jacksonkennedy:
I want all well meaning yorubas to look at this. U see how these northerners are always trying to pit us against our Igbo brothers? They are plenty here.

U will never see these guys abroad. They will always try to put enemity btw us and igbos...if u fall for there scam, u will see how stupid u are when u travel abroad and become stranded and it is an igbo person that comes to ur rescue.

From 1999 to 2007 when igbos and yorubas had their 1st alliance, this country withnessed massive progress. Lets go back to that era pls. Not this bigotry in the air now

Anas09:
Let me share one out of so many in my life.

Someone years ago, I was involved in an accident which threatened to either take my life or amputate my leg.

I had to choose either to amputate my leg and live or die with my legs. I chose to stay alive with my legs complete. I was informed by my doctor that I wld die if the leg was not severed from my body because of the infection which set in.

And that if I managed to live, I wld never use the leg to walk again in my life. But, I told them that I will not only live but wld walk with the leg. Funny enough, I was less than a yr old believer in Christ then. I can't tell where that faith and confidence came from. I didn't even have a Bible.

All I knew about the Bible were Bible stories from 'My Book of Bible Stories'. But two stories became alive to me. I didn't know where they found in the Bible, but I knew they were there.

The story of the women with Issue of Blood and the leperous man who came and said to Jesus "Master, if you are willing, you can make me whole', and Jesus said 'I am willing'". I believed in that Jesus they believed in, and I knew what He did for them. He was willing to do for me too.
How old was I, a little above a teenager.

Well, I was discharged from the Hospital and I went home. Long story short, it took 10yrs before I could walk with the leg again. I went through 8 surgical operations fixing and removing mentals from inside my body. Both soft tissue surgeries and hard tissue surgeries.


Now, I changed doctors three times. The last hospital I went to, a metal was placed inside of me.

I did Skin grafting twice, Bone grafting twice also. One of the times that bone grafting was done, they forgot to remove a lump of gauze from inside of my body. The place they borrowed a bone from to patch my leg had 12 sutures on my pelvics region. Two days after the surgery it broke open and won't close no matter what we did.

They didn't know that they had left an external antibody inside of me. Hmmm. I was kept in the hospital for three montha after which I was discharged with the wound yet to heal. I was prepared on how to dress the wound and Keep it free from any infection.

Intervally, I went for checkups, they didn't understand why that wound wasn't healing. I carried that open wound for 1yr and some months. By this time I was on daily Antibiotics in short I was on drugs for the 10 yrs that these lasted to keep infection away. If you know any antibiotics, I have taken it.

One day, my Church then (Not winners Chapel) had a program. Rev. Una Ukpai came. I was still on crutches then, for I used Crutches for 10yrs too. In the program Anointing oil was blessed for us and it was tagged, 'Weapon of Mass destruction'. As my Faith is, I believed it. I told myself that anything that oil touches shall go down.

I got home that night and decided enough was enough with the wound on my waist. I decided to go off the Antibiotics and face it with that Anointing oil. That night, I cleaned the wound, packed it with that oil instead of the procaine I had always used.

I slept. The next morning i woke up my waist was on fire. I was feeling like a robe was tight around my waist and was being pulled on. When I checked the wound, it had swollen up like an abscess.

I saw some whitish robby particles on the surface of the wound. I used my forcep to pull it out, it won't come out, then I discovered there was somethig inside of me. I became scared. I wanted to call the doctor to let him know, but on another thought, if he knows he wld ask me to go in and I wld be admitted and taken to the theatre and make a big deal out of it. So, I summoned courage and pulled it out.

Gushhhhh, the kind of accumulated bad blood that gushed out was so much. It smelled so bad I was very light hearted. But, it came out. I wondered where all that blood was? Inside of me all these time? My God!!!!

I washed it clean and dried it. I first went to church and gave a testimony before going to the hospital to see the Doctor. They tried to make a fuss, I told them my God did it already.

Somefolk said 'Sue the hospital'. I laughed. God was merciful on me to keep that think inside of me for a year and months. I could have died of infection and no one wld ve known what killed me. Why not give Him glory and move on. So I did.

So brethren that was how anointing oil pushed out a foreign body that was inside of me for more than a year. Under one week, that wound healed till today.

Today, I am completely healed. I walk with the leg. I wear heels. I walk without a limp. You won't believe I wld ever walk if you knew me then. But God honoured my Faith in Him and healed me.

And forgiveness helped me too. I forgave the man who caused the accident. Everyone wanted me to use police against him. He didn't have any money, the car wasn't even his. So, I let him go.

