Naughtysite:


Exactly

There are single able men that are clocking 30-35-40 yet no wife.

I see everything as grace. Secondly, our society wants to test everything. You see girls who dump good guys because the guy has not initiated sex. You also see guys dumping good girls who have refused to give in to sex before marriage. In this marriage thing, truth be told, its mostly sex driven. So the good girls will only break through by so much prayers.

It takes time to find someone on the same moral pedestal as you are.

well said. GOD bless you for looking at it from that perspective. This is almost always the truth. To all single christian men and ladies, I say keep the faith and don't let the seeming delay make u lose ur crown. I met a good guy, the attraction was mutual. He was ready to settle down and a gentle man. BUT, it didn't work out cos while he wanted sex while dating, I didn't cos of GOD's command on the issue. We talked things over, and decided to call it quits amicably. Though it broke my heart to let him go, but then, GOD's kingdom comes first. Hard for our generation to understand. It profits you nothing to lose your peace and salvation, no matter the pressure. May GOD help us all.

Im richly blest! This sleve thing was a major ish to me. See now GODWIN! Madam Val, u shal live long.

A friend shared this post n his wall and I decided to share too. Let's be wise!

By Ahmed Kola

*Buhari Child Zara Is Paying Over £40,000 / #
12million Naira as
School Fees Developing Her Future and
Career.*Jonathan's Children
Have Being Moved To London For Studies and
Residence while
Developing Their Career and living In Affluence.....*
Atiku Abubakar
Children Are Abroad Schooling.... *Tinubu's
Children Are Abroad
Schooling and Living in Affluence, They Are All
Developing and
Investing In their Children To Continue To Rule Us
After They Are
Gone..... You are there As A Jobless Graduate
Wearing APC and PDP
Customized Vest and Polo, Chanting "Change"
Holding Brooms and
Carrying Umbrellas Chanting "Transformation"
Killing Yourselves,
Fomenting Trouble and Constituting Nuisance to
the Society because
of Peanuts that can't make you a better person......
Even If You Have
No Paying Jobs, Why Not Do Apprentice Or learn a
Skill that will
make You more Productive today in the Society.
Why Not Do
Volunteering Jobs Instead Of Looking For Big Pay
Jobs!!!! Stop Being
A Disgrace To Your Discipline, Stop Wearing APC
Vest and Carrying
PDP Umbrellas Because That is the Wish of
Politicians For You...
They Know If You have a Good Job, They Can't
Use You As A Thug /
Propagandist.If Buhari will Not Bring All His Ten
Children To the
Street For Campaign and Jonathan Will not Bring
his Children and
Blood Brothers To The Street For Campaign, Then
You are a Disgrace
To Your Family If You Don't Stop Masquerading
Yourself As PDP and
APC Agents, Because Up Till Now, I have Never
Seen Buhari 's
Children and Jonathan's Children On The Street
Wearing APC Vest
and Holding Brooms, Neither Have I seen
Jonathan's Children
Carrying The PDP Umbrella Even On Social Media
Let Alone In the
Street.... A Word Is Enough For The Wise......

Efosaval, are you surprised? Very soon na CNN we go dey see you so! Congrats my sis, you have helped us well well. I will soon become active again. Got my trouser material, I shall sew it by fire, just been too busy. Chei! I miss the house o.

Wow! Ten years already! Its been 9 cool years for me on Nairaland. No regrets what so ever. More strength Mr Osewa Seun.

keppyy:


Let me tell you, there are good girls out there and I know this because I'm a good girl and there are many like me...

But the fact is that, Men will not turn easily and stare at us because we don't put on loads of make-up, flashy hairstyles, exotic clothes and bags, expensive phones and so many others.

You call us Uptight, local and boring because we don't club, we like attending church programmes and We say NO to pre-marital sex...

Life is not a straight path but it's a clear one...Just so you know, The rich girls hustle for more money and they will not act like slaves for your money...

If you want a GOOD Girl, be a GOOD man.

If you want to feel true love, Show true love...

You can never have what you can't offer...

