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Susily:
You speak as if women do us a favor by being friends with us...... that's low key pedestaling women

Women getting more educated, getting into politics and making good money shouldn't bother a man at all

A man that knows his worth, women will beg him for friendship or intimacy because women benefit more from being friends with men than men benefit from being friends with women

Everything we do should be for our own interests and growth and not to "meet up with the "high" standards of women"...... whatever that means

A man shouldn't give a flying flounder if women's standards are getting high, women should be the ones having these worries

Solid post

Carchoice:
A lady told me this last year. Said She did charm to attract men that would favor her.

There’s a lot going on in Nigeria.

That’s sad. Craziest bit is those charms usually have negative effects on the men.

Sadly, it’s normal women that drive men into the hands of prostitutes

Omini247:
Anybody done use this site emilydates what's ur experience?

You’re asking in the wrong thread

Regex:
Do you know the part that vexes me? I don't even go on tik tok to view these shits, people bring it to their status.... I just mute them straight.

They have started bringing it to soundcity and other television channels too

UyaiIncomparabl:
Good luck with your thoughts and good night.

You are a man with hairy asshole

Miracood2

Zabiboy:
I doubt if such site exists ..
Like i always say, in this digital world, you need money to make more money tbh..
To make money online, you'll need some capital even if it's YouTube ( camera, data, video editing skills) freelancing ( learn and updating programming skills, constant data and electricity) affliate, crypto, stocks and so many others...
So yeah, we have to resort to handworks/physical jobs/ working for people to raise capital before going online/independent..

Cc miracood2

SATANlST:
bloody criminal

Your papa

SATANlST:
yes his son chibudollar is a nuisance and his nephew winnerly na confirmed pickpocket cultist

I have left this monicker for you. Have fun psyho

BigBashiru:
Don't sacrifice ur freedom for any woman including a "wife"

Endorsed.

Me thinks the real freedom is freedom from even needing a wife or other girls.

This is hard because it means you have to hack your biology and psyche. I guess this is what people call inner game.

I was going to go to the strip club tonight then i took a step back and asked myself, these girls are giving me something of no value (pussy) in exchange for something of value (money).

I can’t account for that pussy tomorrow. It’d serve me no purpose tomorrow or next week or next year. It would only cause me torment in my moments of meditation and righteousness by stirring up distractions.

I get the neediness associated with wanting a wife or girlfriend. It brings validation and joy knowing that you’re wanted but this is an inferior way to think or live.

We should all derive our sense of value from within and not without. I once read that 95% of who we are is unseen. If this is true, that means many times people will reject us or judge us wrongly because they can’t see what we see. It’s therefore very tricky and dangerous to hand over our sense of value to others. That shit should be within us.

One thing I’ve seen is how rejection from the opposite gender can make everything you’ve worked for loose taste in your mouth.

Lets say you buy a nice car to impress women, you then go out on a faithful day and pull up beside a lady but she doesn’t grant you audience. That act can make you forget the fact that you’re mighty blessed to be driving that car.
Meanwhile, she may have said no because she feels intimidated or because she wants to prove a point that she can’t be easily swayed by material possessions.

People forget that if you’re rich, some ladies would even prove tougher just to make a point

It’s same with looking good. A lady may reject you because she thinks you look too good for her. Meanwhile you may run off questioning your God given looks, thus taking a hit on your self esteem.

The drama and intricacies that come with dealing with the opposite gender are numerous.

I choose not to deal with all that and I’m working on it