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Sports / Re: Nigeria Vs Angola: AFCON 2023 Quarter Finals. (1 - 0) On 2nd February 2024 by vuxelle: 6:36pm On Feb 02 |
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Family / Re: Wife Travelling Without Consent ? by vuxelle: 7:29pm On Dec 05, 2023 |
Mayorwer:You may not be completely right Why will she even suggest that the brother should come, do you think his brother can even be with her everywhere she goes !!!. Lastly do you read where the husband said that, he doesnt know the person, and the woman did not bother to even mention who the person was to the man 1 Like |
Family / Re: Wife Travelling Without Consent ? by vuxelle: 7:14pm On Dec 05, 2023 |
uuzba:hungry man |
Family / Re: This 35 Year-old Lady Needs Your Advice As She Plans To Get Married by vuxelle: 6:14pm On Jun 02, 2023 |
Fineman2:The red flag I see the 35 years |
Family / Re: Wife vs Husband : Family vs Career. Help Needed please by vuxelle: 3:58pm On Mar 16, 2023 |
Thank you all for your response, it is shocking though that the post was completely misunderstood by most people. Could not divulge too many info, but from permission, I had to make this addition 1. Both are in Europe. They became acquainted with the neighbours just 4 months ago, although it appears they have known for ages. 2. The husband is an expatriate who works in another European country and lost his very good job just 7 months ago. He got a new contract that starts in September in the same country as his family. (He lost his job largely because he refused to be part of the weekend overtime shift because he always has to be home to his family by the weekend). He is not able to travel because he can not renew his paper. (he is not in the common travel area). The husband usually travels home every weekend before this. 3. The family agreed for the woman to start the study, and the husband paid for the study himself ( about 7,000 euros). 4. Both partners were aware of the travelling as part of the course when she enrolled last year. The arrangement was that the husband will mind the children when the time comes. But the husband's situation changed before the sign-up date for the course, discussions started between husband and wife on the best alternative, however, the madam (wife) went ahead to sign up without telling the husband. 4. The 5 days is part of the course requirement, it can be done next semester, worse case, by January next year. 5 No other deep issue as some of you are insinuating. 6. I only came here just to evaluate the thoughts of their fellow citizens of the couple on general marital issues. 7. I showed this discussion to the couples, they even laughed at some of the comments. 8. These kinds of stories are very very common. But your contributions are all appreciated. 5 Likes |
Family / Clarification On The Post Wife Vs Husband : Family Vs Career. Help Needed Please by vuxelle: 3:58pm On Mar 16, 2023 |
previous post https://www.nairaland.com/7611343/wife-vs-husband-family-vs/3#121790526 Thank you all for your response, it is shocking though that the post was completely misunderstood by most people. Could not divulge too many info, but from permission, I had to make this addition 1. Both are in Europe. They became acquainted with the neighbours just 4 months ago, although it appears they have known for ages. 2. The husband is an expatriate who works in another European country and lost his very good job just 7 months ago. He got a new contract that starts in September in the same country as his family. (He lost his job largely because he refused to be part of the weekend overtime shift because he always has to be home to his family by the weekend). He is not able to travel because he can not renew his paper. (he is not in the common travel area). The husband usually travels home every weekend before this. 3. The family agreed for the woman to start the study, and the husband paid for the study himself ( about 7,000 euros). 4. Both partners were aware of the travelling as part of the course when she enrolled last year. The arrangement was that the husband will mind the children when the time comes. But the husband's situation changed before the sign-up date for the course, discussions started between husband and wife on the best alternative, however, the madam (wife) went ahead to sign up without telling the husband. 4. The 5 days is part of the course requirement, it can be done next semester, worse case, by January next year. 5 No other deep issue as some of you are insinuating. 6. I only came here just to evaluate the thoughts of their fellow citizens of the couple on general marital issues. 7. I showed this discussion to the couples, they even laughed at some of the comments. 8. These kinds of stories are very very common. But your contributions are all appreciated. |
Family / Re: Wife vs Husband : Family vs Career. Help Needed please by vuxelle: 3:47pm On Mar 16, 2023 |
Socratiz:Waooo, at least some read the post. |
Family / Re: Wife vs Husband : Family vs Career. Help Needed please by vuxelle: 3:44pm On Mar 16, 2023 |
baralatie:, please read again |
Family / Re: Wife vs Husband : Family vs Career. Help Needed please by vuxelle: 3:43pm On Mar 16, 2023 |