GOD bless you my sis! A millions hugs.

babystathopoulos:

90% huh? let me work with your assumption
one popular rule we all know, for every action there is a equal and opposite reaction. if 90% of woman are money lovers that means 90% of men caused and don't deserve true love.
most of the guys who rant here to complain about Nigerian ladies and make silly generalization are just immature and myopic.. they manage to break out from their poverty with chicken change then they stag themselves as "rich guys who cannot find love"
they hangout in brothels, night clubs etc day in and out
they rarely go to church worst of it all, they don't respect the Word of God(Bible).
Love is God
Any lady that love God's word has true love to share but unfortunately the world tag them as "boring and pretender". the flashy bold ladies who give you what you want yet you still complain about their demands for money

dinning with the devils and searching for love, is a search without ending

Exactly my thought when I rrad the op's story. It takes two to tango. There are a million good girls, but sadly, people go into relationships now for either sex or money. Its appalling! Where is the love and respect for GOD? The Op reaped what he planted. He's planned to get rich so he could buy love. What a perception, and here he is pointing fingers? Ladies, you brought this upon yourselves! Your long throat is legendary! Must you sell yourselves for shoes, cars, nice apartments? At the end of the day, the guys that gave u all those ephemeral stuffs end up trashing you (which u deserve). Haba! Where's our dignity as ladies! Jet ages nonsense. And guys dating a girl is not a licence to sex! You reap what you sow. Get real. So annoying!

cheries:
My project.......who wore it best?

wow! ur lil princess rocked it to the full. Beautiful! Missing alot.

Killi we! Agh! The good days . Back then, we used chant 'killi we' as my brothers do 'muscle competition. That man's name gbara igbo mgburu mgburu

GenBuhari:
Who is your candidate?
What are there chances of winning?

Don't agree that not voting for Buhari is more a less a vote for the incumbent GEJ?

So question is what is preventing you voting Buhari?

ur question should be what is preventing me from voting for any of the so called candidates, and not just for Buhari. But then, none of the fielded candidates appeals to me. Hope that answers ur question.

zicoraads:
I pray we survive this and the aftermath of this. We have been divided along religious and ethnic lines; it's so frightening. On my way back from work the other day, I saw truck loads of belongings with luxurious buses leaving town; along with their owners. Most Igbos and Southerners have left the North. Who would blame them? It's crazy in my office too. A place where you would think ordinarily we should rise above religion and vote for who we believe in. The other day, a colleague I respect and admire accused me of supporting Jonathan cos am a Christian. He is a Muslim. I was very disappointed and made sure he knew it even though he subsequently apologised, the damage had already been done. I have reasons why I defend this government and it is not religious. Unfortunately, that is the position we have found ourselves in today. Most people are supporting either GMB or GEJ cos of religion.

I haven't been to the East or the South since the campaigns opened but a poster with Jonathan's picture doesn't last one full day in most Northern states. It is quickly torn to shreds. Inshort, it is even dangerous to openly declare your allegiance to him. Some of these PDP governors are not even campaigning for him. The Governor of Niger state is running for Senate and his lacky; Nasko for Governor. Their billboards don't carry their Presidential candidate's picture. Unlike that of the APC where you would find Buhari's picture on most of their aspirants billboards and posters found the state.

That is why I have consistently said that Buhari's certificate issue is of no consequence. Especially to a die hard Northerner who doesn't even care if Buhari attended Creche. All he knows is that the man is one of us and a Muslim.

I belong to the PDP mind, body and soul. And for any true member of that party (not the jobless trolls on Nairaland) FFK is doing a very bad job at that campaign HQ. Surely he can do more than continously over flogging an issue that is of no Consequence just to justify his pay, while alienating Jonathan more in these parts.

Still, this country is bigger than all of us. A Democrat or a Republican, when it comes down to it will tell you we are Americans first. The APC are not shouting on TV like those thugs from the South (whom I believe Jonathan should call to order) but, people are being intimated and harassed in the North and the APC must call their members too to order. We wouldn't want a repeat of the post election violence in 2011.

