Lemskey:
My people,I want to give this true life testimony on behalf of my cousin who slept over in my house last nite and still with me at d moment.

He visits Nairaland regularly to read posts & comments,but he is not a member.

He was so happy last nite as he explained how he has been helped and encouraged on nairaland to abandon all these gold digging Nigerian girls.

He is married,32 years old,but cheats on his wife with a girl, who is now a corper,serving in Lagos state.He said he loves the girl so much.

However,he said he was forced to kick d girl out of his life in May,when he discovered that the total of #9m which he used to start his flour business had reduced to #4m b'w January & May and his biz was crashing.

His family was also suffering as he spends just little for them at home compared to d much he spends on this his babe.

He said the girl demands for money everyday for one thing or the other.

That he bought her an iPhone 8+ and a Samsung as demanded,she collects #20k every Saturday to make her hair and nails,but sometimes won't even make d hair and still buys human hair of #30-40k.

That anytime d girl wants to travel to Abuja to see him or see her family,she will always want to go by air.

That he spends at least #100k on her air ticket monthly,as she said she can't tolerate d stress of travelling by road.

He said in April,he was forced remove money from his biz to rent a house of #700k for her and furnished it with about another #400k as she said she wants to settle down in Lagos after her service.

He said he loves the girl and didn't know how to tell her NO!Though am single and older than him but was also in his shoes and understand him.

She was also demanding that my cousin opens a boutique for her and buy her a Samsung S10+.

He said it was at that point that he realized that if he didn't abandon that toxic relationship,the girl would ruin him,his marriage,family and business and he was also suspecting that the girl was sleeping with someone else from his observation at d later part of their relationship.

Finally,he had to tell the girl he was no longer interested in the relationship after he left her in Lagos d last time in May,after he had to go thru several posts on similar experiences on nairaland and comments of wise Nairalanders.

He said he had to take the bold step,but even till few days ago,d girl was still begging him that she loves him and want him back and he told her God forbid because since he left her,his life has changed.

His wife and kids now look good, more money in his pocket and paying more attention to his biz to grow his capital which he lavished on d girl.

He said while he was dating d girl,he spent almost #200k monthly on hotel bills in d last 8 months,as they had to get a room,eat and drink.He said the girl most times eat very expensive food in d hotel and prefers eating fast food at least twice daily.

Am so happy for him now as I feel what he passed thru.

My people, pls,let"s continue with d good work so that we can deliver other of our brothers from this bondage and slavery of gold digging 9ja babes..