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Webmasters / Website Plus Adsense For Sale by wendyberry(m): 10:20pm On Nov 24, 2021
I am about to change my niche and will love to sell my website plus its newly approved Adsense. It's a relationship site with over a hundred posts. DA of 12 and PA of 19.

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Romance / How To Know When It's Time To End A Relationship by wendyberry(m): 2:19pm On Nov 06, 2021
How to know when its time to end a relationship is a skill that's just as important but far less studied than knowing how to start things off. We're typically appalling at it. We mumble we delay, we become strange, we hedge.



And there's a reason we've messed things up so badly. It's not as if we're stupid, unskilled, or unkind. It's because we're attempting to be kind. All of our ineptness, ignorance, and brutality stem from this.



Because we are emotional, we strive not to be cold and instead attempt to be polite. The core of sentimentality is the want to be loved, even by people you don't like and can't stand. It's a selfish desire to keep receiving love's emotion without having to pay for it.



But kindness has no role whatsoever to play at the charred end of relationships. Being sweet and understanding merely prolongs the torture for the other person. If we are being so tender, is it possible that we truly mean the dark things we are ostensibly saying? Could we be so loving and, at the same time, calling it a day?







Above all, we must extinguish hope. We, on the other hand, waffle much too often. 'At the end of a relationship, it is the one who is not in love which delivers the sweet speeches,' Marcel Proust accurately noted. Parting lovers may find themselves in the bizarre scenario of one person grieving because they are being abandoned and the other crying because the announcement of the left has caused them anguish - tears that the abandoned party misinterprets as shows of caring.



The kindest way to end a relationship is to make extremely brutal speeches – of a sort that will leave the other person in no doubt at all that you're not an especially nice person. The truly courageous way to leave is to allow yourself to be hated by someone who loves you.



There's no time to waste. Don't fool yourself into thinking you're doing someone a favour by extending the time they may remain under the pleasant notion that you desire them. Their main concern is to quit squandering their lives. Don't trust them when they say they won't find anybody else like you; they may believe it now and perhaps tell you so lovingly. But when they do figure out who you are, they won't believe you. True compassion entails getting out – even if the vacation has already been planned and informing everyone at this late stage would be extremely embarrassing.


Continue reading: https://www.lovebird.com.ng/2021/11/how-to-know-when-its-time-to-end-a-relationship.html

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Romance / How To Spice Up Your Relationship by wendyberry(m): 2:11pm On Nov 06, 2021
How to spice up your relationship, It's reassuring to have a stable love connection amid everything else that is always changing. However, as this constancy develops, we begin to combine our everyday routines with our once-in-a-lifetime relationship.


Because it's November, pass the pumpkin pie! This month's free tech backgrounds were inspired by the warmth and love that the holiday season offers.

It's challenging to keep the chemistry alive in a time when a short acknowledgement before work substitutes a goodbye kiss, and a marathon of movies has become the only form of date night. Since being stuck in this kind of rut can be seriously disheartening, here are seven ideas to help you spice up your relationship and rediscover the spark that made you appreciate your partner in the first place.



Leave notes around

Stay spontaneous by leaving your emotional words for your spouse to find as they go about their daily routine, whether it's slipping one into his or her pocket to read before a big presentation or posting one on the bathroom mirror to start his or her day. Spending the additional effort to handwrite the messages will impact your lover and spark your passion in today's technology-driven environment.



Put in the effort to understand each other's hobbies.

Supporting your spouse in their interests is admirable, but making an effort to understand more about their interests is crucial. Starting a dialogue about your partner's performance and strategy, in addition to witnessing their golf event, is the type of introduction that will have the two of you seeing each other in a new way. While you don't have to go out and research strange things about your partner's hobbies, even knowing enough about them to bond over is a gesture that will be appreciated.



Unplug from your devices

When communicating with our real-life best pals, our phones are both our best companions and our biggest distractions. Nothing is more impersonal than talking to your significant other about your day and having them answer by peeking up from their phone now and then.

To prevent this blunder, make it a priority to disconnect from technology while you're attempting to spend quality time with your partner. Even though it appears to be a minor deed, it will rekindle a significant connection that you may have believed was disappearing.



Create a new tradition

Creating customs that help you look forward to the future is a terrific approach to keep your relationship exciting. Holding your relationship accountable to the tradition(s) you choose is a foolproof solution to making time for each other — and looking forward to it. From trying a new coffee shop every month to participating in a scavenger hunt every fall, holding your relationship accountable to the tradition(s) you choose is a foolproof solution to making time for each other — and looking forward to it.



Also Read: Love Alone does not Guarantee The success of A Relationship or Marriage



Surprise one another

Sending a bouquet to your loved one is a classic romantic gesture for a reason: it's refined, thoughtful, and looks good on the dining room table. Along with flowers, you might also surprise your lover with concert tickets or a clean bathroom. Finally, you know what your partner enjoys the most, and now it's time to demonstrate it.





Revisit the places you both used to love

You may act as if you're living in the past, even though you can't live there. Dress up for supper and head to a restaurant as though you're on your first date together to turn back the clock. Take a trip on the route you used to run before life became crazy if you want a more informed choice. Returning to a location that has special meaning for you and your partner will bring back memories of the past and remind you that those sentiments are still there now.



Get intimate again

When we claim that deeds speak louder than words, we are correct. Make an effort to touch your significant other throughout the day if you want to relive the honeymoon phase with your



Continue Reading: https://www.lovebird.com.ng/2021/11/how-to-spice-up-your-relationship.html

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Romance / The Best Dating Apps To Use In 2021 by wendyberry(m): 2:03pm On Nov 06, 2021
The best dating Apps to Use in 2021, you'd think the coronavirus pandemic and its limitations would put an end to dating apps for good because no one could get together and do something nasty, but they came into their own. Apps that would normally be hotbeds of hookups or one-sided chat-ups discovered their romantic side and formed a feeling of community. Users found even more individuals in the same boat – or, at least, bobbing about on the same sea.



