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UndisputedBosom:
And your point is....





Am Igbo it doesn't mean i take sh¡t from anybody....step on my tail and you gonna regret ur existance

JFT24:
100mg of tramadol is too much, it will definitely incapacitate you as a newbie. try 50mg, it will even serve you for roughly 48 hrs with mild headache + dizziness. It works like magic

SeverusSnape:
Lord knows I dislike this dullardic Administration and it's incompetent and corrupt ministers, But I refuse to believe everything from this propaganda news outlet called Sahara reporters.

Dambazau is a corrupt guy, yes, We all know all Buhari ministers are corrupt saints. But where is the evidence for this allegation?

Something else just came to my mind, Sowore the owner of Sahara reporters is a Tinubu boy, and we all know that Tinubu is not happy with the way Buhari is appointing his kinsmen to all the positions.
The ministry of interior headed by Dambazau has been Northernized, almost all the recently recruited personnels are core northerners; Tinubu is not happy about that. Now he's using his boy Sowore to get back at Dambazau. See screenshot below to confirm the fact that Sowore is Tinubu's boy.

Doxie69:
What the heck did I just read, if only you had sense and used your head you won't be lamenting now @ Op. You used money for your handouts to buy her foodstuff what sort of nonsense is that.

If only you used the money for her 2 years fees to start up a business or even dash it out to your siblings or mum, instead you chose to be father Christmas so she is happy,see how your kindness has killed u @ Op I have no regrets for what u passing through

BrokenHeart2016:
Your right

wilsondave:
In as much u are APC member u are saint but all pdp members are corrupt...very bad when u have a tyrant as the president

prettysolid:
Ever since I heard Chike singing yesterday during the voice, I haven't stopped thinking about him, if only he could warm my bed ,I would be one very happy lady.

Damn d guy is cute and sexy and his vioce just melts you.

Bioanthony:
Most of the names you mentioned, they are from his party not opposition..

How ll you feel when you keep faith in someone and fail you, example tambuwal decamp to APC because of governorship post..
Likewise Saraki and others, they are worse fellows,

I love buhari but i will be very happy if anti corruption campaign can raid his party also..

ify2016:
It dey baffle me how people still get strength to clash and kill each other under this Bubu regime even when there is total hunger in the land.
Receive sense zombies

Incorrect1:
no such post

Crixie:
NO...kukuma go and look for Ancient scrolls or better still the stones Moses carved the 10 commandments into and start reading to show how godly and right u are....

Silvofitz:
At a point we thought she's a nympho. After, the BankyW's saga, in May 11-14, 2016, she had tried two other guys. And she can see revelations.. .
A pastor friend who's one of her spiritual consultants said he was tired of her numerous revelations. They all warned her to keep to her first marriage but her sisters mis-led her. Now she's confused.
Funny enough she's a member of MFM, the haven of deliverance. As she claimed in her proposal letter to BankyW, she's even a worker in Drama Unit of the church.

Silvofitz:
The lady's case is so critical now. She's so desperate. If a man greets her, and by chance tell her his name, the following day she would take the name to her pastors and diviners for verification. She's actually confused.

Silvofitz:
Divorce her. Face d reality, d marriage is over already. Medically, you're good to go with one testis. So, don't let anyone intimidate you with that. You might be surprised the family already has another man for her. Even if u forgive her, she would do worse, and your life is at stake.
I remember a friend of mine, who met a corper and married her as a medical student. Along the line, the family started putting her under pressure to divorce the medical student and marry a richer guy. Funny enough, the medical student was able to manage the home because he's scholarship worth about #400k per session. This lady began to cheat, and the guy caught her red-handed many times. But for the love he had for her and their only son, the guy forgave her. This lady began to plot with her sisters on how to get another man. The guy got to know, and felt the marriage was over. They went their separate ways. Up till now the lady lives in regrets. All those men promising marriage only used her and dumped her. It was the same lady who wrote a proposal letter to the musician, BankyW , claiming God revealed to her thrice that God said he's her husband. In fact, she takes the name of any man who approaches her now to pastors and diviners. She's so desperate now. Don't waste your energy on her. Let her go. She would live to regret her actions!

bukatyne:
Fem29, thanks for the mention.

@DevGuru:

I feel this is not the whole story. Nobody goes seeking for advice when there is no problem ( real/imagined).

What changed your wife from a loving fiancée who stood by you to a betrayer who is working towards building a parallel life?

What did you do to your wife?

vicadex07:
I think the reason why your wife is desperately looking for an alternative job, accommodation and even man is because both children (plus the unborn baby) are not yours and she fears that you might find out soon and send her packing. Am sure that's why are siblings her plotting against you and supporting her.

fem29:
Devguru, I do not understand WHY you did not ask WHY she did this. Why did you not get to the bottom of the whole matter. It is not about her 'begging '. I don't know what it is with nigerians and begging. You do the wrong thing knowingly then you start begging when caught.

You are simply brushing it under the carpet and it is still going to rear it's ugly head again. If should doesn't have a reason for doing this, then you should divorce her cos she must be EVIL

vicadex07:
I think the reason why your wife is desperately looking for an alternative job, accommodation and even man is because both children (plus the unborn baby) are not yours and she fears that you might find out soon and send her packing. Am sure that's why are siblings her plotting against you and supporting her.