baralatie:hmmmm, better to comment based on the info available 1. 4-7 means after the 4th day, you can leave on the 5th day if you wish 2. the cost of this trip paid was paid as part of the school fees. Participants gets this fund back because the local council subsidizes the fee for only those who paid for the course during the enrolement. 1 Like |
Family / Re: Wife vs Husband : Family vs Career. Help Needed please by vuxelle: 3:36pm On Mar 16, 2023 |
ecolime:probably because you did not read it 1 Like |
Family / Re: Wife vs Husband : Family vs Career. Help Needed please by vuxelle: 3:31pm On Mar 16, 2023 |
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European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) / Re: Real Madrid vs Liverpool UCL (1 - 0) On 15th March 2023 by vuxelle: 12:31am On Mar 16, 2023 |
Buddha3:good talk |
Family / Re: Wife vs Husband : Family vs Career. Help Needed please by vuxelle: 4:33am On Mar 15, 2023 |
sisisioge:easy |
Family / Wife vs Husband : Family vs Career. Help Needed please by vuxelle: 10:59pm On Mar 14, 2023 |
Hello all, I need to bring this to this section for better balanced contribution, I have also updated some earlier information due to better information The husband of a lady is against his wife attending a 4-7 days school course from Germany to the Netherlands. Participants can leave on the 5th day if they want, participants will also get 800 euros as participating fee. The course starts in 2 months' time, madam already signed up without her husband’s knowledge, and just recently told her husband about the signing up (They have been discussing the issue of whether to go or not and the best options). Her husband is against this and told the woman to shift the course to next year because her husband can not travel to be with the children due to circumstances that can not be resolved now. The kids are between (7-12 years). Although the husband will be able to travel later in the year, however, madam will have none of it at all, because according to her, it means her graduation will also be shifted to the next academic session/next year, this, she will never ever accept. So no negotiation about it. Although the discussion has been going on between both, about the best option, madam suddenly told the man she has resolved to go and nothing can stop her. The husband is in shock, it appears madam has been playing and acting along as if she was genuinely looking for other solutions. Moreover, the husband noted that madam is no longer willing to discuss the issue with the man, as the woman has become angry/rude/verbally abusive. ( the husband acknowledges that this behaviour is not new, as anytime issues like this come up, the woman always throws up this defence mechanism- gets angry, stops talking to the man or becomes abusive/ talks rudely to the man. ) Naturally, the husband is a cool guy though, madam is as stubborn as anything and always has her way on all issues. The man is genuinely afraid that the children might be exposed to abuse and other things, moreover, he feels the last child is too young to be left alone According to the man, the woman is a good person, but very very stubborn. Everything has to be her way. To the extent that her family has near zero influence on her, so there is nothing he can do in that respect, hence he usually pays heavily for counseling They are both doing their best for the family (both of them confirmed this in separate meetings with them). What is your take on this, please? 2 Likes |
Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by vuxelle: 3:02pm On Mar 14, 2023 |
luminouz:hmmmmm deep 1 Like |
Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by vuxelle: 3:00pm On Mar 14, 2023 |
Mentholated:It is a school trip. 1 Like |
Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by vuxelle: 4:58am On Mar 14, 2023 |
luminouz:Thank you so much for your thoughts 2 Likes |
Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by vuxelle: 12:12am On Mar 14, 2023 |
luminouz:He also in europe. stock in another country. This is a very common issue with guys here. 2 Likes |
Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by vuxelle: 11:09pm On Mar 13, 2023 |
Hello all, please I need your genuine input. There is this situation. A lady with three kids, between 8 and 13 years for a 5 days course from Germany to the Netherlands. She wants to leave the kids with her neighbours, but her husband is against this and told the woman to shift the course to next year because her husband can not travel to be with the children due to paperwork. The paper will be resolved later in the year. The woman refused vehemently because, without the course, it means her graduation will also be shifted to the next year. All this while discussion has been going on between both, about the best option, but madam suddenly told the man she has resolved to go and nothing can stop her. The husband is in shock, it appears madam has been playing and acting along as if she was genuinely looking for other solutions. Naturally, the husband is a cool guy though, madam is as stubborn as anything and always has her way on all issues. The man is genuinely afraid that the children might be exposed to abuse and other things, moreover, he feels the last child is too young to be left alone. 2 Likes |
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