Today, this accident to me is the best thing that has ever happened to me because I wld not have known Christ the way I do now. I now have the patience to study the word and meditate on it.

My faith is like a mountain now. I don't have one single fear for satan now because I now know him because I know Jesus and I know who I am.

My testimony is that Jesus is real to me now. He talks and I hear. Before anything happens to me, He shows me first. My life has direction now.
I know my assignment on earth and I'm pursuing it.
I for dey run around like every fine babe dey shoot blanks.

Our love strong, me and Jesus.

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ugonology:


In as much as I dislike this lady and her carefree attitude, she has spilled one of the greatest secrets of time... Friends, gross darkness has covered the land! many do not understand the spiritual transactions that occur during sexual intercourse, like gold, diamond or material commodities, the soul of men is a spiritual commodity in the spirit realm, it could be bought and sold. It could be enslaved, it could be exchanged for other material commodities...the times are evil, fear God and keep his commandments.
Madam husbandsnatcha, I will like to know you more, how can i reach you.

husbandsnatcha:
...Urhobo chose ununiqueness ,it pains me so much !!...more of anywhere belle face! So sad ! So sad ,at least dey are better dan itshekiri and brass axis nonsense ,who will be proud count me out ........

Ginaz:


And are you as rich and well known like king Solomon? Did you have kingdoms and princes all under you? Are you from a royal family? Has your family fought wars with thousands of soldiers and won?

If no you’re just a fool. Change that your mentality and stick to one wife before you sink nigeria more into poverty by having wives you have no money to carter for .

King Solomon bla bla bla. Check him very well and he has no house of his own yet . He wants to compare himself to someone who had everything in surplus.

Logobenz3:
Indeed brother,I now believe this.
I don't know where all this luck comes from.like I am the last person that deserves it but it keeps following me everywhere I go.
Is it God?why me?I don't even pray!
Wow!!just speechless right now brother.

Imessedup:
Less than 3 years after my wedding to the only woman I love, the most beautiful, kind hearted, respectful and generally the most amazing woman I've ever known, I had a one night stand that I will regret for the rest of my entire life.

I was at a friends party, drunk 'not trying to justify my stupid infidelity " I had sex with a girl I've known for a while even before I got married and never have in my life had any kind of sexual feelings towards, a girl I had introduced to my friend because I had no interest in her nor cheating on my then girlfriend.

The worst part of the one night stand is, a baby came out of it. I disappointed myself, my family, friends and most importantly my wife. She forgave me, we have been working it out. We have a beautiful family, amazing friendship, the kind everyone far and near us wish for and envy.

To cut the long story short, I am in pain, my conscience is killing me, I am losing weight, I am hurting, I am finding it hard to forgive myself to the point that I am thinking about separation. I am lost, I don't know what to do at this point. I've seen the best therapist and shrink's in San Francisco and nothing gets better. My family love her to death,she is 100% a good wife and mother.

Bash me, call me names, say anything I deserve it but please if you were in my shoes what would you do. I am scared she might one day leave me. I really need all the advices I can get.

jess2019:
My son will be 9 in October but his behaviour bothers me so much. He acts like a day dreamer. He has turned me into a shouting and miserable mum as I had to beat him after I've exhausted other punishment options. To make this short, I'm going to summarise his behaviour.

He still cannot get himself ready for school in the morning. Either he doesnt cream his body or forgets to comb his hair or doesnt brush his teeth. He forgets to brush his teeth almost everyday. This made me to make a list of step by step sticker. I sticked this on their bathroom mirror and on his bedroom wall. Yet I have to keep reminding him everyday. For example, last week on Wednesday, Thursday and Friday he forgot to brush his teeth and hair. I have to constantly be reminding him every morning. He is the only one that brushes teeth after getting ready. I trained them to brush teeth first before shower but he keeps forgetting.

I have to remind him to do his homework, and put it back in his school bag to return to school on Mondays. The book will still not make it to the school even after constant reminder. We've lost countless of lunch bags. One ended up on school roof. If you give him any form to submit back to his teacher. He will forget in his bag so I now give it to his sister to give to his teacher.

He removes his clothes, shoes, pants, belts etc and leave them on the floor, I bought two laundry baskets for him. One in his room, another in their bathroom, yet all his belongings end up on the floor that you can hardly find a space to put a foot. I dont expect him to be perfect but atleast to try so that his 70% clothes make it to the basket or shoes to their racks. He also has a book shelf and desk yet they also end up on the floor.

