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Fashion / Re: Best Market For First Grade Gbogbo(okrika) In Port Harcourt by Wendy80(f): 2:12pm On Feb 15, 2019
odinga1of:


Ok, no shaking. I will alert you immediately I get to PH

Thanks, office shirts oh, but how soon pls?
Fashion / Re: Best Market For First Grade Gbogbo(okrika) In Port Harcourt by Wendy80(f): 1:48pm On Feb 15, 2019
odinga1of:


No my friend, I have returned back to Warri.........I might go to Oil Mill Market and get good quality clothes immediately after the election.

Are you into Gbogbo too?
Oh dear, I wanted to buy for someone. Not into it.
Fashion / Re: I Am Looking For Wholesale And Individual Okrika Cloths Buying. by Wendy80(f): 1:45pm On Feb 15, 2019
Do have anyone selling first grade male shirts in PHC? I'm interested pls.
Fashion / Re: Best Market For First Grade Gbogbo(okrika) In Port Harcourt by Wendy80(f): 1:43pm On Feb 15, 2019
odinga1of:


Thanks Boss, but I need quality Gbogbo (first grade) shirt Dem.

will I see such in Aba? Cos the last time I visited Oil Market, Dem try well well.
Pls are you still into first grade male shirts and still in PHC? I need some pls.
Crime / Re: Nigerian Woman Beats Her Friend Mercilessly For Allegedly Sleeping With Husband by Wendy80(f): 9:40am On Jan 29, 2019
EmekaBlue:
grin Nkiru why na...Husband snatcher

but just look at d wife...African women wont learn to keep fit after marriage, how do u xpect d man not to look outside when u be looking like a whale in d house
Maybe the man likes them fat cos the Nkiru herself is fat.
Celebrities / Re: Flavour And Sandra Okagube Have Parted Ways by Wendy80(f): 3:08pm On Jan 25, 2019
Ehiscotch:
There are still a thousand and one hoes who would gladly want to be Flavour's babymama.

He got you pregnant, got Anna Banner pregnant and you still opened your legs again?

Man, look how a famous D has made two delectable ladies look like cheap hoes.

I think she just wanted to have her kids for one man not minding his philandering ways.
Health / Re: Mothers Stop Using Anti Fungal As Baby Cream – Pediatrician Warns by Wendy80(f): 8:13pm On Sep 09, 2018
Will they hear? A mother saw my 2year old baby and said 'why did you allow this girl to get dark she used to be fair' and I told her whatever complexion you see now is her true skin colour after all I'm light skin and her father is dark.
The rate at which Mothers bleach their baby's skin is alarming.

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Crime / Re: Kennezoid: Man Who Tried To Blackmail Corper With Her Nudes, Apologises by Wendy80(f): 5:00pm On Aug 31, 2018
Another dumb girl somewhere is busy sending her nude pics to a guy somewhere in the name of love... They will never hear.
Family / Re: . by Wendy80(f): 4:04pm On Aug 18, 2018
genq:
Couples that post epistles of their relationship/marriage online, please o, does it add value to your relationship? or do you just do it for attention and admiration?
Some do it for 'likes'. Makes them feel good.
Crime / Re: CCTV Shows How Harry Uzoka Was Killed In UK by Wendy80(f): 8:28pm On Aug 17, 2018
Been following this story. Harry had a whole lot going on for him but gra gra de him body. Imagine arranging for a fight.. cry May God console the Uzokas.

