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Travel / Re: How Did You Feel The First Day You Travelled Abroad? by WilliamsTheGrea: 2:57am On Mar 04, 2020
lefulefu:
no its purely for studies here.except maybe u want to be a stallboy working under chinese then u can come here and work cheesy.if u talking of better work and hustling u should be talking of the bigger carribean countries like bahamas,island of st kitts or jamaica cheesy.

Hmmm okay thanks
Travel / Re: How Did You Feel The First Day You Travelled Abroad? by WilliamsTheGrea: 2:50am On Mar 04, 2020
lefulefu:
someone needs to moveahead cheesy

Boss how's Dominica island like? Jobs they there?
Romance / Re: In A Relationship With A Single Mom; Please Advise by WilliamsTheGrea: 12:26am On Feb 25, 2020
ScottDM1:


Check your DM..

I got a Job for You!

Please hit me up on whatsapp +17312272964
Romance / Re: In A Relationship With A Single Mom; Please Advise by WilliamsTheGrea: 9:21pm On Feb 24, 2020
Ruben225571:

Is this ur number?

Yes
Romance / Re: In A Relationship With A Single Mom; Please Advise by WilliamsTheGrea: 6:02pm On Feb 24, 2020
DOD1:


pls how much does it cost, I mean getting followers

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Romance / Re: In A Relationship With A Single Mom; Please Advise by WilliamsTheGrea: 6:02pm On Feb 24, 2020
SleekyPosh:


Pls we need to talk. I need a Good design for my Instagram Business Page.

I am sorry I can’t comment on the post. But I know one thing. Peace of Mind and Happiness can never be negotiable over anything. It’s the Key to Sanity.

Read Again.

Thanks, add me up on whatsapp +17312272964
Romance / Re: In A Relationship With A Single Mom; Please Advise by WilliamsTheGrea: 5:16pm On Feb 24, 2020
eni4real:
I am more interested in the online business part....

We will talk about the girl later!!!

Lolz
Romance / Re: In A Relationship With A Single Mom; Please Advise by WilliamsTheGrea: 10:31pm On Feb 23, 2020
sofiscatedmoron:

Nna eeee, quite the babe na,, is she ur mother or sister ,,send her packing joor,, u are too young for all these, there are so many young pretty girls out there to love u,, she will end up cheating with her ex

Bro she is not even reasoning her ex.

The problem is just the child.
Romance / Re: In A Relationship With A Single Mom; Please Advise by WilliamsTheGrea: 10:30pm On Feb 23, 2020
akaahs:

Guy I no go lie to, I dey boil like boiling water. How can u take care of someones child while u aren't comfortable doing that just in name of love with a girl whom have chosen her son happiness over urs. Common on!!! Be a man and do well to leave that girl because she ll never love u above that boy who isn't ur blood.


I even asked her that question just now. She said it's a foolish question. She and her pikin don enter room go sleep.
Romance / Re: In A Relationship With A Single Mom; Please Advise by WilliamsTheGrea: 3:29pm On Feb 23, 2020
ubunja:
are you ready for the truth? Here it is: SHE REALLY LOVES YOU. Honest to God. But women are created in such a way that they reserve their true love for men like you who they can use. In other words her love is real. But also fake. Date a single girl with no kid and she won't love you as much as a single mother will. But she's loving you for the wrong reasons.

Thanks for the advice. I appreciate it

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Romance / Re: In A Relationship With A Single Mom; Please Advise by WilliamsTheGrea: 3:19pm On Feb 23, 2020
ubunja:
Find your own girl to give a baby. Don't settle for left overs

No matter how well-behaved and loving a single mother is, remember she's well behaved and loving BECAUSE SHE WANTS YOU TO RAISE HER KID. Never forget. If she didn't have that kid she wouldn't be talking to you in the first place. Just remember.

Bro your words hit me, do you really think so? Although I'm a very fine guy no doubt most girls would fall for me the way she acts I kinda feel she loves me but the child is the only problem and she doesn't even have any friends she is mostly with me all the time..

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Romance / Re: In A Relationship With A Single Mom; Please Advise by WilliamsTheGrea: 3:18pm On Feb 23, 2020
MickzyDonald:

And she doesn't flirt

Yes she doesn't. She doesn't even have friends, she is always at home most times, only goes out when I tell her we should go out or except she goes to her trainee work as an auxiliary nurse but she is done with that...

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Romance / Re: In A Relationship With A Single Mom; Please Advise by WilliamsTheGrea: 3:11pm On Feb 23, 2020
kels2010:
She and the child is the complete package if you want the girl be ready to take the child too.. Beside what's there to take of an innocent child who only needs a good father figure in his life

Do you think it's easy to look a child who you didn't give birth to biologically and invest your money and time in that child?

I'm not impotent I can have my own child. I want to take care of my own child.

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Romance / Re: In A Relationship With A Single Mom; Please Advise by WilliamsTheGrea: 3:10pm On Feb 23, 2020
Tallguy28:
I think you should break up with her. Move on with your life find another girl. By the way what type of online business do you do? I'm looking for people who have successful online businesses

I do graphic design and I sell social media followers and likes and affordable price for Twitter, Instagram, Facebook, LinkedIn etc.

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Romance / In A Relationship With A Single Mom; Please Advise by WilliamsTheGrea: 2:53pm On Feb 23, 2020
Hello everyone, my name is Williams, I'm a young guy of 26 years old currently engaged to a very pretty young lady who is 24 years old

I do business online and earn good income before I decided to find a lady and settle down with and luckily I found a good one who is decent and don't flirt around or do social media's like whatsapp or Facebook. Hardly receives calls, not friendly with males lol (I managed to woo her through a church member)

We have been 1 year into the relationship now and we are to get married next month but guys the problem I am having now is that she has a child for another man which is her ex she was with when she was young she gave birth at age 20, we dated for about 7 months before she told me this.

Ever since then I haven't really been myself, the child is a male child who lives with her mother but recently the mother called her to come carry the child as she can no longer look after him due to him being a very stubborn boy, the child is 4 years old.

Now she has gone to bring the child to our home, a two bedroom apartment, I'm a kind of guy who loves peaceful environment with no single drop of noise, now ever since the child came in about a week now, I have not had peace, we have quarreled several times because of the child, I'm not really comfortable with the child because I can't love another man's child as my own

My girlfriend is yet to give me a child of my own, the child runs around and doesn't listen except when beaten and each time I beat the boy up when he does wrong my girlfriend looks at me with hatred like I'm maltreating the boy because I'm not the father.

Please guys help me I don't know what to do but I can't cope with the child, I remember paying the child school fees about 3 times since we are together because the child's father isn't doing anything at all.

Now today is the child's birthday and she is asking me for money to get him cake and take him out.


My people of nairaland I cannot accept another man's child no matter what I love the mother but not the child the connection is just now there because the boy isn't of my character I'm a calm man, very calm but the boy is very radical and stubborn children irritate me so much.

I don't know what to do.

Each time this child topic comes up between I and my girlfriend she becomes bitter.

She says she will never take the child to the father or the family of the father that she must raise the child herself.

I don't think I can help train anothrr man child whom in the end will go and find his father after he is all grown.

Please I need advice, she says over her death body will she return the child to the father

I'm not comfortable in my own home.

A lot of things running through my mind like to break up with her for peace to reign

Or rent another apartment for her and the boy to go live in.

Please I need matured advice

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