He plays so much that sometimes he leaves shops with items in his hands. So I have to always watch out for him. Living in a western country where black boys are stereotyped I fear for him. He can stare at the ceiling for hrs when getting ready for school or spend long time in the shower yet not using soap on his body. This usually makes us late unless I step in to help or keep shouting.

If you ask him to do any house chores, he will not do it instead waiting for us to forget so he can get away with it. When grounded not to watch TV, he will still do it once he knows am inside my room or busy with a baby.

Yesterday we revised all his lesson assignments (5 work books). I specifically asked him to put them in his lesson bag. I pointed at the bag. Now I drop him at the lesson only for him to say oh I think I came with old lesson books. I dont know how he ended up with old books in his bag. It could be he planned it as a way to avoid the lesson. If not I wonder how he will remember it himself as soon as I drop him and his sister as this is unlike him.

I've taken him to a doctor incase there is any diagnosis so I can give him all the help he needs but they said it's just his behaviour because according to the doctor he is smart academically. He is 18months ahead of his year level. So they ruled ADHD out.

Beverlyjean:



Anyone that agrees that he dint deserve to win it last year is nothing but a witch

MrWTF:
Legend for your village abi?

Stillthebest:



Women are always known selfish ones both in the home fronts and public spaces.

When a man is married he takes up the responsibilities of both himself, the kids, running of a home and that of the woman totally. Even during weddings, a man must take care of certain things relating to the woman personally apart from the bills that would come from her family.

A man have se.x with a woman, cu.m in her, be on top to do the jerking, still gives her money to take care of herself... Who really needs Milk and maltina here...eeh eeh?

People talk about how women are the real deals In children's lives. But quick to forget sacrifices men take too.. A man can come home last night with the last 5k, and a child comes to him in the morning for school bills of #4500. A father gives the Child the money.. meanwhile,he had planned to fuel his car with 2k prior... Can he now?

At home, a woman will prefer to come back and ask for her #1000 she added to the groceries money because what u gave her isnt enough. Imagine! Won't she or her kids eat from it? This n more.


This has transcended. A man impregnates a woman, takes care of the resultant kids from day one to securing Jobs for them after versities, what next... "A ti gbe baba rele"(the man died) leaving the woman to reap the fruit of his labours

In a public office, a man takes up the responsibilities of both men and women, old and young. But their wives create special programs for women empowerment and girl child alone. Starting NGOs relating to women alone, supporting only woman... So men should leave the Earth for them Abi?


Society hasn't been fair to men and boys. Women are to be pampered, but they are already misusing the opportunities. Sometimes, I want to attribute their issues to lack of self esteem. Let them too think out of the box and have all encompass programs once they have the forum to do so.. being a first lady doesn't mean the wife of a governor should be liable to women alone. Or aren't their husbands not first man too?

Sweettwenty8:
i did try and he said its only temporary but this wierd stuff has been happening since the fourth month os our marriage he complements my cooking a whole lot and even while we dated he'd come to my place for food unannounced i just hope NwaAmaikpe finally gets sanity

Shadbay:
I've been in extreme emotional pains for the past few months. I don't even know where to start to narrate my ordeal. I do not want this experience to damage me emotionally and psychologically, that's why I'm seeking help. Please pardon the length and blunders.

Earlier this year, just two weeks after my birthday, my ex-gf (gf of almost 7 years) broke up with me. I had just visited her and left two days prior to the breakup.
I went through the most challenging period of my life because I just suffered some job and graduate school rejections that period. The breakup worsened my situation and pushed me into a depression. I have never felt defeated in life till that point. She blocked me on all mediums of communication. It was too extreme. I went from 91kg to 85 kg in less than 3 weeks.

I visited her to understand the whole situation cos her behaviour was too extreme and I got a toxic dosage of embarrassments. She said she was done with me. She said a lot of hurtful things to me. The height of the embarrassments was calling her new boyfriend (barely 3 weeks after breaking up with me) right in front of me and telling him she doesn't know what I'm doing in her place. She even called some of her friends to inform them of my presence. They all sounded scared and concerned for her as if I was some kind of predator. They told her to leave her place at once and come to their place. All these calls were on speaker! This is someone I invested all these years and emotions for. I went through hell that period cos I was dealing with some other personal tribulations.

I can't imagine treating her or anybody else the way she treated me. I NEVER cheated on her, NOT ONCE or by chance! I have walked away from compromising situation countless times because I placed her so high. I had so much respect for her. She now went on to slander my name, accusing me of cheating!!! When I asked who was feeding her all those lies, she said her friends told her. How? Did I date you or your friends? It still boggles my mind to think she'll believe them and go about spreading those ugly rumours about me.

