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FamilyRe: Oh My God ....men Sha!!!! by Wendy80(f): 2:03am On Oct 06, 2014
Omo dat jazz strong die.... that thn dat will make a man allow his family go wth public trans despite pleas from his wife, only for him to be running to turn driver for mistress and her family..........hmmmmm #shameful
CelebritiesRe: Thread For Admirers Of Tiwa Savage!! by Wendy80(f): 11:30pm On Oct 02, 2014
lomaxx: I used to think the high rate of unemployment in this country was over-emphasized till I saw this thread.
cheesy
FamilyRe: Counselling: Strictly For Couples And Intending Couples! by Wendy80(f): 1:42am On Oct 01, 2014
@ hoynlorlar dear, learn to quiet when he's angry. When u talk back @ or challenge an angry man u wound his ego. I'm not a fan of battering but since u said he wasn't like ds b4 now dn find out what went wrong by talking to him lovingly when he's not moody. And pls desist from reporting it doesn't tell well of u. Sweetie u can handle ur Home I tell U. All d best dear.
FamilyRe: Counselling: Strictly For Couples And Intending Couples! by Wendy80(f): 1:11am On Sep 30, 2014
Things I see and hear ds days eeh, afraid de catch me oh. A lady ran to my Nebo's flat on Saturday evening(we gathered for small party) with black eye and crying.
Na so all d Ladies corner her oh to know what's up. She said her husband beat her up, Wetin happen? She couldn't say. After a while we left her to herself after calming her down sha. She started crying again and called my nebo asking if she can spend d night in her house. Nebo said No P, but what of her hubby? Omo see gist. Her hubby beats her whenever he wants to make love to her as in he doesn't enjoy sex if he doesn't hit her first and ds has been going on 4 2yrs of dia marriage. She couldn't take d beating anymore and ran away from him dat night. Was he like ds when u guys were dating was what I asked her and Babe said no. I dnt know what to say again, decided to share d story here. I'm still in shock cos if u see ds babe dat night u all will wonder what crime she committed. When I tot I've seen it all...
CelebritiesRe: Tyler Perry Is Gay!!! Shocking News! by Wendy80(f): 3:29am On Sep 24, 2014
sad
Nairaland GeneralRe: The Pressure Of Being A Billionaire's Daughter In Nigeria by Wendy80(f): 10:35am On Sep 17, 2014
Make una free ds Babe.... if it makes her happy why not.
FamilyRe: Husband's Or Boyfriend's Reaction When You Told Him You Were Pregnant by Wendy80(f): 10:53pm On Sep 16, 2014
njokusboy: grin When my girlfriend jokingly told me she was pregnant, I ordered a cold bottle of stout, took a sip, looked her in the face and said, "Abeg, if na play, stop am, I don't like it oh"...
Hehehehe grin cheesy
FamilyRe: Counselling: Strictly For Couples And Intending Couples! by Wendy80(f): 7:20pm On Sep 16, 2014
toyesecole: Wat pains me most is dat I stood by her wen we were friends . Dis is d lady I v gone to bail in police station Cux she had a fight with her boyfriend . Dis is d lady I left work for just to remove broken bottles from her bumbum Cux her boyfriend broke bottle on her bumbum, dis is a lady dat her boyfriend has shouting thief on and people gathered to beat just cuz she refuse to go home wit d guy to v seex . Al thanks to my waka dat day day for kill am.Cux I was able to tell dem he was her boyfriend and dat day just heard little misunderstanding so day left her only for her boyfriend to runaway .thou I told her broda wen I started dating him dat d sista was in a relationship dat is dangerous . I think I got it al wrong from d beginning but d fact remains dat I didn't mean any harm I was only trying to safe her asss.
Ds ur SIL na wa oh. Only her on top all ds wahala. Hmm. U need to be careful urself
FamilyRe: Counselling: Strictly For Couples And Intending Couples! by Wendy80(f): 6:59pm On Sep 15, 2014
Godmystrength: shocked Love don end/finish be that o
Lemme attend to my small bosslady first I go download d full gist.
FamilyRe: Counselling: Strictly For Couples And Intending Couples! by Wendy80(f): 5:18pm On Sep 15, 2014
Som men no be here oh. I remember sometime last year, a close colleague caught her hubby cheating thru text msgs and she confronted him, his response was "and so? shocked Omoo na so she freeze 4 some mins. She came to d office wth swollen face, obviously cried all thru d night. D gist plenty jare.
FamilyRe: Counselling: Strictly For Couples And Intending Couples! by Wendy80(f): 9:42pm On Sep 14, 2014
bafm: Evening evrybody,pls a̶̲̥̅♏ confuse n ℓ̊ dnt knw who τ̅☺ talk τ̅☺,my mum which was my only friend died dis year s̶̲̥̅ơ̴̴̴̴̴̴͡º°˚˚°ºooº°˚˚°ºo a̶̲̥̅♏ all alone,pls ℓ̊ need ÿu̶̲̥̅̊я̩̥̊ advice on something,early today ℓ̊ receive a strange sms dt my hubby is cheating on м̣̣̥̇̊ƺ ,whn ℓ̊ saw d txt my hrt fell inside my tommy,ℓ̊ was sweating seriously cos dis is d first tym ℓ̊'ll be seeing such sms n d lady mentioned his name,ℓ̊ left d church,went straight τ̅☺ d house n showed him d sms. He said,it a lie dt he's nt cheating on м̣̣̥̇̊ƺ..pls my mind isn't settled at all..ℓ̊ dnt knw wat τ̅☺ do..
I wouldn't wanto start asking how she got ur numba or knew ur hubby cos some Ladies can be desperate. Ur hubby said it's not true, Believe him and put ur mind @rest. Some ladies are just out to wreck homes. Ask urself ds, Why is she telling me? But be on Ur toes from now.
FamilyRe: Counselling: Strictly For Couples And Intending Couples! by Wendy80(f): 4:52pm On Sep 14, 2014
veave: Errrrmmmmmmm, I actually am not married yet but would need help with a little advice. Please are there people whose marriages were arraged here? I'd like to know if its working, did you get to bond with your arranged spouse later? Your contributions are needed. Thanks embarassed
Arrangee marriage doesn't favour all. Some are workin, som are not. I think it all depends on the pple involved. My close friend's (she married very early @ 20) marriage was arranged and they will be 10yrs 2geda nxt month with 3lovely kids. Very wonderful couple, so for me I thnk it depends on d man n woman. But me prefer see me, like me, toast me, I like u, I gree, we date, u propose, I accept, we court and we marry.
#myopinion
FamilyRe: Counselling: Strictly For Couples And Intending Couples! by Wendy80(f): 4:31pm On Sep 14, 2014
Purecotton: Yes, I feel secure.

