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XiaoLi:
Xiaoli, I dey Kampe

Labadi69

NewSoul:
So For some years now I have been seeing the number 9 and 11 every time. At first I thought it was coincidence then it became so frequent that their was a time I saw 9:11 for a week straight. As in no matter where I am, no matter howfar I am from my phone "something" must bring me to around to look and see 9:11. I open a mathematics book and I see 9 11 first.
Who knows what these numbers stand for?

Funny enough I was born on 9 11. Anyone knows or having such experience?

It’s called synchronicity or a God wink. It means the universe is cheering you on and you are doing something right.

Perhaps you were sexually pure at the time

FatherCHRISTMAS:
I like how you write. Its brick-by-brick. Well laid out points for those willing to see things as it really is.

Father, how far

Tranquility2345:
Omo see better yansh

Simp.

Biglittlelois:
Hello it worked, I'm still using it, I did mine in Luth for 250k plus other expenses, it's too expensive in private clinics so I'd advice you do it at government hospitals.

Okay thanks alot!!

Biglittlelois:
Public hospital cos it's cheaper there.

Hi. I know this is an old post but did the braces work please? Is there noticeable difference in result

I visited a dental clinic in ikoyi and they said it’s between 1M to 3M

lildonn222:
Hang out alot with girls.Your low self-esteem will be gone in no time.
Ps:Stop masturbation(if you do),it makes you think this kind of thoughts.

Bro could you please speak more on the bolded? Why does masturbation cause this?

Dizzyyish:
Random question - I heard Truecaller can show someone's nairaland moniker alongside their number, is that true?

Also, what's with all these new monikers flooding the page?

It’s Labadi69

LifestyleTonite:
I prefer a lady to have genuine desire for me as a human that for me to use money to attract her.

If you are attractive, ladies will make excuses and lie to themselves that you are not broke. And if you eventually get rich, the more the merrier for them.

But if you are average looking or ugly, they can you be with you for the money. If the money should grow wings, they will dump you instantly or treat you like trash. But for the handsome guy, they will cut him some slack and love him the way he is.

Looks is King.

If you doubt me, look at the three people in the photo below. Check what their eyes are watching.

I thought we agreed this does not exist? Where are these people coming from?

Dollywood:
Lmaoooooooo. I have a confession to make. Have I bleeped up? It goes like this..

I met this girl and we became friends, after a month of talking to each other everybody, I decided to like set up a meet up with her. This girl admittedly said she loves me, and she calls me everyday just to hear my voice. Tbh, this girl is very humble and doesn't like request or bill me in anyway. I do tell her that, girls that bill guys or something are a big turn off. (Yeah, I did chip that mentality in her head), and she even like said, "Boyfriend ain't suppose to be paying bills of any girl when he's not her father". That really impressed me to see a Nigerian girl with such mentality.
So we eventually meet up, and when we reached our destination, the bike man ain't got a change, so she willingly paid our bike money herself with her last card, I guess. So, we went inside and did our usual sexual blah blah stuff but we didn't have sex coz she on her period and she even showed me.
So, fast forward to when we're about to part ways, I noticed she ain't got like t-fare, yeah, coz she used her last change to pay for both out tfare so, I told her not to worry that I'll pay for it. Now, I stopped a bike, and she hopped in. So, I was kind of impressed by her personality, honesty and so on, that I handed her 2k and she even hesitated. But eventually I persuaded her to take it and she took it.
The next day she called and was like "if not that she doesn't wanna waste the bike man time she wouldn't have collected the money from me".


So, what do you guys think?

Where are these people coming from?

KingAzubuike:
I repeat , seek quality education and you'll realize your level of foolishness. I used to be like you until I went deep into philosophy, psychology, critical reasoning and logic.

Cc Seun Mynd44 Lalasticlala

sajmark:
Security for my kids I guess, almost everyone can predict how the lives of Mr Eazi and Temi's children will be... If you know what I mean.

No one gets away with anything. He would enjoy wealth yes but will be sad when his masculinity is stripped off. That guy can’t call no shots in that marriage

ubunja:
Better be a rich simp than a broke red piller. That's just the truth.

