Graceihotu:
My question is "what do guys really want"
I am not saying I am perfect but I know I am surely the best girlfriend any guy could ever think of yet I am still experiencing heartbreak at 31���


Had issues with my boyfriend since last year April bkos of a particular girl he posted on Facebook addressing her as the mother of his house. I became angry and told him I was only going to continue the relationship if I spoke to the lady in question bkos same lady posted him too calling him her first love.


He told me the lady was his cousin sister and ofcourse I believed him bkos she bares same surname with his cousin brother whoose wedding we attended together, He addressed me as his wife to be throughout the occasion so I had everything to believe in him

Just five days ago I saw his wedding notification on Facebook with that same lady. My heart has never been this broken B4 in my life. I have cried out my soul to the extent that I barely see clearly this days. I tried not to cry but I just can't. I am seriously weeping as I am typing this.

I have tried to encourage myself but I just can't stop crying and WAILING.

Who have I ever offended and what exactly do guys want?

I have searched all through the 5 yrs of relationship and aswear with my life that I never stressed him but I only requested Love not Money from him

My heart is bleeding.
I only sent him his pre-wedding pics and congratulated him then he replied "thanks''

He feels I don't deserve an explanation �����

one thing i no understand hear bsay, did he get married to his cousin or the 'cousin like' was just a figure head

guobe:
you click on combined on bet9ja platform after selecting your games,then click on the number of folders or games you feel will be successful and input your stake under where the amount is.combination is mostly good when you are playing with bigger odds

thanks bro

BigYash:
Baba who no get shock absolver full heart ,no fit run the business o.. Some teams dey shock person with result most times ..

lol

BigYash:
There are bad days in this business my nigga. God forbid you loose consecutively twice or three times your mind go dey. My own na 2k to 10.. E dey go well.. The 10 odds na two days games o.. No be my money alabi go take contest next election

lol, one guy stake man city to win crystal palace nd dem play draw, him stake 5k for the game...omo, come see as d guy dey para o....if dat guy get chance to enter UK at that time enh, him go flush all man city player's walia.....Me jst dey one conner dey reason say even 1.30 odd dey cast like play play o.......But people dey yarn d guy say all dis while him dey win nko why him no para, den i know say d guy dey win wella b4 him loose...lol

guobe:
Betting is full bookwork,it requires alot of analysis to win.you cannot win all the time but you must strive not to be On a loosing streak because it brings down morale in betting.Try also to make use of combination bet to avoid one cut my ticket.You can also go for 2 to 3 odds if the games are getting tougher and you need to win.You can join my channel on telegram guobepredict.I don't think we are doing badly over there.

Bro, how does that combination bets work?.

A friend of mine was pointing one Alhaji to me some months ago. He said, could you belive this man stake a game with 1M nd won a whooping 7M back....I told him good, but there must be some bad day involved where hr looses some of his cash. My friend said yes, he does looses some of his cash but the winning is more than what he looses back to the system...


3days ago, I heard the man won 15M with a stake of 2M. He gave the shop owner 200k nd the guy was jst flexing muscle around.....Then i realized football gambling is not for people with 1000 below...If you want to win then be ready to stake big....
Tell me why people won't go broke when you pick up 5k from ur acct nd book a game of about 30 tickets with 100 naira each to win 1M nd with a sensible person who only stake 5k on 2 to 3 odds.

Mtcheew, Na big money i dey use stake my games now o, e no go beta for 100naira

My elderly bro went to the hospital nd never came back home...that was 2006.....Well, if to say the coconut head b dey alive reach now, mayb him for don join militant...lol

Anytin wey concern height of 20ft above, i no dey do.....na who chop belleful dey enter plane.

jonaifame22:
We started dating in January.

