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Cutehector:
lool . This one is harrrd. Trick question. I promise I'd gv my honest answer.


Well, "according to my standard" after much hard thinking, ... I guess I will manage adanma.. I mean manage.. ..

The reason why I ended up wit adamma is this
Nkechi may hav had abortions in d past
Nkechi may be comparing me to the other guys she had slept wit
Adanma may not be good in bed and sex may be so boring buh we could help ourselves wit adult videos
Adanma way later come to like sex as much as nkechi does
Nkechi may find it dificult in bearing children due obvious reasons
Adanma may not satitsfy me sexualy initually buh because of my "self control" I'd endure painfully.. Since I'v mastered it.

tnx for your honest answer. it clearly shows that virginity is a criteria in choosing a wife. dt does not mean that a man shld remain single till 40yrs in search of an 18-24 years old virgin girl. if you find your soulmate whether virgin or non virgin. men shld go ahead and marry and stop wasting time flirting around. cheers

bennytom:
hehe... You two are funny!

lol

imagine d kind of question he asked me

richidinho:
Illiterate ko .....illicit ni

How many successful ladies will wake up in the morning and wants to know how her husband is faring?

how many successful men will wake up in the morning and wants to know how his wife is faring

Cutehector:
Do u think virginity should be a criteria in choosing a wife? Let's hav ur thoughts on this..



Oga lalasticlala.. Happy sunday.. Biko, I'v neva asked u of this favor before, pls hlep me push this to front page at ur discretion. Thanks

Nkechi is a non virgin wt 5 years experience. Adanma is a virgin. both nkechi and Adanma are of same age bracket with good character according to your standard. who will u marry lets strt frm you

Cutehector:
Virginity should not be a criteria in marryn a wife... Thr r better things to worry abt
U don't wana marry a virgin who nags..

in oda words non virgins dnt nag

bennytom:
Why would a guy do that? Unless the lady is stingy and proud. But if she isn't why not. Personally, I am someone that wants to be proud of my spouse.

you didnt read dt thread in the first place. the girl in question is working in a big company dt pays big. d guy is a pharmacist and they hv dated for 4 years or more. he gave her a condition for dem to get married which is to quit her job dt she uses to cater for her siblings,dt he will open a chemist shop for her after d marriage. d girl is now single bc she made d right decision not to quit her job so tell me y d guy did that

nice write up. bt some illiterate guys dt are into business dnt like their educated wives to work instead they will open small shop for them so dt the lady will b worshippn them always. some men wt low slf esteem will even tell their fiancee to quit her high paying job so that they can marry. e.g i saw that type of thread here whr a girl ws complaining abt her fiance. so op 95% of men cant stand successful ladies

bennytom:
No comment?
This is what I am talking about.

Boscojugunu:
Yes nah. Imaging me dating four girls at a time. I waste money calling dem every day. Y recharge card money no go plenty pass food money. I pity myself tho

lol. continue jst knw dt dere is GODUUUOOO

Fablady:
That is another story entirely which I am dealing with privately if you guys don't mind. I mean if I can't get regular sex and sperm, how do I get preggy? If I beg for sex especially during fertile window and he manages to oblige, 90% of the time I get no sperm. That is what I meant by 'does not end well' in one of my earlier posts.

na waoh. hope he is nt married spirituallythis is strange

mystiqueDZ:
Nigerians can overdo things!!!!
That is why businesses do not move!!!
Because iya bilikisu is selling akara, amina want to sell too.......

hahahahahaha

KwoiZabo:
#babanowthatyouarethere Nigerians are running mad.

some Northerners not Nigerians.

MojAyo:
thank u,I love dis

UWC my sis

eCollynzo:
Watch APC plebs claim she is saying this to evoke pity that will prevent her from going to their imaginary, impossible and non-existent jail.

hahahahaha. so true

AgapeCharis:
Hahahahaha
Which one is spiritual interest biko ✔✔
Love is not stupidity.