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Celebrities / Re: Rosaline Meurer: "Olakunle Churchill Is My Man Crush Monday" by Wendy80(f): 7:46pm On Aug 14, 2018
This one is looking for attention. This is just 'I still de oh if una don forget me' post

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Family / Re: Ceasarean Section Or Induced Labour Delivery, Which Is Better? by Wendy80(f): 10:12am On Aug 14, 2018
Oyindidi:
my son weighed 4.5kg though I was not booked till my day of delivery. I see pepper that daygrin my belle want tear
cheesy cheesy grin grin

After labour pain then CS... Kai that pain no be here oh. Mothers are strong kiss
Family / Re: Ceasarean Section Or Induced Labour Delivery, Which Is Better? by Wendy80(f): 9:49am On Aug 14, 2018
Oyindidi:
The day I was to deliver my son. I went into labour the previous day, my sister! Labour show me peppergrin oga dey cry outside as them don book me CS. Na so I begin cry o, Doctor please come and bring out the baby!! Them do CS, I dey alive my lovely handsome love is alive. I no care if na push or CS. CS all the way! I can't risk my baby's live with my tight pelvic...
When I was 5months gone, I went for antenatal classes one day and saw a lady in labour crying and screaming. I was so scared that i immediately took a decision there to go for CS. Fortunately for me close to edd baby's weight was much had to be booked for CS. I was glad.

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Family / Re: Dear Mothers....about Your Daughter's Hair by Wendy80(f): 6:57pm On Aug 13, 2018
You still see tears in my eyes whenever I'm making my hair. Went natural last year, all I do now is cornrows and wear wig.
One of my daughters took after me, she doesn't like making her hair at all but sometimes she's dramatic about it.
Health / Re: Help. The Vitiligo Spreading On My Lips Is Making Me Suicidal (pics) by Wendy80(f): 2:26pm On Jul 05, 2018
OP I'm sure you remember Kechi one of the two survivors of sosoliso air clash. Pls follow her @kechi_agt on Instagram and encourage yourself. She's living her life to the fullest despite her skin. Work on your self esteem and you will be fine. All the best.

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Family / Re: For Your Change of Name in Guardian Newspaper by Wendy80(f): 2:17pm On Jul 04, 2018
fmniky:
Thanks you all for your patronage and most especially for the referrals.God bless you all.
am Femi.b
call or WhatsApp 08060458330
Pls how do I go about change of name. Your number isn't connecting
Celebrities / Re: Mike Ezuruonye To Divorce Wife For Giving Birth To An Albino - Made4naija.com by Wendy80(f): 4:13pm On Jun 16, 2018
To think a lot of people do not know about Recessive gene. See them supporting Mike Ezuruonye already. Na wa oh. Mike himself should go back to school for denying that child. shocked

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Celebrities / Re: BBNaija: Why I Like Cee-C - Lydia Forson by Wendy80(f): 3:10pm On Apr 20, 2018
CeeC reminds me of my late brother's wife in looks and character. This same character sent my brother to an early grave. Her family and friends who truly love her should get her the necessary help once she's out. This is a disaster waiting to happen. This isn't about being strong.

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Literature / Re: Is It That Authors Are No Longer Interested In Children's Literature?? by Wendy80(f): 8:06am On Apr 13, 2018
The few children books I saw sometime with my little nephews the 'gbagauns' were too much. Wrong tenses everywhere.

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Romance / Re: My Fiancée Is Requesting For 500K Before She Can Accept My Wedding Proposal by Wendy80(f): 7:23pm On Feb 20, 2018
franchasng:
No 1 Lagos street, opposite Lagos road cheesy cheesy kiss

kiss kiss kiss grin
Romance / Re: My Fiancée Is Requesting For 500K Before She Can Accept My Wedding Proposal by Wendy80(f): 8:57am On Feb 20, 2018
franchasng:
Men and women beauty eh cheesy

I am sure the op's fiance is very cute and highly loaded back and front like G-wagon, reason he cant reason well again even with clear signs, pity men grin

I used to have a very hot, as in over hot girlfriend like this, she was so cute and sexy that my friends always ask me guy are u sure u want to marry this chick weh fine like mami iwota so grin grin

She's from a rich family o, but see demanding and once u don't grant her demand she will start crying and that makes me weak angry angry

She used this on me and whenever I make up my mind to walk away after friend's advice me, once I see her again and her over beauty enters my head and i am back to caring for her again, poor me cheesy cheesy

Until i began to socialise and met other hot girls then i was delivered and I walked away finally, she is still begging to come back and promising to have changed but fear no wan gree me go back lol

Op, man up and walk away, she is not good for u, once she meets her dream man, she will be begging him to come wed her even for free, thats how ladies are. They form kingkong when they dont love u deeply enough but once they do like my ex who is now pleading and pledging to be the best woman she never was, they will do anything to keep u.

