₦airaland Forum

InformedLola:
OP, please do not listen to people who do not read to comprehend before hitting the comment box.

You need to see a trained psychiatrist who can tell you what exactly your mental state is and what you need to do to keep things 'normal'. I am not saying you are mentally imbalanced, just that you need expert opinion because what you have described is beyond 'depression'. Your family telling you that is just because they love you and do not want you to worry.

But actually, there's no cause for worry. Just seek help (trained help) to fully understand your situation and how to handle it.

Cheers.

thanks to yuh

Am 26yrs old and working in a private firm, a job i got with the help of my brother, I've always been an introvert but also go out with friends and family occasionally(which makes me a partial extrovert as well) , late last year due to lack of job i started learning fashion designing, which last for just five months, when i discover that people that we do play together before started drawing back and making faces at me whenever i pass-by and i also discover that i do av a loud outburst whenever someone say things that's abusive or i cant relate to directly, this keeps me more indoor and lonely cos i feel nobody want to have anything to do with me, i always feel my family was lying to me about my state of health and blame everyone around me for everything going on...my fear now is that my family only told me am depressed and having anxiety but the look on people faces as i move around on my daily routine tells me there is more than that.
People have been calling me names like Aja 4, Skelewu, Cause trouble, of which i cant relate to at all.....pls nairalanders i need your advice this is killing me inside, i av no gf cos am scared to make moves, i hardly go out in daylight on weekends, and my colleagues at work hardly play or talk to me!!! the job i have right now i only think i got it as a compensation from my brother just for me to think am okay.
Pls help me....i need ur advices.

am a man of God call me for deliverance my number 08155568***

Princessmel:
It's gotten really bad now, I just can't help myself. Ugly man, fine man, poor man, rich man. Any man whatsover, I just have an unhealthy yearning towards them, help me!!! Please?

no wonder yuh cant get girlfriend...but wait WHAT are those thing yuh bleeped?...just asking sha....cos yuh must be mad

where there....lier

negativity don fill your life wey be sey na flaw you see for the picture, so covering her face now have made her a boko haram... "i could actually see it takes a thief to know another" dam burubaka...shege dan hiska...

Raph01:
Them allow boko haram pipu sef 4 dia?? that woman covering her face in the first pic

grandma leave the post for ur pinkin dem to work in now

nice one brov...adun a kari

badbelle go still talk....ride on #baddoosneh eyan #pepesneh...more blessin

ti oluwa nile
oluweri magbojo
eru were
igbo dudu
ika lomo ejo
yemi my lover
eran iya oshogbo
saworo ide
ija eleye
jensiinmi
arelu
and that movie that iya rainbow killed all her relatives but cant touch ola

weyrey rey ooooo

Zoharariel:
Who will marry this useless ashawo wey her p.unani don turn into lagos-ibadan expressway?

That your useless father is a billionaire doesn't mean everybody will be falling at your feet.

I can't even date any lady from a wealthy family talk more of a marriage, because once I give you instructions - as the head of the house and you don't comply, na back-hand slap straight! And if you complain, na 2 punches to your throat - no time!
You don't come into my house and be forming - my father is a billionaire or even proclaiming gender equality, na wheelbarrow dem go take carry you commot for my doormoth

SmellingAnus:
exactly my thoughts and the the thoughts of some other corps members during that period... A home was broken... However, maybe it was just Nemesis catching up with the woman...

if you've been doing such or is thinking of doing that desist from it...MARRIED WOMAN(she should have save the dignity of some women)

Kingbuhari:
please i want to ask a serious Question and I need a decent answer... why is it that Infidelity/Adultery is common in Western Nigeria I want to ask if this thing they are doing is ancestral curse or genetic, because every 90% of reported case of raping,adultery,infidelity, pedophile etc has it root to the WEST

dindinrin agba....is like the desert dust and sun don suck up ur foolish brain...

Kingbuhari:
please i want to ask a serious Question and I need a decent answer... why is it that Infidelity/Adultery is common in Western Nigeria I want to ask if this thing they are doing is ancestral curse or genetic, because every 90% of reported case of raping,adultery,infidelity, pedophile etc has it root to the WEST

fool buhari grandchild...

There is nothing in the Qur’aan to say that we should celebrate the Mawlid or birthday of the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him). The Prophet himself (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) did not do this or command anyone to do it, either during his lifetime or after his death. Indeed, he told them not to exaggerate about him as the Christians had exaggerated about Jesus (upon whom be peace). He said: “Do not exaggerate about me as the Christians exaggerated about the son of Maryam. I am only a slave, so say, ‘The slave of Allaah and His Messenger.’” (Reported by al-Bukhaari). What has been reported is that the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) made the day of his birth a day of worship, which is different to celebration. He was asked about fasting on Mondays, and he said: “That is the day on which I was born and the day on which I was entrusted with the Mission or when I was first given Revelation.” (Reported by Muslim, al-Nisaa’i and Abu Dawood).

