IkeAbuja:
Let us pretend you have sense so you want your mum to be wearing make ups and all those stuffs at her age and be looking like sugar mummy we the sugar boys are at the corner waiting to strike

You seriously need a brand new brain.

Schoolshooter:
You're def into momcest because TF nigger

I hope you forking kys

Are you alright mentality? Too many mentally unstable people on nairaland. Seun needs to employ mods to weed out this people.

My ever charming mom has stopped looking good like she used to eversince she joined a particular church in the early part of 2021.

Prior to that time, mom was a lover of good wears. She used to wear nice jewelries to complement her dressing. Nowadays, the story is no longer the same. She has changed completely and she is now a shadow of her former self. She would not make her hair with weavon or attachment, or wear wig or makeup like she used to do. She now uses thread to plait her hair which makes her look very unlike her and very unattractive.

When I travelled home during Christmas, I nearly wept when I saw her. From her head to her toe, she was completely off. No sense of style at all. Just regular clothes and slippers even when she is going out for an event.

What do we do? The church she joined is THE LORD'S CHOSEN. And dad says she has asked her to stop attending the church but she refused. Mom is a retired nurse and she is 62 years old. I am her last child and I and my siblings are doing everything possible to make her look good. Money is not the problem. She is just simply refused to listen to anybody.

I am faraway from Calabar and I want to apply for my undergraduate transcript. Who knows if I can do it online? Please, I really need help.

I graduated from the University of Calabar. I want to apply for my BSc transcript but I am faraway from Calabar and I want to find out if I can carry out the application online. Is there anyone who has applied for transcript from that university lately? If you did, how did you do it?

Towotowo:
https://ukvi.mysecurepay.co.uk/contact-options

You can use this link and make sure you have a card for payment.

Thanks bro

Towotowo:
You can send them a paid email today so that you can get a reply tomorrow since its more than 15 working days now.

How do I send the mail?

Towotowo:
Its better to wait since it stated it will take 15 working days just to be sure that you've waited that long

Mine is since on the 14th of July that I did my biometric. I have gotten two emails asking me to provide my CAS and TB test result which I had already provided when I did my application. It has gone past 15 days. I am still waiting.

Ilekokonit:


She doesn't listen to your Dad means you stand no chance with her and she will never change and she will surely show your wife shege and your wife may decide that she has had enough and pack out of your house when she can't bear it anymore.

People like that need to be corrected each time they cross a red line and when she starts guilt tripping you just walk out of the house.

If it wasn't your sisters house you were living, then "maybe" she would think twice before coming to stress you in a house yo are paying for. If care is not taking, hope on one of her visits she doesn't make you lose your job since you work from home.

Omo the kind shege wey I dey see for that woman hand, if e dey possible to change mama, I for don do am.

Samantha124:
Your peace of mind is much more important than your mother, cut her off if you have to... Love her from a distance.

A lot of kids nowadays are suffering from depression and some have taken their lives all because of toxic parents.

But at the end of the day, the choice is yours.

Thank you.

It's draining dealing with my mom everytime she comes to the city to stay in the same house with me. I live in my elder sister's house but she (my sister) stays abroad with her family. I am the last child and I am not married. I work from home though. My mum visits here once in a while. Anytime she comes around she does a lot of things that spoils my mood. For instance, she doesn't like taking her children's advice no matter how important it is to them. She likes having her way all the time. And when we try to stop her, she guilt trips us and emotionally blackmails us.

I have other siblings who do not live with me but they used to come around with their children anytime mom is around. My father is back home and hardly visits. She doesn't listen to my dad if he advices her.

Mom will first and foremost get someone upset, and when the person complains, she will watch out for one negative word that will slip out from your mouth and use it to emotionally blackmail you. She will cry because of what you said to her until you feel guilty and beg her to forgive you. She also likes reporting her child to another of her child without minding if it would damage their relationship.

She likes making her child feel bad so long as she has her way and she is happy. She pays no attention to the feelings of her children anytime she wants anything. For instance, My mom can make you spend money on something that she already has. Sometimes she will drag for something that she doesn't even need. She feels as a mother all her children must make her happy else they don't like her.