During the COVID-19 epidemic, video dating and online sex became more popular, not merely as a substitute for actual closeness but also as a supplement. Now that we've re-entered the dating scene, apps are back to doing what they do best: connecting people, but they've had to change alongside their users.

There's an app for almost everyone, but it might be difficult to find one that offers both membership and functionality to make it worthwhile to swipe right for. Here's a list of some of the greatest, busiest, and most bizarre websites that want your eyes and fingers on their displays.



THURSDAY App

The only dating app that only functions on one day of the week which is Thursday – is Thursday app. The idea is that setting aside a day to go through your matches, send messages, and plan a date will help you focus, take it seriously, and be less likely to annoy people.

Thursday app users can also take it offline at exclusive After Party events arranged in London – or New York if you're in the area – for them. If you don't want to use the app or even go on that first date, this is an excellent method to meet people. It's also the ideal foil for any catfish that might show up.

Download at getthursday.com


HINGE App

Hinge isn't interested in being on your phone indefinitely; it's "intended to be erased," providing you with the freedom to communicate and get to know someone on your terms. Hinge isn't afraid to provide new features to keep you intrigued. Hinge launched a tool that allows you to hear a clip of your possible match's speech after discovering that 75% of users struggled to determine if there was a spark or not.

This is great news for anybody who can match Idris Elba or James McAvoy's attractive vocals, but if your speaking voice sounds like a fire in a pet store, you might want to steer clear.

Hinge App is now introducing Voice Notes to its chat feature, as well as the ability to submit additional sounds to help pitch yourself as a good date — so if you're claiming to be a singer-songwriter, you may as well put your microphone where your mouth is and press record.

Download it at hinge.com


GRINDR App

I think it's because of its tenacity. After 12 years in the game, Grindr app is still the gold standard – okay, the yellow standard – with many imitators offering additional features and specialized approaches to gay datings, such as Scruff, Hornet, or Chappy.

Much of Grindr's app feature enhancements are focused on safety – such as preserving users' data and ensuring that imagery is seductive but not obscene – and inclusion, such as making Grindr a more welcoming environment for trans and other queer daters.

Most crucially, Grindr app has the numbers to ensure that you "always see a new face," however you'll need to upgrade to premium to view outside your area and avoid the same old fiz.

Download at grindr.com


FEELD App

Feeld app isn't trying to be anything other than what it is: a hookup app that caters to not only Hot singles but couples, troubles, and so on. If you're queer and/or poly and sick of the fetishization and lack of inclusion on other apps, Feeld app is an excellent place to go. Many diverse sexual orientations and gender identities are accepted, and everyone knows why they're there.

Download at feeld.co


THE SAUCE

Because it concentrates on video profiles, The Sauce claims to be "less dry" than its competitors. Consider this: a static photo can be filtered, staged, and maybe the 25th take, but it doesn't tell you anything about someone other than how they seem after meticulous curation. On the other hand, videos show you how someone moves, their facial expressions, and their voice, all of which make you feel hot, are a more effective defence against catfishing. Rather than planned pieces-to-camera, naturalistic footage is your friend here — ask friends to browse through their Insta Stories or go inventive.

Browsing Sauce's feed is a bit like scrolling through TikTok, so it's at least entertaining, meaning your will to live does hang around longer than it might on other, more swipe dating apps.

Download at sauceapp.co


WINGMAN App

Selling yourself on a dating profile may be difficult since you may not view yourself the way others do, which can be both a good and bad thing. Not only that but there's a chance you're excluding possible matches without giving it a second consideration since the criteria tray doesn't work for you ethnically. Wingman isn't a standard dating app where singles hunt for singles; instead, it's more of a community of individuals who work together with their friends and family.



Wingman puts matters in the hands of the people who know you best: your friends and family construct your profile and can filter through possible matches before presenting them to you for approval.



It may seem a little like being a Roman emperor with minions doing your bidding, but it's no different from having a wingman in a bar—the more people you have on your team, the better. If you're the last bachelor with friends who are yearning for you to meet someone, having their approval may make social occasions a lot less unpleasant. Furthermore, potential mates may place more confidence in what others say about you than in the picture you offer.

Download at wingmanapp.com


BUMBLE App

Bumble is known for being a "women-first" app, putting online safety first in all they do, which, by the way, benefits both men and women. If a woman feels secure in her surroundings, she'll be more relaxed, open, and honest with you while you strive to match – as long as you act appropriately.

Bumble's app long-standing essential feature is that the woman must initiate the initial message of interest – albeit this gimmick is eliminated for "men seeking men" or "women seeking women" variants.

This may be beneficial since you won't be under as much pressure to come up with an opening line, you'll be less likely to be ignored, and each incoming message will offer you an indication of a woman's personality and a feel of who she is.



Bumble is also leading the charge in polling its user base following the shutdown and has created a variety of options to assist reluctant daters in finding a match, such as vaccinated badges. However, it appears that they are prepared to let their hair down: Following lockdowns, 63% of Bumble users questioned in the UK said they wanted to be more sexually active, so keep that in mind.

Download it at bumble.com


INTRO App

Unlike most of its rivals, the Intro is a relative newbie that tries to get you off the app and into an IRL environment as soon as possible. Instead of frequent back-and-forth speaking and dragging things out, the dating app is dubbed "for busy professionals," since after you match, you can't chat at all, Instead, tell the app when you're free, and it'll set up a mutually agreeable meeting time and even suggest a location, like an attentive personal assistant who is perfectly okay with doing additional things for you, like picking up your dry cleaning and sorting your love life.



Because safety is a worry, you may start with video dating, and you can even do some visual speed dating to add to the retro vibe. Third parties might contribute information to your profile to boost your credibility and confirm that you are who you say you are.

