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Romance / Re: Men Struggle Too Much In This World Without Favors by Witlee1: 6:47am On Dec 12, 2021 |
qtguru: Point of correction egbon, RP doesn't tell you to spin plates with every female rather you should be at an advantage getting things from them thereby increasing your value instead of the other way round which nature encrypted When you don't know about something please tend to learn about it before opposing it,(please take this advise serious, it'll help you moving forward in life) everything you did up there was plainly RP without you even knowing,some guys would have started simping for them hoping to be in thier good books or for some relationship. Ciao egbon |
Education / Re: FG Begging For Strike – ASUU, Nsukka Zone by Witlee1: 9:47am On Dec 10, 2021 |
Them just dey make noise nothing more nothing less |
Crime / Re: Keke Rider Stabs Motorist To Death In Port Harcourt by Witlee1: 3:33pm On Dec 09, 2021 |
Every day death,no one knows who's next E don tire me sef |
Events / Re: Caterer Accosted While Trying To Smuggle Rice Cooler Out Of A Wedding In Rivers by Witlee1: 2:53pm On Dec 06, 2021 |
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Crime / Re: How To Steal A Fowl This Christmas by Witlee1: 11:04am On Dec 06, 2021 |
This op is high on oshogbo weed Wtf man 1 Like |
Family / Re: Culture Vs Legal Law: Who Owns The Child??? by Witlee1: 10:15pm On Dec 05, 2021 |
aariwa: Please attend to! In my own case I didn't deny the child, I took care of the mother during and after birth and I took care of them for almost two years but now seems like the girls eyes is in another man.... She's in school too How can I have custody of my child, the child is 2 years and 4 months and staying with the mother cuz she's in school |
Romance / Re: My Mother In Law To Be Doesn't Want Me To See My Child by Witlee1: 10:19pm On Nov 30, 2021 |
Rosement: I didn't abandon the baby, infact I took care of the baby and the mother for almost 2 years I'm hearing they want to pack out of the house they are staying now so should I still relax and wait? 1 Like |
Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Witlee1: 7:39am On Nov 30, 2021 |
ichidodo: Thanks 4 Likes |
Family / Re: My Mother In Law Doesn't Want To Let Me See My Daughter by Witlee1: 9:34pm On Nov 29, 2021 |
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Family / Re: My Mother In Law Doesn't Want To Let Me See My Daughter by Witlee1: 9:22pm On Nov 29, 2021 |
mcdokwe: The reason the child was not with us for some few months now is because of my girls school clashing with the nurturing of the child so I advised for her to give the child to her mother while I send some few things to them from time to time, I have no problem with that at all |
Family / Re: My Mother In Law Doesn't Want To Let Me See My Daughter by Witlee1: 9:14pm On Nov 29, 2021 |
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Family / Re: My Mother In Law Doesn't Want To Let Me See My Daughter by Witlee1: 8:55pm On Nov 29, 2021 |
sisisioge:I don't know the reason she reported, I was only called upon to stay away from their daughter cuz I was threatening her which I never did.seems they don't want me around anymore What if she marries a well to do man that can take care of my child? She clearly won't need me What kind of father would my child see me as? I was thinking of going to the police or welfare |
Family / Re: My Mother In Law Doesn't Want To Let Me See My Daughter by Witlee1: 8:49pm On Nov 29, 2021 |
Homeboiy: Thanks for the advice What do I need to do about the child? How do I go about it? Or should I just ignore all of them with the child? |
Family / Re: My Mother In Law Doesn't Want To Let Me See My Daughter by Witlee1: 8:46pm On Nov 29, 2021 |
cayorday89: Yes I do Thanks |
Family / Re: My Mother In Law Doesn't Want To Let Me See My Daughter by Witlee1: 8:41pm On Nov 29, 2021 |
Raalsalghul: Thanks |
Family / Re: My Mother In Law Doesn't Want To Let Me See My Daughter by Witlee1: 8:39pm On Nov 29, 2021 |
pocohantas: Oh I understand you now.... The reason she's with her grandmother is that my gf is still in school and won't allow it to affect her studies and me I'm a hustler and I don't think I'll be able to look greatly into the child's welfare for now that's why I told her to go keep her with her mother while I send stipends to her for the time being hence the two of us still cohabiting till she restrained her daughter So I don't know where I got it all wrong 1 Like |
Family / Re: My Mother In Law Doesn't Want To Let Me See My Daughter by Witlee1: 8:36pm On Nov 29, 2021 |
cayorday89:Thank you for the advice I'll gladly spend more when I have the resources to do so than spending now when I don't have any and then bringing them in for them to suffer, as I dey drink my Garri alone I like it than bringing them in to suffer with me You guys ain't even seeing to my wellbeing as I'm the only sole provider here, plus I have done introduction to show my intention so I don't see what they are really trying to do since I only told them to hold a bit for me to gather myself |
Family / Re: My Mother In Law Doesn't Want To Let Me See My Daughter by Witlee1: 8:27pm On Nov 29, 2021 |
