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BlindAngel:
Good afternoon Nairalanders, my wife gave birth last week which was Saturday July 13th, that day was also my birthday, she gave birth through CS, this is our first child, and it's a boy.


This week Saturday is our baby's naming ceremony but my wife is insisting that her pastor must be the one officiate the naming the child, we've been disagreeing over this for some couple of days now,

she has called me all sorts of names, insulted me that I'm a very wicked man that I have no conscience, that after she pain and tearing she went through and still going through, I can't make this as a sacrifice for her, that I choose my family over her. She said so because my family also insist too that the naming must be done by our pastor.

But she's keying on the fact that she won't agree for the naming to be done in my church that it must be done by her pastor, she has cried and insulted me regarding this. Yesterday when we were arguing about this same particular issue she starting crying endlessly and calling me a wicked man.

I have finally agreed for her to use her pastor to do the naming, although I don't know her pastor and haven't seen him before, but I only agreed because of the CS operation she did while giving birth, her endless crying might affect her, if not there's absolutely no way possible I'd have agreed.

I must say that she doesn't know the repercussions of what sha has done by challenging my authority and always wanting to have her way with tears all the time. But time sha tell, I'm in so much rage right now, and I'm trying my possible best to control myself and not to loose my anger over this.

I'm not married but I'm reasonable so I'll just tell you to talk to her.

Wait hold up...

First of all do DNA test and when it confirms it's your child, then burn the DNA test results


Then talk to her, and let her know that she hurt you by all the name calling she did. I mean she's ur wife and if u want to spend the rest of ur life with her, u have a duty to forgive her for this and for other things she will do.

When I see two old people, I imagine how many times they must have forgiven each other and swallowed their pride or let go of their ego because of the other.

Buh let her know that trying to hurt u by words and abuses just to have her way is one of the characteristics of a narcissist and if you will or will not put up with it

Exclusive101:
See tears of agony above from obidient n ipob alike

All those thing for just 16 likes 😂 😂

LegendHero:
These guys have their conscience intact.

The got fed up when Otti announced 15k naira for the workers in the state. Is it for garri or eba.

We are protesting this injustice on August 1st in Abia. We will demolish everything built by this one chance governor Otti.

😂 😂 😂

I like the way Y'all fight for Abia people

opamoses1:
Wonderful warning message from Joe.

Why are the Igbos in nairaland angry that Joe warned them not to protest. Isn't that what you guys are also saying on nairaland that you will not protest.

Even though majority of those holding spaces on twitter about how they will protest are majorly igbos too.

Oga shut up...

Raf4:
Only if you're ready to offer your bl0000d to god of iron. Ogun is waiting for you nuisances in Lagos this time around.

Dey play 😂😂😁😁

E good as e run sef...


Cause una no sabi close leg 😂

Lagos will hear it again

Na em b President now....


What has this to do with toughness

When him sef marry ?

Infolenka:
Well according to her she likes shorter men so its possible she can date me.

She has no choice... Short men is all she sees

Our government will pay the money..

EmiDon11:
shey I tell u say i been no know am
They guy wey tell me don use am

😂 😂 😂

Then why is it not in front page?

yoruboid:
The same Fulani that have sacked villages in your five plots

This just happened today

https://saharareporters.com/2024/07/08/breaking-unknown-gunmen-kill-three-vigilantes-teenager-imo-community

Is this how you are going to fight them and protect ur land?

Why just fornication ?

What of stealing

And lies

And backstabbing, betrayal

opamoses1:
The same yoruboid (igala) that enslaved some people east of the Niger river. Dey play 😂

😂 😂 😂


U are really hurt

Sanwo-Olu is one of the best governors in Nigeria 🇳🇬.

Coming from someone who no send em papa

Ever8090:
I think he is right, I did a school project in one of those community, "Owelle and Inoma, I hope I got those spelling right...there local government headquarters is in a town called Nzam...they are actually Igala but they do claim Igbo and I used to laugh them for that how I noticed that they are originally Igala is because, their older men and women answers Igala native names, but the younger ones answers Igbo names and speaks Igbo fluently.
They have that chronic Igala tongue.

During raining season, you can't access those villages by road, they use boat to Onitsha, and you can use boat and get to a town in Delta state across the river Niger and find your way to Asaba.

I wish those people are allowed to live their peaceful life the way they are, they are very happy and healthy, they lack nothing and are far better off tjan those living in developed towns...I never locked my door even at night,.the day they had a festival and some guys came fron Asaba and mixed up them, that was the night o lost my android phone the suspect was an Igala boy who was an idiotic migrant.
When the news got to the ears of the igwe, to my suprise they did a town cry and announced that that phone should be returned because it belongs to a stranger.....but it was never returned anyway...

they farm yam, pepper, rice and they have a lot of ogbono trees....they have soo much fish, and those people are in fact the most hospitable people after the people of benue state where I come from .
They are soo nice that after my project ended, I felt like not leaving the village.

They have farming camps far away from their settlements, life in those camps is something if you experience you will never want to leave the place.

Seriously, if I get money, I am going back to that place to visit some friends I made among them

I have never seen such hospitality in my life before, the day I left the village, I was shedding tears as old as I am😁

When I got back to port Harcourt, it took me time before I stopped wishing that I shouldn't have left the place.

Unfortunately, the contractor I worked for ate my money to the tune of 1,167,400...... Over a million that was all I worked for ...

I must visit that place again and this time I pray God bless me financially so that I can show a lot of people love in that town, may God bless them and keep them safe ...

You people are the case of the problem...


Thy said they are Igbo and you are laughing at them telling them they are Igala...


Seems u like to decide for people what they are ?

#FREE Z

Ngwa that prides theirselves as the populous Igbo dialect... The whine

After pounding pepper with mortar and pestle...

Use the pestle to chook inside. Then turn around and let her put the other end into ur ass...

Then hold naked wire


You will feel the pleasure electrifying

Tjra:
If a riffraff like Nnamdi Kalu can have every Mondays in the South East declared as public holiday for him, then a legend like Soyinka deserves a special day in his honour.

Don't be sentimental bro

On that day, sit in ur own house


Don't come and start bothering everyone with ur useless holiday

Remman:
Son, you're full of imaginations. You'd do well in nollywood.

All in the Hollywood...

I've always known iver to b a boneless not a dragon buh ops imagination is strong...

He thinks he's a myth