Download at theintro.com




ELATE App

Elate advertises itself as more intelligent than a dating app, encompassing London and Manchester. It uses your likes and dislikes to make recommendations, and it may even gently let you down if you decide someone isn't suited for you.



Continue reading: https://www.lovebird.com.ng/2021/11/the-best-dating-apps-to-use-in-2021.html
Romance / Re: If Your Boyfriend Answers Yes To These 10 Question, Know He Will Marry You. by wendyberry(m): 6:31pm On Nov 01, 2021
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you dey waste ur time


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Romance / If Your Boyfriend Answers Yes To These 10 Question, Know He Will Marry You. by wendyberry(m): 6:12pm On Nov 01, 2021
If Your Boyfriend Answers Yes To These 10 Question, know He Will Marry You.


Ask him these questions to find out if he’s in it for the long haul. It’s really hard to predict who will be the one to pop the question, but it’s an impossible task. More often than not, men who are thinking of marriage will occasionally drop hints about it to the women they want to take to church.

The following questions are great for women who want to find out where they really stand with their man. If he’s hesitant, changes the subject, or stonewalls you, then it’s safe to say he’s not looking for marriage with you.

On the other hand, if he says “yes” to these ten questions, he’ll be happy to wife you up eventually.

1. “Do you see yourself with me in the long-term?” If he asks you how long term you’re talking about, it’s safe to say that he sees your relationship as a placeholder. If he says “yes,” it’s also safe to say he’ll lock it down. If he hesitates, it’s just a bad sign overall.

2. “Do you have a good view on marriage?” If he hates the idea of marriage, he’ll never pop the question. End of story.



3. “Are most of your friends married?” Men are notorious for following the cues of their friends. If his buds are hitched and he’s single, he’s probably looking to change that sooner rather than later.



4. “Are you looking for marriage?” Sometimes you have to be blunt. If he tells you he’s not looking for a wife, believe him. If he’s vehemently anti-marriage, he’s just not going to be a husband to you, ever.

5. “Do you have a time frame you’re thinking about?”

Only ask this question if he’s already said yes to #4. Otherwise, he will likely freak out and ask you why you want to label things.

6. “Do you want to have kids?”

Most men who want to have kids also are interested in marriage. If he wants to have a baby with you, he will probably propose to you soon enough.

7. “Do you see me as wife material?”

If he can’t say yes to this, you need to break up with him immediately. He’s wasting your time and using you as a placeholder.

8. “Would you want to go to Italy this summer?”

A man who is looking to pop the question will often try to make vacation plans and other distant future plans. This is a sign he’s looking to


Continue Reading: https://www.lovebird.com.ng/2021/11/if-your-boyfriend-answers-yes-to-these.html?m=1
Romance / 7 Better Ways To Handle Relationship Issues Without Fighting Or Quarreling by wendyberry(m): 6:01pm On Nov 01, 2021
A lot of couples, married or in a relationship can’t handle issues without a fight or a quarrel. Hard as it may sound, there are ways you can handle your relationship issues without having to fight or quarrel.

1. PUT ASIDE PRIDE AND EGO: Two of the major reasons couples have so many unsettled issues are pride and ego. These two forces would make you want to win every argument, they would make you see your partner’s point as inferior and would also push you into believing that you are always right.



2. HANDLE YOUR EMOTIONS: It’s also important to keep your emotions in check when faced with a relationship issue. There is a thin line between having a talk with your partner and having a heated argument. When emotions aren’t put in check, they lead partners to have heated arguments.

3. AVOID ACCUSATIONS AND COUNTER ACCUSATIONS: When settling a dispute with your partner, one important rule to always remember is avoiding accusations. Avoid the blame games and who you felt was wrong. When you are still at who’s wrong and who isn’t, your dispute might never get settled — you would only keep hovering around accusations without making any meaningful impact.

4. LISTEN: Sometimes, all partners have to do is hear each other out. When trying to handle relationship issues, practice listening to each other — if you can find a way to listen to each other, your relationship would be better off for this.



5. AVOID INTERRUPTING YOUR PARTNER: This goes hand in hand with the previous tip. Listen to your partner and allow your partner to conclude speaking before you respond. When this principle is applied, communication becomes easier, and proper communication is what would help you and your partner settle issues properly and with understanding. Always remember that communication fosters understanding.

6. THINK BEFORE YOU SPEAK: While this might seem hard, but it’s also important. Avoid name-calling and try not to hurt your partner with your words. Speak fairly; this is important. If you can, call your partner sweet names while discussing; this would calm

CONTINUE READING: https://www.lovebird.com.ng/2021/11/7-better-ways-to-handle-relationship.html?m=1
Romance / Don't Let Your Ex Destroy Your Relationship Or Marriage by wendyberry(m): 8:38am On Nov 01, 2021
Don't Let Your Ex Destroy Your Relationship Or Marriage

One of the most delicate relationship problems is the issue of EX LOVERS.
Keeping a close contact with your EX is not advisable if you have started another relationship. Also friendship with an EX cannot continue after marriage. Have you ever thought of why they left or behaved the way they did? The truth is that if they truly loved and missed you, they shouldn't have abandoned you or dumped you, they would have either married you or break up with you mutually.

My beloved pals, be careful how you relate with your Ex, never discuss your current relationship with your EX. It is a dangerous path to thread.
If you have started a new relationship or you are married, please keep your EX at a distance. They should please step aside while you enjoy your relationship, dating or marriage.
Now pay attention to this bitter facts, Some EX lovers are very crafty, smart, wicked, stubborn and can as well blackmail you to do his or her bidding. They can be very desperate.