DevGuru:
UPDATE

I sincerely appreciate the fact that almost everyone here regards this matter a very serious one, this alone warms my heart a little. I have read through every single comment on this thread and I appreciate everyone. I couldn't take down the names of those whose comments aligned with my aim of keeping my marriage, but I thank everyone all the same. I realised from a myriad of comments that informing my people will mean a beginning of the end for my marriage. My daughter too is a major consideration. Above all, she's carrying another 6 week pregnancy. I have therefore decided to eliminate (or maybe suspend as the case turns out) informing any of my family members. I decided to play the records to her while I added some words. I started by telling her that my love for her made me decide to talk to her and not to anyone who would possibly fuel separation in my home like her sisters have done. She was shocked because she had never heard any allegation from me towards her elder ones before. She thought I was crazy and I wanted to bring up what was not. Then I played a little while I summarised the wildest words from her sisters which I heard in other discussion. For the FIRST time, my wife couldn't deny ANYTHING as she was convinced beyond doubt that she had been finished. She cried bitterly as I talked further but did not know what to do. But what pained me further was that it was obvious she cried because she saw that I was going to turn to an emperor and ridicule and justifiably disgrace her elderly advisers, NOT really because I was betrayed.

Right there, I was looking for a particular one to play and then even heard what I didn't hear before. Her eldest sister said she had discussed with some other siblings to intensify efforts towards her job search that as soon as she gets a job, she would have to be sending money home for them to create something for her in their town so she could come settle. She cried further as she heard it too. I told her the implications of what she had done to me with her people and then left her in the room because my baby girl was disturbing me. Anytime our voices are not friendly, she interrupts and cries for attention. I took my daughter to the living room and was playing with her.

After about 1 hour, she came to the living room and fell down before me as she cried further, saying "I'm sorry". Then I asked her to state exactly what she was begging me for - her betrayal or her siblings' offence. She knows me very well, she quickly said her betrayal (even though I knew that wasn't the primary cause of her heavy heart). Then I told her I was willing to forgive her in the spirit of upholding my marital vows to her. I explained further that for the sake of our daughter and the unborn one(s), I was willing to forgive her and build a stronger home with her. She felt a little relief knowing that she was getting back into me. I then said "but from this minute, I'm in a ruthless war with anyone, I repeat, ANYONE who is determined to break my home as I now have to guard our togetherness jealously". I stated further that the only thing I would hold against her was if she ever stood in my way. Just as if a thunder just struck and killed someone dear to her, she cried loudly again saying "she had finished her life". She said she would be the one to suffer in the war I just declared and that I should just allow her to call all of them and tell them never to meddle into our affairs again. I refused to fall for that trick and held my stance that my resolve was not going to change and I walked away. Since then till this moment, she has been like a mourning widow. When it was time for food, we ate together as usual and I've been the one trying to talk now. She hasn't spoken with anyone on phone since then, although I don't know about Whatsapp or BBM chat. Now she's waiting for the next available opportunity when she could plead for her sisters again... only God knows for how long the waiting would be. Let me quickly mention that she sent me an SMS from the bedroom a while ago: I CAN SEE THE HANDWORK OF THE DEVIL IN THIS WHOLE MATTER, PLS LET'S TRY TO RESIST THE DEVIL THIS TIME SO HE CAN FLEE FROM OUR HOME. I BEG YOU IN THE NAME OF GOD DEAR".... I simply replied from the living room: "ON THE CONTRARY HONEY, I CAN SEE THE HAND OF GOD. CAN'T YOU SEE IT?"

On another note, I do not want to assume that she will not tell her sisters, although it might take a while because she knew they would rebuke her for delivering them into the hands of their 'enemy' through Call Recorder. But before she informs them, I think I'd follow someone's advice here too that I should reveal it to someone who could keep it away from my mum and sisters, which is surely my Dad - just to put someone in the know, in case I begin to smell rat poison in my food... lol. What do you think?

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YOUNGELDER1:
this shows how ignorant this yoluba people on NL are. mere looking at the picture you know that man is a yoluba man & no bas.tard yoluba man can ever lead the almighty Ipob army.

halfricanadian:
Thank God he didnt explain that he was a man

It wud av turn from vigil to deliverance night

SeverusSnape:
As in eh... Kudos to those Igbo guys who ruined the life of Progressive01

... He keeps having nightmares (and daymares) about them.

OjukwuWarBird:
Don't mind that walking dead.
He is too ashame to accept that his people are educated but not wise.

apcisevil:
Apc is evil, but the worst thing is that the north has tied the hands of the yorubas and there is nothing the igbos can do....the south is truly conquered if not, how can someone ever mention the word "grazing reserve".

jstbeinhonest:
Bro chillax, while I do agree that the attires worn in that picture are Yoruba attires, This picture actually surfaced on the internet sometime last year via Linda Ikeji's blog,and the Blog claimed that the wedding took place in Imo state.Its however suprising to see virtually everyone in the pic wearing Yoruba attires.But if the lady says she knows them,give her the benefit of doubt and just bone the ish.

Keneking:
But where is lalasticlala sef

- I am getting sick of this government
- No job
- No power
- No business
- Clueless
- Wicked
- Power drunk

Nonsense

cooluc:
Ummm sure there is a mix up..that wedding took place at umuaka imo state on 14th may 2016 her name is Nneka..it was tagged nikky weds lulu dear.