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FamilyRe: Pills Without Husband Consent by Wendy80(f): 6:16pm On Nov 06, 2014
EnlightenedSoul:
Are they considering birth control now?
Yes oh cos she was asking for d different birthcontrol last week
FamilyRe: Pills Without Husband Consent by Wendy80(f): 6:06pm On Nov 06, 2014
aisha2:
Well depends on why she doesnt want another child.
If it is financial concerns I am very realistic If we cant afford another child then we shouldnt bring it into the world under the guise of " God will provide" I no gree. Till things are sorted out I dont advice more kids. What i wont advice is sneaking, the wife lets the husband know with good reason that more kids are not the ideal at that point and inform him of any treatment she intends to take.

Sometimes its unrealistic to insist on having kids when so many issues are not sorted out properly. Adukts shouldn't bring kids into a mess and feel that kids will sort out their mess for them
So true. A close friend of mine got pregnant recently( she has a toddler already) and from d moment she told me I knew it won't go down well wth her hubby cos thns are so hard for them right now. She lost her job and doing everything possible to get anoda, then hubby's company isn't doing well @ all. Hubby almost slapped her when she said God will provide. It caused so much tension btw dem but Finally sha it was aborted.
FamilyRe: Pills Without Husband Consent by Wendy80(f): 5:50pm On Nov 06, 2014
Godmystrength:
Please i need answer for this.. Thank you.
If her reason 4 not wanting anoda child now is genuine and hubby isn't on her side after plenty talks, Omo she gats to protect herself ohh
FamilyRe: Family Tips For 'lazy' African Women. by Wendy80(f): 11:26pm On Nov 05, 2014
FINA4804:
Good morning all, I am part of this, please from experience what product of pressure cooker's are best we can find in nigeria, I don't like buying electrical things online. Can I use one pressure pot for both beans and meet (say cow leg, tail etc). Whatvdevice can help me slice and cut my salad and fried rice things ling carrot and the others. Sipping tea while waiting for your Life saving reply....
I use pressure pot 4 everything even to boil yam n rice ie if I want dem sharp sharp. With beans it's just 15mins
HealthRe: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by Wendy80(f): 6:16pm On Nov 05, 2014
@ Ayolight u shall return with a testimony. I'll keep praying 4 Ur baby. Cheer up The Lord is Ur Strength
FamilyRe: Pills Without Husband Consent by Wendy80(f): 4:47pm On Nov 05, 2014
Whc hospital does family planning for a woman without d consent of her husband? I'm yet to see. Its wrong for a married woman to to take dat decision alone.
FamilyRe: 10 Wife Duties To Avoid With Boyfriends by Wendy80(op): 10:31pm On Nov 04, 2014
YungwizzzyPt7:
[size=20pt]No wonder high rate of 30+ single modern day ladies

they're 1000+ women who are ready to do all these and more out there

continue being the indomie gf and watch another woman take your position!! [/size]
PS: A girl who cannot exhibit any(all) of the OPs points is no wife material for me!!
cheesy
FamilyRe: 10 Wife Duties To Avoid With Boyfriends by Wendy80(op): 10:30pm On Nov 04, 2014
Skillfullulu:
aight. May b na ur own bad pass sef, so u don't want others to do d same. Lol
God 4bid. My Own good pass.
FamilyRe: 10 Wife Duties To Avoid With Boyfriends by Wendy80(op): 10:19pm On Nov 04, 2014
freecocoa:
The real question should be,why be with a man undeserving of your care?

I mean, if him giving you a ring is all you care about and the yardstick for knowing/measuring a deserving man, then yawa dey o.

Bottomline is, try to be sure you are with a man who genuinely loves you and every other thing will follow.

It is trying to follow a certain guideline to get the ring that has left many women heart broken, be yourself and you'll have no problems, take care of a man who does same for you, husband or not.
Yes I agree what works for one might not work for all and what works for all might not work for one.
FamilyRe: 10 Wife Duties To Avoid With Boyfriends by Wendy80(op): 10:16pm On Nov 04, 2014
Skillfullulu:
free am ladies and let em do those chores, getting used to em will b an advantage.
I hear U, getting used to them indeed. Anyway I only shared I'm not d author oh
FamilyRe: 10 Wife Duties To Avoid With Boyfriends by Wendy80(op): 10:01pm On Nov 04, 2014
Skillfullulu:
You ladies shouldn't mind wendy, u gotta b caReful tho but do not let her make u loose ur man.
cheesy nobody is loosing anybody oh.
FamilyRe: 10 Wife Duties To Avoid With Boyfriends by Wendy80(op): 9:45pm On Nov 04, 2014
Cutehector4u:
i only wanted to employ my intriguing skills to find out smth frm u but since u mentiond u wr married, dn dr would b no point askn u further questions
Ok then
FamilyRe: 10 Wife Duties To Avoid With Boyfriends by Wendy80(op): 9:41pm On Nov 04, 2014
Mutuwa:
Thread of nowadays self..anyways Op if your deeply in a "real " love triangle you will do all the aformentioned without conselling from anyone.
Trust me..
Love triangle how?
FamilyRe: 10 Wife Duties To Avoid With Boyfriends by Wendy80(op): 9:39pm On Nov 04, 2014
Cutehector4u:
ok thnk God...... I rest my case....ur safe..
grin
FamilyRe: 10 Wife Duties To Avoid With Boyfriends by Wendy80(op): 9:36pm On Nov 04, 2014
Cutehector4u:
Wendy do u hav a boyfrnd,?
I'm married. Why? smiley
Family10 Wife Duties To Avoid With Boyfriends by Wendy80(op): 9:26pm On Nov 04, 2014
Got this from a broadcast and thought I should share here, so here we go...

