₦airaland Forum

etrange:
Lol... you African sound funny when you want to present whatever you do as good. So a married man sleeping with other women is awesome because "what is marriage?" But a married woman sleeping with another man is bad because of "marriage". Sexism makes you sound dumb. The funny thing is that you'll still be the one to criticize the same consenting adult woman fo sleeping with a married man. Oh boy...

a woman living in the house of man who is sleeping with other men have a very high chance of bringing a son of a loser from outside to come and inherit the labour and sweat of her husband that's why female infidelity has always been an abomination since the beginning of time. I as a man don't have the biological /natural capability to bring a child that doesn't belong to you home and deceive you into believing the fool is yours.
Blame nature for giving you a womb not men for being sexist. Sexism is a myth

etrange:
And if you're sleeping with them when you aren't married to them, you're what? A decent man?

what's marriage?
A few old men drinking palm wine doesn't legitimise or de-legitimise whatever I decide to do with a consenting adult woman

Lol

Kelvin30286063:
Thanks. That my brother you mentioned... Not gonna happen. Lol but my father or mom is a good idea, will call them. Thanks. Didn't even think to that point.

transfer it to your mom account, download the bank app on your phone so that you can do transactions yourself without calling anybody.
CBN won't freeze your account though.

yommyoke:
O man, NL can be so crazy but there are still correct people here, I love you guys for being a source of encouragement to this dude.

Man, just give up that thought, there are many things to do than suicide.. suicide is a thief of life, nothing better ever comes out of it.

have you ever committed suicide to come to the conclusion that nothing good comes out of it?

There's nothing wrong with committing suicide. Every human should have a right to choose whether he wants to continue in squalor or not. We will all die. When you die your achievement wouldn't matter anymore so what's the point in suffering?

Madman

etrange:
Lol... not sure we can get up to that number if there was a "hoe test" for men.


Ok. Bye.

there's nothing like a male hole. As long as you can fend for your family you can marry 200 wives and camp them in one compound. That's not even a plausibility for females

cricifixo:
Bros its her house as long as she is legally married.
As for me o, i respect myself & also respect people's space. I strongly advice d op to do the same

lol if I'm the brother, she's definitely sleeping outside or going to her father's house. Even if it's my house help, she'd still go until she apologise. I can't be living in the same house with an arrogant fool

Litmus:
Why are you then gladly endorsing an attitude of not seeking evidence evident in majority of these simple minded respondents on here? Intelligent people like you ought to be Nigeria's hope but you're joining the mob wide-eyed.

In spite of our prejudices, it is imperative we are objective as much as is humanly possible.

what evidence do you want to seek? what exactly is it you don't understand? Julius Caesar died over 2000 years ago, JFK died in the 1960s how exactly did the fact that my expression was simply sarcastically hyperbolic escape you? How will you kill someone that died 2000 years ago yesterday?

Litmus:
Ironically, of all the responses I've read so far, you make the most sense. You also seem the most intelligent because you at least recognise that you're a typical African brute, satisfied with reacting emotionally and understanding it's what you're doing. I say brute because you're the type of person that would engage in lynching someone accused of being a thief or a Witch knowing full well that they may not be guilty or that lynching is in anycase questionable. For you the main thing in such a situation is the actual act of killing such individuals, any question of thire guilt or innocence are mere niceties that would get in the way of the act of killing them. Other participants in the lynching are mearly simple minded folks that do what they do because it was always thus and it never occurs to them that anyone being lynched would ever be lynched unless they are guilty.

lol. You are seriously delusional. I don't believe I have ever hit anyone since I became an adult. I don't even talk to people talk less of following crowd.
Nigerian security forces have proven to be the lowest of all humans, even worse than a terrorist. When you see a terrorist you know he is a terrorist and is simply there to make your life miserable. Nigeria police kill indiscriminately, steal and kidnap people while collecting salary from them to protect their lives and properties. Nigerian soldiers? Lol don't even get me started.
Nobody who sees me in real life ever agree that I belong to the Nigerian society. I can spend one month inside my room if I have food and basic necessity.

Sirmuel1:
Is there any American Billionaire that's 100% clean?

All these Oyinbo are just wicked and jealous if Blacks. If you have stayed in the UK or Australia, you will understand better

na see finish. Why not jail him in Nigeria? If an American defraud a Nigerian company will he be extradited to Nigeria for sentencing? Our bambiala government don't know all their begging for aids and money to loots make them forever subservient.
How many countries have the US government scammed with fake propaganda just for invasion?

ajealadick:
I doubt the authenticity of this accusation. Torture: YES
Rape: NO

if someone tells me a Nigerian police man or soldier cut off the balls of Julius Caesar or John F. Kennedy fried and ate it in his village yesterday, I 100% believe the person.