Also, She is terrible with conversations both on phone and physically. If you try to have a one on one talk with her, she will make the conversation very unpleasant because she will keep interrupting, next thing she will cry or she will get up and leave you.

She never sees her fault. Even if she apologies, she would do the same thing again and blame you for making her do it.

If she comes around and everywhere is peaceful, after a short while argument will begin which may lead to a fight.

This is because she likes jamming one person with another person and eventually make them quarel. She enjoys adding words that was never in the conversation when she is reporting somebody to another perosn. Most times those words are very hurting and will lead to a fight. And when the fight begins, she will start crying. Sometimes she would intentionally fall on the ground while trying to separate a fight, just to make sure everybody runs helter-skelter trying to get her up on her feet.

She has blood pressure issues, hence she uses that as a weapon to guilt-trip her children so they can succumb to her demands. For instance, if she says things that are not true about her child to another of her child and the person finds out, once you confront her, she would say " don't query me oh, shey you know my blood pressure would soon go up. I didn't kill my mother, don't kill me oh." Or she will just start crying and say the person hates her and what was said isn't true, and that she never said anything like that. She denies the things she says that are bad soon after she says them.

Gosh, I am just tired of my mom. I feel like packing out of this house, blocking her and not letting her come close to me because of how emotionally draining it is everytime she comes around.

Bmuhd4smile:


If you can afford UK tuition fee .... Goto the UK ....it's hard to get student job in France. Another good option currently is Denmark ( Currently 3 yrs post study visa). France is not good for Nigerians because they don't speak English and they don't want to. Unlike Scandinavians like Norway, Finland, Denmark, Sweden and Iceland.

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thanks a lot on this. i have already rejected the two offers i got in France. I am heading to England.

Mille:


I can't say much about the UK. But I believe the difference in the tuition for for France can take care of your living expenses for one year.

But if I have the money, I'll choose the UK unless you speak French to a certain proficient level. Easier to get a student job, easier to navigate day to day activities, easier to make friends and more especially, no language barrier. The French are very snobbish and will make no effort to speak English to you everywhere apart from your University. I spent a semester there and despite speaking French up to level A2, I had difficulties navigating daily activities. Thank God for my Cameroonian classmate, if not ehn.

While it's much easier to stay back in France due to not requiring sponsorship, you're more likely to end up underemployed and stuck in menial jobs due to the language barrier. Almost every job requires French proficiency in France and you'll be competing against North and Francophone Africans who make up the bulk of immigrants in France and who speaks fluent French.

thank you so much. I really appreciate.

babakb:


If you're ready to learn french to advance level then France is better because it's in the Shegen, but if you know you won't take the french language serious then Jejely go to the UK

I can learn.

Hello nairalanders.

I need your opinion. I applied to schools in the UK and France and I was lucky to get offers in Paris and Lille (France). I also got several admissions in the UK mainly in London, Manchester, Wales and Northern Ireland.

The schools in France are quite cost effective as compared to the UK, despite having a partial scholarship. However, I am concerned about living expenses in France most especially in Paris. And I also intend to stay back after my schooling. I want to know which country is better in terms of livability, jobs, accommodation etc.

Hello nairalanders.

I need your opinion. I applied to schools in the UK and France and I was lucky to get offers in Paris and Lille (France). I also got several admissions in the UK mainly in London, Manchester, Wales and Northern Ireland.

The schools in France are quite cost effective as compared to the UK, despite having a partial scholarship. However, I am concerned about living expenses in France most especially in Paris. And I also intend to stay back after my schooling. I want to know which country is better in terms of livability, jobs, accommodation etc.

SleekyP:

Quora…com

Thanks

Googleboy02:


You need a Webcam and a very serene and well lighted environment... Also there are materials for it, I'll take token to share with you as I also paid to get them.
This is my number in my signature below

But my laptop has no webcam. I am thinking if i would be allowed to write it. Must I be seen? I mean I have a headphone with a mic, I can be heard.