Dont let her beauty overshadow your good reasoning, walk away now and dont go back! Let her learn from this and be good to the next guy she will meet

Where do I send ur kisses and hugs to? grin
Family / Re: I Married A Stranger! I Caught My Wife With Her Boss At Ikeja Hotel! by Wendy80(f): 5:39pm On Feb 19, 2018
ofegge73:
you have no idea what you just concluded.
Let me make it a bit easier to comprehend.
I have never in my entire life hit my siblings, or anyone for that matter, the truth is and I will tell you. My estranged wife would easily slap me, and then sulk up to me later to apologise.
I grew up in a wonderful family, I never witnessed my parents fight or exchange words.
There has never been anything like domestic violence all the times she was with me till today.
What I now realize today, is the fact that she always had things her way, because I never checked,monitored or controlled her movement in and out of our home.
So, when I first noticed she was having affairs outside and repeated appeals for her to stop, she became something else.
She didn't pack out of our home, I drove her and the kids to her father's house.
I later found out from their security man that she always had male visitors, and most times wouldn't get back till the next day.
So, I told her the marriage was effectively over, that's when she conspired with her mum and brother to label domestic violence and all sorts against me and went to all the agencies you can imagine or think of in Lagos State, cos she knew she had lost the marriage.
I am a good man and I know so.
God will help me.

OMG... This broke my heart, exactly what my late bro passed through. A violent and adulterous wife sent him to an early grave.
OP you're in my prayers..
Family / Re: I Married A Stranger! I Caught My Wife With Her Boss At Ikeja Hotel! by Wendy80(f): 9:42am On Feb 19, 2018
ofegge73:

Thanks, I certainly will.
OP, you are good person. With all the evidence you have get a good lawyer and find a lasting solution to this problem. I hate adulterous wife with passion cos I lost an elder brother recently to one(story for another day). Still wish I could turn back the hands of time. Get your family involve too don't fight alone.

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Health / Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by Wendy80(f): 10:10am On May 19, 2017
Gaily04:
@rukemi291, Where is our sonographer? How is everything? Hope you have moved to another level.

@Wendy80, Happy Birthday to your princess.

Thanks dear.
Celebrities / Re: Mercy Johnson Accepts Tonto Dikeh's Apologies (Photos) by Wendy80(f): 9:13am On Jan 13, 2017
Medunah:
God, I just love this babe

So humble and forgiving.....if Na me, I fit take 10days reply the stupid girl
U got me laughing so hard. Thank God no be u.

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Properties / Re: WINDOW BLINDS AND CURTAINS by Wendy80(f): 5:17pm On Jan 10, 2017
june20:
Take this
How much is this blind as it is?
And ur location pls
Business / Re: Mike Adenuga Names A Street After Himself In Banana Island, Residents Kick by Wendy80(f): 1:03pm On Dec 17, 2016
okdannyel:


So, you want me to have a dictionary by my side before I visit NL? Grandiosity ko granddiovillage ni

grin grin grin
Fashion / . by Wendy80(f): 3:29pm On Dec 08, 2016
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Celebrities / Re: Angela Okorie's Support For Gambian President, Yaya Jammeh, Got Her Blasted by Wendy80(f): 9:19am On Nov 18, 2016
mazimee:


I guess you didn't grow up among responsible women.