Redcrafton:
Who can tell us the work of NASS?

If NASS cannot ensure that every Nigerian matters and need to be included in the affairs of their country, why not scrap NASS.

The nation is wasting money on NASS.

If they executive can do whatever it likes, by refusing to abide by the constitution (Federal character, etc)...it swore to upheld...we could as well remove the legislature as they do practically nothing.

I have NEVER seen any result from their investigations and oversight activities.

monarchy is the way. Let's just have a king so that we can stop deceiving ourselves with democracy. NASS don't give a shiit. All they want to do is eat fucck secretaries, travel to Dubai, come back and sleep.

Lol do these guys even understand the concept of bathing and its reasons? You should rub cow dungs as cream when you are done

Onyeka90210:
Phone that zenith bank easy bank app does not work , most app that requires google play does not work, There is a work around it, but only someone with tweaking experience can follow the method, SLOT tricked my friend into buying that garbage they are looking to dispose, he does not know much about phones, and decided to go and ask SLOT people for good phones to buy, behold, they gave him one useless huawei of 120k and then installed apk pure for him to download apps, you can download apps, but it won't work on the phone if it requires GPlayS, My friend now has to be carrying about two android phones, because one is useless, can't even use Gmail app for emails,
Huawei phones are not recommend, until they reunite with google, Trump made that phone useless, What is an Android phone without google, just rubbish

China will be celebrating now that Trump is no longer president. He dealt with China. Joe now doesn't give a crap about anything he just wants to eat, snap pictures and sleep. No time

Trump turned giant Huawei to Teddy bear outside China

dangotesmummy:
she get life.how many life you wan give am?

she's bigger than these rubbish. Right from the moment she came out of her mother she was automatically bigger than all these nonsense she should respect herself

Celebrity business is always lucrative for females. It just helps them upgrade their normal hustle from 30k to 500k+ while the guys have to settle for either singing crappy songs or open small boutique

VEXT:
Christianisation.. Another form of Sharia....
If you be Christian,and u get stubborn pikin ..send m go this school...

and if your son returns wearing bra and lipstick what would you have achieved?

Gang90:
My mates not me, your mates also works as astronauts, why are you typing on nairaland with a phone with broken screen, look, what you don't get is that my stay in my brothers house is mutually beneficial, cause after sex tomorrow they should also get ready to go downstairs and draw water up from over 20 feet water well, cause it is dry season and the pumping machine can no longer work effectively, and me I even need rest, so he wash his car or take it to the car wash, I guess the charge #700 now, I wash two cars every week that's about #1400, do you think if I worked in a car wash from my family house that I can't feed myself not minding that my mum is too happy to feed me.

Since she can't wash her after sex bedsheet, not only will she wash it but she will draw water from a well over 20 feet and my brother, well, he can afford at least #1400 in the car wash every week but he's got sit there and watch it being washed that's what you get when you take some people for granted, at 26, what else do I really need from people that I can't get on my own with the help of God.

Look, I also help with school runs sometimes I guess now either of them might have to stay home more or hirer a maid or get a house help. Case closed.

you are delusional and should better grow the fucck up. Go and confront them and stop forming macho here where no one knows or see you. You're a kid 100% who has no idea what it is like to be on your own. Go stay on your own where nobody will have sex in your room

Gang90:
So guys it valentine's day, I'm really disgusted, okay I stay in my brothers house, I travelled, I came back around 2:30 I wanted to enter my room but my brother told me wait a while, with my adult mind, I realised they having some couple time, I dropped my bag in the living room and head out.

But I came back to find out the room is scattered and the bedsheet there, a responsible woman should at least wash the bed sheet noting that a grown up Male stays there.

I will be 26 this year, I had not really had sex so all these things imagining a strange woman's bodily fluids in my bedsheet is disgusting. I can take it from the side of my brother but not the wife, she disgusts me honestly, she is not my girlfriend, not my sister, not my wife, not my mother why should she expect I wash her after sex sheets for her or why can't she just pick the sheet immediately and wash it, it could have dried by now. And it really feel awful for me if I try to wash it, honestly.

This is about to be the worst valentine's day for me, I'm planning to head out and rent a room in hotel but who knows most hotel rooms will be disgusting today, what do I do please advice.

