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Mariinee:
1. It isn't wrong. Everyone does it at one point or the other. However, Erica regularly catches subs that weren't directly thrown at her and then she reacts to them because of the perceived slight on her person. Note the word, "Perceived."

2. It's not something that happened one time. The way she phrased "Anyone should feel lucky to have me in their live" or "Anyone that leaves me for so so doesn't have taste" is indicative of the belief that she's special/superior. A grandiose sense of self is a hallmark trait of narcissism.

3. Erica saying (not just thinking) her and Nengi are the hottest babes portrays the tendency of narcissists to seek out people with perceived higher status in society. Simply put, they always try to form relationships with the best people in a group.

4.Yes, someone corrected me that it was Nengi that said that. Still, it doesn't take away from my observation and submission.

When I said I wish I watched the show more, it was so I could give an in-depth analysis on all the housemates. I watch the vital aspects of the show; I don't make my observations from the updates here.

I assume the reason you haven't seen the traits is because you don't know what to look out for. Many people don't know about covert narcissism, so that's fine.

Mariinee:
Gods, you are so smart. You described everything perfectly. Yes, the reason why she's subtle about it is because her narcissism is covert.
I don't know if you know about covert narcissism but Erica exhibits all the traits. She appears to be humble, but she's sensitive to personal remarks about her person. She doesn't understand why Laycon doesn't want her friendship because she believes he should be glad to have her in his life one way or another.

Lol, I can write a whole epistle on everything she's done that points to covert narcissism. Saying she and Nengi are the hottest babes in the house is a major sign. She wanted to attach to Nengi because she feels she's the only babe in the house who can compare or compete with her. So, she wanted them to be friends to avoid possible competition. So many things. Oh, another thing. Remember the fight with Lucy? She said, "Is it because I'm fine and always smiling?" or something similar. Can't remember the exact words. All these are signs.

and some said BBN and everything that comes with it isn't educational or informative. Thank you for this, I am definitely jotting things down

Chibabe005:
hmmmm...you've a point tho..Erica's "innocent smiles"is doing a pretty good job in masking her true personality.

I think Erica's narcissism is not the aggressive type, but comes in a subtle way..

but one thing I can say for sure is she's damn too emotionally manipulative..she loves her ego being fed,and being fawned and adulated over..

see what she did with laycon, remove laycon's fvck up,..Erica led this boy on, with her silly talk of mentally attractiveness..after the whole PDA with Kidd,she goes behind to give laycon hopes, just to give herself the thoughts of being too attractive and irresistible..
You don't like this guy, why not tell him straight up?
why giving him the hope of there might be chance for you guys to be?

One thing narcists do to their victims is emotional torture, they lead them on and on and watch them gaslight themselves.

thank God for other housemates and cameras, laycon might have pulled a kemen on Erica since,and Erica would've sat and watched like a victim.

Is it her self egoism? the words she speaks gives her out a lot.. see her telling Nengi they're the two hottest girls In the House.

she told Tolani, that any guy that leaves her, doesn't have taste..lol.

where I knew something is wrong with that girl was when she told Kidd, that she wants a guy that's not everywhere,the one that she'd be able to brag about that she got,the guy other girls in the house couldn't get..

that as he's,wathoni and Kaisha could even get him!!! that was really condescending of her to say.

so many things are off with that Erica..someone said she's a people pleaser....Erica will only please persons, just to feel among or get something from some set of persons.

Erica's saving grace is just her smile, and her homely looks, inside of her is totally opposite.

she unlocks new parts of her each day.

Mariinee:
I mean, if you people wanna read, I'll write about narcissism on here and give examples of how Erica is exhibiting narcissistic traits. If not, please stop hassling me.

majamajic:
Then have mercy on weed smokers in the that house like Neo and laycon , and possible cigarettes smokers like Lucy , Vee , nengi and Erica

elegantslayer:
My dear, I can't stay for 3 days without eating swallow and almost all my friends can attest to this..

semid4lyfe:
Same question my wife asked today....

I'd run mad without swallow for one week. The highest I think I have stayed without eating swallow was eight days, Singapore did me in with their coloured and sweetened food. I had to purge my stomach to enjoy good vegetable soup immediately I came home.


So I ask again, how do these housemates do it? I may take a cue from them .

Allnacruise:
Ozo/Nengi/Erica/Kidwaya Stans

question 1;

If to say na your favourite get the largest fan base, will you blame it on bandwagon effect


Question 2;

If people supporting laycon for being deficient in looks are called "bandwagoner"

What will you call people supporting your favourite because of their good looks


PS: Content is relative

Whatever each and every one deem as content from their favourite is content....

Your opinion doesn't count

Lhimeet:
I don't care what Twitter peeps thinks

Roasting boli is respectable and legit. Remind me what Nengi does again?

InSanety:
I dey report wetin Ozo talk and wetin Nengi talk.