The straw that broke the camels back was when a friend of mine told me that she said she's grateful to God she didn't contract any infection/disease from me! I couldn't believe my ears. I broke down. This didn't just break my heart, it shattered my spirit. This is someone I imagined spending the rest of my life with. My whole family (even extended) accepted her as one of us.

I had to accept that things were beyond salvaging because any attempt from me to fix things kept doing the opposite. The minute it involved my sisters I had to accept defeat.

I never harmed her or attempt to lay a finger on her. I might not be perfect but I gave it my all. The situation is far worse than I described it here, it's even painful remembering them. I loved her to a fault.

I got a text from her about a month ago after I refused to answer her calls because I had just lost a loved one. She said she's getting married and hopes I find peace as she has found hers. I stared at those words speechless. The worst set of people one could ever encounter are those that hurt you, know that they hurt you and still turn around to play victim accusing you of hurting them. If there's anything I'm proud of is my level of self-control. I know few of my friends who made fun of me being extremely loyal to one girl, warning me severally that I'm wasting my time and good looks, that my youth is passing me by. At least I have a clean conscience that I never betrayed her trust. I never went about telling other people our business. Now I understand why they say good guys always finish last.


Women don't deserve loyalty, forget all their cliche that men are not faithful and honest. I went the faithful, loyal path what did I get in return? Venom! I feel repulsed when I hear women say "Men are dogs", "Men always cheat".

I just don't want this experience to turn me into something I'm not or make me an embittered soul. I'm traumatized beyond words. This was my first and only relationship and I gave it everything. I'm in my mid-twenties and I don't think I can ever love genuinely again. I need mature advice on how to come out of this ordeal a better person. I don't want to transfer any aggressions or micro-aggressions on anybody because of this experience. Please mature advice needed. Thank you.

frankkydee:














Yeah it is, but its based on infidelity with no evidence(s)

Shadbay:
I've been in extreme emotional pains for the past few months. I don't even know where to start to narrate my ordeal. I do not want this experience to damage me emotionally and psychologically, that's why I'm seeking help. Please pardon the length and blunders.

Earlier this year, just two weeks after my birthday, my ex-gf (gf of almost 7 years) broke up with me. I had just visited her and left two days prior to the breakup.
I went through the most challenging period of my life because I just suffered some job and graduate school rejections that period. The breakup worsened my situation and pushed me into a depression. I have never felt defeated in life till that point. She blocked me on all mediums of communication. It was too extreme. I went from 91kg to 85 kg in less than 3 weeks.

I visited her to understand the whole situation cos her behaviour was too extreme and I got a toxic dosage of embarrassments. She said she was done with me. She said a lot of hurtful things to me. The height of the embarrassments was calling her new boyfriend (barely 3 weeks after breaking up with me) right in front of me and telling him she doesn't know what I'm doing in her place. She even called some of her friends to inform them of my presence. They all sounded scared and concerned for her as if I was some kind of predator. They told her to leave her place at once and come to their place. All these calls were on speaker! This is someone I invested all these years and emotions for. I went through hell that period cos I was dealing with some other personal tribulations.

I can't imagine treating her or anybody else the way she treated me. I NEVER cheated on her, NOT ONCE or by chance! I have walked away from compromising situation countless times because I placed her so high. I had so much respect for her. She now went on to slander my name, accusing me of cheating!!! When I asked who was feeding her all those lies, she said her friends told her. How? Did I date you or your friends? It still boggles my mind to think she'll believe them and go about spreading those ugly rumours about me.

The straw that broke the camels back was when a friend of mine told me that she said she's grateful to God she didn't contract any infection/disease from me! I couldn't believe my ears. I broke down. This didn't just break my heart, it shattered my spirit. This is someone I imagined spending the rest of my life with. My whole family (even extended) accepted her as one of us.

I had to accept that things were beyond salvaging because any attempt from me to fix things kept doing the opposite. The minute it involved my sisters I had to accept defeat.

I never harmed her or attempt to lay a finger on her. I might not be perfect but I gave it my all. The situation is far worse than I described it here, it's even painful remembering them. I loved her to a fault.