We should be careful though. I belong to the PDP. My brother would rather see change in the APC. It doesn't mean we are suddenly enemies. If this country eventually goes up in flames, we would wish we did things differently. But it would be darn too late.

same thing here with me. My moslem colleagues accused me religious sentiments when I told them Buhari was not my candidate. They even got so hostile, I couldn't believe they were the people I work with everyday! It was disheartening! One even went as far as telling me, if you think u are brave repeat what you said here outside and see what will happen to you! I'm already packed and ready to leave. Buhari and his rogues are not humans at all. Even Sambo himself is not helping GEJ( who is not my candidate anyway). Why should he tell people not to vote Buhari, because Osinbajo has more the 50 churches? These guys just hate christians. They are the ones killing, maiming and destroying, yet they keep pointing fingers when sane people speak out against such. May GOD help us.

Jidefido:


i have a former colleague who always insist the driver must open the booth before she enters. security is paramount ooooo and abuja is really a hotbed for it. just imagine someone experiencing such 15 times. mine is just once and dont hope to meet them again.

I do ask drivers open their booths esp if I'm taking a drop nd t nights. I was on my way from Gwarinpa to Wuse, and boarded a taxi, this one was painted taxi for that matter! Haba! The yeye people started their yeye talk again and I asked the driver, una no dey tire? Abi una think say na everybody mumu? I was that angry because getting vehicle from that bridge that leads to Kado estate was next to nil. They dropped me off on the bridge, and I slammed their door, hoping to break the glass! I trekked from that bridge to Kado junction under the hot afternoon sun, cos no vehicle wanted to stop for me. So whether painted taxi or no, we shld all be watchful and don't show fear. Peace

seedbaba:
For those that are doubting my story, I pray u shall not experience it in Jesus name. I'm so sorry for those that took offence for calling the igbo lady dirty, u guys got me wrong it wasn't what I meant. Na abo..ki I typed oo nairaland auto-correct it to northerner(lols), a poster said I'm a disgrace to education bcs I combined pidgin ( Mr man na naija we dey, anything goes for ds country, why english language no get me PPA??, u even ended ur post with 'JARE' smh.. Pot calling kettle black) D guy that said a gal sent him that same story..God is my witness. For those that gave advices and prayers.. Ur families and mine shall be protected from the tricks and powers of the evil doers. Thanks for the advices, the insults and the prayers, u are all blessed.. Thanks

I don't doubt ur story. I live in Abuja and I've encountered them more than 15 times. No joke. There was a day I was on my way to a midweek service, and I boarded a taxi from Jabi airport junction(before the construction of the bridge), before we go to primary school, they asked me to come down! Men and brethren, I encountered them twice again before I got to Mr Biggs that evening from primary sch!!! I was so angry cos I arrived late for the service. I don't fear them at ll, I treat them as bugs that shld be crushed. @Op, its well with you. By the way I'm Igbo, and didn't see any insult anywhere in ur post. Peace.

Happy new year my sistas! Really missed the activities here. By His grace I shall join for the next project. Madam Efosal I hail.

kamez:
As far as this 2015 election is concerned.. I will sit on the fence..

Nigerians keep shouting change we need change we need..

We have lots of issues to tackle in this country b4 we can progress as a nation.. From security to unemployment, to poor health services, bad roads, epileptic power supply, bad economy corrupt leaders the list is endless.

"We want change we want change" and yet we select GEJ and GMB to contest for presidency

If out of 150 million people, GEJ and GMB are the best and only two candidates we can produce to effect this much needed change, then we re really not going to get this change ..except u guys are expecting a miracle..
Until we allow credible intelligent, innovative fearless economic and financial gurus rule this country, this stagnation will most likely continue into the foreseeable future.

Personally I don't care about the tribe as long as the candidate is right..and these two candidates are more clueless than innovative..( So anyone of them dat wins na just management for another 8yrs)

MY CANDID OPINION.. ( Pls APC and PDP loyalist don't quote me. I'm a nigerian and I'm entitled to my own opinion same as u ) na beg I dey beg

. GOD bless you my brother! My opinion exactly!

ronald4lif:


You are equally right on the money bruv. If one is not contented in a relationship the best they could do is take a walk out. I don't find the idea of an open relationship plausible. But on a flip side it could be that such people find it hard to be lonely or in subtle term single, so they preferably stick with their partner until they find someone better. There are also cases where some ladies (applies to men as well) are in self-denial of being in an open relationship, cases where they know they are not happy in a relationship and feels they deserve better but refuses to admit it, thinking things can change and they can make it work, but all that changes the moment they meet someone who treats them right and way better than their present partner. I think such a people can also be said to be in an open relationship albeit in self-denial.

hmm, makes sense.

mrofficial:
When will they be on top of Boko Haram?