I'm hating knowing already, cause if I didn't know it could all not be so dirty to me, now my bed looks so dirty to me and I can't attempt to wash it until at least 24 hours and I will wash it soaked in hot water, I hate nonses just cause my brothers accepts you does not mean everyone in the family sees you as one flesh.

take it to a dry cleaner. You live with them stop carrying shoulder. Your mates work in a hotel where they wash sperm stained sheets and take out used condom all the time. It's sex not murder. Go rent your own house and stop doing as if your brother and his wife are smelling

Dreyton36:
If anyone defames you just because you took a loan and couldn't meet up with the payment, that simply means they don't want the money anymore

Any loan company who will keep adding extra charges daily for the days you didn't pay your loan is a thief and nothing but a thief fvck agreement

Sending sms to people's contacts and taming them thieves that they made away with company funds , and at the end of the day when the money gets paid , how will they erase the defamation and insult ?

I know it's wrong to owe money without paying at the agreed time but most times situations comes and it should be understandable , it's better to get the borrowers arrested through their given details rather than sending sms to their contacts

I took my time one day to view into this so called sokoloan people and realised they're just my fellow loaders in disguise
They don't have no customer love at heart

I also took my time to view into another one called Carbon and realised they're very genuine and they got customers love at heart
Everything about sokoloan whatever is not just right and should be banned from Nigeria

I'm very sure they also own other loan apps that's why everyday that I wake I pray to God on my knees ,

"Dear Lord, pls bless every hustler out there so they won't result to borrowing money cuz life is hard"

That's why I tell people, do whatever gives you money as long as you don't kill , let it be vulcanizer , bricklaying , anything just make money that's the koko

So for example I was that kinda broke guy who wants to take a loan and I happened not to meet up , so they'll send sms to my contacts one kobo u no go see again , once u call me na swear I go swear for you

Look at carbon and branch customer reps , they're very well trained and they'll speak to you in a very friendly manner no matter how long it takes to pay them because they understand shit happens , it's not good to breach agreements on the negative side of it but it's not also good to defame people

Lights up my kpoli in peace

exactly what I'm saying. You shouldn't pay shiit. Even a judge will tell them to pay you damages. What rubbish. You lie about someone because he's owing you money. Na you be first person to lend money? One guy has been owing me 50k since February last year, so I should now call his family and friends and lie that he broke into my house and cart away with my money? Rubbish. Don't pay. Screenshot the money and send to her tell her you aren't paying shiit unless she calls every single person she lied to

SirDelight:
Thanks for concern.

I wouldn't mind if they only defame me. But the whole message points accusing finger to my whole family.

the more reason you shouldn't pay. If you have the money snap or screenshot it and send to her then tell her you aren't paying her one kobo until she apologise and tell everyone what actually happened. If you pay her, she wins

Felixalex:
Is this valentine's Day really worth all the hype

People fvck everyday, people have been "killing destinies" abi na only today fvck go kill destinies?

these people are unbelievable. People have sex every day. As we talking now people are having sex. Everywhere, anywhere. This topic is even becoming cringing

LadyTiannah2:
The funny thing is that if you offer Nigerian men money for sex, they'll all take it but are so quick to castigate ladies. Dumb hypocrites. Nigerian girls are useless but na Una dey our DMs dey beg us on a daily

if I ever mistakenly send a girl Dm on Nairaland or Facebook I will go to my village elders and tell them to cut off my penis for I have failed as a man and no longer worthy of the title

That girl deserves an award. What a beauty. I wish I were there to bust into uncontrollable laughter. Foolish boys

You people only have sex once in a year?

Queenslander:
Lool, the hate though!!

an average Nigerian, always takes criticism and facts as hate. If you don't want people to say their mind about you, stay off social media.

SirDelight:
ATTENTION!MAKING THE FAMILY LIVES OF THE **** MISERABLE IS A THIEF FROM THEIR FAMILY WITH THE NAME ***** (0806134****) WHO STOLE MONEY FROM A COMPANY AND IS REFUSING TO PAY. THE PUBLIC IS WARNED OF THIS FAMILY AS THEY ARE KNOWN TO BE THIEVES. THEY WILL BE CAUGHT BY SECURITIES

The SokoLoan agent called me on phone and I told her to be patient as I'm also running around to pay off the debt. I even said I would pay up everything with default charges. She hung up & started sending different threatening messages. The message above (bolded) was sent to all my contacts. I had to turn off my phone because the calls were too much. How would they correct this defamation after paying them?

I know they have many agents on this forum who would start defending them, but just know that "only God knows tomorrow". It's my turn today,,,, it could be yours tomorrow.

don't pay them until they call everyone they lied to and explain to them that it was a lie. Call her and tell her you aren't paying a dime until she repairs your image

Nonexistent:
See real arms here but meanwhile our Army and SS are busy disgracing themselves in Ebonyi state saying they are bursting machetes and hunter guns. These arms passed through police and military checkpoints on our roads. Fulanis are truly the masters.

those trucks carrying cows and onions are never checked by anyone. You can easily move a nuclear bomb with it to any part of the country and not a single soul will know