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Thanks y'all for the responses

I'll do more FBI job before concluding action to take.

Its a time like this I wished I was double dating.

Ilovenigeria:
Don't leave your babe based on suspicions and assumptions. We all have done one naughty thing or the other without the taught of cheating crossing our mind. we have played the "truth or dare games" or "devils mail bag" .I have some male friends that my pictures on their phones is more than that of their babes.
Please sit down and have a heart to heart talk with her. You should even thank God you didn't meet her with any guy since it was a surprise visit.

THANK YOU!

Crocz:
Helloooooo!...he said his gf of 4yrs! , who date for 4yrs now...don't blame the girl for seeing him as unserious dude

I do
She's my second girl friend ever and I'm in my late 20s.
I'm that dude who believes in 1girl at a time and i don't double date.
Couldn't marry her cos we were both students and I dint have a job however I'm working now and still not married to her because i have aspirations i intend achieving before settling down.

iyisco2001:
Somehow for these university girls. But, the chat get history?, if the bbm history implies they have been getting along well and there has been such requests in the past, Abeg just forget ha, she is seriously cheating on u bro. Hope u had farewell sex before leaving. if not, u can consider sha and get a close watch. But 80% I am sure she is cheating

I dint read the history as a result of the shock!

This saturday I dint have to go to work, so I decided to pay my babe of 4years a surprise visit since its being a while iv seen her.
Upon getting to her room in the university, she was all alone in the room which was my prayer!
After gisting for a while she got a BB message which I asked if I could read for her and she gave her concurrence.
Upon opening the msg to my surprise it was sent by a guy friend and the picture was 3 nude cartoon character pictures.
I initially took it as nothing, however on my way back to lagos, she started apologizing that she dint know what came into the guy that sent the msg to her that I should pls ignore and not act on it.

Now my question is,
1. Could it be she's cheating on me?
2. Should I act or ignore?

NB
Ignore any grammatical blunder or mistake

charlesopp:
Like ta profile pix..

Can I knw u

U sef wan buy fone ba?

Ishilove:
Seconded. Op collect the phone and resell it to clear the gbese. Rubbish

Pls come and finish your iyawo nylon bag story, pls

jidestroud:
I guess i have to count my loss then.
And i really did loved her
life goes on!!!
and of cos, no more phone giving

Thunder fire you if you no collect that phone.

See, I'm even ready to buy it from you at your cost price even as it has become used, please please please, collect it back even bleep her some more.

Zedric:
Wait!! U seriously had to ask

Common, find the b*tch and make sure u collect that phone back. She used u, the speed at which she broke up with u says it all. All she needed was the phone and if u don't collect it back, u deserve a plaque for Ur "MAGArious" actions

Thank you for saying this,
Why dint she notice the family issues, cultural background on her birthday and decline the gift.

Ladies sha, they can be wicked!

If I'm the one o, I'll collect the phone back +more sef.

@OP you can stay matured and keep let it go, but for me I'll choose the childish option sha.

thathruth:
Work Force Management Centre , the leading indeginous outsourcing/recruitment firm in Nigeria is currently recruiting fresh/experienced graduate for the role of Direct Sales Agent at UNION BANK, Gboko branch, Benue State.

Responsibilities:
Ideal candidate is responsible for sourcing for
new
customers for the bank and establishing
business
relationships with them to enable them benefit
from various banking products
Responsibilities
Ideal candidate is responsible for sourcing for
new
customers for the bank and establishing
business
relationships with them to enable them benefit
from various banking products

Qualifications and Requirements
· B.Sc/HND
· Lower Credit
· 0-1year Sales Experience

interested and qualified persons who reside in or are willing to relocate to Gboko should forward
their complete CVs with all necessary
information,
qualification, L.G.A, age and class of degree to
martpool.iwfm@gmail.com with the work location (Gboko) as subject of the mail.

And the winner of the Dumbest scam award is

sucroseoff:
Na soo dem get time reach?
they're even aware that any action on their part will bring d spotlight on their organisation, which will b bad for them n good for d employees..
bt I'm sure organisations monitor social media, bt nairaland... I doubt

Die hard employees do for their coy, expecially if it hits FP

HARDDON:
Vic wor? Sorry to disappoint u.
A lion does not turn a puccupine at the flip of d coin. If every guy was like yours truly, men would eat at the very exalted tables they were fashioned for n not scrub scraps ...

