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No one should blame the girl please provided what she posted is true.

She didn't ask for the money or phone from the guy. The guy voluntarily gave it out.

More so she stressed it to the guy it wont be in exchange for a relationship and he agreed

So what stupid threat is he now making.

My Advice..

1. Don't return the Phone
2. Let your parent be aware (it will get more worsen if you keep it to yourself.. You've done nothing wrong, you have nothing to hide)
3. Your parent will involve the police if the threat persist.
4. Don't be scared by the JAZZ threat...just be very prayerful be you a muslim or a christian.

Continue you normal life...

Zzor:
Should a man who claims to love you demand sex just because he felt he has spent so much on you?Is this enough reason to completely write him off?

You want to write him off ..just because he demanded sex?

If you truly love him that shouldn't be an offensive request. it means you love him for the money and after getting done,

you want an excuse to walk away.

In today's world relationship without sex na scam.

the only exception is ...if you are a virgin and wish to marry before having sex

StacyO:
Please read through.



The main issue now is that I want to break up with the guy once and for all but, I don't want to hurt him and I still have to save the contract at hand.

The guy is very much attached to me already and I won't fake it, I'm equally beginning to feel butterflies in my stomach.

You also need to be realistic to yourself. You technically ageed to go into the relationship because you dont want to loose the contract.

Bear it in mind also that your client's returns on the contract awarded to you is that relationship you are into. Quit the relationship, the contract is gone. Its a function of each other .There is no way he will not tell his brother.

If you really dont want to loose the contract, since you've let him know you are not really into him.. just be very casual in the relationship till the end of the contract duration (provided its a short term contract).You dont need to formally end it when you still have the contract going.

After the contract period... ending a relationship is not a problem for ladies, you people are experts on that. And if you have fallen in love by then... ..just carry go..and continue. The Lord is your Shepherd.

[quote author=AdesewaAde post=99711904]I was reading all sorts of conversations between him and different girls, not one, not two, not three, about ten of them, some even sent him nude pictures, he already bleeped some, some are still under format, two of them are new preys.
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This is a red light!!! An addiction to cheating....he is a player pure and simple. You may not enjoy that marriage. he is only placing you above them because he may have chosen you to be his wife. Once he marries you.. his worries are over and you will be seen as his subject who doesn't have any right to challenge him on whatever he does. Then he will place the girls above you.

Beware!!!

Rhodaogunpeju:
is there anything wrong with the thread ?

There is nothing wrong with the thread actually, but it is always good to disconnect your identity from private posts.

If any of your jealous friends get to read this, your husband can be a target by exposing you that you are bringing his family matters to a court of public opinion.

Rhodaogunpeju:
I decided to write this because I have come to realize that Love can get boring..
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I remember when I met my husband , he was such a Nice and handsome Man. I mean I already decided if he ask me out I will say yes from the first day I met him but I still made him beg and purse me for a whole year before finally accepting to date him ..

6 months after our relationship we got married. and our marriage was bliss , I married a friend , we have our downs and quarell but we always make up before we sleep because of the fact that we made it compulsory that we must have a family prayer Every night , we usually settle most of our fights during these prayers ..

But sometimes marriages can get boring , you have gisted all the entire gist ,talk about everything talkable till there is actually nothing to talk about,. Then the husband starts drifting away .maybe he's got a new friend or found a new love ...sometime this new love might not be a person ,For instance my husband new love is politics..He's always working and when he's home he is either watching the News on Tv and even when he tries to talk to me he will be like "Baby can you believe what kai muhammad said again"..

And I'm just sitting like who and what is my concern with lai muhammad?... Yet he doesn't see my reaction,he just continues to talk untill we fall asleep.i listen to him because I have to he is my husband.

The love flame was slowly wearing our ,I mean he no longer wants me to wait for him before I eat. .. if I call him to inquire when he is coming back home , he replies with "I don't know but eat o.. don't wait for me "...

How about the sex life ... What use to be mind blowing sex is now just average .just because he's had too much if it ..I could also say the same about me..I mean before seeing my husband in boxers turns me on but now even if he's naked it doesn't seem to move me

Hmmm but regardless I still love my husband. .I have sat him down many times and talked about spicing things up but you know Men... Anyways the moral of my story is that when you marry ..marry someone that even when he/she changes you would still love them because trust me they will....
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There is a vacuum you need to fill in your post.
Do you have kids in your marriage? that is also a major factor that needs to be considered.

Its practically not possible for all the seven labs both government and private to have all made same mistake. but it is possible that

1. All the result may have been doctored to convince the husband out of desperation for marriage
2. The new test done after birth may also be wrong.
3. The husband may not be the father of the child
4. The baby might have been replaced at birth

Blood group and DNA test should first be done to confirm its their child.

After that they both should go for another genotype test at another lab. if the husband can remain AA the the result of the wife should be final.

There is no way someone who is AA will turnout to be AS all of a sudden.

StacyO:
What are friends for na?
She confided in me and gave her permission.

She's damn serious.
But,it seems Nigerians don't like Kenyans.

Stacy i bet your friend concluded her decision based on the way Nigerians in Qatar are taking of their Kenyan girlfriends

Right or wrong? .....

StacyO:
For your mind.
Hahahhhhhahahahaha

Of course you know you cannot deny it....

Oya make i loud this one......Stacy is also a kenyan working in Qatar with a Nigerian boyfriend.

She is Kenyan

She looks 23 to 25

She is Christian

She is working in Qatar

Stacy is probably her room mate

......Stacy make i loud am....??