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Vivian2233:
Ps3 forsale 30,000 Selling with all the accessories and one pad. Call or whatsapp: 08034172781

PS2 slim, Ps3, PS4 and PS5forsale with one pad,charging cord and power cable.
Hacked and 5 games are installed already
Price List: PS2 slim 19,000 Ps3 30,000 PS4 160,000 Ps5 450,000
Call me or WhatsApp 08034172781
Lagos( I can deliver it to your state)
My office is at 8,Unity Road Ikeja,Lagos

Victorious12:
Clean EOD
2003 9ja used Buy and drive
Call for Price 08113905632

360clips:
Don't be asking me dumb ass question. I just told you it's a phycological tech. Dumbass simp.

360clips:
Of course! It's a pure psychological technic!

360clips:
1. If a girl you don't like is trying to hit on you, tell her straight off you don't like her!

2. If an ugly woman is so full of herself let her know she's ugly and unattractive!

3. If a pretty girl is so stupid and full of herself, find her flaw and let her know bluntly!

4. If there's a girl every guy is Simping for & showering with attention, find her flaw and let her know how ugly it is!

Learn to be blunt with women! Never in you life asslick them! They will hate you but deep down their pussies will drip wet by just the sight of you! Try it and see!

Rickbronz:
If you graduate from a university and you come out looking for someone to employ you, then you are one of the problems of this country. With the knowledge and enlightenment you've gained from school, you should be the one employing and empowering people.
There are several businesses one can start building now which requires little capital but with a potential for massive returns in the long run.

kanayoNickel:
Why cant ppl just masturbate...

It's a lot more safer than getting your self into prostitution


Or better still get a sex-toy until one is ready for marriage.

Sex is over rated.


Biko , I do visual effects for films. Creatures of all kinds. 0 90 5 167. 54. 81

MejiLoyon:
Who sleeps in an ashawo house? Oga nack your nack waka. One of my men that time obinna like ashawo house die. He is very shy. Even to calling ashawos. Na me dey do front. Plus he dey buy me free beer so I dey follow am go. Obinna go say he like that one...I go call her. He go nack pay come continue him beer. After sometime preeq go rise again. He go say make I call another one. Before the night obinna go nack like three. In a week he or two he don go through the hotel. Na to find another ashawo house again. Obinna na ashawo map. Every ashawo house for Akure he know am. Even obow street he don run am. Yes obow street na name of street O.
I see ashawos as cum buckets. This one nack that one nack everybody nack. Them dey find the LCM of preeqs. Funny part be say na married men dey full there. Because madam for house don lock yansh

BaddieFreak:
That is the problem, a lot are not matured.

BaddieFreak:
Can a Nigerian guy and lady smash and still be good friends. I have noticed that this is nearly impossible in Nigeria. It is either the guy leaves after tasting the coochie or the girl starts misbehaving or both sef.

So can a 9ja guy and lady smash and still be good friends like nothing happened?

officialmario:
Then on the day matriculation day, it was my sister that came to check on me, around 1pm I receive a call that I should come to the SUG building and on getting there I saw over 20 men sitting at the back of the SUG building and I was told to prepare for the initiation ceremony which will be coming up by 10pm same day....I was trembling with fear and I could no longer hold myself again, I was told to come along with condom that I will use to Bleep when I come...
immediately I left the campus I couldn't come back again throughout the day, but as fate would have there was fight between the OPC and that day so I use that as an excuse for not coming for the initiation, the following day when we met at the campus they collected my phones and 1500 from me, there is no one I could run to for help...I remained ITJ throughout first semester 100....I was progressing in my academics, I had only one carry over and my CGPA was 3.86....
When we resume second semester an incident happened at the female hostel that almost cost me my life but thanks to God that I was alive...
To be continued...

thebosstrevor1:
OUR military did a good work.

If not for the effort of our military men, People in the south would have been starving by now.

