₦airaland Forum

CaraJewel:
Wht if ur wife is like you?wat if shez getting that'natural urge' and keeps cheating and be careful jxt like you..den wat

vicadex07:
I am exactly like your husband but not as careless as to getting caught severally.

It is just the thrill in the "chase" that engages me. I love and adore my wife and will never do anything to hurt her...especially fathering another child outside.

See let me tell you this, this behavior is innate to all men by default. It now depends on how we choose to manage it individually. Our immediate fore fathers dealt this "natural urge" by marrying as many wives as possible to satisfy themselves. The modern man is struggling with this innate urge because we have decided to settle with just one woman cos of religion and civilization. It is a constant struggle within us because we are dealing with the natural forces of nature which can be so overwhelming.

Am saying all these so you can understand things from our perspective and to make you know your husband is not trying to deliberately hurt you.

With time, patience and prayers this phase is going to pass and believe me, you're going to enjoy your husband because he will appreciate you.

napa:
We've been married for five years and he has cheated all through these years. He keeps late nights without any tangible reason. He travels in and out of Nigeria for the purpose of meeting different women, he chats dirty with different women. He calls random women at home e.t.c. He is also very quick to apologise and promise to turn a new leaf anytime I confront him with evidences.
The issue here is I'm getting really fed up of his kind of life style, I feel he is taking me for granted and just playing on my emotions because he knows there is nothing I can do after his apologies. He too relaxed with me and feels he can do anything and get away with it. I work and he does too but he knows I live a triangular kind of life. From work back home then to church, I'm more of a homely person. I'm beginning to think it's my fault for him not getting on his toes. I don't intend reporting him to any of his family members because he won't be chastised.

I need candid and matured advice please.

omoyowa:
you are d one having both eye and mental problem....
instead of you to accept that poverty ravaged your people.,you are referring to ogbete market...

omoyowa:
shut up,,its was just a mud sand., and not poo.... u just got information on Facebook and started conclusion

Franchise21:
I was at d rock early this year. Hope u went to pay a visit to the 132yrs old woman living in d rock?

peculiar32:
then kindly hug the nearest wet transformers to you

peculiar32:
then kindly hug the nearest wet transformers to you

Lexusgs430:
Una no see Babes to accompany una? Abi recession no reach that budget?

gozzlin:
The question is; why are there still rusted, brown roofs in that area when they can all be changed to aluminum roofs. In other areas of Nigeria, modern aluminum roofs are the norm. In Yoruba land on the other hand, they're still stuck in the middle ages. They are not moving with the trend.

Is it a sign of widespread penury in the area or what? Your guess is as good as mine.

Mufasa27:
Lol patriotic Nigerians, una get time ooo

misspatsy:
Its not only in Abeokuta you can brown roofs,the thing is scattered all other South West.They wouldn't renovate their villages houses instead they will call it "PRESERVATION OF CULTURE"
Even houses where students live in Ojere are all made roofed with that out-dated thing

Wolfbrother:
Then why bring it up?

cheekyleggy:
It's good to have friends you can have so much fun with

SpitsOnYoruba:
Boston is an ancient city also
Does Boston have Brown roofs ??

Malayy:
chai! see brown roof for that fourth pic.

peculiar32:
no

SpitsOnYoruba:
Shut up
Virginia and Boston were founded in 1887 but you can't see any Brown roof there

Come up with a better excuse

dadabashua1:
love everything I have seen on the pics.... nice one op

gozzlin:
The question is; why are there still rusted, brown roofs in that area when they can all be changed to aluminum roofs. In other areas of Nigeria, modern aluminum roofs are the norm. In Yoruba land on the other hand, they're still stuck in the middle ages. They are not moving with the trend.

Is it a sign of widespread penury in the area or what? Your guess is as good as mine.

africandollar:
Eyah! So it has resorted to this? Recession don turn guys to Olumo 'rockers' to mark independence? Hope una no drink any 'tonic engine' while @ Olumo though (reference to Kiss Daniel's 'Sin City').

Lovelynature:
You and your friends look great. True friendship is great and priceless. Reminds me of my great friends

Happy Independence bro

ishowdotgmail:
OP recession no reach una side ni, how manage una see gate-fee pay?



But truth be told, I can never go on an excursion to that Olumo rock. What's fascinating about it? I hate ancient things

JackBizzle:
People like you see one tree instead of the forest

Neoguru1:
You seem to be reading Yoruba propaganda, Afonja was a warrior of ilorin that rebelled against oyo empire, with the help of Fulani, but were paid with a bad coin with the dan fodios killed him off and took over.