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CokeBar:
Share your experience with us if you have ever been fired. It would be better if we can share:

1. Why we were fired?
2. How did the firing process happen?
3. Aftermath of being fired… how did you feel, have you recovered, did you get something better?

So, I’ll start:

Sometimes last year, I got an unbelievable offer (well above #750k) at a remote company. I bought a PC, subscribed for large data and set-up a workspace. On Monday which was resumption day, I turned on my PC, logged in and started the online meeting… everything went well for the first day and I got introduced to my colleagues. My friend and I actually got employed for same position, so we usually chatted while working. To be onboarded, we had to install a productivity monitoring tool on our PCs, we were told everything we did on the PC would be captured if the tool was turned ON but I really don’t know why I cared less.

On Wednesday same week, we had a short and simple test, during the test, I asked my friend for an answer as I wasn’t so sure, he responded and that was it.

On Thursday, I had a quick one-on-one call with my manager, I was fired. Apparently, I wasn’t supposed to ask for assistance while taking the test. I apologized but the answer was a straight NO (you sabi how oyinbo people strict). So in other words, I was sacked because I cheated ☹.

Well, they paid me for the few days I worked �

I have experienced other sad situations, but this has to be the worst. I was so depressed, the following Sunday, I went to Church and it was while Pastor asked us to greet our neighbor, I remembered I didn’t brush… LMAO.

Now, I got something with abit lesser pay but still very chilled

Please I'll like us to chat on whatsapp. Check my profile for my whatsapp number. Thanks.

To be very candid, I see nothing bad in your move. It's high time we stopped giving up our desires at the altar of immaturity or inability to reason along. When does this nonsense wanna stop? If you feel for any woman, irrespective of her status, make it known to her in a polite manner. It's no crime. Feelings are natural jare. Being scared of telling.these women how we feel makes them feel too special to be asked out. I'm not being rude here, I respect women a lot.

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CaptMarvel:
Hang on bro.. You're not the only one! Things will turn out right! I can't start talking about mine, I can only encourage you not to give up just like I encourage myself.

Thanks boss.
I'll do as you've said sir.

Enwhen:
Roberts said " Human are insatiable"


Your own dey even dey come but slow yet u want it to be fast , WHAT ABOUT THOSE WEY THEM OWN NO DEY COME AT ALL ?, and them still dey hope on God(Allah) to pick there call one day.


U finished 2006 and did get admitted like others..., What about those wey finished 2004 and got admission 2011 ??, What about those wey no go school at all because Jamb wan kill them ?... Abi, u forget say some na runs Dem take dey enter school ??, ...some use runs enter and no fit graduate and finally took sniper, na dat one u for like ?...


U don go ask Dangote, Otedola, Sweet sensation... How many times Dem biz fall before e finally stand ??, Hmm, my Bro , ....NOTHING GOOD COMES EASY OO, u must work hard and in this present Nigeria , u must work very very hard because things are hard , I no go lie u.... Those wey get am easy forget am o, if some tell u wetin sup, u no go fit sleep for night oo... Late Dagrin advised us in his last track say " if u wan chop cake na then u go know say oven dey" how I wish u understand that word... No let me Cary u go meet one spiritualist , wey go do am for u to get N10 and collect N100 from u.... devil no dey give free thing oo, who no go no know , if God give u, na enjoyment ti ti laye laye(forever) , but if devil give u hmmm, na short time deal o...



Imagine , after the devil try u , from 2006 to 2018 , u endured , he collapsed your biz so that u go come meet am to introduce u to Sniper , yet u no go, na now way u don dey close to success u wan look back ??, Chaii , my brother , continue dey push dey go with prayers o, maybe na dis night or tomorrow morning God go pick ur call u no know... Some people own self no dey come at all even many years , yet Dem still dey push dey believe in God to pick their calls... Abi, u no see graduate wey dey do some penny jobs for survival ??, U no see graduate wey dey ride okada ?, U no see graduate wey dey sell pure water ?, Watch them out o, them no go do am for ever , ONE DAY , na ONE DAY baba God go pick their call and na that day Dem go forget the suffer.... I go advice u make u keep on pushing o, anybody wey tell u say he make easy for this present Nigeria , if that person no be politician... Abeg run from am so, unless u no wan dey sleep.for night. U wan dey chop ur money dey laff for.public bt inside ur heart no peace.... if my talk too much... Seen is believing

Smiles...very funny but sensible writeup full of facts. Thanks man. I go lay low as u talk. Man no go die nah. God dey.

fykes:
My best friends dad once told us his story... He sounded just like u... Didn't make any meaningful progress until he was 40. Then the money he made then, he's still enjoying it now that he is 70.
30 years of success,
Guy, life is God's plan not ours...u didn't choose ur parents, ur sex, ur physical qualities, u didn't choose nothing, how do u intend to choose ur time and seasons??
Finally, stay true to God... because if they tell u what success costs with the devil, u will wish to be poorer.
Now u can sleep, and eat no matter how small,
Always ask urself, How long or how hard do u think it is for God to change ur story?? Jabez had his entire destiny changed.
You have no problem God can't solve.

Thanks so much for your advice.
I really appreciate it.

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megastu:
Why are you marketing yourself to her.

Extramarital sex is very deadly. It has sent many couples to their graves and many children became orphans. The repercussions far outweigh the little pleasures.