Most of them behave like something that's being controlled by AMADIOHA. Most times they can suddenly wake up, and start hunting for you under the guise of let's come back together, you are my life, ever since I left you, I haven't known peace, is the work of the Devil, I don't know what came over me, I need you back, please give me a second chance blablabla.
If you find yourself in such a situation, do not be naive to fall for his or her crap if you have found a new relationship that you are happy with or if you are already married.

EX Lovers always come with stories that touches the heart so don't give a hut. Because it can ruin your happiness the second time and forever. I have counselled a good number of single and married people who end up having affairs with their EX. To be candid, most EX wrecked their homes leaving them frustrated and in perpetual agony. Once you are caught, your relationship and marriage wouldn't be the same again.
Let me be candid with you, we are humans, and emotions don't die. It is not easy to forget an EX. Especially the ones you shared your heart, body, soul, money, time, affection, attention, love and togetherness with the person.

So the feelings you have for your EX lovers haven't died completely but for you to move on and enjoy your relationship, dating or marriage with your new partner, you need to keep your EX Lover away, restrict communications if possible and love your Man or Woman like they are the only one in the world.
Most times, you may bump into your EX Lover, you need not turn back to look twice, because if you do, you may suddenly discover that you still have hidden feelings and passions for an Ex and any mistake may trigger an affair which doesn't end peacefully.
Little wonder some Men and Women still sleep with their EX while still under a new relationship or in their husband's house.
What did you really miss in your EX? Is it the abuse, the heartbreak, sex, penis, vagina, money, swag, romance, etc? Are you really being fair to the new person you are with.

Can't you calmly teach him or her how you like it, how you desire to be cared for, romanced, kissed, touched, smiled at and given attention all the time, can't you make it work? Why going back to your vomit?
Say no to an Ex relationship, unless you are with

Continue Reading: https://www.lovebird.com.ng/2019/01/dont-let-your-ex-destroy-your-relationship.html?m=1
Romance / True Story: When The Fight Goes Off At Night: Part One by wendyberry(m): 6:03pm On Oct 31, 2021
True Story: When The Fight Goes Off At Night: Part One

The noise of a barking dog woke me up in the middle of the night. I checked the time, it was 12:15am. Usually, I will ignore the barking of dogs in the area. They never seem to go away. At every point in the night, a certain dog will bark. Sometimes the sound may come from very far away. You can hear it faintly from a distance only because you’re having a sleepless night. The sound that woke me up that night wasn’t coming from yonder. It was close and very vociferous. It couldn’t have been from a dog who was barking at nothing or a shadow.

I woke up, pulled the curtains slightly, and looked outside. There was nothing there. Just an empty street and a neighbor’s dog barking and jumping around viciously as though it had seen an enemy. I said in my head, “Crazy old fool. How could you disturb the peace of the night for nothing? But come to think of it, how would Hayford decide to keep a dog in an area like this?”

My sleep was interrupted and found it very hard to sleep again. I laid on my back with my eyes fixed on the ceiling and thought of how a crazy dog could interrupt my beautiful sleep. For the rest of the night, I laid awake thinking about nothing. Just when I was dozing off, the dog began barking again. this was even more fierce than the first. It continued for about a minute or so. I grudgingly opened my eyes, pulled the curtain again, watched outside and there was nothing. Just an empty street and Hayford’s dog barking fiercely and jumping around. I checked the time and it was some minutes after 4am.

When I woke up in the morning, there was no sign of Hayford. I went to the office with this angry face looking for Hayford. I wanted to warn him to teach his dog how to keep quiet when humans are sleeping. I asked a colleague and he said, “Hayford is on an outstation project so he had traveled.”

Hayford is a colleague at work. Where we live is an estate for the workers in the company. Hayford’s flat is directly opposite to mine with only a street separating us. My bedroom window is directly opposite to his so when in the night I lift my curtains and put the light on, Hayford will see what is going on in my room from his room. We also worked from the same office. He had been married for over a year and live there with his wife. So the night when the dog was fiercely barking, his wife might have been disturbed too.

Two days later, it happened again. The dog was up and barking fiercely. I didn’t even bother to look outside. It’s a just crazy dog who takes delight in disturbing the neighborhood. I fell asleep again and later in the night, the dog started barking again. I pushed aside my curtain to see what was happening. I saw nothing except for the fact that the front light of Hayford’s house was off. I watched closely, thinking I might see someone lurking in the shadows. Again, nothing.

Some days later, Hayford came to the office. I told him, “Your dog, suddenly it has taken delight in disturbing my sleep. You better find a way of dealing with it or I will deal with it myself.” Of course, I was blowing hot air but he got the point. He said, “If it barked, then it saw a threat. Dogs don’t suddenly bark for nothing.”

For all the days Hayford was home, the dog never made a single noise to disrupt my sleep. It didn’t even occur to me that there was a dog who once made noise to disturb my sleep. And then Hayford traveled again to supervise another project. That same night, the dog barked at dawn to wake me from sleep.

I looked outside, again the front light was off. I started suspecting a foul play. The dog usually barked twice so I stayed awake waiting for the second one. It was exactly 4am when the dog started barking again. I pushed my curtains slightly and I saw a male figure dashing out of Hayford’s room. He didn’t use the main road separating the two buildings. He dashed into the shrouds next to Hayford’s wall. Then I saw a silhouette of a female figure going back into Hayford’s room.

The dots began to connect backward.

Someone, a man have been sneaking into Hayford’s house while he was away, and that female figure that went back inside was Hayford’s wife.

I stayed up for the rest of the night thinking about how and where it all went wrong. I started asking questions; “Who could that be? A new lover who doesn’t know she’s married? Could that person be someone living inside the estate? But why would a marriage less than two years suffer this kind of infidelity?”

When the mind perceives questions, the heart starts a journey to look for answers. Luckily, I didn’t have to travel to see an oracle to get answers. The answers were right behind my window. I only had to follow the dog’s cue and I shall find. Yeah, I was going to lose some sleep trying to see who that person was but that was ok. It was better than suffering sleepless nights thinking about who could that be.