I got a text from her about a month ago after I refused to answer her calls because I had just lost a loved one. She said she's getting married and hopes I find peace as she has found hers. I stared at those words speechless. The worst set of people one could ever encounter are those that hurt you, know that they hurt you and still turn around to play victim accusing you of hurting them. If there's anything I'm proud of is my level of self-control. I know few of my friends who made fun of me being extremely loyal to one girl, warning me severally that I'm wasting my time and good looks, that my youth is passing me by. At least I have a clean conscience that I never betrayed her trust. I never went about telling other people our business. Now I understand why they say good guys always finish last.


Women don't deserve loyalty, forget all their cliche that men are not faithful and honest. I went the faithful, loyal path what did I get in return? Venom! I feel repulsed when I hear women say "Men are dogs", "Men always cheat".

I just don't want this experience to turn me into something I'm not or make me an embittered soul. I'm traumatized beyond words. This was my first and only relationship and I gave it everything. I'm in my mid-twenties and I don't think I can ever love genuinely again. I need mature advice on how to come out of this ordeal a better person. I don't want to transfer any aggressions or micro-aggressions on anybody because of this experience. Please mature advice needed. Thank you.

NwaAmaikpe:




At a time like this, it is imperative that my stand is known without any hues of gray or even minute strands of ambivalence to reduce it's misconstruable premise.

I stand with Biodun Fatoyinbo.

I do not by this endorse the act of a pastor engaging in sex with ladies he isn't married to.
That is deceit and outright hypocrisy.
The exact reason I spared no mercy as I whipped the rod of chastisement on the back of Apostle Suleiman.

The context in which I lie on the same page with Biodun is on the accusation of rape and the facts presented by the accuser.
Biodun obviously didn't rape her. He was in a consensual sexual affair with her.

A lapse in his judgement and a total oddity for a true pastor.
Is Biodun a true man of God?
From all indications, he more of a true man of kpekus.
Unless you are a student of fashion, I will never encourage anyone to be mentored by him.

But as for the rape accusation.
Biodun Fatoyinbo is the victim.
The Dakolos should quit courting for sympathy and allow the law take it's course.
Even Oby should know this but unfortunately she doesn't.

TheKingIsHere:


Many people think madridguuy is Yoruba, as he has been indirectly posing as one.

Thanks for the clarification

rigarmortis:


Bro, I sincerely want to believe you are not aware of the issues firsthand.

On the other hand, it will be sad of you are indeed aware and just making excuses.

Firstly, this is not the first time killings have been reported all over the countryside of Nigeria, by Fulani people with no provocation.

Secondly, the issue of wanton crop destruction is one I have a lot of first hand experience. I have a friend who schooled together with me in FUTA. He later got a loan and decided to settle in Akure, he rented acres of land and planted cassava.

Could you believe that these guys brought their cattle and ate up his farm while threatening him? The guy reported to ondo state government, mimikos government, and was assigned some policemen but when they arrest these guys he sees the same guys on his farm few days later. At a point the police stopped responding to him, he lost his whole farm to the herdsmen, plus his 3m loan.

I can give you his Facebook handle with pictures and everything.

Lastly, the issue of highway kidnap, it's just that you don't stay in ore, ikare, ikere or even travel frequently along Abuja-Kaduna express, at least those are the ones I know first hand, you would not be saying what you are saying.

These guys herd their cows, hide weapons, kidnap people and hide among their brethren afterwards. there was a case of some caught in Akure recently. Guy this thing is not a joke. Don't let the blood of the innocent be on your head because you want to be politically correct

madridguy:
I have no business with your tribe. So feel free to open your mouth as you like.

Abudu2000:
But efcc can lie Shaa, just say you forcefully interrogated him and he confessed to being a hacker. Y'all don't have what it takes to trace a hacker lmao

lordparcel:
Where is the Cow

helinues:
Atiku article from a clown

sweetrace:

Thank you. Yes He is. I am completely healed though.

sweetrace:


Yes really. And yes I’ve had bad odor from stress before. I had cancer and.....

etrange:


If you really want to conduct a research, never use the bolded line above. It's condescending and people who use it are usually empty.

Ventura1:
All talk, no action. Isn't it the same Ooni that will be quick in rushing down to Aso rock for needless events, yet unable to face Pres. Buhari who's pushing RUGA? or the Prof. that'll will smile at President Buhari at fuctions?

It is time we stop celebrating mediocre leadership in any guise.

ReubenE:
These Fulani people are very funny.

They created the problem, at the same time forcing the victims to accept the solution offered by them, which in the real sense would create more deaths.

Any man that gives food to a terrorist is also a terrorist. The Nigerian government is a terrorist government because it is feeding these terrorists with deafening silence