Hello, greetings

Please, for those of you who have written the exam, I need to know if the exam will be remotely monitored? If yes, what and what do I need for the invigilation to take place in order for me to write the exam?

Do I need a webcam or an ID card?

Also, are there materials to read in preparation for the exam? I can't lay my hands on any.

Hello, greetings

Please, for those of you who have written the exam, I need to know if the exam will be remotely monitored? If yes, what and what do I need for the invigilation to take place in order for me to write the exam?

Do I need a webcam or an ID card?

Also, are there materials to read in preparation for the exam? I can't lay my hands on any.

Please, I want to find out if there is need for a webcam in my PC?

I knew this ever since. Nigerians just like following the crowd to speak the wrong English.

Ndi Igbos have a serious problem in their political system. No unity of purpose at all. They are always at loggerheads with one another politically. If not for business, Igbo people would have been of all people, the most miserable. Sincerely, it will be easier for a cow to pass through the eye of a needle than an Igbo man to be politically correct.

Thanks

Anambra people have completely destroyed this country with their greed and quest to amass wealth by all means. It seems like every family in that erosion ridden dot republic has a drug peddler. After making money from drugs they will invest into other businesses and then use it to pose and brag that they are the richest people in Nigeria. Home of billionaires my foot. Thieves!! Ndi oshi, Ndi ori !!!

Lordsonn:
I work as a remote/virtual lecturer for two universities - one in the United States and the other in Europe. All I can say is have at least two well functioning laptops and at least 4G network of two mobile Telecom. Be ready to work both days and nights. I earned about $1700 monthly and I am grateful to God for it. Also, remember to pay your tithes

What do you teach?

Needhelp123:


Try not to be alone most times. Secondly, try comsider marriage. It's normal for ur age. This phase will surely pass away when responsibilities don dey

I don't want to marry now till I am sure I really have found someone who complements me. Besides, I'm not even sure I want to raise children in a world like this.

I am a very busy person. I have a business and and spend most of my time attending to customers. But lately, I discovered that whenever I get back home and I try to sleep I would have an erection and feel h0rny and the h0rniness sometimes makes me restless and unable to sleep. When I wake up most times in the morning I would feel very Hot with hard erection. I have sex every week but I I still get h0rny,nonetheless.

I try to avoid things that will stimulate me in my phone and other places but I will still feel h0rny. The annoying one is say two hours after having sex, I will find myself feeling h0rny again. Sometimes I self-service to sleep. Is there something happening in my body that I do not know? Or is this normal? I'm in my early thirties.

PS: I'm scared oh because the people when I sleep with in the past don knoe say I like sex well well and that makes me feel like I lack self control. I try to keep one girl at the moment and she sef like sex and we dey use condom. But I want to stop this plenty h0rniness wen I dey feel. Anybody get advise for me?

Hmm..

Good one. God has really helped this Akwa Ibom people. They are smart but I wonder why they used to do house boy and house girl work before. Why did they stoop so low?

Emmy157:
Hello bro.

Things to note:

1. You must have a detailed knowledge about AM.
2. You should have a registered company.
3. You must have a network.
4. You must get both the affiliates to give you leads and advertisers to get offers/campaigns.
5. You must monitor your affiliates else they give too much of fraud leads which might put you in trouble.
6. And many more...

Yes, you can try it but might not be as easy as you think.

Omo, I no get any of these things u mentioned.

Greetings Nairalanders. Please i need your opinion over this.

Lately, I have had two people trying to introduce me to affiliate marketing. Both of them are telling me to bring in some money in order to get started. One told me I should bring 40k. The other one is saying 10k.

I really do not understand what this affiliate marketing is all about. I did a Google search for information and I don't still understand the nitty gritty of the whole stuff. I have asked the people trying to introduce me to it and they too seem to make me believe that when I get into it, I will understand better.

My question is, can I try it? I Just want a side hustle in addition to my business. Is it worth putting money into it? Who has done it or is doing it? What are the pros and cons?