If you no like am, watch your own report wetin you wan report. I no owe you update

Beorn1:
Nengi is making sense in this conversation. Ozo shouldn't have gotten mad over the dare stuff. That's quiet immature. I support Nengi on this.

homesteady:
I'm with Nengi on this..

Next time that they ask him for his spec, he will not specifically mention someone's name.

doziefrank07:
Are you sure?
I tuned in to when she was saying all these things and she didn't mention anybody's name only for her to say she went to meet the person on Sunday to ask if they are cool..and the person said yes

doziefrank07:
Series of events led to Wathoni and Nengi drifting apart
1. On Saturday Wathoni wanted to take pictures, she asked Nengi Tbaj to snap her.. Nengi Tbaj refused probably because she was not yet ready for the party
2. Nengi Tbaj prepared rice and Wathoni asked if she could have some..wathoni asked what she intend to eat the rice with, Nengi Tbaj said she will use the vegetable Triky tee gave her.bla bla bla bla..Wathoni sha did not eat the rice because of the way Nengi Tbaj responded to her
3. Wathoni went to meet Prince and Nengi Tbaj while they were having a conversation..she felt she was disturbing,she then asked Prince if she should excuse them or she should stay... Nengi Tbaj old her that she should have asked her first before coming...Wathoni apologised and left...
Girls matter sha.. oga Brighto get time

Threebear:
It wasn't .

Yes , they discussed it but Ike wasn't aware she went ahead to purchase it reason she said and I quote " Ike will kill me "

Let's wait till big brother reveals it to the whole house and we will see how Ike reacts.

hazzard:
so i'm seeing mercy trending on twitter, i just knew she must've committed again and i couldn't be wrong
please let us remove sentiments..How do you lie to your partner into giving you all his money so you could purchase a movie and also enjoy the spa and because of the trust and love he has got for you he obliged only for her to get to the diary room to purchase immunity??
like seriously
you couldn't just tell him the truth and see if he really would give you...This is what we call betrayal..you've verbally insulted him,emotionally insulted him, mocked him, and you just betrayed him....all he ever did was to think he fell in love with you and some people are shouting she's smart, na street she do am....i just hope she hasn't shot herself on the foot with this action because if eventually ike finds out and get mad at her..know that she has lost that final.....and this is who they are comparing tacha with...
tacha is rude and doesn't know how to talk sometimes, yes we know but she would never betray a friend not to talk of someone she claims to love..
and if you think ike was aware before she bought the immunity ...go on the streets of twitter and see for yourself...
people are really disappointed..that was really a bad move.

awawa:
From what I've seen so far,there are many factors not taken into consideration by many fans of Tacha. When rooting for a housemate one should first understand the Competition and then honestly ascertain the chances of that same housemate.

For Starters this year's edition is very unique because most viewers are drawn most to those Housemates that are live reflections of they the viewers. So it would be safe to say that most Tacha fans are either loud,defensive,unrefined,uncouth women or men who are simply drawn to women with huge behinds. Mercy's fans on the other hand tend to be women admiring her fashion sense or women who enjoy exclusive relationships or women who are subliminally domineering and respectful at the same time. These two women are only similar in the sense that they previously or before the show dabbled in some form of prostitution. I am one of those who isn't bothered with Tacha's occupation because Prostitution is a widespread thing in a poor country like Nigeria,Instagram is literally brimming with Online whores who chose to be whores after being enabled by NIGERIAN MEN . What sells more on the BBN show is the likeability level of a person and that's where Mercy keeps winning. With the phone smashing incident, the issue with Seyi,fighting with Omashola and fraud and then cussing out Ike,Mercy has consistently shown remorse and a willingness to make amends,most times within 24 hours of the misunderstandings. Tacha on the other hand seems to be particularly abrasive,defensive,uncouth and unrepentant,not to mention
being consistently bellicose,a braggart with a false condescending attitude and little intelligence. This is worsened by the fact that she still doesn't understand the game despite obviously watching past seasons and the fact that she has some marketable skills like Sewing and Cooking which she could have leveraged on like Miyonse,Uriel and Rico Swavey. She put a target on her back by constantly antagonising the housemates and causing her almost constant weekly nominations. Mercy has done a good job of hiding the fact that she's a major baller outside the house (A fact obviously known by only Venita and Omashola) yet she acts like her life depends on the 60m because she's not proud of some things she's done in the past and wants to better her life( Finishing her factory in addition to distributing diesel which she told Ike about). And she's obviously into other stuff that's not just Prostitution,even Beverly Osu and Venita in her prime didn't Rock the type of Clothes Mercy seems to hardly ever repeat, it's possible she may be a drug mule or even a money laundering Channel because I don't understand the type of big names I've seen supporting her. I feel angry with Tacha for not understanding that she has a great chance to change her life,make good friends and Connections in the house,and endear herself to possible future benefactors and opportunities. Her lifestyle is not the problem,her attitude is. On a very good day this show would have been won hands down by Mike if not for the fear of him taking off back to the UK with the money or Frodd as he embodies the ultimate Nollywood underdog story,but the idea of a female winner has a very wide sentimental appeal. Tacha also wrongly tried to pull a Ceecee forgetting that she lacks the background or exposure of Ceecee,forgetting also that Ceecee's demons were only usually triggered by Tobi or Alex,Forgetting that Ceecee never bragged about her status as a Company Secretary,a lekki rich kid or the daughter of a big man or spoke of other housemates condescendingly. It was either Ceecee had beef with you or not.Ceecee wouldn't easily be involved in silly arguments with Mike,Frodd,Joe or Seyi,yet Ceecee almost got assaulted at the airport after the show and spent a lot of time apologising for her behaviour and rebranding herself which costs a diligent and expensive PR team. Tacha's rudeness extended to Ebuka,she is the first housemate in BBN/BBA history to openly state that she will last in the house till day 99,bringing the credibility of the show into question. To make things worse,for the first time in BBN history her fans were the first to troll people outside the house,From Corporate Brands like Munchit and Darling to Ebuka and Seyi Law. Did team lashes go that far last year? Tacha not winning is more about driving a point for many people which is that uncouth and mannerless behaviour, Particularly among women should not be rewarded and people in the public eye which such behaviour shouldn't be idolized as gullible young men and women will surely imitate what they see on TV. That's why the government should critically look at the show and temporarily give it a rest or monitor the type of housemates selected if not what we'll see next year might be 'Big brother Naija 2020: Gbe body E!' with even more toxic and gutter characters hand-picked from the corners of Ojuelegba bridge to the ghettos of diobu down to the gutters of Available featuring Assassins,Yahoo plus Maestros and Trending Corporate whores. I sure hope anyone but Tacha wins,getting endorsements like Ceecee may be more difficult,but she can still follow a nice precedent set by Teddy A outside the house: She already has more than 500k followers on Instagram. A determined Crowd funding drive organized by her page handler(who is quite competent to be honest) aimed at raising just 1k each from at least 60,000 of those Instagram followers would result in the same 60 million naira,moreso now when her name is on a lot of lips for good or bad reasons.

