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SC31:check your email and reply or 07035247207 for better chat else i will create a trend for you and i...dont be embarrassed |
Yomieluv:'gzeejus' in igbira voice, 'glorified olosho', yeyebrities una own don finish, una let dis guy display is anger |
am in love with https://www.nairaland.com/sc31, keep forwarding until it gets to her |
i love https://www.nairaland.com/sc31
please keep passing until it gets to her... |
i love https://www.nairaland.com/sc31
please keep passing until it gets to her... |
SC31:that was similar question i asked my self...will you be my economics(for life, till death)? |
HUSBAND SCARCITY!!! This may not be the best time for me to write on this because of misinterpretations, but I can no longer resist the push. "Husband Scarcity" has become one of the challenges faced by many young girls today. If you go to prayer houses, majority of the intentions are prayer for a life partner. And this calls for concern. Casting our minds back to the time of our mothers and grandmothers, was there really much of a "Husband Scarcity" problem? Or, maybe there were more men than women then, or there was an adequate corresponding numbers of both genders. I don't think so. Maybe then, the women had values and were prepared to build a home and not park into a built home. Then, once a young man comes of age and can at least feed himself and his wife, he goes out in search of a wife and the woman really appreciates him and helps him to build a future. What am I really trying to say? We created what we now see as "Husband Scarcity" for ourselves. Today, the reverse is the case. Ask an average girl to define her dream husband; you get things like "he has to be tall, handsome, fair, and rich, own a house at least, and be presentable" and then she adds "God fearing" in order not to sound so worldly. Then, check the number of girls around you and the number of men that meet that standard, and you will see the problem. You hear girls say, "I cannot suffer in my father's house and then go and start suffering with a man." What a wonderful dream! What if from the beginning, you have everything you want and there is no suffering, and later in the marriage, the table turns around, then comes suffering? Will you run away? No one prays for suffering, but it is good to start small and end big, than start big and end small. The problem is that the description majority of girls give of their ideal man is virtually the same. When 50 girls want the same kind of man and the man that fits what they want is just 1 man, and the man can only pick one. Then, what becomes of 49 others? They simply start lamenting of "Husband Scarcity". Another irony of our time is that it is hard, due to the face of our economy to find a man who is of marriage age who possesses all those things these ladies want, legally (except those involved in Internet fraud); even the number of those in Internet fraud is not enough to match all those searching for already made husbands. If you look around, majority of the ladies of substance, of good value and virtue, who are ready to build a home with a man who has prospects, are married and not complaining of husband scarcity. The easiest way to find a husband now, is to change your view of who a husband is. A husband is that man God made and then saw that it may be hard for him to really actualize his purpose for making him, without a help mate and then made the woman and gave to him, and he felt complete and fulfilled MARRIAGE IS NOT A POVERTY ALLEVIATION PROGRAM. It is a mission of building the family of God here on earth. For those who see marriage as a way out of poverty, it is a way into bondage. Women are HOME BUILDERS, not HOME WARMERS... DON'T CONFUSE A MAN'S PATH WITH HIS DESTINY. Where he is today, may only be a route to where God has destined him to be tomorrow. Another truth is that YOU MAY BE THE ONLY FAST MEANS TO THAT HIS DESTINATION. Join in alleviating "husband scarcity". PICK UP THE RIGHT VALUES. I am not saying that you should pick anyone that comes your way and talks of marriage, not all men are husband materials. What I am saying is that you should stop setting your standard on material acquisitions or physical appearances. Look beyond the physical. WHAT MAKES A MAN WHO HE IS, IS NOT WHAT HE OWNS OR HOW HE LOOKS, IT IS WHAT HE IS MADE UP OF. And that which he is made of is, most times, not seen with the physical eyes, only its effects can be seen. Marriage is a permanent thing. Whatever is seen is temporal and that which is not seen is permanent. This post is worth sharing, let it go as far as it can. |
nma24:u b wife material that is why |
nma24:nma please can you marry me...i want an economist |
cooking me alone stew 2 days ago cost me #970 without transport and is going to finish today, then i began to wonder if its for the family how much will it cost...jesu gba wa lowo awon asebi cant imagine life in calaba yet i dont have transport to go back to my EKO where i belong, anyway i don take my decision, until the day i see mini minister of economics before i marry(am sure you grab) |