She cries and whines on my bed like she has just heard the news of the passing of a loved one.

say na tears of joy abi na tears of sorrow?....soro soke.

prayer for nigeria na im this one dey gv dog wey her neighbor dey eye all dis while.....it's okay o....una go hear wetin go happen next week when her neighbor hand land for the dog.

no vote bubu, no vote bubu, dem say na bubu dem go support till d day dem die...okay na, make we dey watch...finger crossed

Atimjessy:
I just signed up on nairaland today so I can just pour out my mind.
I have been coming to this site for almost a year now because this is where I get latest and trending news.
I live with my brother who cares about me a lot but he has been too strict with me. I FEEL CAGED! Can you imagine I don't have a Facebook account, I can't use WhatsApp, I don't even have a bank account. If someone wants to send me money, I usually use our neighbor's son account.
He monitors my calls and contact list.
I only use e-mail because he said I will be using it for future registrations.
I envy my friends a lot. I'm in my mid-teens.
I am just fed up.

Who dash u the phone u dey use chat now...u don start again abi, make i first call ur brother.

wetin concern the woman now....abeg mk dem free her jor.....e no go beta for toto.

Notin US fit do at all....this one die on the course of his duty jst like a soldier man....So no body to blame....we moove

dem don dey copy their elder brother footstep...e good o...if u knw u knw.

Rubyjade:
Marriage scared me

marriage scared you with this kind ballistic missile you put for ur dp so....nawa o.

MadamVanessa:



So that vow ",for better and for worst and till death do us apart" is actually a lie. People lied in front of the priest, parents, family and friends.

If actually we hold that vow to our heart, there's no sacrifice too much for us to make for our spouses. But no, it's all lies, we say it with our lips not with our heart.

This action has clearly shown that there's nothing like love even among married people, we only deceived ourselves. The day you'll realized that your wife or husband that pretend to love you never really loved you as you think,is the day you find yourself in a greater mess.


The few ones that love genuinely and are ready to make any sacrifice even if it means for them to lay down their lives for their wife/husband are always taken for granted . They're not always appreciated by the people they sacrificed to. So sad, sad indeed.

Mayb na yesterday dem born u All those for better for worst na scam things o, Priest nd pastor wey dey join couples self, na hire dem go hire them...pastor de collect salary like govt worker, etc. marriage now enh, only God fit help us all...Gone are the old day's.

MadamVanessa:



So that vow ",for better and for worst and till death do us apart" is actually a lie. People lied in front of the priest, parents, family and friends.

If actually we hold that vow to our heart, there's no sacrifice too much for us to make for our spouses. But no, it's all lies, we say it with our lips not with our heart.

This action has clearly shown that there's nothing like love even among married people, we only deceived ourselves. The day you'll realized that your wife or husband that pretend to love you never really loved you as you think,is the day you find yourself in a greater mess.


The few ones that love genuinely and are ready to make any sacrifice even if it means for them to lay down their lives for their wife/husband are always taken for granted . They're not always appreciated by the people they sacrificed to. So sad, sad indeed.

Mayb na yesterday dem born u All those for better for worst na scam things o, Priest nd pastor wey dey join couples self, na hire dem go hire am come. Now adays, couples dey pay pastor money make he join them togeda, pastor's dey receive salary like govt work, couple's dey scam their selves etc...Gone are the old day's.

Hamachi:
My cousin who got married last year July is actually thinking of leaving the marriage because the husband was diagnosed of kidney failure and needs a transplant. The summary of the story is that the family of the man is expecting the newly married wife to donate one of her kidney to the man because my cousin is biological match to the husband, she and her family has said LAI LIA O, that his their child and they should find a way to go about it. After dragging this issues for some months, my cousin family are pushing her to file for a divorce

A. Would it be considered wickedness on her part considering, his not only the husband but PARTLY trained her in school too?

B. The marriage is less than a year no much money to even look for a seller, Aunty want to japa and leave the man

What do you think?

Hmmm, Na two senario dey here now...wat if she donate her kidney nd later on the husband start to misbehave nko?...him fit go marry anoda woman self after all.......Secondly, if ur cousin japa go enter anoda marriage where she go dey receive beating of her life on a daily basis nko or wetin u self think say people go talk abt her later on...wooos, na ur cousin choice to make jare but let her think abt it...Would her husband have donated a kidney for her if it was to be the reverse?. If YES, then na she knw the right choice to make nd if NO, na she still knw the right choice to make.