‎1. Some ladies think that acting like a wife will automatically persuade the guy to put the ring on their finger. That is faulty thinking and could lead you into big emotional problems.

2. Just so we are clear, until he puts the ring on your finger, you are NOT, I repeat, not, his wife. You go everywhere together, hold hands, kiss in public, he introduces you to his friends as ‘my wife’, all that is nonsense until he puts a legal ring on your finger.

3. You are dating him, that doesn’t give him the right to demand wife duties from you. Dating and marriage are totally different things. Even if he is engaged to you, that doesn’t give him the right to demand wife duties from you.

4. Some men demand that you cook for them, organise their apartment and give them sex to prove that you are good wife material. Don’t you fall for that. Any man who tells you that wants to use and dump you. And, DON’T move in with him because that will automatically make you his ‘in-house-mistress’ who will perform all his wife duties for him without the commitment of marriage.

5. You don’t have to submit to him until he puts that ring on your finger. Some men demand that you should submit to them because you are dating. If he wants you to submit to him when you are not dating, just think of what he would do to you if you are married to him.

6. Don’t give him your money unless you are sure that you will get it back. If you give him your money because he is a ‘potential husband’, you can kiss that money goodbye because you may never see it again.

7. Stop giving him your body whenever wherever. Anytime he wants sex, he calls you up, yet he hasn’t put the ring on your finger. Giving him sex is counter productive. Your objective is to get married to him, not to warm his bed. Pretending to be his wife by giving him sex will not make him put that ring on your finger.

8. It is not complex: if he wants you to perform wife duties for him like cooking, organising his life, sex and all other wife duties, tell him to take you to his family and organize a marriage .Stop being foolish. If he really loves you as he whispers in your ears, he should take you to the marriage registry.

9. If he gets all the wife duties from you for free, why on earth do you think that he will make you his wife? If he is not ready to make a life commitment to you, he doesn’t deserve any wife benefits.

10. Protect yourself from emotional and sexual abuse. Stop giving this man what he doesn’t deserve. If he is not willing to honor you by putting that ring on your finger, then he is not worthy to receive wife benefits from you. When you become his wife, then he will get treated like a husband.

