@fine boy.
why did you say that you will marry. u for no marry now and say that all women are not good. if you shine your eyes and pray well you will eat the food that you cooked.

@all
thanks you all for your various contributions o. i have decided to let go. i stopped reponding to him, picking his calls and stopped all communications.
i came accross an old friend that has been disturbing me and i decided to be a closer friend to him just to ease off my mind(not that i want to date him which he - the old friend- is aware of)
now my boyfriend is begging me, has been to my house 3ce this week and explaining that its work that has really been the problem. he is promising me now that he would adjust his own schedules for me, that he wants to be serious with this aspect of his life.
please what should i do. now that i am almost able to get myself together again, i dnt wnt to fall back in the same heartbreak.
fellow nairalanders, should i give him a try again?

@aik.mamah
he is working at a very good organisation. so to you, proximity determines a relationship?
is that supposed to be so?

I DONT KNOW WHICH ON LINE AGENCY YOU got the jod through. but like femiayo said, they normally deduct their share before it gets to you. so be careful, they might just want to outsmart you.
i got a bank job through ICSL. they deduct their money befor it gets to me, and the one that gets to me is manageable as i applied with just ATS

please i would like to know what i am applying for before i do. i would also want to know the remuneration. so please can you tell me.

@crazykid
thanks i appreciate. i jusy hope that giving him time won't make me end up losing him to another girl.

@funloving
i am not focused on marriage like you think, i did not even mention it, it was his excuse.
what is a relationship or why is one in it if there is no commitment?
even if marriage is left out, if you are in a relationship you should be serious and commited to it except if you are in it for another reason.
a girl does not need to put burdens on a guy, i don't. but the guy should once in a while buy the girl stuffs to make her happy.
i would like to know your age, asides from that why would marriage scare a guy away.

@ima1
thanks, he stays with his sister and her husband. thats why he does not like me visiting. so you think i should just move on like that? could there be anoda reason for a kind of behaviour like that?

@hailtopsy
thanks man, i will try to do that. my fear is not to get hurt in the end as i don't double date and would be so hurt if despite all my patience he gives a filmsy excuse for break up, you know what you men are like.

@Mc Doe
pls what does dat mean? pls i really need answers cos i am very confused

sory adrianic. i did not know that i was on job. please give me a better advice on it. expecting your reply in the romance forum

Hi Nairalanders,
I don't know why guys are scared of getting into serious relationships. They won't want to quit the relationship, yet they would not want to be serious with it. I have a boyfriend that stays in Surulere while i stay on the Island. I used to live in a hostel in surulere where he visits me earlier on. Now that i have left the hostel and at home he does not come again, just phone calls and text messages. We have been dating since December and he has never bee to my house to say hi to me or my family. i usually go to his place once in a while ie when his folks are not even around. i challenge him everytime concerning this issue but he justs begs me and explains that he is too young (at 28 o) for marriage. i don't know what else to do o, yet i don't want to lose him because i love him. i cannot double date, else i would not be bothered if someone else is treating me well.
my people please what should i do.

Hi Nairalanders,
I don't know why guys are scared of getting into serious relationships. They won't want to quit the relationship, yet they  would not want to be serious with it. I have a boyfriend that stays in Surulere while i stay on the Island. I used to live in a hostel in surulere where he visits me earlier on. Now that i have left the hostel and at home he does not come again, just phone calls and text messages. We have been dating since December and he has never bee to my house to say hi to me or my family. i usually go to his place once in a while ie when his folks are not even around. i challenge him everytime concerning this issue but he justs begs me and explains that he is too young (at 28 o) for marriage. i don't know what else to do o, yet i don't want to lose him cos i love him. i cannot double date, else i would not be bothered if someone else is treating me well.
my people please what should i do.

@danalyst
you be real guru o. i wish i have brains like you. i like having brainees as friends. i envy you o. thank God for your life. peace.

hi all
@poster sammy,
sorry about your result o. i know of someone that has been writing FA and MA since nov 2005, and has always been writing it evry diet. he just passed fa this may and still has a ref in MA. you are still better off as you are in the final stage and just a leg to go. like someone said, it takes God too. try to pray along as you read, and study and understand evry detail in sfm. sfm is not an easy subject. i wrote nov 2006 diet too and got ref in sfm, though that diet, sfm was terrible and so difficult. i wrote may 07, and i thank God that i made it now. i am so happy. i k now you will be happy about your result in january.
i received all my lectures right from ats in Safe. Akinsulire is a very good lecturer in sfm, and he lectured me. so like naijapikin said, just buy his textbk, current edition, study it through more than once, get the ican study pack, and treat all the questions in it cos ican lifts them at times, and treat past questions, i used ten diets question and answers.
don't worry try again and dont quit.
takia and i wish you luck. i hope this diet, i hope nov 07, would not be too hard or difficult because of you. peace

Sweet T:

@Topic
May be if you leave girls and pepper soup alone and study hard you wouldn't be complaining now !! It's not a conspiracy my friend, it's your level of peparations ! Focus !

sorry dear, but it's not always true. you have to be very prepared, i agree, but ican could also be very wicked. some diets' questions would be very easy while others very good. tension could also cause failure. so its just God's grace that makes you fall into a diet thats nt so hard and allows you answer the questions the wy the examiner wants it answered

sharp man:

eyaaaaah!

sorry oh.

why not try ANAN.

ANAN, dont try it o. it is not recognised and respected like ICAN. it is seen as escape route for those that cant pass ICAN. so dnt waste your time, effort and money for something you cannot tender anywhere.
PS. my own opinion about it o.

seun seun seun!!!!!!!! haba!!!!!!!!!!!! this is not real and cannot b real. if it is, then the dog is yours and lives with you.    a note of advice: with the way this country is, just open a show room, use your dog as entertainment for pp, so they'll pay to see him, thus money for you . just pray that the dog does not tear anyone apart so that you wont find yourself in court.

hi all. i am new to this site but i am really happy that i got hinted about it. please who knows how long the IPO for dangote would last because not everyone especially me have funds now.
i also want to alert all that MTN is recruiting now! they have some vacancies that does not require much in terms of experience etc.
you can check their site for more information on vacant positions and other stuffs