Although there's so much influence from his family as they want me to relocate without a job waiting for me and then manage my husbands very small salary.

His salary is so small that it can't even pay for a return ticket to see me.
Omo ds ur inlaws na destiny killers oh cheesy ur hubby seems d difficult type, if u must relocate PLS get a job u are coming to. I know jobs ain't easy in Naija. If his salary can't sustain him how much more u then thnk of when d kids starts coming. Most friends I know who married Yankee based wives gladly relocated.
CelebritiesRe: My Buttocks Is My Greatest Asset – Lydia Forson by Wendy80(f): 4:56am On Sep 12, 2014
Can she get a loan from d bank wth the "asset".
#SMH.........beats me when I hear statements like ds.
FamilyRe: Opening A Home Day Care( Advice Pls) by Wendy80(op): 7:43am On Sep 08, 2014
I appreciate all ur contributions. She has passion for kids maybe cos she has no child of her own and finds joy in taking care of other's. She lives in a big flat and intends starting with just 5 kids between 3months-12months. She can't handle running around children for now cos of space. Although she has a land incase of xpansion.
@ ibizgirl, aisia2 and chaircover thanx so much
BusinessOpening A Home Day Care( Advice Pls) by Wendy80(op): 9:17pm On Sep 07, 2014
An Aunt who resigned from her bank job wants to run a Day care centre in her home. Pls I will welcome suggestions on how she can go about it.
Thank You all.
FamilyOpening A Home Day Care( Advice Pls) by Wendy80(op): 9:11pm On Sep 07, 2014
An Aunt who resigned from her bank job wants to run a Day care centre in her home. Pls I will welcome suggestions on how she can go about it.
Thank You all.
CelebritiesRe: Catholic Archbishop, Cardinal Bunmi Okogie Speaks On Oyakhilomes’ Divorce Case by Wendy80(f): 10:06am On Sep 07, 2014
Hmmm
FamilyRe: Woman Bites Off The Ear Of An SSS3 Student Forhaving An Affair With Her Husband by Wendy80(f): 12:04pm On Sep 06, 2014
SS 3 shocked na wa #SMH
FamilyRe: Could My Man Be The Source Of My Troubles? by Wendy80(f): 10:51am On Sep 06, 2014
Could be coincidence, could be spiritual too. Cos I remember growing up my broda was dating ds lovely girl he wanted to marry. Omo thns just became hard for him as in so hard. He lost his job, apartment was almost living off my parents again. Until a close friend who's observant told him all ds thns started Whn he started dating Dd girl. He almost fought his friend cos he doesn't believe in stuff like that.
One of my Aunts sought spiritual help and was told it's cos of his girl. Bobo still no gree, by d time family n friends stopped lookin his way and poverty was staring @ him. It wasn't somebody that told him to look 4 help and he was told it's d girl, dat she's not bad per se but a spirit from her family makes thns difficult for them. When they parted, thns turned around again.
Sori 4 d typos jare. Using a phone
CelebritiesRe: Leggy Queens Of Nollywood; Actresses With The Hottest Legs ( Photos ) by Wendy80(f): 7:43am On Sep 06, 2014
lalasticlala: Ebube legs are hot.