So the following nights, I slept with one eye opened. I became a monitoring spirit hovering around for answers. Around 11pm the following night, the front light went off. I kept my guard. My eyes were fixed on Hayford’s front door just like Christians have their eyes fixed on the old rugged cross. Minutes later the dog began barking. The male figure hurriedly rushed inside. I didn’t see him that well. Hours later, The dog barked again and he dashed into the shrouds. Again, I didn’t see who it was.

It continued every other night until Hayford returned.

I stopped trying. No matter how hard I tried, it became very hard for me to see who that was. I thought of informing Hayford but I was only a thirty-four-year-old who wasn’t married. I knew how hard it was to find a husband but I didn’t know how hard it was to keep a marriage together because I hadn’t been married before. I kept quiet and watched Hayford every day as he roamed around the office happily and innocently. Innocence is indeed bliss.

This went on for several months until one day I got tired of not knowing. The sad thing is, the dog stopped barking. Dogs don’t bark at a person forever. At some point, they grow used to seeing you around and somehow come to believe you’re no longer a danger to their owner. The person came in freely and went out freely without any resistance from the dog. But there was one more dog he hadn’t been able to tame and that dog was me.

One night when the male figure entered Hayford’s house, I got out of my house and started walking around the estate. Later that night, I saw Obed entering his room at exactly the time the intruder leaves Hayford’s house. I said loudly in my head, “That’s him! There’s no iota of doubt.”

Obed works under Hayford in the engineering department. How could that be?

It became a rhythmic thing; Hayford’s front light would go off around 11pm, Obed would walk in and later walk out around 4am. And that happened every time Hayford was away.

One early morning, while Hayford was yet to report to work, I anonymously slipped a note under his computer keyboard detailing everything I had seen over the months. I ended it by saying, “You don’t have to believe me. You only have to find out for yourself.”


The whole day he was restless. He kept asking me and other colleagues if we saw someone dropping a note under his keyboard. He was clearly disturbed and didn’t know what to do. A week later, he traveled again. I smiled in my head when he told us he would be traveling to supervise one of his works. I knew what he was up to and couldn’t wait to witness the showdown.

That night when the front light went off, I did a sign of the cross but I asked myself, “What if he kills them?” That was when I started getting scared but there was nothing I could do. I pushed my curtains aside slightly to observe what was going to happen. Not long after the shadow dashed in. I sat on my bed waiting to see where Hayford was going to come from. Not too long afterward, I saw him tiptoeing towards his door.

I didn’t know what to expect but I trusted Hayford’s humility to come through. He opened the main door that leads to the hall and entered. A few seconds later, I saw the bedroom light switched on. I could only see the movement of their shadows. Their voices were muffled but you could see the struggle and you could hear the screams and cries. You could hear the sound of beatings and clothes being torn apart. The wife’s crying voice was louder…Obed’s voice didn’t come out loud but it was clear he was in distress.

About thirty minutes later, I saw Obed running out of the room, almost naked with clothes in his hands. He didn’t use the shrouds, he ran through the main road so I could see him clearly under the night light.

Hayford didn’t come to work the next morning and Obed too didn’t come.

I put a call through to Hayford but he didn’t pick. When I came home from work that evening, I went to knock on his door and he came out to see me. He was alone so I went inside. You could see he had been crying. I told him, “I slipped the note under your keyboard. I’m the witness.” He broke down and started crying out loud; “Mercy, why didn’t you tell me all this while? How could you hide something of this nature from me all this while? My wife is three months pregnant. Who is responsible, me, or Obed?”

I tried to calm him down. Nothing I said made sense to him. He kept crying. He kept asking why. I told him to speak to someone before it was too late. That someone he spoke to was our human resources manager. weeks later, Obed’s appointment was terminated and Hayford was given some weeks off to sort out his family issues.

I haven’t seen the wife around since that night. Maybe there would be divorce but from the way I see it if the paternity test of the baby proves Hayford as the father, maybe he would forgive the wife and live with her again. Anything is possible in love and in war. I’m only hoping for the healing of hearts and total forgiveness deep down from the hearts involved.


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Romance / How I Said “I Love You” To My Wife But Our Problems Got Worse. Part 1�� by wendyberry(m): 4:30pm On Oct 31, 2021
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How I Said “I Love You” To My Wife But Our Problems Got Worse. Part 1��

After reading yesterday’s story on the man who said “I love you” to his wife after eight years of marriage, something changed in me. It began as silent guilt and later in the day grew into shame. I’ve married my wife for four years and I don’t remember the last time I told her that I love her. We’ve had our troubles—troubles that we’ve conquered and we’ve had some simple wins too. Recently, things haven’t been right between us. There have been series of arguments that resulted in a fight. I remember the whole of last week, we exchanged only a few words.

After reading the story, I thought, “Why not?” Why don’t I tell her that I love her?” I’d wanted to wait until I got home in the evening and but I couldn’t sit still. I was eager to hear her response so I picked my phone and sent her the message; “I love you.” I waited for a while to hear her response but she wasn’t online to read and respond. Twenty minutes or so later, I saw her call on my phone. I picked the call and calmly said, “Hello dear.” She screamed, “You see God has removed your covering today? Who were you sending that message to? Who is that girl, tell me?”


I was so shocked I began to stutter; “Hey, how can you think this way? It’s something I sent to you and I mean it. I realized we’ve had some issues. I want us to put all that behind us and love again.” She screamed on the phone, “LIAR! You think I’m a child. You think I’m your baby that you can lie to anyhow?” Before I could say the next word, she cut the line on me. A few minutes later, she sent a text, “If you are in love with someone else, it’s better you tell me so I pack and leave.” I didn’t respond. A few minutes later a long message that read like a memo also came through. I didn’t respond. Then she called my phone. She was calm this time. She said, “Just tell me the truth, who were you sending the message to?”