the writer is sick in the head for 1. calling waec to notice for vengeance 2. quoting nineteen ninety nonsense constitution 3. and for being religion fanatics(supporting 1 side) how many female muslim politician have gone to their gathering with hijab on? excuse me if u were to be in that hall writing this exam with the lady's hijab on, so you will be comfortable for every reason. now you are calling waec for vengeance over the invigilator's act, is it in the so called constitution to embezzle our ressources or is in the constitution for this hardship to come...abeg wake up your ideal and tell yourself the truth less i forget am from a muslim family so dont even judge what i said with religion... |
[quote author=SolexxBarry post=43168506]Family of apes [/quotewhy won't you appreciate his family, weather apes or chimpanzee their ugliness is far better than your handsomeness ...wailing wailers |
christinie:no worry, bet me after nine month she go become flavour baby mama3 |
decent dress, better of some bastard who claims beauty queen...roll on |
dollyjoy:says your dp not me |
dollyjoy:like your white face |
catlova:yes, for prove |
asadike:u should knw frm my words...reply my email then we talk boy that |
asadike:u should knw frm my words...reply my email then we talk boy that |
asadike:I wish you have an opportunity out there I personally will follow you word because is the truth...nevertheless heads on no doubt no retreat no surrender...its my 2 years in the north now pray for me too dou looking forward to return to calaba na motor I dey wait |
yemoxyl:wch evidence u need to confirm she is d 1? |
intbizoil:am doing my best to take of her |
[quote author=iceberylin post=41760449]You don't know when to use I'M and AM...you're here calling someone an illiterate [/quotosis that all you have to say, you want to add or solve my problem...suit yourself if you think you know better |
I have a girl friend have been dating since 3+years now, I love her and she does too because I confirmed that several time, she doesn't cheat just like ladies does always there when i need her but she told me a lot of things about herself back then which I later discovered were all lies and we talked over them all and moved on unless one thing. though i can cope with all of these lies but one thing, I have always advice her to get jamb form so that she can proceed her education but she would always calm me down and not worried about that not knowing that she only had her primary education before she left for Lagos and that was the end till today. we talked over it and we moved on but my first question is 'IF SHE REALLY LOVED ME WOULD SHE HAVE KEPT SUCH SECRET FROM ME?. since my young days I promise I won't let any woman commit a murder in my name in the cause of abortion, so definitely if a girl gets pregnant even if i'm not ready she will wait because she will then be the lucky woman. Now the said lady is carrying four month pregnancy for me and after have asked her to keep it, it has put me in the deepest dark of my life because if am to keep to my promise as I have always do this time then am going to get married to an illiterate. the second question is 'AM I SUPPOSE TO MARRY HER AFTER HER PERFECT DRAMA TO KEEP TO MY WORD?. have had good and bad advises from around but not satisfy. so I hope I could get piece of word that can help so I choose to share it here. |
reminiscing:why is it that when a guy meets a new girl, they always have hostel problem, bank problem( they can't withdraw) or exam/text issue. just like the one I met few days ago whom have not even asked for anything like relationship, she called on new year day that her father has not been pay'd and she's having practical in school on 5th jan if I can help her, you won't believe my reply "just wait b4 that day your father will get pay because even me self never receive my pay too" ladies why na... wetin money go cause una ehhhh |
bronzegoddess:because we are ready-made and we don't care |
Omotayor123:if only you are what you say even if no longer a virgin, maa mu e lò mò mummy mi |
Acidosis:Father forgive you for you don't know what you are saying...just imagine Jonathan is there for another tenure maybe you would have swear for him with passion. a true Nigeria should vote for whoever is going to treat us right either Igbo Yoruba or Hausa whether APC or CPC we are all Nigerians. u talk senseless jam 'like' if I make any sense jaree |
[quote author=AlienStar post=40628931]Op r u nt d one that took the snapshot[/quot ifeyinwa oma? |
nonsense and joblessness is just their problem |
catlova:video please? |
misspicy:when catlova never even propose to you...END TIME BABY NIYÈN SHA |



what dyu know. Oh! So u were expecting us to tell u all abt our life here ni?
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