but she didn't make d list bcs her legs/knee look bleached.
Dn Chika ike, Oge Okoye and Rukky sanda shouldn't be on the list too. Beside is having tiny legs the criteria?
FamilyRe: Counselling: Strictly For Couples And Intending Couples! by Wendy80(f): 11:08am On Sep 04, 2014
aisha2: I also don't believe in the man snatching issue, the man is an adult and he made a choice. However, if that babe married your husband will she have the moral justification to shout if she suspects anything knowing how she got him? Hence for any decent person who wants to build a good relationship foundation you do it right from the start.

What I found mean from the first post was the statement about finding her own husband, so far she has not done anything mean to deserve that, being single is not a crime one should be made to feel bad about. Your mate should ask her husband for the full transaction details first before tagging her.
I don't think any woman should use a husband or lack of it to speak down against another woman, we can all be in her shoes and may have been at one time or the other, if your mate has any issues her husband should answer. It is not the woman's fault that she is not married, it shouldn't be used to score cheap points

Off topic, I knew one guy who assumed he was all that and every woman wanted to snatch him lol.funniest thing to watch
When I say find her own husband isn't to ridicule or abuse her cos I don't know her. Wht I meant is she Shd know ds Man is taken and such gift won't go down well wth most wives.
FamilyRe: Counselling: Strictly For Couples And Intending Couples! by Wendy80(f): 10:58am On Sep 04, 2014
Godmystrength: So are you saying your mate is not to be blamed but her husband? both of them are to be blamed. I don't blame the US babe. the only thing i don't agree with is her buying t shirts for someone that left her to marry another woman. But what do i know? who knows the arrangement/agreement between Nigeria husband and US babe....
Me personally I'm not down with I have a girlfriend but u can still be my girlfriend kind of man. Some girls will tell u as long as he's not married to her I can date him(i can't cos I'm d jealous type). That's where I hold her, but I won't say she snatched him cos d man opened his eyes very well and let go of his UK babe to settle down wth her. den for the husband he chose Whc is beta for him afta sampling dem grin and for the babe in the UK might just be a harmless friend and maybe nothn is going on btw dem. Like I told my mate it myt just be a gift and she should leave it @dat. 5yrs and 2kids is a long time for me to start tellin her u know he had a girl b4 u dated him.
#myopinion
FamilyRe: Counselling: Strictly For Couples And Intending Couples! by Wendy80(f): 10:31am On Sep 04, 2014
Just showed her ds thread to read and digest by herself grin
Godmystrength me I don't believe in man snatching thns jare smiley when a man wants to cheat he cheats. I remember when I was dating my hubby, des ds babe who knew us together who was always calling him and sending him iloveu text. Wheneva I com around she will com to the house and be forming friend with me mnwhile she neva knew I know her finish. When we got married she stopped talking to me(goodriddance).
If my hubby had fallen for her will I say she snatched him? For me he chose to follow her.
#myopinion
FamilyRe: Counselling: Strictly For Couples And Intending Couples! by Wendy80(f): 8:07am On Sep 04, 2014
aisha2: It's guilty conscience disturbing your friend and it will keep worrying her she dated him knowing he had a babe hence she will always worry about his loyalty since he was not loyal to this seemingly nice woman he may not be loyal to her who was a full participant in breaking the other woman's heart.