I said, “Dear, it’s you I’m sending to and no one else.” She asked, “So why would you send that to me all of a sudden? We were in the house together this morning, so why didn’t you tell me?” A client walked in so I told her, “When we get home this evening we’ll talk about it.”

She was home before I got there. Immediately she saw me, she pounced, “Mr. Man, come and explain yourself. I won’t buy those excuses you’ve been giving me since morning.” So I told her the truth. I sent her the link to the story and said, “This is what I read this morning and it’s the reason why I sent you that message. All I’m asking for is a revival.” She read the story, looked at my face and asked, “So you’re telling me you love me because you read a story or you’re telling me you love me because you love me?” I responded, “The story is only an awakening but I love you truly.” She said, “Prove it.” I asked, “How do I prove it?” She retorted, “If you love me and I’m the only one you love, open your phone and give it to me.”

I knew where she was driving to. We’ve had that argument before. She thinks as a couple we both should have each other’s password to each other’s phone. I didn’t buy that idea. I believe though we are a couple, each other deserve their space and some form of privacy but she thinks knowing the password to my phone is an expression of love. I told her, “I know I love you and I’ve told you just that. If you want proof, open your eyes and you’ll see it in our daily lives. My phone? Lie lie but it doesn’t also mean I have anything to hide.”

She screamed, “I knew it. That message is for who it’s for but not me. Why are you scared to show me what’s on your phone? Why are you scared?”


I thought I was doing something different for once to revive the stale marriage we’ve endured over the past years but I ended up opening old wounds. We fought all night and this morning, we woke up, bathed, and left the house without saying a word to each other. I know it’s going to stay this way for a long while and I’m prepared to fight fair this time. When tempers go down and we are good again, I will try it one more time and see how it would end. I hope she reads this and if she does, I want her to know that I married her because I loved her from day one and nothing has changed.

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Romance / Re: Characteristics Of True Love And How You Can Be Sure You Have Found It by wendyberry(m): 9:48am On Oct 31, 2021
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Romance / Characteristics Of True Love And How You Can Be Sure You Have Found It by wendyberry(m): 9:23am On Oct 31, 2021
Characteristics of True Love And How you Can Be Sure You Have Found it


We all have different definitions of what true love is. Some people find it in fairytales, some in Shakespearean sonnets; others believe it is merely a phase and true love doesn’t exist in the real world. The truth is true love is an extension of our own true nature. What we are, we attract.

Even in relationships, we attract people who are reflections and extensions of our true selves. Therefore, in order to attract true love, we must exhibit the qualities we seek in our partners. Here’s what true love feels like:

1. Effortless and Eternal Attraction: When we are truly in love with someone, we discover moments of love and affection in the most normal of situations. We never have to "try" to spice things up. Everything seems fun and effortless just the way it is. We never have to try to go out of our way to please the person. Love exists in the simplest things we do together. There is no need to convince or force anything on each other.

2. Mutual Respect: Respect for each other is the most important factor to sustain true love. It comes from giving each other enough space for personal growth and never crossing the line, no matter what.

3. Acceptance: When we are in true love, we naturally accept the person for his or her positives, as well as for negatives. It opens up our perspectives, and we see and learn things we wouldn’t have otherwise experienced. True love changes us and how we think. It harmonizes all differences. There is no judgment, and we become open to receiving and accepting love, exactly the way it is.

4. Selflessness: We experience true love only when we have something to give. To receive love, we must give love. It's not about fulfilling our own selfish desires, but about working on a common goal. It's about being selfless and caring about our partner’s needs as much as caring about our own.

5. Trust: Needless to say, trust is the most basic foundation of true love. While it is crucial to trust the person with whom we are in love, it is equally important to trust ourselves. True love makes us feel vulnerable without being fearful or defensive.
Loyalty in relationships not only brings emotional stability, but also increases intimacy levels. When two people live with love and unity, there is no fear of getting hurt. In unity, love grows and strengthens with time.

6. Healing: Love heals and ousts fear. It makes us feel safe and protected. We feel at peace and we feel at home with our loved ones, wherever we are. True love never hurts because there is no ego involved. True love only heals pain from the past and gives us the strength to love again.

7. Growth: True love always favors personal and spiritual growth. It's a natural process that is essential for our happiness and freedom. Everything needs to grow to survive: plants, animals and all living cells on this planet. True love promotes natural growth that not only fills life with happiness and freedom, but also helps with professional success. True love is playful and grows together without resistance or fear.

8. Companionship: As human beings, we seek companionship from other human beings. When it comes to love, we look for someone who will be by our side through thick and thin, through our entire lives. We need someone with whom we can experience the wonders of life.
Someone with whom we can travel, share our secrets, discuss world events, fool around and grow old. True love means paying attention to the one you love. True love is there to celebrate in good times and to cry in bad times.

9. Communication: Many people say that they struggle to express their feelings to their loved ones; the only thing that stops them is their egos. Ego is not necessarily arrogance, but also a lack of trust in yourself and how you feel. When words have meaning and are said with a good intentions, it's never difficult to let them out.
Making yourself understood and understanding your partner is the foundation of true love. When we speak our hearts and are open and truthful about our feelings, it shows courage and generosity. A true love will always recognize that and respect you for letting him or her inside your secret, sacred space.

10. Teamwork: True love is teamwork. Knowing when to step up and take control and


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Romance / A True Story: When Your Own Blood Is After You by wendyberry(m): 7:53am On Oct 31, 2021
A True Story: When Your Own Blood is After You


My aunt picked me up from my parents when I completed Senior high school. She was doing better in life having married a rich man. She used to travel a lot and anytime she was coming back, she got me something valuable. Her husband also did the same. They both loved me without care.