Haviza:
Kylie Jenner doesn't tell men that if they want to straff her they should make sure they have money. Tacha has said this before in her videos. She has even said that if men want to have sex with her that they should say it and stop going through the route of relationships and just approach her and tell her to her face, and if she's game then she'll have sex. Tacha even bragged to Mike about sleeping with men and getting money in return.

Selling items as a front for the real prostitution business is what most Instagram prostitutes do these days. If you don't know this then you've been sleeping under a rock. That's why a lot of Instagram prostitutes follow Tacha on Instagram and comment on her page.

Tacha is known in PH. Countlesss PH boys have slept with her for money, sometimes even for weed. The word has been out on the street even before she came on the show. Denying this just shows your level of ignorance and is an indication that you know nothing about the person you support.

Hasn't Tacha been selling her wears in the house? What do you think she did the day she celebrated her twin's birthday and dressed in an outfit that revealed her full unclothedness? What do you think she did all the times she's exposed her bare breasts? Which decent lady in the house has done all this? The only person that has matched Tacha is such degrading dressing is Mercy and we all know she is also a prostitute.

Prostitutes have sex in exchange for money. Why would Tacha have sex in the house when money isn't available to any of the male housemates? Having a Love Machine/vibrator or having a strong desire for sex isn't what prostitution is. Many prostitutes don't even like sex, they just do it for the money. It's very possible Tacha belongs in this category.

And let's just ignore all the talk about prostitution for a minute. Is there anything emulative about the sorts of videos Tacha posts online ? Even if she's just showing her bare breasts and shaking her ass for attention, is this behavior something that should be supported and defended? Would you do the same? Would you train your daughters to do the same? The picture on your profile has you fully clothed, why aren't your baring your breasts for all to see like the woman you confidently support? Is showcasing your nudity while smoking weed and allowing a man's hands to caress your breasts, the proper way to gain attention online?

And you seem to be ignoring the effects of this sort of behavior on the younger generation. Whether Tacha is doing all this nonsense for popularity or for her prostitution business, she's influencing thousands of girls into seeing such behavior as normal and appropriate. Many girls already see her as a model and they are imbibing her actions. And by supporting this degenerate, you are encouraging this culture and heaving this lifestyle unto the next generation of women.

Shame on you!!

livelymatilda:
Go and sit down... It is not yet your turn.

livelymatilda:
Always typing trash..

moufan:
what a load of absolute nonsense and pure gibberish

Geezeem:
Mike is a bad boy

You dont wear that much tattoo, smoke cigar

And sing alleluya

He is living a 'controlled' life in that house

The good thing is, he has fans that will keep

Him till the end

We just need to keep Thelma and Kimmy also

And see how far it goes

ibkayee:
Issorite