Only an illiterate will see my comment as an advertisement. I only mentioned myself for her to know she's not the only person faced with that challenge. And at last, I told her not to do anything that'll make her offend herself or regret her actions. Let's learn to interprete people's comments very well before seeing what the writer didn't write. Let's be guided please.

Well, I can't blame you for that. It's not a crime to have high libido. I have that high urge for sex as well to the extent that I've made several attempt to find myself a sugar mummy but I couldn't find any. The best advise I can give to you is to follow your heart. Do not offend or punish yourself. Take care

Kathleens:
I have to create another account for this reason, please i need all the advice I can get to save my marriage and sanity.

Recently I have been feeling so Hot after I stopped my baby from breastfeeding. My hubby tries his own possible way to satisfy me but after the sex I will still masturbate to pleasure myself cause I will be fantasizing about someone going down on me with their tongue (I have never experienced that in my entire life) my hubby doesn't do that.

This has made to fantasize about other guys giving me the pleasure I need, i went as far as searching the internet for gigolos and having this fantasy with them on my mind. This is crazy, I even contacted one and we fixed a date (he promised to go down on me really hot with his tongue) but I bluffed it cause I really don't have the courage to cheat on my hubby though I have cheated on him a million times on my head. I can't even imagine doing it physically but the thought is always on my head. I need to stop this and the frequent masturbation before it ruins me.

I need all the advices including insults, maybe the insults will reset my head. I am 32 years with four kids. Thank you

Well, I can't insult you because high urge for sexual activities is natural and it's not your fault because I fall into that category as well. In fact, I've tried severally to search for sugar mummies but I didn't get any. My advise for you is to follow your mind. No matter what anyone tells u, you'll still do what pleases you. it's not your fault madam.

GeniusWannabe:
You said he confronted you gentlemanly, and you both reached terms of agreement. With this, you shouldn't have opened up to the lady, giving her the benefit of the doubt that she wouldn't confront her partner.

To be honest, you have destroyed that relationship, even though you don't realize it. Trying to fix it might be ineffective but you have to try anyway, so you only have two options. You either cut all ties with the lady and go your way, and let things naturally fall into place, or stick with her as a friend and maybe become her man later on. Remember one thing however, what goes around comes around.

God bless you for this. The guy is a fucking pussy for stalking someone else's woman despite the fact that he told you to stay clear from his girl. Anyway, you have your choice to make, but remember, "what goes around comes around".

Tobiobi:
Don't just walk away yet, ask for a raise first, stating the reasons why. Nd besides u can gain some good experience then intensify your job search....check for jobs everyday....if u don't like the pay, then intensify ur search, with the little experience u ve nd ur grades, u stand a better chance of being called for apt tests or interviews...but don't stop work yet

Hmmmmm
This is a very great idea.
I really appreciate

Olamsoh:
You devaluated urself by accepting the offer in the first place....like you are seen as someone desperate for the job as at then....
Now!!!!
There are a lot of openings if truly you can defend ur certs...
So pls jejely leave and source for better paying job that would be almost equivalent to your struggles in skul...
#my opinion#

Exactly.
Desperation made me accept the offer. I really downgraded myself to have accepted the offer.
Thanks so much for your opinion.

sonature1:
Huncle, don't be in a hurry to leave.
In today's Nigeria, while God is constant, you need skill/experience or connect to land a plum job.
Essentially, you have to hone your skill and acquire some experience.
You just left school and you should not be under pressure to impress anyone.
Make a 3-year plan..after which you will resign from the job whether you got another one or not.
While at it, go for relevant IT training courses, such as SPSS, etc. on weekends or during your leave.
You will never go wrong if you do as I have instructed you.

Thanks a lot

Donmoscojaja:
I want to believe is Monday to Friday stuff...so my advice is build another biz, get involved in something else maybe online

Thanks a lot. What online business can u suggest and how much is the startup capital?

jieta:
I can't tell you to return to the labour market but i will advice you to either look for accommodation close to your place of work or a place you can spend at least two to three hundred for transportation or speak to the management about your plight.

Thanks a lot for your opinion but the funny thing is that I presently stay in a free house and eat free dinner (Plus free weekend 3 square meal). If I now move to a place where I'll pay house rent and feed myself all alone, do u think I can survive with that salary?

vikkogg:
Good day everyone. I am writing this to seek for your opinions. I am a graduate of Statistics, University of Ibadan with Second class Upper. I graduated in early 2018 and I'm through with NYSC. The I.T company I served offered to retain me with a salary of 40k monthly. Due to the fact that I had no other option as at then, I took up the offer. Now, this is where the frustration comes in: The work time frame is 8am-5pm daily but most times, I get engaged till 6pm, at times 7pm. I leave home 6am and return home 8-9pm. I spend #800 daily on transportation and #400 daily on feeding to make #1,200 daily. Since I became a full staff of the company, I've not been able to save a dime because my salary isn't enough to take care of my bills, not to talk of savings. I've been trying hard to get a better job but all to no avail. It's not that I'm a dullard. I have ND Statistics (Distinction), and BSc Statistics (5.9 of 7.0). I'm never bragging my people, it's just to let you all know that I'm doing my best towards having a bright future. I need your advice. What should I do? Should I continue with the job or quit?? Help me push this to the front page as I need advice ASAP, please!

I need mature opinions please

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