DukeNija:


Bro you have earned my respect, and i rarely tell people this. Men like you are what our society needs at the moment. If only my friend could see this post cos he is almost in the same situation. You saved yourself heartaches, fights, disrespect and bitterness by making a very simple yet tough decision.
God will give you your own woman and trust me, i know what its like to have someone who truly understands your position and is ready to stay true to your 'ministry' in thick and thin.

My bro. Only if I tell you that same person returned back and she's acting better now.

But either ways I always make her understand I wouldn't spend a penny on her and we've have been on our own, even gave back part of money borrowed from me but I used it on her again the next day without asking.

Its like is she understand all these differences now and have tried to put them away.

Only problem I still have with her sometimes now is her pride..


Just hope she is not pretending now

DukeNija:


Wooooooow! I thought its the same person. It is well.

No bro. Me that that girl started having serious issues after 2-3 weeks after engagement until she started becoming violent destroying my stuffs until a final break up which was very serious until the police got involved.

WebSurfer:


My bro. Only if I tell you that same person returned back and she's acting better now.

But either ways I always make her understand I wouldn't spend a penny on her and we've have been on our own, even gave back part of money borrowed from me but I used it on her again the next day without asking.

Its like is she understand all these differences now and have tried to put them away.

Only problem I still have with her sometimes now is her pride..


Just hope she is not pretending now

Good thing you didn't compromise your stand. She must have seen that you are a good guy, but not a wimp. Women don't like weak men. Just take your time with her as no one is actually perfect. Be very careful so you dont make same mistake twice. God bless

WebSurfer:

No bro. Me that that girl started having serious issues after 2-3 weeks after engagement until she started becoming violent destroying my stuffs until a final break up which was very serious until the police got involved.

Hmmnnn. You dodged a bullet, lucky you.

DukeNija:


Good thing you didn't compromise your stand. She must have seen that you are a good guy, but not a wimp. Women don't like weak men. Just take your time with her as no one is actually perfect. Be very careful so you dont make same mistake twice. God bless

That's what I'm trying to do. she isn't making me feel like I am a guy for the moment like she used to make me feel before but I'm still trying to be very careful because women can really pretend. I just came out from a very bad one which I found out alot of things from

WebSurfer:


My bro. Only if I tell you that same person returned back and she's acting better now.

But either ways I always make her understand I wouldn't spend a penny on her and we've have been on our own, even gave back part of money borrowed from me but I used it on her again the next day without asking.

Its like is she understand all these differences now and have tried to put them away.

Only problem I still have with her sometimes now is her pride..


Just hope she is not pretending now

Make her work to earn your respect. Don't give her on a gold platter. DON'T DON'T. How are you sure she hasn't gone to the guy who paid and after their sex rump, after feeding her mind, she is back to you. It's like eating your cake and having it.

robotix:


Make her work to earn your respect. Don't give her on a gold platter. DON'T DON'T. How are you sure she hasn't gone to the guy who paid and after their sex rump, after feeding her mind, she is back to you. It's like eating your cake and having it.

Not really sure that is the case though but surely I don't trust girls 100%

WebSurfer:


Not really sure that is the case though but surely I don't trust girls 100%

whatever the case, let her be the one working to get your attention, such as calls, sms, visits at all that. Right now you are not sure what she is up to. It could her plans with the other guy failed but whats apparent is that u were an option.