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Romance / Re: Help. Being Tormented By A Real Life Troll/bully by Viiiam: 2:19pm On Feb 13, 2022 |
Thegracefulness:Thanks. Most of what you say is correct. Appreciate it |
Romance / Re: Help. Being Tormented By A Real Life Troll/bully by Viiiam: 2:17pm On Feb 13, 2022 |
Qatar2022:Ok. Thank you |
Romance / Re: Help. Being Tormented By A Real Life Troll/bully by Viiiam: 9:30am On Feb 13, 2022 |
HenryDion:I've looked at this way actually, except I can't seem to detect any signs of attraction whatsoever. But thanks anyway. I understand your perspective. Thanks a lot 1 Like |
Romance / Re: Help. Being Tormented By A Real Life Troll/bully by Viiiam: 9:27am On Feb 13, 2022 |
HarunaWest:I try my best to ignore but she always singles me out. You have to admit there are limits to which people can be ignored |
Romance / Re: Help. Being Tormented By A Real Life Troll/bully by Viiiam: 9:22am On Feb 13, 2022 |
heniford2:Honestly I wish I could, but I know it wouldn't look good on me at all. If I wanted to, I could really malhandle her. But I know the extent of my temper when I get upset and level of injury I can inflict especially on a woman as small as she is. Shouting back at her is a dead end because she's like a parrot on weed. She's very loud and has that IDGAF vibe. The only way to really deal with her is physically but I don't really know her. I wish she wasn't in my class |
Romance / Help. Being Tormented By A Real Life Troll/bully by Viiiam: 8:41am On Feb 13, 2022 |
Since I got into college, there's this young lady in my class who's sort of like the class clown. She's loud, intrusive, and constantly makes insulting jokes or biting sarcastic remarks about people which is intended to be "banter" for some reason. And lately, it seems I've become her main target. Now im a naturally a quiet guy who mostly keeps to himself. I'm not quick witted or jokey. And her hyper attitude is a major put off. For my first two college years, I've taken good care not to get on her bad side, so as not to become the butt of her jokes. So this basically started in my 3rd year. Since I hardly ever speak in class, when I do speak, she starts heckling me, or make jokes out of anything I say. She does this EVERY SINGLE TIME. At first I shrugged it off but it seems the more I ignore her, she tries even harder. I've watched her get into a verbal fight with another girl before and she absolutely broke her down to the point of tears. I know getting into a battle of words with her will only aggravate things and make me lose my temper and act irrationally in public. She's much smaller than I am, probably the smallest in my class, but I don't dare attack her because she's a girl. She's a nuisance to me at this point and I don't know her to deal with her. I confess I've had to intentionally miss some classes because I don't want to encounter her. She's basically made me her new target and I don't know who to talk to about this because nearly everyone in this school thinks bullying doesn't exist. Plus there's this idea that if you tell on others bullying you instead of handling it by yourself, then you're soft. Especially if you're a guy being targeted by a girl. I'm totally miserable at this point. Last night was the last straw. I got a call from a private number and when I picked the call, it was supposedly one of my closest female friends who's in another department in my college. I wasn't surprised it was a strange line because she had told me sometime ago that her phone got stolen. She asked to meet in the school cafeteria and I obliged. I came out that night and sat in a corner of the cafeteria with my phone in my hand, using it. After close to 30 minutes I didn't see her, I phoned the line she used to call me and it didn't go through. An hour passed and this lady bully from my class entered the cafeteria with a bunch of her friends, both guys and girls. They sat about two tables away from me. I refused to make eye contact and remained fixated on my phone still trying to contact the girl who called me. After some minutes, I started hearing giggling and snickering from the table of the bully. I didn't want to look up but, it started becoming distracting. After I while, I decided to glance towards their table and I met them staring right at me, grinning and giggling and pointing. My heart sank into my stomach and I felt so ashamed. It felt like I was in middle school. They didn't even care that I saw them,they kept making fun of me from a distance, albeit in hush, but still somewhat audible tones. After some time I got up and decided to leave the cafeteria. I refused to look at their table. One of the guys there kept calling my name, then the bully girl said something, I didn't hear it clearly, but whatever she said suddenly had all of them bursting out laughing uncontrollably. I felt like a little boy being picked on. It was so embarrassing that I cried silently in my room last night. I started making up theories in my head - questioning if perhaps the call I get was a prank from these people. I didn't know what to feel. This girl is just a thorn in my side and she's so unreasonable. Constantly in Joker mode, it's difficult to have a serious conversation with her. The experience last night, coupled with many other bullying experiences I've had in the past has honestly made me to consider suicide. I'm not proud of such thoughts, but it's how I've felt ever since last night. I've always had this feeling that no one likes or understands me. I try to be social but it sometimes feels like I force myself on people. People don't seem too eager to engage with me. In my life I've had probably just 4-5 really close friends and that's it. I don't mind being an introvert, it's just that when I do crave to be social, it doesn't work out the way I want. I'm feeling really low now and just wanted to get some advice, both on this woman and life in general. 3 Likes 1 Share |
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