The problem with SIMPs and Betas is they wanna use MONEY for sexual attraction when they must use THE BODY. It's why broke gym rats end up giving simps stiff competition among women. Now a gym rat with money or a rich man with a gym rat's body = UNSTOPPABLE. Because he's the total package of body and resources. The ultimate female fantasy. A rich man who can screw like a broke man is a gift from the gods. That type of man IS VERY RARE that's why women typically have to implement "Alpha Fuccs Beta Bucks" which is a survival strategy but not an ideal setup. Women are forced to deal with 2 men (one for money, one for sex), when it would be so much better and satisfying to find 1 man who has both good money and good dick. But good money and good dick are a very tall order for men to accomplish. So men choose the easier option: get money and be the money man. While broke guys by default choose to perfect their sex game, cause having no money to impress with, they utilize their dick (hence broke men always fucc better than rich men),, but here's the thing, a rich man who can fucc better than a broke man will have women killing each other over him. Literally. As in murder. This Alpha Fuccs Who Has Beta Bucks is the stuff of women's romance novels. He's the ultimate fantasy they masturbate to. An example is Christian Grey from [i] 50 Shades Of Gray. [/b].

Now if you want to climb the sexual pyramid as a red piller and enjoy more pussy, Hustle hard and get that money, but use it ON YOURSELF TO GET THE BEST BODY (simps hustle hard then spend that money on a particular woman to get her - which is why they are Beta) but a red piller spends on himself so he becomes sexy and attracts women without having to spend on them because HE TURNS WOMEN ON AND MAKES THEIR PUSSY WET. He uses lust and desire.

Remember guys, if you spend $1 000 to get a girl, you have spent $1 000 on 1 girl and even if you get that girl when you want another girl YOU'LL HAVE TO SPEND ANOTHER $1 000 ALL OVER AGAIN ON THIS NEW GIRL TO GET HER. Which is Beta. Not to mention costly. But the red pill alpha formula is opposite : you take that $1 000 and spend it on YOU (gym membership, spa visits, face creams, good diet, supplements, new fresh clothes, dental work, hair treatments and even cosmetic surgery if you have some facial issue that needs fixing) after you've improved yourself girls will be attracted. So a $1 000 spent on yourself brings more women than a $1 000 spent on 1 girl. That's how you use money to get women.

A beta walks around chasing women that turn him on.
An alpha walks around turning women on, getting them to chase. If you have such a body that a woman can pay you for sex, then you've reached the pinnacle.

Do you need money to be red pill? No.
Does money improve your red pill experience? Yes.

Alpha Fuccs Beta Bucks: It is it possible for a Beta to be an Alpha? Yes.

How? By becoming SEXY.

How does a man become sexy? Easy,, just get some money, find a fashionable lady you can confide in, who can be brutally honest with you and hire her for a small project. Tell her you'll pay her to make you hot. Let her choose the haircut for you, let her choose the clothes for you, let her get you the creams, lotions and scents. Say to her "what will you change about me lookswise if I was your man". Let her do you a makeover. I promise the results will blow you away. Anyone with a sister has had instances when she offered advice and it worked out. Same thing here. But more thorough...

A woman who understands fashion and style will even recommend the cologne that suits your personality.

Also every guy must have full body mirror that you can stand infront of and see what you really look like with various clothing items on.
And make it a habit to record yourself walking so you learn to perfect your walk. You have to have a swag. I'll post YouTube video links on this another time. Also record yourself speaking. If you don't like how you sound, then you should know, no one else does.

Tomorrow I'll post YouTube's 4 best channels that will change your life.... These are the channels that explain the game the way I do.

No lies in this. Very very very well said.

ProphetJeroboam:
I take it you’re speaking from experience then. While you have made good points, do not project your personal experience in this discuss because like I said, we all fight different battles. I stand by my original post but I can’t disagree with your points.

That thing you quoted is Labadi69

Tranquility2345:
I maintain. Those family members will not have your time when they get married and start raising their kids. You will just end up a lonely old man. Better to go and search for your life partner. It is not alienation. It is people living up to their family responsibilities and priorities. It’s not beans to raise children while maintaining a decent relationship with your wife.