On my twenty-first birthday, My aunt traveled with me to South Africa to have a little birthday celebration for me. Her husband was supposed to join us from the UK but due to one or two things, he couldn’t. But that didn’t stop us from having fun. She did a lot of shopping for me. Took me to amazing places and we ate and dined at some of the expensive places in Johannesburg. I felt worthy. I felt loved beyond measure. Little did I know what was to come after the joy.

On our way to our hotel, my aunt told me; “My husband isn’t joining us here again so there’s no point for us to keep two different hotel rooms. The rooms are expensive and we still have one more week to stay. It’s better for us to share a room so we can have extra money to do shopping and visit more places.” The thought of staying in the same room with my aunt felt a little bit uneasy and it wasn’t as though I had the power to object. It was a decision she had made and she was only telling me about it.

Our first night together was ok. Both of us were very careful not to get in each other’s way. The second night, we were a little bit at ease. We spoke for the whole night and slept very late. The third night was also good but the conversation got a little bit personal and meandered to areas of my life I barely discussed with people. She started probing into my personal life; “Have you ever had a boyfriend?” Did you sleep with him? How was your first experience like?” And then she dropped the question that threw me off balance; “Have you ever thought of how it would feel like to do it with another woman?”

I said “huh?” As if I didn’t hear the question the first time. She teasingly said; Don’t be silly, haven’t you heard about girl on girl?” I answered, “I have but it’s not something I’ve thought about deeply or something I will think about doing.” Then she started telling me a story about how she wasn’t having satisfaction from her husband and how she tried it with another female colleague and how she had a blast of her lifetime.

I didn’t know what to say and I didn’t know why she was telling me all that but the next night together she made it obvious that it was me she wanted. She said, “I’ve loved you from the very day I set my eyes on you. You were only eighteen and I’ve loved you from afar.” I started feeling uneasy. Scared actually. Before I could say jack, this woman was all over me trying to kiss me. I resisted. She forced it. I fought to prevent her from having her way. I told her, “You’re my aunt and it’s very hard for me not to think about the fact that we are family. How can I do this with a family?”

She lectured me on why it wasn’t that bad and all the while trying to have her way. I told her, “This is new to me. Allow me to think about it. Allow me to get used to the idea.” She obliged and let me alone. That night I couldn’t sleep. I cried. I regretted how everything had turned out, I was scared for my life and thought of how I was going to survive the remaining days.

She woke up the next morning trying to have her way with me again. I was too drained to fight her. I watched her as she tried to kiss me, play with my skin and all. I was just numb until she got tired and stop. When you are in trouble, the day looks very long and the night never ends. The next three days ahead of us until we left South Africa was very long and torturous for me. The fun was all gone and there was no flame left in me. Slowly the days went by and we finally left South Africa for Ghana.

In Ghana, there were other people in the house so I feared less. Her husband also returned from his trip a day later and restored a little bit of joy in me. I wanted to go and visit my parent but she declined. She wanted to go with me. Maybe she feared I would tell my parents about it or when I leave I wasn’t going to return.

And then one dawn, I felt a hand running around my thighs and going up my waist as I was sleeping. The whole thing felt like a dream. My face was against the wall and I could feel the person lying behind me. I slowly came to the realization that it wasn’t a dream but real. I knew who it was (so I thought) so I didn’t bother to look back or even move for her to know I was awake and aware. I thought I should let her do whatever she wants to do and leave me in peace. But as the hand got to my chest, I realized that it was heavier than a female hand. The scent of the person’s breath wasn’t feminine too So I turned suddenly and guess what. My aunt’s husband was lying behind me with only a towel around his waist.

I got up from the bed and turned on the light. I checked the time and it was 2:17am. I started ranting; “What are you doing here at this time? Why do you want to put me in trouble? Do you want my aunt to kill me?” He lied there on the bed looking at me as if nothing else mattered. He said, “Keep your voice down so you don’t wake her up. She had a little too much to drink last night so if you keep it on the low, she won’t wake up to find out.”

“What do you want from me?”

“Please just let me do it and I’ll give you whatever you want.”

“Please, leave my room before anyone finds out. You’ll put me in trouble.”

“Just this once, it won’t happen again. This once and you get whatever you want”

I took my cloth and walked out of the room. I went straight to the kitchen and locked myself in. I heard his footsteps as he climbed the stairs up to his room. I didn’t want to come out. I slept in the kitchen and cried for the rest of the night. Everything was happening too fast. It sometimes felt like a bad dream I was going to wake up from.

The next dawn, his wife too came. I was wide awake as if I was expecting her. She called my name. I didn’t respond. I didn’t move. She lied behind me, trying to do everything to get me aroused. I lied there motionless as she went on and on and on. She didn’t mind that I was crying. She didn’t mind that I was shaking. All she wanted was to play with my body. The next two dawns, her husband came again. I’d locked my door. He called my name. He knocked on the door faintly and then started calling my phone. I didn’t move. All I did was cry and thought about all the things I could do to get myself out of this mess.

I thought of running away but to where? My parents wouldn’t understand why. They would ask me why and I wouldn’t be able to answer. I thought of going to stay with a friend but for how long could she keep me with her. I thought of suicide. The peace and finality that came with suicide looked to me as the best option.

The following night, I slept with a knife next to me and my light on. I was expecting any one of them but none came around. For the next three or four days, they left me alone. When she came around the next time and saw the knife, she didn’t come close. She stood by the door and asked; “What’s the knife for?” I didn’t answer. She saw that I’d been crying. She kept asking about the knife. I told her, “You should ask about me not the knife. I’m the one suffering in this house. Look at me very well, don’t you see all is not well with me?” After you leave this room, I’ll stab myself and bleed to death. I hope that makes you happy.”