Moreover, we know that the Sahaabah (may Allaah be pleased with them) were the people who loved the Prophet most. Was it reported that Abu Bakr, who was the closest of people to him and the one who loved him the most, celebrated the birthday of the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him)? Was it reported that ‘Umar, who ruled for twelve years, or ‘Uthmaan, did this? Was it reported that ‘Ali, his relative and foster son, did this? Was it reported that any of the Sahaabah did this? No, by Allaah! Is it because they were not aware of its importance, or did they not truly love the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him)? No one would say such a thing except one who has gone astray and is leading others astray.

Did any of the imaams – Abu Haneefah, Maalik, al-Shaafi’i, Ahmad, al-Hasan al-Basri, Ibn Seereen – do this or command others to do it or say that it was good? By Allaah, no! It was not even mentioned during the first and best three centuries. The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said in a saheeh hadeeth: “The best of mankind are my generation (or my century), then those who come after them, then those who come after them. Then there will come a people who will not care if their testimony comes before their oath or vice versa (i.e., they will not take such matter seriously).” (Reported by al-Bukhaari, Muslim and al-Tirmidhi). The celebration of the Prophet’s birthday appeared many centuries later, when many of the features of true religion had vanished and bid’ah had become widespread.

Thus this celebration became a sign of one’s love for the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him)? But can it be possible that the Sahaabah, the imaams and the people of the best three centuries were unaware of it, and it was only those who came later who were aware of its importance?! What the Qur’aan tells us is that love of the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) is demonstrated by following the guidance he brought. Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning):

“Say (O Muhammad): ‘If you (really) love Allaah, then follow me, Allah will love you and forgive you your sins. And Allaah is Oft-Forgiving, Most Merciful.

Say: ‘Obey Allaah and the Messenger.’ But if they turn away, then Allaah does not like the disbelievers.” [Aal ‘Imraan 3:31-32]

The first aayah explains that love is just a claim, but the proof of sincerity is following what the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) brought. The second aayah reaffirms the importance and necessity of obeying Allaah and His Messenger. Hence Allaah ended the aayah with a very stern warning in which those who refuse to obey are described as kaafirs, and Allah does not love the disbelievers. We ask Allaah to keep us safe from that. The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) told us of the danger of not obeying him, and the danger of adding to what he brought. The celebration of Mawlid or his birthday is indeed an addition to what he brought – as all the scholars agree. He said: “The best of speech is the Book of Allaah, and the best of guidance is the guidance of Muhammad. The most evil of things are those which are newly-invented (in religion), and every innovation is a going astray.” (Reported by Muslim and al-Nisaa’i).

We ask Allaah to protect us from bid’ah and to bless us by helping us to follow. Allaah knows best. May Allaah bless our Prophet Muhammad.#copied

dont be fooled by this...check out the tweet pics very well and the personal message sef....

RichDad1:
I pray this does not leads to depression.

You need to work on your self esteem bro.

thanks man...but how can i go about that am a bit confused

fijiano202:
the only problem is u,u have no life of ur own,u look at others to live,u need to change environ and make new friends

thanks boss

fijiano202:
the only problem is u,u have no life of ur own,u look at others to live,u need to change environ and make new friends

thanks boss really appreciate God bless

thanks boss...Appreciate

yomi007k:

The only problem I see here is dt u r seeking people's approval to be in existence.



Guy let dem call u watever dey want. Dont give a damn.



Do ur job well, build urself n ur finances.


There is no problem with being an introvert ....get play staion n ball.


Thia naija na all man for him self n God for us all...all dos friends dont gat ur back.

Am 26yrs old and working in a private firm, a job i got with the help of my brother, I've always been an introvert but also go out with friends and family occasionally(which makes me a partial extrovert as well) , late last year due to lack of job i started learning fashion designing, which last for just five months, when i discover that people that we do play together before started drawing back and making faces at me whenever i pass-by and i also discover that i do av a loud outburst whenever someone say things that's abusive or i cant relate to directly, this keeps me more indoor and lonely cos i feel nobody want to have anything to do with me, i always feel my family was lying to me about my state of health and blame everyone around me for everything going on...my fear now is that my family only told me am depressed and having anxiety but the look on people faces as i move around on my daily routine tells me there is more than that.
People have been calling me names like Aja 4, Skelewu, Cause trouble, of which i cant relate to at all.....pls nairalanders i need your advice this is killing me inside, i av no gf cos am scared to make moves, i hardly go out in daylight on weekends, and my colleagues at work hardly play or talk to me!!! the job i have right now i only think i got it as a compensation from my brother just for me to think am okay.
Pls help me....i need ur advices..

TheFreeOne:
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hope it will yield a fruitful result