Let's say I'm a voice of correction to these whack guys that don't know that not for naughts were they born .
N to C snubs like u who think d sun shines out of ur bu77s , try something more challenging like having Kul people who u can hv intellectual talks with n r challenging, not having 500bbm contacts yet none got brains.

"No disrespect buh I killa queen !"






Btw, how twisted can u get? Advertizing ur pin on ur signature so u can hv more recharge card clients? N when they don't send, u turn blind eyes to their pings ?

Best post since i joined NL

D babe sorry girl just dey talk anyhow like she's got 2 kini.
On the long run now one wld c girls like her going for singles conference being all spiritual.

Thanks HARDDON once more!

Just got another newletter from sterling bank, and if its going to be a trend thing they might contact us soon again.
Pls let's read the news letter too, cos these guys might bring one or two issues/questions from there just to test our Attention to Details skills.

Olutola88 i accept what Dfavouredone said,
Publish a comprehensive list of authentic figures you have so we can all check it out.

clily:
Pls do u knw how much FERMA pays

Bro,
Got no idea o

House up to you guys!

Kentnickole:
Please guys! Help me... Is very urgent in making my decision.

How much does ARM life Plc ( ie a subsidiary of Asset & Resource Management Company Plc) pay their employee in the capacity of Living Benefits Advisor? And how is the work like? In office or on the street marking?

I tagged you guys because of your well exposed knowledge on salaries and your mature and helpful way of ansering questions.

Tag:
olutola88
MarvellousGod
Masonkz
Blank
Seagullbabz
Keyman0007
Tmany
Karmeleon
Walearoy

You dint tag me so I tagged myself *winks*
I don't know how much ARM pays but I'm sure PAL pays between 76/78k.

Olutola88:
Is 142K our final answer for UBA?

Guy you too like money o!

NO,

N142,626.08 is our Net final answer, while N2,055,000 is the final Annual Gross!

obiaguna:
I don't think the person is correct though

UBA is 142

4C2215131:
No wonder...

Boss,
No wonder wetin nah!

Got same,
But made a mistake on my mobile number o, how do i correct it

shakazuldadon:
I dey lafff..... MSC energy economics..... six months to go.... no mercy for them coys. meanwhile I dey enter KDL tonight.

UI tinz!

masonkz:
LOL. Last I heard UBA was paying N150k for entry level trainees and this was last year. Although I heard they just reviewed their salaries, along with some other banks, going into above N200k.

Note that this is for pofessional staff that passed through the various banks' training schools and are university graduates with the requirements.

UBA is 142
Access is 237

Confirmed

Tamee:
A bit

Wow,
I'm also dazed!

TONYE001:
Hello Walearoy...

Hi,
Were are you serving?
I'll like to visit someday!

Be my friend TONYE001

Gloria3389:
useless bank of Africa (UBA)

You are wrong!

Waiting for updates o

BANGERLEE1:
Have you ever wondered why some guys have all the luck
when it comes to women? It's no secret that certain
archetypal males have been proven over and over to be
irresistible to women — and it's not simply because of their
good looks or a well-defined six pack.
The truth is that women tend to be attracted to certain
personality traits and so, naturally, they flock to the men who
possess them.
Below are seven of these "ideal types" of men that women are
drawn to, and an explanation as to why these men are so
appealing. But don't freak out or permanently alter your
personality if you don't fit into any of these categories exactly
— women will see right through that.
Ideally, you should exude some traits from each of these
different categories; in fact, you probably already do. With a
quick perusal of the list below, you should be in much better
shape to understand what women are looking for, and most
importantly, to make sure that you fit the bill.

1. The Romantic Guy
He believes in classic romance. He is constantly bringing her
flowers and chocolate and lighting candles during dinner. He
calls her often to let her know he is thinking about her and
looks into her eyes and tells her how he feels.
Why he is so irresistible: A woman loves to feel appreciated,
and the romantic guy makes this happen. He uses romantic
gestures to show her he is thinking about her. As an added
bonus, she feels free to reciprocate and act on her own
romantic tendencies.