She stood there not knowing what to do or say. I kept crying. She said nothing for a while and then opened the door and walked away. That dawn, I gave myself the chance to think about my priorities in life and how my sanity is slowly waning. I made a decision to leave immediately before something worse happens.

The next early morning, I picked up a few things and left the house while they both were in their room sleeping. about an hour or two later, I saw her call on my phone. I didn’t pick. Her husband also called immediately afterward, I didn’t pick. I turned off my phone and kept going.

I got to the house of my parents in the evening. Immediately my mom saw me, she ran towards me and hugged me so tight as if I was a lost child returning home for the first time. She said, “We have been worried. We thought you were missing or something wrong had happened to you. Your aunt called to tell us you were missing from the house.”

I told her, “I didn’t get missing. I left and I’m not going to go back to that house again.” As I expected, she asked why. I don’t know what entered me that evening, I started ranting about the whole ordeal my aunt and the husband had taken me through. I thought


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Romance / A True Story: I Will Never Date A Woman Who Has An Ex-boyfriend by wendyberry(m): 7:21am On Oct 31, 2021
A True Story: I Will Never Date A Woman Who Has An Ex-BoyFriend

I proposed to Eli in 2018 after I’d crushed on her for about five months. She said, “I’m not interested.” I asked, “You’re not interested? That's all?” She said, “I said I’m not interested. What else do you want me to say?” I sensed the anger in her voice and backed out. A week later, I met her in church again. I said hello and she said hi. After church, she ran up to me and said, “Sorry for how I treated you the other time. I’m going through a lot and I allowed myself to push my anger on you.” I said, “Yeah, I saw it so I wasn’t worried. We all have bad days sometimes.” She asked, “So am I forgiven?” I said, “I hold no grudges.”

We began talking, exchanging messages here and there and it was during that period that she let me in on what she was going through. She said, “I helped him travel abroad. He got there and he doesn’t talk to me again. I see him online. I send him messages. He reads them and says nothing back. Do you think that’s fair?” I said I was sorry for whatever she was going through. “Some guys don’t have a heart. They forget easily. Maybe he’s moving on and he’s afraid to tell you.” From then on, most conversations we had were about his boyfriend until one day she came to tell me; “I’m moving on. He doesn’t deserve all the love I have for him.” I said, “That’s the way to go.”


I remember that day, we went out to celebrate it. Our first outing was to celebrate her freedom from her ex. We had fun and she even called the next day to thank me for everything that I’d done to help her move on. Three months later, she called to ask me, “Your proposal, is it still valid?” I said, “I never moved an inch. I’ve always been waiting for you.” She said, “Yes.” I asked, “Yes…?” She said, “Yeah, I’m your girlfriend now.” I asked, “So where do we start from?” She answered, “You tell me.”

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Jobs/Vacancies / ICPC Interview stage List Is Out. Check Your Mail Here by wendyberry(m): 10:45pm On Sep 09, 2021
ICPC JOB INTERVIEW 2021

The candidates with the under listed e-mail addresses should come to the Commission’s Headquarters for interview on the designated dates below:

Interview Date: 14/09/2021

ndibrahim07@yahoo.com

adeboyeolanrewaju75@gmail.com

samsonaduta@gmail.com

reubenaduta@gmail.com

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Interview Date: 15/09/2021

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Wodak2@yahoo.com

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ribahahmed@gmail.com

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busolabode@gmail.com

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Interview Date: 16/09/2021

muntakasalehisah@gmail.com

musasaleh482@gmail.com

tasiusani8@gmail.com

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Travel / Re: 300 Nigerians Stranded In UAE Arrive Abuja by wendyberry(m): 6:59pm On Jun 19, 2020
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Jobs/Vacancies / JUST In ; FG To Begin Enrolment Of Third Batch Of N-power Next Week by wendyberry(m): 6:56pm On Jun 19, 2020
FG to begin enrolment of third batch of N-Power next week.

The Federal Ministry of Humanitarian Affairs, Disaster Management and Social Development has said that it will commence the enrolment of the third batch of N-Power beneficiaries next week.

According to the ministry, the decision to enrol the third batch of the scheme was made following consultations and a review of the submissions on the reform of the programme for greater efficiency.

It also explained that the enrolment will provide opportunities for more Nigerian youths to access the programme, in furtherance of the President’s vision of lifting 100 million Nigerians out of poverty.

The ministry said the current enrollees of the scheme (Batch A) will exit June 30, 2020 while (Batch B) will exit the programme on July 31, 2020.

This is contained in a statement in Abuja on Friday by the Deputy Director Information of the ministry, Rhoda Iliya.

According to the Minister, Sadiya Farouq, “We have commenced the transitioning of beneficiaries from Batches A and B into government entrepreneurship schemes and engaging private sector bodies to absorb some of the beneficiaries after the completion of psychometric assessment to determine competency and placement into various opportunities.

“The Federal government is committed to the continuation and expansion and as such will now begin enrolment and onboarding of a new Batch of beneficiaries. Skills acquisition for entrepreneurship and job creation are critical for an economy that will require a boost post-COVID-19 and we are gearing up proactively for the challenge.”

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Politics / Buhari Never Appointed Ngozi Okonjo As DG Of World Trade by wendyberry(m): 9:56pm On Jun 06, 2020
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Politics / Re: SERAP Drags Buhari, NASS To UN Over Cuts In Health, UBE Budgets by wendyberry(m): 5:56am On Jun 04, 2020
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Politics / Re: SERAP Drags Buhari, NASS To UN Over Cuts In Health, UBE Budgets by wendyberry(m): 5:02am On Jun 04, 2020
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when are we ever gonna get it right ??

people are starving, no better palliative but u are busy dishing out 27Billion to renovate a building ....



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Education / Re: Pictures Of University Of Ilorin, The Better By Far by wendyberry(m): 4:50am On Jun 04, 2020
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