Thebest12:
Dear nairalands
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Good morning all . Hope you have a nice day . I am here to table my problem to matured minds . Pls I need a genuine advise or better still a suggestion . My problem is that I have a lot of female friends . But each time they pass night with me in my room or a hotel they don't allow me touch them . I mean they normally denie me sex . And I am a kind of easy going guy . I don't like forcing them to avoid it being tagged rape . Am I being too gentle ? Pls advice me

grossintel:
Either you're stingy or broke. Take a girl out, you don't have to spend too much but show them you can take care of them and they will give you sex in abondance any day any time even if you're married.

I was with one yesterday, the way she was hugging and touching me in public fear me, I was like no be this church girl way talk say she get boyfriend again , she literally wanted to lick me like a lollipop.

ngadaAwo:
the war have started already.
operation feed yourselves

nifemi25:
I have a friend that lives in abk that does this job. He comes to Lagos to hustle on Monday morning and goes back to his family on Friday evening or early morning on Saturday, though he owns the car. Likewise me. I lives at ajuwon which is under ogun state. Though I usually see a request before leaving house. It depend where you lives in Ogun state

egobetatoday:
And if his love for visiting native doctors is in the 60% (according to you) that she doesn't know, why should you scold the OP the way you did?

egobetatoday:
Pls stop this kind of replies. If you are married, you should have known you can't know your fiancée totally before marriage, not even when you court for 15 yrs.

Vevejoy:
Plesse forget the errors and focus on the content.

So here's my issue.

I've been married for 6yrs and it's been a blissful journey- of course with minor issues here and there but nothing to worry about until May 5th 2020 when I'd say things turned upside down.

We live abroad and struggled to have kids but God finally blessed us with a beautiful daughter in Sept 2019. Child care being super expensive here, we wanted one of our moms to come help us with the baby when I return to work after my maternity leave. So on the eve of our wedding anniversary which was the 4th of May last year, I asked my husband for the say 10th time about beginning the procedure of bringing a mom over to help since I'll be returning to work. He asked which mom and I said in my exact words; "of course my mom" because I know that when a woman gives birth, her mom usually go to help her. Did that change our story? My God, marriage has been one hell of a thing since that day.

My husband said I am selfish, disrespectful, and want to dominate him. He said things will never be the same again and since then, my marriage has been a stress zone.

My husband is numb to my feelings. He's been ignoring me, I've been a nag I'll admit since tue incident last year. I now talk alot and mostly complain about everything whenever we are together. It's sad and I've actually had conversations with myself to ignore him and stop nagging but I continue to do it, I need help on how to shut up and observe.

I can cry from now to die kingdom come and this man wouldn't be moved. He cannot shift his stance because of me at all. He does whatever he likes and disregard everything I say. E.g before this crisis, we had an appointment to see our Dr to start trying for baby number two because the Dr's advised that since we just had a baby, it's best to try for another soonest given that we had challenges conceiving the first one. This man cancelled the appointment with our Dr and has blatantly refused to start trying for a baby right now. He says when the time comes he'll let me know. Up till now the time has not come despite the fact that delaying may impact our chance of conceiving again. What a life!� � �.

Also, he has decided that no parent will come and I'm back to work already. My poor baby who use to sleep till 9am now suffer in this winter getting up at 6am to be dropped off at daycare all because her father is angry and want to make sure he doesn't do anything that will make his wife smile. He'll rather spend thorns of money paying for daycare even after I've told him that I don't mind his mom coming. Mind u, I have a very good relationship with my inlaws, especially my mom inlaw so it's not an inlaw fight.

The worst of them all is that despite living abroad for 17yrs, this man believes so much in native doctors to the extend that I can't even explain. Infact it's something that I've always fought him about and talked against. I've even complained about it to his family. And guess what, when I talk against, he tells his native drs who of course has ignited the fire in our home. Can you believe that in this chaos this man took me on a vacation in August last year that he wanted to clear his mind so we can start a new chapter and be happy again only to tell me that I have been trying to use a charm on him in the past months thats why things got rough. He said the 3 women I am using appeared to him but he is stronger ����. I am laughing because I felt pity and ashamed for him. How can a grown man be this vulnerable to suitsayers? I have never in my entire life visited a native doctor for myself not to talk of going to take a charmI didn'tvisit the native drs when I was strugglingto have a baby and this man thinks I'llvisit one now to charm him. Wondering y he will even believe such a thing. Infact I don't even know any native doctor. So when he said that, I told him that if I had known that his change of attitude is because of this stupid reason, I would not have fought for my marriage like I did. Of course I got so mad and told him a piece of my mind. I am even ashamed of telling people that despite this man's exposure he consults native Dr's in Africa more than even the people in Africa. Infact if they say yes that's what he listens to. He has even paid a flight from here to Africa because a native Dr told him that his dad who raised him to be the man he is today is trying to kill him and he should come for protection.