. You think anybody can be on top BH? Anyone that tells you he can end terrorism is not telling you the truth. If it were that easy. America would have succeeded by now. How do you fight an enemy that does not follow the rules of engagement? Enemy that uses humans as shields? An enemy that does not mind killing himself to kill others. This thing is not magic for crying out loud! The least we owe our military is to support them not distract nor belittle them. The NA has lost men in this fight, and no good general would be happy about that. The NA are fighters and protectors not GOD or magicians. Any one that thinks they are not performing should go and enlist, or joint the vigilantes in BIU. I rest my case. SMH

mariposa01:


3 yards should be enough for the skirt, what's your measurement. You can find another plain fabric to make the top.

yeah it should be enough, however because I'm having problem with my phone I couldn't capture the whole fabric, what u see there is just the base, the rest is just plain. Thanks for replying . Sadly I can't partkae of this project with u guys cos things just goot hectic for me in my office and have to get a new accommodation cos I have a quit notice hanging over me. Its well sha. I shall still make it when I have the time o with another fabric.

mariposa01:


How many yards is it?

3yards. The issue is that it looks to plain for six pieces, what do you think?. Maybe I should get another fabric for it. I'm even far behind. GOD will help me.

BreezyRita:


Yes.... In this era, saving yourself could be good....
But guys also like to ascertain that the babe is good in bed too......
I know Biblically this shouldn't even be debated buh let's get real.

Getting real is avoiding hell, where all fornicators and every workers of iniquity end up. This is what Jesus came to save us from.
GOD forbid that we should continue in sin for grace to abound. Believe me if you value what you have in Christ, and of course your salvation, you will run from fornication. Its a destroyer of destiny. Let get real, heaven I real, so is hell. Peace

GenBuhar :
pissure or i no believe you

Hehehehehehe! My dear no use of showing pinshure o, me wey get am know say I get am. Granted, it difficult to remove chin hairs, and shape my eyebrows every other week .

2roll:
I so much love hairy ladies....as a matter of fact i am attracted to hairy ladies. It sends shivers down my spine wen ever i see hairs anywhere on a woman's body be it..arms, legs, chest, tommy, etc. I dont see anything wrong with a lady having bear bear.,,so far she knws how to take care of it...a lady dat is hairy shld knw wat suits her body: shaving or waxing to avoid bumps. For all u hairy ladies out there, be proud of what u got ..I am one of ur ardent admirers..flaunt those hairs and keep ur head up

GOD bless bless nwoke oma.

Ishilove:

Hear hear!

yes o. My sis who stays broad had to start getting rid of both body and facial hairs, because the oyibo peeps no like! Ewo! See dark pigmentation every wia!

I so love this thread! I come from a family where all the females are so hairy. I repeat, so so hairy. I'm very hairy too. When I was growing up people look at me and marvel, they always say this girl go fine o,and they were right. I am an igbo lady and its a thing of pride for me that I am hairy. Imagine my shock when a man I didn't even know in Abuja came up to me and said, "you need to wax". I couldn't understand why my asset (yes keh, that how I see it ) could be seen as abnormal! As time went on, I encountered much of the same reaction. One I will never forget, was when I got a job in top brow interior decor place in Abuja, on my first day at work, see me n my correct pencil above the kneel skirt, and my pumps, kai, I was ready to face the world that day! , but one very nice naija/UK female consultant called me to her office and asked me to shave my fine legs bia bia because its not neat and may offend some customers! Its was not a small thing o, my barrister boyfriend who love my hairy nature was all set to sue them o. Luckily sha, the very next day, naija oyinbo told me our CEO said it was no biggie. At the risk of sounding pompous, I'm a very decent lady, but I have encountered men who just for the sake of my hairy nature want to date me. Even some ladies, especially my mum commend me. I love being hairy, and I thank GOD for it. Can't imagine myself without my bia bia o, I would feel so naked and defenceless. . so my fellow hairy ladies, rock your hair, na GOD dash you. Ps, I so love hairy guys too!