She can snoop from today till thy Kingdom come she will always need to watch her back. See how mean women can be to other women, see the nasty things you are saying, what did the woman do to your friend? She was on her own your friend came and dated her boyfriend then married him. Your friend may have been too desperate afterwards to properly define her marriage she just wanted a husband.
Anyway, the relationship and marriage started on a deceitful ground so let her deal with it with her husband and not needlessly drag the other woman because of her status.

If no one else will say the truth I will. Women stop being mean to each other, your friend is the reason why men will be saying women are each others worst enemies forgetting the millions of other women who look out for others na the bad ones we go hear
I stated clearly she's my mate not friend. Besides every relationship doesn't end up ii marriage. If my broda inlaw left d oda lady for her then I think he Shd stick to her. I know a numba of good relationship dat Ddnt end up in marriage. For me I don't think I can buy clothes for a man who left me for anoda woman(for Wetin na) just to show I'm nice or probably still in love.. #myopinion
FamilyRe: Counselling: Strictly For Couples And Intending Couples! by Wendy80(f): 6:49am On Sep 04, 2014
@ Snazzy laffin so hard @ bleach thns.
@ kokox lol @ doin to match.
Anyway I told her since d chat is all about sending clothes and nothn more she shouldn't "kee" herself jare. But should be vigilant sha.
If ex chose to be sending clothes to a man who left her to marry som1 else na she know oh make she no go find her own husband
FamilyRe: Can You Address Your Husband As "SIR" Or "DADDY"? by Wendy80(f): 1:45am On Sep 02, 2014
Never
FamilyRe: Counselling: Strictly For Couples And Intending Couples! by Wendy80(f): 11:27pm On Sep 01, 2014
Pepper discipline ke? @ this age and time? That's a big No No from me. Don't think I can ever do that to anybody, how much more my child. #SMH
FamilyRe: Counselling: Strictly For Couples And Intending Couples! by Wendy80(f): 11:24pm On Sep 01, 2014
cococandy: Yea. Do that
She needs to be sure before she gets upset over nothing
He didn't pay. She said when she saw the clothes she asked how much he paid for the clothes and he said he didn't pay a dime and she went mute.
FamilyRe: Counselling: Strictly For Couples And Intending Couples! by Wendy80(f): 6:12pm On Sep 01, 2014
cococandy: Maybe he paid the EX for the cloths.
I didn't ask her about payment but I will find out from her sha.
FamilyRe: Counselling: Strictly For Couples And Intending Couples! by Wendy80(f): 1:00pm On Sep 01, 2014
Good Morn E-Family, Not been here in awhile. Been very very busy lately jare. But I get gist 2day sha embarassed des an issue concerning my mate and I don't know how to handle it.
She's been married for 5years now. According to her b4 she got married to her hubby, he was dating someone who resides in the UK and they were still very much 2geda but She still went ahead to date him. She was aware of d Chick in the UK but didn't really care since she's here with him, eventually he married her‎.
She's been worrying her hubby 2get som Tshirts for himself (for himself oh)to replace d wornout ones he has and h‎e agreed. Just 2weeks ago she stumbled on chat btw hubby n Ex about helping him to get some Tshirts and sending dem thru a friend who's in d UK for hols. She agreed and even sent him som pics of d clothes while in a shop. To cut long story short the clothes arrived yesterday and she's really been bitter and had to tell me about it this morning. The 1st question I asked her was if she has had any occasion to doubt his trust and she said No and I told her to relax it might just be a harmless chat but I'm in a dilemma cos in the 1st place she can't talk about it since her source is his phone which she doesn't want him to know about.
HealthRe: PH Ebola- I Dont Know Who To Believe Again by Wendy80(op): 1:03pm On Aug 30, 2014
alabiyemmy: Have you ever heard that SaharaReporters carried any true story?
It's so confusing really.

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