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Benignasweety:
Itz obvious u love ur best friend more, datx always wat it shld be. Send ur galfrnd packing n start dating ur best friend. Don't ur best friend hv a guy in her life n shex alwayz hanging arnd wit u... Guy tink jorh...

very wrong, i just love her as a friend and nothing more.

We are actually having a peaceful time back at home since bae came back from work.. already planing on going out together tomorrow or Friday,,,, proves many comments wrong

StPete:
Why are you having a different best friend other than your girl friend?
Isn’t she supposed to be everything you want in a woman?

if you had gone through my comments, you would have understood better, weve been friends for too long and we learn alot that way about the opposite sex. i can tell you there are some things she knows but my girlfriend doesnt, can tell you its same way with most guys with my case.

richie9093:
Op, you are not a serious person. I had a situation similar to yours, my ex thought I had an affair with this close female friend of mine. we broke up (for apparent reasons other than this), I decided to stick with this friend to help me.

We have been close friends for almost 2 years and I finally told her how I felt about her last night. her response was "why are you just telling me this?"

a guy cant be a best friends with a girl or vice versa. emotions will take over sooner or later.

if you love your gf, cut the strings with your best friend

makes sense

Adex097:
This is so unfair bro, why not put yourself in your girl's shoe to have an idea of how she feels or Will be feeling.
. That reminds me of a girl I used to like ( still like her tho) , we were close friends , so close that we almost dated but I had to back out when I discovered that her bestie happens to be a guy . Although some people see no wrong in it but I can't and will never feel comfortable around him.

this is actually a sort of test, ive been over this for long, im trying to deal with it once and for all

ideyhere:
I actually just took time to go through comments here and I just blame that dumbo girlfriend who's letting this OP treat her anyhow he likes. Imagine his comments here...she can never find someone like you as gold wey you be or say you carry extralarge down there

Rubbish..I just feel like slapping some sense into that girl

buttom line is, shes not going anywhere, that dumbness is why she'll never loose me, unlike some here, who will fight and kill

quiinnBee:
so you think she's stuck with you.you'd be surprised when she gives you red card cause theres as much a woman can take.

she has no choice, as long as she trust me and i never betrayed that trust all these while despite what she knows, text and messages with responses shes gone through from ex and suitors unknowingly to me.

Zeedarh:
she's being jealous and i honestly do not blame her. Put yourself in her shoes too.

i get you, obviously true

johnny1980:
so what sort of relationship is that? Where different rules applies to the genders? Ain't that hypocrisy? Anyway, i see you both perfectly fit each other. A chauvinist boyfriend and a "yes" girl.

What we are saying is actions not words. All women mark and want their territory to themselves. If you respect her you would show it in your actions by helping her protect such territory not flagrantly trampling on such and rubbing it in her face..

i hear you, but actually, i find it good, you know why? i have seen some other part of her i have never seen before.

quiinnBee:
she'd dump you pretty soon if you go on with this attitude

never possible, i never betrayed her before, and my guess is, she knows she'll almost never easily find a guy like me.. you might not understand that aspect as you'll only know me on nairaland

johnny1980:
boy. Destroy your relationship you hear. What sort of unnecessary closeness is that? Just imagine your girlfriend has a male best friend and you visited her only for her to invite him also to come stay with you guys. Can you imagine such stupidity?

You don't respect her. If you respect your girlfriend, you would draw a line between "friends" and your significant other. I guess if you are married this best friend of yours would dictate what sort of soup you guys cook or how many kids you should have.

of course she'll never try that, we all know an average guys intentions and how dificult they get controlling those things between their legs, and my case is different, not that i do it to respect her but myself, and she knows that

quiinnBee:
look whenever your girlfriend is around just telll your bestfriend to lay off to avoid situations like this.
unlesss you enjoy the way both of them argue.

my dear, its a bit of fun, right now, she decided not to eat anything till tomorrow, i guess when she can cook her own meal, lol

ideyhere:
Female best friend you say If she was such a best friend then I think she must have hung out with you and your girlfriend more than once. They're meant to have gotten reasonably close. And most importantly, she would have known about the supposed surprise visits from best friend. Since she's acting up, it means you haven't been telling her...and you not telling her means you're hiding something. And if you're hiding something then this your dilemma is really a good thing for you...to chose who you really want... If this becomes the case, then I don't see how it concerns me so I'm outta here.

my dear, i dont hide anything, thats simply my type of person, of course we flirt sometimes but we never cross that line, never. well, this is actually the first time we are staying together because shes always staying away on the hearing my best friend is around.

yomi007k:
Guy this thing nor hard naa...



