₦airaland Forum

Jackeeh:
hmmmmmmm reading through comments uploaded before mine I can't help but wonder: everyone now feel cheating is cool. Men are polygamous in nature, condoms might be used for other reasons( like fetching water), quit snooping around,we are mortals, it must have been used by his friend, don't get him angry when confronting him etc. Why can't men and women strive to be faithful to their partners and quit justifying their evil acts? Being faithful is not impossible. it may be difficult but its attainable. And should you slip and cheat, please don't be smart about it. being defensive and cooking up reasons for cheating ain't cool. when you cheat on your partner, you destroy him or her. if you are caught and instead of being sorry, u feel on top of the world, you reduce your partner to nothing. cheating isn't cool in anyway. be with a partner who makes ur heart beat fast each time u set eyes on him or her. don't settle for less, or money, sex, good looks etc

SaucyDolph:
I got a text on thursday (28th January) to come for a chat on friday (29th January) at UBA head office, Marina, Lagos. On getting there, our documents were checked. Original documents, waec result must be original and not print-out or result from school. Also he said they are only recruiting for customer service and the salary is 70,000 and its contract for 2years. Depending on your performance, you'll be made a staff. After checking our documents, we submitted phocopies of our document. and then we were called one by one for a chat. QUESTIONS: tell me about yourself, asked me questions from my cv and what customer service is all about. Some people were asked different questions.

We did PSYCHOMETRIC test (didn't see the result) after which we did the test. Mine was successful. Easy arithmetic and comprehension questions. No current affair. 50 questions in 60minutes. After the test, he said we'll be contacted. Got there before 9, left there past 4.

whirlwind7:
It is, indeed. No need to guess.
You can see it in the trade mark turbans worn by the bride, and the woman taking a snapshot at the background.

That the couple summoned up the guts and kissed in public is a HUGE leap!
Awww.....such romance

chidyhels:

Are we still on this
Distance won't allow me

Skillfullulu:
stop this lie pls. Show em out.

Skillfullulu:
Who wouldn't wanna marry a banker?
This lady sef na Afin... I go love o
I wish u guys API married life

kika23:
Atleast you like me....

kika23:
Chocolates not bad.....but I want a canon camera badly

smallpeepee:
Hahaha bro stop jonzin, dat babe aint real, 1.5million, I gat connection in, total, nnpc, shell, if I hear! Dose dat got connections dont make noise. infact u dnt see them on nairaland, tins r fix up 4 them, they dnt disturb deirsef, aunty ko, uncle ni. U go beg taya she won't mail u she(he) is jux messin Ùp wit ur brain. U tink say u don catch maga abi hehehehehe..

btasha:
Well it's been a while since I've been in Nigeria, to what I plan to do is visit both Lagos and Abuja during summer for a week or two each then decide, although Abuja is much cheaper for me. I have a house there my aunt lives there so I can always go over to her for anything tbh, but in Lagos the house I have there is too far so I'd need to rent a place on the island which is about 1.5 million and I've been told it's not a good look for a single young lady to live alone in a rented apartment.

btasha:
Have accommodation in both places, in abuja garki ii and lagos on the mainland some where not sure of the name its my Aunty's house. But the thing she doesn't want me to go abuja simply because of boko haram

guilian:
Pls has anybody in Oshodi/Isolo LGA gone for d screening and is d INEC office actually located inside d LGA sec.? Kindly brief me. Thanks

btasha:
sorry one last question, where do you think is better to relocate to Abuja or Lagos?

btasha:
Thank you so much for your advise i really appreciate it. yes i will do my masters before relocating. i will try my best in getting a job to get experience before coming down. My aunty works for Total in Abuja so she has connection in the oil and gas industry, although she offered to help but i also want to have another option. Also a family friend offered to help with a job in CBN but i don't know much about these industries and how they operate in Nigeria. Working at CBN is it classified as a good job?

vfactor:
the truth is, you never really loved her. I'll prove it. Give me 5 qualities/personality traits that makes u lover ur gf. I'm sure u'll struggle to find 3.

What u felt was infatuation, it's a natural thing, even with people who fall in love and get married. It's like a chain that leads only to one thing - sex!

At first u can't wait to see her, then seeing is not enough, u want to hold hands. Thereafter u want to hug, frm hug u want to kiss. Kissing alone becomes not enough, u want to touch intimate body parts. After everything else it leeds sex. Sex was good. U did a few more times, but then it starts to wean. Gradually, u re no longer as passionate as before. Eventually u begin to notice her fault which has always been there. U quarrel more often. After a while u breakup. On to the next girl.

Like i mentioned early, infatuation happens even between married people who are in love. But love is more permanent. Love and companionship will hold u both, wen infatuation is gone. If u had love her for a particular behaviour or hers, that behaviour wouldnt change over night. U'd still love her even now.


My advice: look for what u love abt ur girlfriend. Focus more on making her ur friend and companion, other than a sex mate. Then look for ways to spice up the relationship. Love is a choice not just a feeling!


N/B: premarital sex has sad consequences, now and later.