2. The Confident Guy
He is totally secure and sure of himself. He is assertive in
public and gives off an aura of power and control (within
reason of course, as the "cocky guy" is not on this list). In a
relationship, he doesn't get jealous of other men; he doesn't
feel threatened by his girlfriend's male friends or co-workers.
Why he is so irresistible: Women are attracted to
confident men. Consider this: If you think you are great, she
will probably be influenced to think the same. The confident
man doesn't seek approval from women, and this makes them
want him even more.

3. The Artistic Guy
The artistic guy is spontaneous and lives for the moment.
Often, he will use his creativity to woo her, such as with a song
he has written about her or a painting he has made for her.
Why he is so irresistible: Every woman wants to feel unique
and special. There is no better way to make her feel this way
than to use her as your muse or your source of inspiration.
She is intrigued by the artistic guy's creative mind and
especially by the way he incorporates her into his art.
Charismatic, rebellious, smart, and considerate men all get the girl

The Foreign Guy
He comes from a faraway exotic country; he might have a
cute accent or a unique way of seeing the world. His social
customs and everyday behaviour can be a little quirky, but he
always manages to come off as uniquely charming. Note that
you don't have to actually be foreign to fit into this category. If
you are well-travelled or speak many languages, you might
be able to pull off the charm as well as any sweet-talking
foreigner.
Why he is so irresistible: Charisma, charisma and charisma.
There's not much more I can say about this one; it's just that
mysterious je ne sais quoi that is so alluring. Women often
choose this kind of guy if they are curious about the world,
but most of the appeal comes down to a fascination with
dating someone from another culture
.
5. The Free Spirit Guy (aka
the Bad Boy)
The free spirit guy goes where the wind takes him — and the
wind usually takes him on some kind of wacky adventure. He
might ride a motorcycle, or he might skip work to take her on
a last-minute road trip, but this guy doesn't worry too much
about the consequences; he just sees where his own devices
take him.
Why he is so irresistible: Every woman wants a bit of a rebel
(within reason, of course). She loves his carefree attitude and
hopes that it will rub off on her too. The bad boy spirit adds an
element of youthfulness to the relationship and she loves to
try taming him — although she knows she'll never actually
succeed.

6. The Intelligent/Witty Guy
He instigates conversations that are intellectually stimulating
and listens to what she has to say in response. He makes her
laugh with his clever sense of humour and could make a
conversation about Gordon Brown seem interesting. He can
shoot the breeze with her for hours and it will never get
boring.
Why he is so irresistible: As time goes on, your hairline may
recede and your buff body may soften, but if you can keep
her interested, you've won half the battle. An intellectual
connection is a big part of what sustains a relationship and if
you can show her that you've got that, she'll be hooked pretty
quickly.

7. The Considerate Guy
He holds open her car door and pulls out her chair. He foots
the bill for dinner and makes sure to offer her dessert. He
always asks her out with reasonable notice and picks her up at
her door. He is generally sensitive to how she is feeling and
when she is ready to go home.
Why he is so irresistible: Surprised? You probably think that
nice, considerate guys never get the woman, but consider this:
Once a woman has gone through her share of the bad guy, the
rude guy and the not-calling-her-back guy, she will likely re-
evaluate her priorities. It takes a bit of maturity on her part to
realise this, but eventually most girls come around and realise
that they want a guy who will treat them well in the long
run.
a word of caution
Don't take any of these character types to the extreme or try
to be someone you're not — it will be obvious.
The key to success here is to keep in mind why women like the
character traits outlined above and what kind of gestures they
appreciate. Then, mix them up and see which of these traits
and gestures you are most comfortable with. With just a little
bit of effort, you'll be able to find more than a few irresistible
qualities within yourself — and accordingly, she'll be easily
wooed by your newfound individuality.
Now isn't that worth your time?

Weres the money bag guy?
Has a lot of money to spend on her and never gets tired

Elibeng: pls somebody should trow more light into it

Light TROWN

prettythicksme: chaii broke guys they can bleep heaven yet they don't have money to take care of the thing they bleep.I have friend that date them so annoying

I like this babe!