1 million likes kiss

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Health / Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Wendy80(f): 10:26am On Oct 06, 2016
Good Morn mothers in the house. How're our LOs and DH doing? Pls for mothers that are through with child bearing or know someone, and have things like Baby rocker, walker and car seat for sale ur attention is needed.
I need 6 neatly used baby rocker, 6 neatly used baby walker and a Car seat.
Let it be quite affordable. No buhari price grin
Pls PM me, location is PortHarcourt.
Health / Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by Wendy80(f): 10:25am On Oct 06, 2016
Good Morn mothers in the house. How're our LOs and DH doing? Pls for mothers that are through with child bearing or know someone, and have things like Baby rocker, walker and car seat for sale ur attention is needed.
I need 6 neatly used baby rocker, 6 neatly used baby walker and a Car seat.
Let it be quite affordable. No buhari price grin
Pls PM me, location is PortHarcourt.
Family / Re: My Wife Absconded With Our Kids by Wendy80(f): 11:13am On Oct 04, 2016
Kpac:
I would give my response JUST by hearing you side of the story.....

Situation Currently
First, i am sure your wife is not a Yoruba lady. As a culture, our ladies are not trained and taught to leave their husband's house unofficially or abscond with kids from the marriage. Whatever you were thinking, that was the first mistake.

Secondly, your wife must be a beauty queen and one which you have fought so "HARD" to win and even marry. You have lived all your decisions for her, to please her and to keep her. You have made hefty promises while you were convincing her to marry you and its unfortunate you can really keep them. You spend almost all your resource and energy to make her happy and for the past few years things have been hard, all your goal was to make it up and prove a point. Unfortunately, that goal sent you even deeper into more troubles than your plans could reveal.

I am sure you took the "lucrative" printing job just because of her, she might not be the reasons you gave everyone and yourself, but in your hearts of heart, you know you took that risk to make it big, make her happy, prove a point, keep her quiet and give you confidence as a man. That decision got you deeper into troubles.

You bought the car to get contracts and get effective in your business is another reason you gave everyone and yourself, you knew how you fantasized the happiness and hug from your wife when the car first gets into your compound and she sees it. You bought that car to gain confidence you have lost and the indirect and direct embarrassment she was giving you from comparisons.

Against what is good for you again, you moved to oshogbo to please her yet again. You wrongly thought oshogbo would "tame" her and give you some peace. Another major decisions taken to please your wife again and because you have lost the power to make the right decisions to solely please your wife, all those decisions never lasted as intended.

I wouldn't know what more you did and that you know just for your wife and to keep her.

I respect your wife because i respect you but some women are best left for the consumption social media, for photo shoots and cover pages of magazines. Choosing a wife is entirely a different course and i cant teach you more than you have learnt.

Your kids would still be your kids if you have married any woman, They are your gene, your chemistry and contains your DNA. Choosing who gives birth to them is what they require you take in their best decisions.

Your wife would always keep you on your foot even if you earn 10 million naira every month excluding tax. If you had thought there are levels an insatiable woman gets contented and quiet, you were wrong. They would continue to grow in their in-contentment and their taste and expectations would get to an advanced level as your worth increases.

Way Forward
Please visit your in-laws, seek audience and if possible request for a meeting. Get to know what your wife's expectations are and what time she would give you to achieve them, seek to know what your in-laws expectations are also of you and the time to achieve them. Seek to know the consequences of you failing to achieve them all. Seek to find out if your wife really sees the marriage as compulsory or optional. Seek to know if there are options of separations on the table from your in-laws.

This would let you know the "EXACT" situation you have gotten yourself into and give you the broad view to analyze if you can achieve them or not.

If you cant achieve them, make the best decisions for your kids and please get your life back and stop living to please anybody. Its a journey that never ends.

No matter how hard you try, you cannot satisfy an insatiable wife and its all your faults here because you went into the marriage for selfish reasons and now you have to face it.

Its hard but sincerely, this truth would send you back into the path you should really be.
I doff my hat for you.
#wellsaid

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