Hire a bf for ur bestfriend n ur Gf is gona stay calm.

...I charge N2000 per hour minus transport n refreshments.

i dont try that, infact i warned them off when they came visiting, i cant allow these f.ck boys around her.. its a no go area

quiinnBee:
welll one has to leave for the other
thats the only way you can calm them down

girlfriend is always insisting on leaving, i just forced her to stay this time around, the last time she stayed away for one week when she found out she's here. it doesnt look like though

Jackeeh:
Oh well! Iyanga dey sleep,trouble go wake am. When the fight begins,guard ur flat screen oh. Best of luck!

they both know never to even attempt it, or i'll send them packing

Zeedarh:
Women palaver...

Sometimes, i think there's an hormone that makes us beef unnecessarily

By the way, why are they 'both' with you

i swear, i seriously do not understand, the so call girl never understands how many times she has saved her ass when we get misunderstandings sometimes

Rukkydelta:
Non of my concern

why is my gf sharing same name with you? if not that i know she can never be on nairaland, i almost thought she's trailing me

Jackeeh:
Why is your female "bestfriend" with u n ur gf?

she normally do come around to stay with me sometimes when she gets bored. or when i need to support her in some type of ways

Problem is actually from Girlfriend, she's finding it difficult to believe nothing is going on between us as we are not in anyway related or as she is equally beautiful and endowed, same time, she cant question me knowing fully well we have been together way too long and nothing ever happened between us. yes, she understands we have lived all these years together way before she came into the picture and more, share almost everything together, of course that is why she is my best friend.

the only thing i am finding peace with now is that they can both watch Zee World together or what they call it. its just the first night and it seems we still have weeks to go

I feel like i am in a dilemma at the momemt, i am home with Girlfriend and Female best friend more like a childhood friend from about 9 years,

To cut things short for now, things are not easy right now based on attitudes.
any clue how i can i calm these two fellows down,

donphilopus:
Let's all put Pa Chukwudi44 in our Prayers. We pray he survives this!! Hospitals would be filled up across the federation between now and tomorrow!!

lwkmd

michymeg:
I personally see no reason a responsible lady would be expecting a lift from a random guy when she is not stranded, most of them are prostitutes on a mission to nowhere looking for customers in broad daylight.

You did nothing wrong, keep it up and don't hesitate to help if you think the person really needs it. Be security and your relationship conscious.

This makes so much sense, Thank you

[size=16pt]All i see is one Dirty Pig looking slut seeking attention from nasty irresponsible men or rather, Boys without class.

Watch out for the comments, some of these men/boys are on this thread too. iranu[/size]

DAVIYJONESS:
Sorry no list this time

MAN ;
Before you can call yourself a man you must be or have:
¤ be POTENT
¤ have HOUSE (rent/own)
¤ have bank balance of not less than 100k
¤ support family and help friends
¤ own private ride
¤ be educated or rich


WOMAN ;
you don't need much just have BREAST,ASS and PUSSY. You are a woman.

All are mandatory

in other words , i am a very big man

Mzdivacious:
u mean thirsty? No i wudnt.i wud say u r really nice.i would want ur number in my mind if u didnt ask first sef

ooops yeah.. That want number is surely going to be on my mind too, Whatsapp will be next, and that is where the trouble and temptation come in

Mzdivacious:
shoroniyen
op its not cool o.its not gentlemanly na

hehehe, but you'll tag me a thirsty nigga if you see me doing so

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