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well said

Zambia local players were able to beat star studded Ivory coast players. this shows we dont need useless, arrogant european club players on our team. we dont have to beg those cocky mikel obi, osaze to practise. Zambia this what happens when the right people run football in any country, you don't need an array of stars nor people from the moon to play, you just need administrators and players who are patriotic and determined to WIN regardless of the opposition, period!

Zambia local players were able to beat star studded Ivory coast players. this shows we dont need useless, arrogant european club players on our team. we dont have to beg those cocky mikel obi, osaze to practise. Zambia this what happens when the right people run football in any country, you don't need an array of stars nor people from the moon to play, you just need administrators and players who are patriotic and determined to WIN regardless of the opposition, period!

25omega:
is she hiv positive? because you are being cryptic about the problem she has

no shes not

shes just insecure!

HQ:
One Line: Give the Pretty Face to someone who can use it. . .

lol damn

Some "females" just wanna lay in bed, eat red velvet and watch tv shows!, that's all gud but u better hav those gud genes!

ethio

iice:
[color=#9900ff]How is she insecure?
Anyway, its up to her to make the decision to fix her life or not.  If she wants more or if she's okay with what she is.  The best would be for her to see a psychologist.  Not those quack people throwing out words because it's the new slang reigning in town.[/color]

academic, behaviour issues, people think shes stupid!

pendo89:
I modified the post.
Listen Wbong.Church is ok but being an active member aint gonna solve her problems. See the mistake people do? Run to church hoping their issues will disappear in a flash! .Truth is,church activities will keep her mind occupied BUT only for a while.When church doors are locked she goes back to her miserable state. I mean some self esteem issues are progressively dealt with not hidden in church activities.
Her soul is troubled but her spirit is saved, so can she please address the real issues in her soul? God can help her do it but not through being a busy body.
That's *escapism.*

And before I forget. The way to confirm you have overcome anything is by meeting the same thing and feeling nothing about it.
She will know shes ok when shes able to meet those bullies and talk to them the same way she does everybody else.That's called healing.
I have noticed from ur post shes using escape or substitute as a way of  tackling her insecurity.

hmmm good!

pendo89:
She needs counselling cz she seems so broken inside, it's interfering with her progress.
The world is cruel and there are very few people who can be kind and encouraging. What most do is take advantage of other's misery to break further.
How is family helping her or are they fueling this?
She must know that she can shape her own destiny and if she just sits there feeling miserable,she will forever be.
L

Her family like her mother is really helping and praying for her. her mother visits her once a week.
shes now an active church member and avoid all the friends that have bullied her in the past

pendo89:
In that case she needs to get rid of all that garbage before she can breakthrough. Its the bondage holding her back and nobody needs more garbage in their lives. Are the problems family related or personal?

personal problems

the girls is always rejecting guys not because she doesnt want to date them but she just cant due to her problems
she has a low self esteem
she think shes not good enough
she has been bullied severly in the past
academic issues etc

she wishes she can but she cant because she has too many problems. she doesnt want to put her garbage in another persons life

shes too insecure to get into a conversation and to get into a relationship

what advise wld give a girl who is very pretty but insecure, how does she avoid men  that approach her or show some interest in her?
does she tell the men that she has too many problems to date them

ethio

yummy

hmmm

i need flesh

pick the amerian one

stab yourself

ok

just golddiggers

never!!

i no sabi