Lol

AgapeCharis:
My argument on "loving with the brain" was based on loving someone based on physical interests.

whether physical interest or spiritual interest you have to love with your brain pls.

ronald4lif:
Gbam!

YES

IamOdin:
i'm stunned!!.i never knew a nairaland lady could be this thoughtful..

cc: Toks2008 come and marry dz gurl,we finally found a wise one that makes use of her God given senses

LOL

missclasssy:
I don't want to call you daft, but you leave me no choice..... You Are Daft.
Stop ranting stupidly like a boy who have just lost his virginity.

You don't need to commit the fallacy of generalization just to drive home your _stupid assertion and insult every Nigerian woman in the process

Oh, because you married a brazilian girl, you think you have achieved something in life?
If that is what you think then you are nothing but a fool, did you hear me? I said you are nothing but a fool.

pls dnt be offended is like a Nigerian girl broke his hrt. bc i believ he is nt d only child in his household,even if he is,i believe d mum is a Nigerian if atall he dnt have sisters. calm down biko

AgapeCharis:
That you love someone doesn't mean you should take trash from the person. Though love is patient, it doesn't mean you should be blind to wrong doings and not be able to make personal decisions.

thank you so much. whn someone is not blind to wrong doings and makes personal decision dt fellow is loving with his or her brain

IamOdin:
how old are u??.u speak like a 102yr old.



u got something upstairs Bae!!

Lol. mumsy and popsy dey teach me how to relate with d opposite sex. using themslfs as a case study. am nt too young am nt too old

missclasssy:
You can't chose to quit "love" anytime you feel like.
Love is not something you have control over.
You can't just wake up one morning and say, " ok I am not going to love this guy again"
It doesn't work that way.

My God, what type of people do we have these days.
There is a difference between loving someone and being in a relationship with someone.
You are mixing the two up.

Mydear i made it clear bfore by saying marriage and dating is nt dsame. if someone is in a relationship which is nt marriage yet,you use your brain swty nt your hrt only. this is d mistake we girls make.it is not good

mulattoclaro:
swerve.

ok

missclasssy:
That's where you are getting it all wrong.

You can't love with your brains. You only love with your heart

It's obvious you have never experienced true love before, because if you have, you can never forget how it feels.

you mean you cant love wt ur brain so you will take shit from smeone in d name of lovewhn u love wt ur brain u know whn to quit at any point in time

Venom104:
So you dont have any Ex so far uh? since you are an expert in predicting how a relationship would end

yes i dnt hav an EX and i dnt think i will have

when will girls ever learnu enter into a relationshp wt ur head nt ur hrt. use ur brain ladies. you can always predict a rlationship dt will crash when you reason with your brain. dating and marriage is nt the same

HolyHero:
[color=#990099]Hello romance landers.
I'm having difficulties finding the ideal word to say to girls after we.... you know ... do the thing ... sometimes I ask Em if it was great but their reactions sometimes makes me think that's a very dumb thing to say... so please I need serious suggestions.
NB: if you don't have any good thing to say please STFU[/color]

HOLYHERO INDEED

DonRossy:
I have been in a serious relationship for close to 2years now and I have not had sex with my fiancee just because she is a virgin and she said I can't have canal knowledge of her until I take her to the alter and friends keep telling me not to marry her unless I have sex with her. Please is any wrong if I don't have sex with her untill we marry?...We are in love!!!!

you gossip alot. agreement btw u and ur lover is wht u shared wt ur friends. if u disvirgin her now tomorrow she strts flirting around u come bck and create a lamentation thread. since you will get married to her as you claimed y d rushfor dose dt are telln u she may nt b a virgin take her to hospital for virginity test.or better still u tell her to open her legs for u to check. Goodluck

breadandbutter:
who the Bleep are you

is dt d ansa to my question

TEMABOYgh:
what number did you see?

571