@Cherries, sorry for your lose. This is my fabric, I haave not cut itt cos I'm not so sure the material would be cl for six pieces.

Raymondenyi:

From the way u are seeming, I know u would have never contributed anything to thus man's life, u haven't help him achieve any milestone, this is a struggling young man, and because he got a 2nd car, he should give u one....... The greed and hopeless selfishness of ladies make me puke.. Very disgusting.

U think u giving him sex, qualifies u to earn of his Struggles? U re nothing more, cos he can get same sex from anybody anywhere, even a love peddler, so nothing makes u special... Go and clean ur lazy silly as up n seek for ways to make ur own money.. silly girl..

Spits on thread

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I beg to disagree. Not all ladies are hopeless and selfish. I am disgusted at the way some men think every woman is after what's in their pockets. This is not true at all. Its also not fair that you insult the OP, I think she's entitled to her opinion just like every one of us. Take it easy on the insults ok. Peace.

Blessedmum:
@Efosa,I must say dat u're doing a very gud job with this online training may God continually bless you.Plz I need u to help explain the cutting of flare skirt/gown(dunno if u av treated it already),I got confused while making attempts to cut it. Plz if any other person knows it I don't mind if u explain.Thanks.

I had t go back and copy an earlier post by Efosa. Here goes: "My waist is 37.i fold my fabric into four to cut.i want my peplum to have big pleats so I will cut my waist area to be more than 37 inch in the end ". For the length, let's assume the length of your skirt is 25" then you will have to measure 27" from your waist. The extral 2" is for seam allowance at the waist and the hemming at the base. I hope this helps. Please ladies, help with more clarification in case I'm not on point.

Rocking my cowl neck. Thanks Efosa!

My straight skirt.

OgologoDimkpa:
The 2nd Niger Bridge is currently in progress and will be completed in no distance time.

As for the Niger bridge shaking, not at all but rather it vibrates due to loads. You and i knows that the bridge is old
hence the need for a replacement. Kudos to GEJ for deeming it feat to commence the building of 2nd Niger bridge..

If your aim is to rubbish GEJ and his developmental project in the South East,
you have failed!
Look for another lies

I didn't vote during the last election cos none is worth my vote. But!, let's give credit to GEJ for even undertaking the building of the 2nd Niger bridge. Those of you screaming blue murder against GEJ, when Buhari, OBJ, IBB, Abacha, etc were in power, wetin dem do about the bridge? Yet we couldn't say anything. I so dislike politicians, dem too lie lie, but I must be objective here. Haba! If the 2nd Niger bridge is all we shall ever get from GEG. Ekene diri Olisa! See Enugu PH road is still a death trap till today, but is GEJ alone to be blamed? 'To thy self be true'. I rest my case. @ OP this is not a swipe at you. You have a right to voice ur opinion under that kind hot sun.

olapam:
Winnie you can I hev blackberry too and I just clicked that pin and it wil tel u wat to do . I hev other channels too that I added it was easy

. Olapam thanks a mill. @ Efosaval, wow! I so lov the outfit on you. Still struggling with my cowl neck tops. I shall catch. Jeje does it.

Does it mean I can't access it with blackberry?

Kemmy06:
pls i want to ask how many inch from waist to hip to measure?
or how i determine my waist to hip?thanks

you are giving me credit for someone else's work, mine refuse too upload . As for ur question, u just have to use ur measuring tape, I think ur waist is where ur navel is, but u knw ur body better than anyone else. The measurement between the waist and hip depends on how short or longer u want ur blouse to be. For this style I prefer 18" from shoulder down, and my blouse length is 23", but it depends on individual size.





PS: please dearies, I still need help on how to post the pix of my work. Made two skirts, but will some start on my cowl neck blouse.