Source
http://picwittr.com/10-wife-duties-to-avoid-with-boyfriends-1
FashionRe: The Truth About True Rebel Fashion Company by Wendy80(f): 9:15pm On Nov 04, 2014
Reminds me of a Hair shop in Happybite PH. The Lady has d habit of employing salesgirls every month and when it's close to pay day she'll look for one excuse or the other not to pay them then fire them. Its either they stole her money or hair is missing, as in every month oh. Until she met her match in one Ogoni girl who refused to leave after bn accused of theft. Omo she waylay her madam and beat d living daylight out of her. Since den when ever she place a notice for salesgirl, u will just be hearing shouts of "no go oh she no de gree pay salary" from other salesgirl in the Mall. In no time her business collaspe cos she couldn't sit down all day with out a help.
HealthRe: Mums: Would You Consider An Epidural? by Wendy80(f): 9:07pm On Nov 02, 2014
I will Consider it 4 my 2nd baby. I'm not down wth pushing @all. During my 1st pregnancy, getting close to delivery Doc said Ur baby is big we MAY consider CS, I quickly jumped @ it and I said not MAY oh, we WILL. Me and hubby didn't mention it to anybody cos I no wan hear dat sermon of our mothers pushed or bind d spirit of CS. 3days after I carried my baby thru CS and everybody is good n happy. I don't even hide d fact dat I had a CS like most mothers. grin
FamilyRe: Comical Reasons Why Kids Cry(pics) by Wendy80(f): 7:30pm On Nov 02, 2014
Hehehehehe cheesy. My 18months daughter will cry if she sees u touching her slippers. Kids, so sweet.
FamilyRe: I Taught My Lover A Big Lesson By Killing His Only Daughter - Woman by Wendy80(f): 3:20pm On Nov 02, 2014
Woman's fury. Hmmmm
FamilyRe: Counselling: Strictly For Couples And Intending Couples! by Wendy80(f): 2:04pm On Nov 02, 2014
@ breadplanets
For me I don't see anythn wrong wth it. Its just being playful with one's hubby. My hubby and I joke with stuff like ds alot. I. Remember wearing a new red bump short one day and hubby came back dt evening and was peeping thru d window to the car park. I was wondering what he was doing until he said 'I'm checking to see if Jude(not real name) is back from work and u ran out from his flat when u saw me driving in and I answered 'yes oh I after seducing him, he's gone back to the office. And we laughed over it. All in all I got d msg that I'm looking hot. Beside Jude is a Bachelor in d block.
I don't get how u are encouraging him to cheat oh. Dat friend of Urs is too serious and stiff jare
#my2cent
Christianity EtcRe: Have You Praised Him Yet, Today? by Wendy80(f): 6:10am On Oct 31, 2014
I'm alive hale and hearty despite all. Thank You Jesus.
PropertiesRe: 2bedroom Flat pls by Wendy80(f): 4:40pm On Oct 30, 2014
greatmarshall:
Yes there's a newly erected 2bed I have in rukpokwu going for 350... And a year payment...
Can he call with d numba above? And pls a little description of d house will do. And again Whc side of rukpokwu? Thank You
PropertiesRe: 2bedroom Flat pls by Wendy80(f): 11:33am On Oct 30, 2014
kemachuk:
Hmmmm hope d area is ok?
Drop ur contact som1 in PH will give u a call
greatmarshall:
I have a 2bed at east-west road for 350k. Interested?
kemachuk:
I've given him ur numba and pls hope it's for 1yr?
Do u have any 2bedroom in rukpokwu for 350k and 1yr too? My friend needs an apartment.
HealthRe: What Do I Do? Denial Of Sex For Almost 16 Months Now. by Wendy80(f): 6:21pm On Oct 29, 2014
Prettypresh:
Pls no insults pls. Mod front page pls. Let me start by askin ds qustn, wen a woman is bn denied of sex by her husband for 16 months, dos it affect her emotionally and psychologically? B4 i delievrd we stopd bn intimate nd my baby is a yr plus 3 months nw, each tym d issue is bn raised he gets angry. Am jst so empty rite nw,dnt knw wat to do. Matured advice pls nd no insults o.
From ur previous post u said ds Man is a married man and u went ahead to date him so he can take care of Ur needs. U need to tell urself the truth, he only used you to get a child and has gone back to his Dear Wife. All I can tell U now is to face ur studies and strive to become a better person. Be interested in Ur child's welfare and not having sex with anoda woman's husband. U've made a mistake by having a child for a married man don't complicate matters by still hanging on to him.
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Help Me Get A Job In Abuja And The First Salary Is Your Yours by Wendy80(f): 9:09pm On Oct 18, 2014
Anglovel:
This is not an agent wahala matter,we are an authentic job recruitment centre,a Company manned by a rtd Magistrate wth awesome connections who wants to give back to d society and touch d lives of d unemployed youths to make d society a better place,have faith,NO VENTURE,NO SUCCESS,AT LEAST TRY,U WILL BE GLAD U DID.
Giving back to society and charging 5k. I hear U.
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Help Me Get A Job In Abuja And The First Salary Is Your Yours by Wendy80(f): 9:07pm On Oct 18, 2014
A good recruitment agency do not ask u to pay dime. Beware!
Des a list of good and real agencies u can send ur cv to on ds job forum just search for it.

5000 ko 5k ni.
HealthRe: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by Wendy80(f): 9:38am On Oct 16, 2014
Hello Mothers in d house,

I was given ampiclox syrup(powder) for my 18months old baby in d hospital. My question is, is de any oda brand of anti biotics I can give to her that's not bitter inplace of d ampiclox. Reply appreciated.
HealthRe: Health Advice: Doctors Online by Wendy80(f): 9:32am On Oct 16, 2014
Hello Doc,
I was given ampiclox syrup(powder) for my 18months old baby in d hospital. My question is, is de any oda brand of anti biotics I can give to her that's not bitter inplace of d ampiclox. Reply appreciated.
FamilyRe: Nairaland Lost A Member Yesterday Evening ( Pics ) by Wendy80(f): 6:09am On Oct 11, 2014
Kai I know ds guy personally oh. RIP Nsikak.
CelebritiesRe: Jide Kosoko’s Wife Moves Out Their Matrimonial Home by Wendy80(f): 11:06pm On Oct 06, 2014
Where is she moving to? After how many yrs of marriage.
CelebritiesRe: Catholic Archbishop, Cardinal Bunmi Okogie Speaks On Oyakhilomes’ Divorce Case by Wendy80(f): 2:41am On Oct 06, 2014
darnley16:
hello watsup
Good

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