Life is all about luck but it doesn’t mean we should not take our chances to find the right woman to grow old with. The same way we take chances in other life decisions we make. You win some, you lose some. You can’t understand this if you are a young pup. Respectfully….

Guys this is Labadi69. Ignore it/her

DieRich5:
When you finally make it in life, you realize that it wasn't what you wanted in the first place

You have money, but you're still the same

Make sure to have more goals in life than money goals, otherwise, it's easy to end up getting depressed

But that's for another day

And this sums up what I’ve been saying. Thanks so much for this!!!

I can tell you’ve seen wealth!

djon78:
Like you said, the things that mean something are freely given.

I am never against making money, but I have seen things in this my existence in life.

There are things money can't give you. That's where the Almighty pass all of us.

You see life
Money can't give it.

I remember one of president Buhari's associates, the guy was doing forex deals with Central Bank governor, just one deal covers $300 million.
He and his sons we're swimming in money. The CBN governor was his boy.

Two years ago the guy was feeling one kind and just drove himself to hospital, under few hours, he was dead.
Like a Muslim he was buried in one obscure graveyard in fct.
This was under 24 hours, people couldn't believe it.

Agree 100% bro. You’re right.

May God give us the grace to focus on what really matters even when the world tries to dictate its own priority to us.

emmaodet:
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Again true at the bolded...................Have said it here before that there are many places, people and life your average woman will enjoy that the average man will never know throughout his life.
Your average woman will be ushered into the private suite of governors, presidents, senators etc to have a one night affair and these are the people we may likely not meet in our lives rather than on tv.
An average girl courtesy of her body will be able to meet footballers in camp or their hotel or club but the average man will only see them on tv or far away with their bodyguards as a barricade.
These women know they carry values around just by having a good body, just by existing but for a man to meet a governor or president or footballer, you must have paid your dues with sheer hard work, with a proven history of being successful in whatever endeavor you engage in.
The average woman has an UNFAIR ADVANTAGE over man and in most cases, the ONLY consolation a man has is that IF and ONLY IF he becomes successful, he would be opened to the mass opportunities of life and the society will birth a blind eye to is acquiring more and more women BUT these women still want to water down the virtually only consolation a man has for passing through all these hardship by rubbing shoulder with him again.
When the man has an affair outside because his SMV has increased they will open their dirty mouth and tell you they will also have a revenge affair outside because you are not sticking to their only pvssy.
*Spits*

Very solid points bro. Learnt a thing or two from your write up.

It can be depressing if you think about it too much.

I guess we have to let nature even things out. Like Pete Davidson would say, no one really gets away with anything. It’s just when their karma comes, you won’t be there but rest assured it all balances out.

Dliquidmetal:
your points are biased though,all the problems you keep listing aren't peculiar to the rich alone. And reasonably thinking,it would be better to have these problems with money than have them without it. Humans,either reach or poor can be faced with the same problem but having money give you more edge and cushion.

100% these problems aren’t peculiar to the rich only. I guess it’s more like a word of caution to say it’s not all uhuru once you get some dough as many think.

I agree that it’s better to have these problems and be rich but you can be rich and miserable still. Maybe even more miserable than a broke dude

ubunja:
then why the hate?

It’s not hate atall. Just an observation. I have loads of them about society and people.

It can also double up as a word of caution for those who would want to risk it all to get rich.

ubunja:
If you're poor just say so.

Lol I’m a millionaire in Nigerian naira and definitely in SA rand too as they aren’t that far apart.

Was at MallofAfrica sometime last year. Thought to say hi but couldn’t go through the hassles of pm and all.

Went to Mandela’s house in Soweto then went to grimy CBD in Joburg before heading to sandton where i stayed. I always pay my respects to the grimy part of any country I’m at as i come from one as well. Grimy places are a mecca for G’s.

Hooked up with a dime in sandton who didn’t ask me for a dime all through. Stark contrast from what we are used to in naija