinubu Disagreement With Enemy Of Yoruba Race by vicadex07(m): 12:26am On Aug 04, 2014
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Celebrities › Re: Why I Disappeared From Music Scene — Awilo Longomba by vicadex07(m): 12:26am On Aug 04, 2014
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Business › Re: Ibadan's Shopping Malls: The More, The Merrier? (and Images) by vicadex07(m): 12:24am On Aug 04, 2014
semitunde: I honestly don't know where samonda is, though I know the name.
Lol...just after U.I if you're coming from U.I to roundabout.

The mall is on the left side of the road...a unique, tall, red/grey building just before getting to Sango.
Politics › Re: Why Am A Big Fan Of APC By Dele Momodu by vicadex07(m): 12:19am On Aug 04, 2014
This thing no sweet to read now...abeg rearrrange am

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