₦airaland Forum

Maxi112:
Op, is that hair you carrying dreadlock?

Jacksparr0w127:
That's not dreads bro

you think it was not from the front view.


Look at it now from the side . Uploaded

DukeNija:
Wooooooow! I thought its the same person. It is well.

No bro. Me that that girl started having serious issues after 2-3 weeks after engagement until she started becoming violent destroying my stuffs until a final break up which was very serious until the police got involved.

DukeNija:
Bro you have earned my respect, and i rarely tell people this. Men like you are what our society needs at the moment. If only my friend could see this post cos he is almost in the same situation. You saved yourself heartaches, fights, disrespect and bitterness by making a very simple yet tough decision.
God will give you your own woman and trust me, i know what its like to have someone who truly understands your position and is ready to stay true to your 'ministry' in thick and thin.

My bro. Only if I tell you that same person returned back and she's acting better now.

But either ways I always make her understand I wouldn't spend a penny on her and we've have been on our own, even gave back part of money borrowed from me but I used it on her again the next day without asking.

Its like is she understand all these differences now and have tried to put them away.

Only problem I still have with her sometimes now is her pride..


Just hope she is not pretending now

old news

Maxi112:
Op, is that hair you carrying dreadlock?

You are just seing it from the front.

NairalandCS:
But you cared enough to create a thread about it ? Please.

Like every other stereotypes, there is a little bit of truth in it. You can deny the fact that 7 out of every 10 guys on 'locks' as you call them are not responsible. Period.

7 out of 10 guys on low cuts too are not responsible too. Deal with that

darkIsBeautiful:
thank you . Says what a lot?

Why you did not sound like an average Nigerian lady

darkIsBeautiful:
thank you. I'm South African

Says alot. Welcome

darkIsBeautiful:
people love to generalise . I love dreadlocks as long as their clean and neat .

You look really good. Sound pretty cool too..


Don't look Nigerian though

hodusglobal:
Because its the beginning of getting crazy...How to know the different between a Mad one and a motor mechanic with dirty clothes is by identifying them with a dreadlocks hair...So, a person with a dreadlocks can also be identify as mad person, except those that were born with it which they were called (Dada) awuru olowo eyo in the Yoruba tribe.

Did I tell you I am a dirty person or live around a dirty neighbourhood or environment ?

Franky826:
lol bro this is social media don't take things too serious. and you m@y have a point there and so do I. everyone is entitled to their own opinions.

now back to the matter. your question is synonymous to asking 'why do girls who expose their bodies, or wear too tight outfits or shot clothing always perceived as bad girls? Dude even you that if they place a decently dressed lady with one that was described earlier close by and ask you to single out the one who is more susceptible to immorality? bro your guess is as good as mine. most humans judges with the eye before the mind.

it's our problem. if it wasn't there wouldn't be anything like your question in the first place.

no cut your dread o

no one born same

Lol.. I told my girlfriend I would cut it.. see her parents if that's her problem, then fix it back again as I can do that

Her response was epic

Amarabae:
I find them cool if it is neat

check my page. maybe you could tell what you mean by neat

Benita27:
Same with guys on tatoos, meanwhile most of those guys are more responsible than those without they term look responsible.

It's an African thing. But just know that you can't go into the cooperate world with that.

I have tatoos too but not very visible when I go out. Though i kind of regret having it but not because of how people see me on it.

Africa needs to stop being ignorant people.

Imagine an innocent guy being lynched on this Ikodudu menace wrongly just because of how he looks.

NairalandCS:
I didn't say that but it's a fact just by your haircut. Imagine how much more can be deduced with your full physical appearance.

The thing you people don't understand is that we people on Locks dont care about what people think of us.


I'm just trying to know why they are like that when we are not always the worse people.

Benita27:
I'm currently on dreads, mine isn't locked yet but some people think it is. What I don't do is dress indecently with it, that way no one will have to see me as a bad person.

Personally, I don't like guys on dreadlocks. It shows you off as a bad person more often than not.

My case is not far from that. In terms of dressing I am even more responsible and neat. Avoiding flashy dressings, .. most times I can tell how same ladies admire it or give those positive signs but they still have that stereotyping which I am not getting

Franky826:
Jamaicans​ are synonymous to weeds,

that's the origin of dreads.

well most guys on dreads smokes weeds too.

which responsible guy rocks dreads anyways :-/

can't you people just keep your hairs like bill gates and dangote

So people on lowcuts don't smoke weed. Or a good skincut is what makes you responsible. Smh.

Or people that derive thier own pleasure from smoking of weed are not human beings too.

Let me not even continue with you

DeGuyNxtDoor:
Pple look like tout in that nonsense.

Good to see they are being hunted.

Well, bring your girlfriend close to me to spend sometime.. later, you can ask her what she thinks

NairalandCS:
I dislike people that say this.

Before people get to know the real you, your physical appearance gives us a hint of the kind of person you are.

Will you be patience and get to know a mad man ? No ? What if you later found out that he/she isn't mad just homeless ? Appearance matters.

For example I can tell you don't work in a bank because they won't allow such haircut.

Must everyone work in a bank or be employed ?

IamKashyBaby:


Lips: 3
Afro Hair: 5
Eyes:3
Facial expression: (too serious)- 6
Shirt: -3 (the color combination making u even sober)
Phone camera: -5 (not very clear)

So, lets add & subtract
11- 6-3-5= ooopp -3 (Final Result)

are you not evil?

IamSINZ:
They are dying to answer this your question at Ikorodu. Go there and ask them.

Sorry I might be on dreadlocks but I don't look like a cheap cultist terrifying people

I do not understand the idealogy and stereotype coming from people especially some ladies..

I know most time the environment I find myself is the reverse of it especially that of the clubs which I barely go except on special events like birthday hangouts.

Why do they care about our physical look other than what we are on the inside which is more important ?
Now I have a partner who says I must cut my hair because I must not meet her parents that way...

Like seriously?

Look at the stup'id question listenersky is asking ? Look at my thread Mehn, I was in your shoes some months ago and thank God I did the right thing.. Just go through my thread to see how soon I was going to get married like you too

;D6

kolafolabi:
Your look actually determines who you are.

shut up

You didn't tell us about why your brother was not picking or how he delivered the money and what happened

NwaAmaikpe:


Good she disowned that dog.

Because very soon her husband will disown those kids.


I can bet he is not one that fathered all of them.

This yeye boy again

MsRoe:
This could be fun.....

My names are celestina Odinakachi Unachukwu.
I hail from Anambra state, the village by the corner.
I am twenty six years old, and still very mush in my prime time to deliver children.
I am yellow in complexion and I have open-teeth, whenever I smile it makes people arand me happy.
My mother delivered us two - me and my only twin sister. So I can also deliver twins if you so wish.
I think I can be a very good baby mama to you because I believe that it is my calling. I do not have any other work that I am doing at the moment.
If you can consider me for this, I will be very happy with you.
Amen.

Oh my lord

Ballerz:
Hi Websurfer,

I did not get the PM.

I just resent it again

Issorite... waiting to see a comment from the latest Nairaland clown

There he goes

NwaAmaikpe:


It was about time......

Thank you Lord for freeing that man from a horrendous sham marriage.



No celebrity's marriage should go beyond one year.
Men should not go through such torture...marrying absentee, promiscuous wives.