123JohnF:

Agree. Waj, you tell too much.

Ugosample:


let me give you a piece of advice My man

Talk less of your plans here, And do what you believe is best for your family

Discussing too much here may expose you
.Just do what you feel is best, as the man of the house, and be ready to take whatever comes out of it

But in all things, be witty and careful

cheers

Mizwisdom:


Is it only you they're targeting or what? you're making money here but your family is kept elsewhere. I just hope your hands are clean, not that you'll cause trouble for other people here while making money, knowing that you have nothing to lose if kasala burst

walexies:
I get all you guys point. The main essence of the thread is to share & proffer advise on tourist visa, and not to support the illegality in achieving it.

However, we need to be cautious of how we address our holy truth. Say the truth but don't be abusive and disrespectful; even though you feel you're Methuselah and far older than all of us here, do know that even that kid next to you deserves some respect.

Life is funny, since you're not trying to "Japa" like some school of thought would say; you may go for an interview, it may leads to how internet savvy you are and you may wan show say you dey nairaland, this may make the interviewer more interested and ask after your username on nairaland, and the hiring manager would be one of us here; and they would know you lack communication skill, compassion, inability to work with teams and in a team as you're always abusive, hot tempered. You barely know the personality behind that name you're seeing on nairaland, it may be your bridge later.

What I'm saying is that "don't use people to get point", talk to them politely and still make your point. Let them know their wrong but don't talk to them as if you dey garri them. Everyone deserves some respect, even your housemaid.

And those that post for advise, acknowledge your wrong like Wajt did. Truth is always bitter.

Let us all stop attacking personality, it is a forum.

Beautyaddy:


Liar!!!

Anybody can write anything(non-verifiable) on a faceless forum.

OmoBendel24:


Would be nice if you stop jumping into comments without clear understanding in periods marked with heated arguments please. He should have followed the path while they were in Nigeria, he said he didn't because of the exigencies that were on ground at the time.

The person affected understands these things you are all tearing your pants in defence of him for, way more than ye all. I actually give it to him to a large extent already, he's smart, knowledgeable (coming out in bits) and likely laughing at you all, worst still making jest.

But he's plain manipulative (likely a badass liar too) and full of schemings! I actually don't believe he isn't being economical with the truth to this house too, not for a second.

Reine22:
If this has been your plight, what happened to exploring the Canada option which is legal? Your wife could have moved to Canada legally with the children rather than abusing your visa. You are embarking on a fraudulent path (your POE statement confirms this). Don’t act all righteous when you are doing the wrong thing. Anyway, your choices will catch up with you

flourishing247:


Sir ,excuse me I don't know why you tagged me. You LIED to keep them there and you are still LYING. I pray everything works out for you. If you are planning the divorce and marry citizen stuff. Please kindly note you or your wife will be sleeping with the citizen till papers are through. I greet you!!!

OmoBendel24:


Genuinely had wanted to avoid this your matter by all means possible, but it seems you wouldn't allow such, but I will try still. Definitely not without asking you this question in capitals and bolds "ALL YOU SAID ABOVE SIR, DOES THAT EQUATE TO HAVING MARITAL ISSUES?"

You can go ahead and come up with more justification, ba wahala! PERFECTIONISTS indeed....

Meanwhile, there's a lesson here methinks for our previous discussion on DROPBOX issues here on this thread for those of us that participated in that discussion lately.

Chips101:


You are a bad person. You are a liar, selfish and the same as every politician you curse out. Because, when presented with choices you and the corrupt politician do the exact same thing... say Fxxk you to everyone else and take care of only yourself. You will not flourish and I hope you and your family get deported.

oluayebenz:


For real......

Truth is the bitter truth thou and that's the only way she can adjust her stay. You think the woman will stay idle and be watching her kids not going to school, doing nothing for years......

Is it a very huge mistake to send kids and their mother abroad to stay illegally.
The only option is to come back home jejely

Reine22:

So they were just going to stay there as illegals? How were they going to convert to permanent residency? They were going to hide forever or what? Your family’s record is clear in their system. Expect a tough POE experience. This is why they refuse indiscriminately now.