I decided to tell his mom about the accusation. His mom told me she scolded at him and warned him never to say such nonsense. Well I just pity him and I'm praying for him. But truth is I regret my marriage to him because of these his believes. I just don't believe in divorce and don't even have the heart to move out I would have done so. Mind u, I am 100% independent so it's not an issue of being scared of surviving alone.

Well one Sunday night as usual I talked to him like crazy and he said "all he wants is for our relationship to work and he will put in his best effort with support from me. I said I want same and will put in my best effort with support from him too*. This happened around september and things have been like normal on and off since then.

I have a few worries which I'd like you to advise me on the way forward.
- My husband is heartless. No matter how I lament, cry, beg, approach him nicely. Infact no matter the manner in which I bring up an issue to him, he doesn't get moved at all. He stays on his stance and doesn't care. How am I suppose to live with a man like this. He goes mute when I try having a conversation with him.

- I have a weakness of talking alot which I acknowledge and I'm doing my best to work on it though I'm yet to change completely. But I can say there's a huge improvement. Infact I'm able to walk away now.

Can a marriage really work out out without a compromise from both parties? I feel like I am compromising alot but this man is doing whatever he likes. In all of these he doesn't cheat but has abused me physically 4times in our 6yrs of marriage which I'm still pained about. The worst abuse right now is emotional abuse and I've told him so several times.

We use to be an exemplary and happy couple up till this may 2020. What will you do in a situation like mine With? With a man like my husband who I'd say lacks empathy and a concience how do I deal with him? His mom said she talked to him but I don't see any difference.

I feel miserable right now in my marriage. Since I got married this is our hardest hit and unfortunately it got prolonged probably bc of his native Dr's who told him I am using a charm on him which he believed.


Help me out please

nexttag:
Let me cut the long story short , I have this girl that we started our relationship about 1 month ago , she complain to me about not having full money to foot her bills , so I stepped in and assist her ,

But before that I saw her one day in another town with one of her course mate probably her school boyfriend

I keep calm and just yesterday she mistakenly upload a status where she was in a hotel room , and was kissing the same guy I saw her with but deleted it immediately thank God for gbwhatsapp I download

I confronted her via another pix she posted I asked what was she doing in a hotel room she deny it that is was birthday that she went for and also about seeing her in another town she deny it also but later agreed but insisted that dey she escorted her female friend

I asked this girl many times do have another boyfriend and she denying it , I wanted to show her the video but I didnt so that I will know the kind of person , this a girl am planning to marry before middle of next year

Anyway I just thank my God and move on if a girl can lie like this when I have all evidence just that I don't want to show her

I just fear some women yesterday , never give a woman all ur heart ,always make sure u get side chick

JohnspeakU:
Hello Everyone!! I am here again with another discussion thread that we can all learn from.

Some people make the mistake of going into a relationship without knowing why they were there. The reason why people rain curses on their exes is simply because they felt they only wasted their time and never benefited anything from the relationship. But the truth is, there is always a lesson or two to learn from every relationship either positively or negatively So the question is, what life lessons did you learn from your past relationship?

Let me share mine.
Before now I used to believe that men are richer than females not until I dated one calabar girl in Abuja that opened my eyes. This girl works as a nurse in a private clinic and earns about 80k. The surprising thing is that she belongs to about 6 contributions that she puts almost all her salary in��‍♀️ After using her money to pay contributions, she will start demanding money from me for everything even down to recharge card to call her mom. So as a sharp Edo guy, I rallied among my colleagues and started paying contributions too��

She thought me how to save unknowingly.

Tell us about yours.

Victorious12:
Yes

Ayooye2018:
Is the Camry still available ?