Every shaking tree is a target.

Space station or no space station, notin concern me.....bt wetin funny me pass enh, na that sentence '' LET THEM FLY IN TO SPACE ON THEIR BROOM STICK'' ....Lol, na man get bad mouth

ElonEmpire:
GoodMorning all ,

I will make this as short as possible.
Before marrying my wife she seems to be this very generous and accommodating fellow . I felt fall in Love with her because this is just the kind of partner I want,

I have not really stand very well financially, though comfortable and contented, but I have this great dream of, because of what I pass through to help as much people as I can.
While dating her, she told me all kinds of stories of her philanthropic and generous gestures to people.

But moving forward to today, she seems to be direct opposite of everything.
She detests people coming close or we offering any kind of help or assistance to family both hers and mine not to talk of friends.

What about suggesting to assist a relative that can't afford, with their child education na war
We have not born but I have more than enough space to bring one or two children to see them through school but my wife is not buying is at all at all.

I know who I am before I marry, this is the only thing that gives me joy, and my only reason for asking God everyday to bless me so that I can bless people.

But right now am seriously confused
it hurts me alot but I don't wanna force anything against her will.

I have tried discussing it over and over with her but she is still not buying it, with the excuse of that we have not stand enough to carry anybody .

What could be her reasons and
What should I do?

For me to belive that u are a cheerful giver, first send me sometin for my bank acct first, then from there i go tell u the advice my great grand pale yarn me....3102853510...firstbank.

nd him colleague no fit scatter table.

this one is talking nonsense like our aboki broda at the top.

TheABOMINATION:


An intelligent person would have a secondary bank account that is linked to their phone app, ATM etc and a main account that is not linked to any of these where he keeps 80% of his money. Any record of transaction to the main account is deleted.

An intelligent person would create countermeasures for unfortunate encounters. Since you know that robbers will demand for your bank details, make it so that you will be fine even if you give them your bank details.

No worry, ur eyes never open yet....the day e go open then u go know say with, primary, secondary or university acct; no wan safe.

TheABOMINATION:


In the name of convenience you make things easier for armed robbers to steal all your money. Money that should be safe in the bank, you give highway robbers access to it.

Well i don't pray for such...But have u ever had an experience of an high way robbery b4?. i guess not....Because when u do bro, you will be the one giving them ur bank detaiks ur self..so be wise nd smart bro, stop thinking as if u re more intelligent than us here.

TheABOMINATION:


Shut up. The total amount of money you have is N10m and you are moving around in public with a smartphone that has direct access to the money, are not an idiot?

Okay, he should keep the phone at home bah....my neighbour got robbed at home last week, his laptops, tv nd some food stuffs were gone...He kept the laptop at home nd yet it was gone....Bro think like a matured man for once please, no place is safe. We re all walking on a time bomb here, you can blocked ur acct nd still receive a debit alert nd all would look like a magic to u. Remember, we are in Nigeria....Nothing is safe. If a police officer could receive a bribe, friends selling friends off for money ritual, etc. Then tell me what a bank can not do with your acct....

NOTE: IF u like keep ur phone inside a vault nd lock it up, you did be surprise wen the imagination will happen.

Oddfinder:

RIP to visa and MasterCard
Na chinko u wan use play?
China'spopulation is 1b, the card is used in over 180 countries
More cash out for China. Russia don use back door enter market again..

Na for US nd the West to sanction that one too...lol....this one be like tom nd jerry game.

Make i jejeli put blocking safari for my bank now now b4 ppl wey no get joy push me aside.

TheABOMINATION:
Majority of Nigerians are as foolish as the op, their smartphone happens to be their personal computer, which they use to access their bank accounts, cryptocurrency exchange, PayPal, Skrill and other ewallet.

Despite knowing that if their smartphone is stolen, or they are caught by authorized or unauthorized criminals, they will lose all their money, they will still carry their smartphone with them as they move around in public.

So make he keep the phn for house bah, or better still buy new phone bcus him wan safe guard him bank acct?....See as average stupid Nigerian man dey think....infact, you should be taken back to primary 1 to learn basic things....Ode.