₦airaland Forum

Pamelayoung:
What if you don't find smone who loves you backand age is fast ticking away

Then its still your choice and you have to carry your cross.
Age is a number, better late than be sorry.

A bad marriage will probably kill her faster. Theres no justification to cheat on your partner.

Pamelayoung:
You are very correct many atimes women are pressured into getting married to someone they don't like under duress. Very few manage to stay faithful while others are tempted to return to their ex. How do you advise persons facing such?

Let no one pressure you into a loveless marriage, unless they will also be in that marriage with you.
Did they hold a knife to her head? or disown her?

Any woman in such a situation must live with it as she made the choice herself. If they force you to cut off your hand will you oblige?

erico2k2:
Why is the Mum living there in the 1st place ? Since ur mum knows the wife don't like her why go there ? Your brother's wife owns the house yoyr mum owns ur dad house.why the evasion of d pace? I'm not promoting violence but sometimes some mothers take things to the next level . Your mum is probably going to check her clothes shoes cooking money etc . Wives do not like that

And beating her is the solution? Has she beaten her own mother before?

darlenese:
ladies in the house, marry the last born.
guys in the house, marry the last born.


let the parents marry their first children!
problem solved!


I have a family friend who is married to a first child and only son, this man is responsible for sending all his sisters to school. they even live with them are they are so rude and disrespectful all in the name of "my brother's house ". most times his sisters needs are considered before the wife.
no peace of mind. tufiakwa

God forbid bad thing! Your friend has entered One Chance

solasoulmusic:
It really depends remember that we all will die one day and that burden you are seeing now is a legacy you are building for your family. Do what you can honestly for them and let the rest fall by the wayside. The most expensive cost in life only is a funeral remember that everything else there will be gains to suppress just bare and smile

What is this nonsense you just spewed?

yvelchstores:
Nothing I say to u will suffice so wallow on.

You cant bail out now. That is an easy way out. I think you should honestly answer the question i asked you. Is MouthAction justified?

Quinn22:
It's an abomination for me

If he wants to fvck my asshole, I will ask him whether I should put a hot knife in his asshole before he fvcks mine and see his response

But you can put his penis in your mouth? The same one he uses to pee?

yvelchstores:
Exception: Sexual Perversions
Anal sex is a homosexual act, and no normal man or woman desires this. The use of pornography has increased this abomination. It is a filthy practice and medically dangerous. God, the master creator, made a “natural use” of the woman for sexual expression. Any man who practices anal sex is automatically suspect for other deviant activity. If your husband has been perverted in this manner, you must respectfully decline to participate. Explain to him why, and then give him a good time in all that is natural.
“For this cause God gave them up unto vile affections: for even their women did change the natural use into that which is against nature: And likewise also the men, leaving the natural use of the woman, burned in their lust one toward another; men with men working that which is unseemly, and receiving in themselves that recompence of their error which was meet. And even as they did not like to retain God in their knowledge, God gave them over to a reprobate mind, to do those things which are not convenient” (Romans 1:26-28).


From the book, "created to be his help meet" by Debi Pearl.

Anal sex between a Man and Woman is homosexual? If Anal sex is wrong, then MouthAction is also wrong. I hope you are also against MouthAction or you have a justification for that?

yvelchstores:
it's equivalent to sodomy. It's originality is directly traced back to sodomy where the penis goes into the anus. This act is Abominable to God.

Lol. You obviously dont know the meaning of sodomy. Kindly google it for clarity. It has little to do with Anal sex.
I need a bible verse that condemns the act not your subjective and limited interpretation.

yvelchstores:
It is wrong, biblically, medically, emotionally and mentally.

Please prove biblical

Lexusgs430:
Where Emeka dey now?

Dude is wasting in Police cell. Young Man with a good future just wasted his life for money. He lives on my street, infact i know him wella. His family still stay in the area but they ve not seen him since his arrest.

I am scared of marriage cos of the responsibilities involved.
I think marriage is an unnecessary burden especially with kids.
It becomes more difficult to achieve your goals and dreams as you are now responsible for others and not yourself alone. Coupled with the economic situation in this country.
I sometimes feel for my married colleagues and friends cos its really not easy.
Family issues, In-laws, Kids, Health, School fees, disagreements with spouse e.t.c
not worth it.

I do not look forward to getting married. I dont even think about it. NOT A THOUGHT

Shatta Wale - Ayoo

BigBelleControl:
So he has left Sade? That girl was the coolest girl in my department then. No one knew she was married to an actor except for few.

I think Sade left him

LionDeLeo:
The only livestock farming I understand is cattle.

You buy them when they are lean/emaciated, treat them, mostly de-worming and give them Ivomec (cattle multivite) and procaine injection against infections. A seasoned non-fulani cattle businessman will readily assist you.

Don't bother discussing with the Fulanis because they are mostly illiterates and they can't be of help.

If you keep them with any cattle businessman who also keeps cattle for just 3 to 4 months, I doubt if you will ever stop the business.

The only snags here are;

1. You require at least a million naira, to enjoy it very well.

2. The chance of finding a businessman in that line of business who will readily allow you to join your cows with his own for the period is slim. Some of them will want to do the investment on your behalf and adopt a profit-sharing formula, not a good idea. (Don't attempt Fulanis, some of them are criminals)

I was in the business before but I'm not stable in one place now due to my job demand.

As I have stated, that is the only animal business I understood very well.

Really? Of all the agricultural businesses this is what you are recommending? Have you heard of Fulani herdsmen? SMH

deomello:
Bigotry and tribalism are all you people know, eat and breath.

And you wonder why investments, progress and development sidetracked your village.

Mention where you come from and compare it to where he comes from and see the place that lacks development. You just feel you can spit trash right? I dare you to mention your place of origin and compare to his place.

Grace87:
lol you ppl dnt knw wat u want... wen we chase you away, you saying xenophobia...wen we try to help n accept u as our fellow africans, you still complain. wat do yall want exactly?

There's nothing wrong with you. I just think you need to disconnect from this guy emotionally. Ignore those name callers and judgmental people.

StephDamielola:
Distance is also part of the problem. Lets tell the truth, this Partners need sex and more closeness. Sex isn't only for procreation, it helps to solve problems, to ease tensions and to renew the bond between two lovers.

I believe the SA girl from Kwazulu Natal have been giving him head and he is busy screaming Nakupenda.....

Damnnnnnnn.. You made my day. So so funny.

vantage001:
But the prostitutes are not married na.
Even prostitutes know when to draw the line but not the yoruba folks.
Btw, why is there a dearth of intelligent yoruba men on nairaland.? Are you all dumb?.
Someone is talking of infidelity in marriage common among the yoruba race, this yoruba nigga is comparing that to unmarriedprostitutes doing a job..

And also getting paid, probably supporting their families in the process. Hate and tribalism has reduced their intelligence.
Prostitution is legal in many parts of the world.

bettercreature:
You are 500years behind
Modified...let me leave Methuselah out of this

Not really. It depends on the quality of the car and the leather. This is Nigeria where it is extremely hot, so parking your car for hours can kill.

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okonja:
Karma



This is a Yoruba adage;
Ajá momo tiè fún lómú, ósì mo tòdù òyà kìmólè paje

Dont understand yoruba, but i like your post.

GeeGuy:
my phone is off now, I'll switch it on later in the day

Alright

GeeGuy:
e-money house looks like a stanky rich blood money guy's house.... All I see is gold everywhere

Dude wats up.. I need to contact you for something