cayorday89: No one is trying to make another baby for anyone to nurse,I also have a mother, if she can't handle it she can hand her over to my mum till I do the necessary things which I truly intend to do... apart from that I've been trying my best to send some little stipends as my capabilities could handle for the upkeep of my child so I see no reason why they can't wait for me to be a little bit okay for me to marry Or do they want their daughter and granddaughter to suffer in marriage? That's not what I plan for them 1 Like |
Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Witlee1: 8:03pm On Nov 29, 2021 |
My gf got pregnant, I'm not an advocate of abortion so I told her to keep it so I and my live-in gf had a child (girl) outside wedlock who is 2 years old now and I took care of her and the child for 1 year and 8 months,paid the hospital bills and everything, which a single dough of the girls family didn't come to the wellbeing of the child, it was All me which the mother of the girl is aware of. Though I dont want to marry the girl now due to the harsh economy of Nigeria but I have plans to marry her later on due to the harsh plus I can't just jump into marriage when I'm not yet able to cater for a family yet so I told her to keep the child with her mother till I can be able to stand on my feet and foster for us all,me and my gf still lived together without the baby and I helped her pay some fees for her school cuz I understood that for my baby to be educated the mother needs to be . Fast forward to now, the mother of my gf doesn't want me to see my child because I don't want to marry my gf now, my gf and her mother had to even report me to human rights for me never to contact my gf any longer cuz I am threatening her which I never did... I tried contacting my gf to know what is happening, she's not picking her calls neither is the mother too and when I texted my gf she rained insults on me lol (life's so unfair) NB: I learnt from a reliable source that the mother of my gf is the one Influencing her this way,my gf is also in her 3rd year at school I'm so confused, please advice me on necessary steps to take 11 Likes |
Romance / Re: My Mother In Law To Be Doesn't Want Me To See My Child by Witlee1: 7:59pm On Nov 29, 2021 |
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Romance / Re: My Mother In Law To Be Doesn't Want Me To See My Child by Witlee1: 7:59pm On Nov 29, 2021 |
Favfables1: Thank you so much for the advice 1 Like |
Family / Re: My Mother In Law Doesn't Want To Let Me See My Daughter by Witlee1: 7:43pm On Nov 29, 2021 |
crackhaus: Thanks for the advice I'll work on that, since I'll be doing right by my child, is it bad if I want the child to visit me from time to time (not frequently) since it's obvious my gf isn't interested in us anymore? |
Family / Re: My Mother In Law Doesn't Want To Let Me See My Daughter by Witlee1: 7:29pm On Nov 29, 2021 |
InTheCloudySky: Thank you, I appreciate your advice, I even bought alot of things for my daughter during her birthday when she was staying with her grandma and celebrated it with her so I don't know why this sudden change of attitude cuz all this should show them that I am truly interested in marrying their daughter and not just the child Please advice me on what you think I should do as this is really draining me emotionally Thanks Ps: her father is late, the man hasn't been staying with them for many years now before he relocated to the village...the woman has 5 children and they stay together in a room 1 Like |
Family / Re: My Mother In Law Doesn't Want To Let Me See My Daughter by Witlee1: 7:24pm On Nov 29, 2021 |
ucheheart: Thanks, from your name you seem to be an igbo person.... I'll stop contacting her for now since I can't do what they are requesting for now |
Family / Re: My Mother In Law Doesn't Want To Let Me See My Daughter by Witlee1: 7:22pm On Nov 29, 2021 |
crackhaus: Thanks Females on here don't know there are many things involved in being married to someone cuz too many responsibilities abound, in my case I'm the only one because the girl is still in school and isn't doing anything to bring in income Marriage is not something I could just rush into, my question is why wait when I took care of their daughter with the baby but they can't wait a few more years for me to be capable of bearing all the responsibilities coming with marriage and then decided I shouldn't see my child unless I do their bidding? |
Family / Re: My Mother In Law Doesn't Want To Let Me See My Daughter by Witlee1: 7:17pm On Nov 29, 2021 |
pocohantas: I didn't want to mention you at first but I have to so those that have good advice for me will dish it out to me Firstly I never ran away from my responsibilities as I took care of the child for almost two years while I was cohabiting with my gf which the mother is aware of and when the child was giving to her mother I regularly send some stipends to them for upkeep...so how is that running away from responsibilities? If not that the mother is wicked if not she would have called the daughter to order when I started cohabiting with her, so why now? Secondly I have done introduction by bringing my family to make my intentions known, I least expected you to know if you had read my comments ...the only issue is that I can't pay the bride price which is exorbitant because she's from an igbo tribe, it's not a financial excuse it's what I can't afford right now and I'm sure you won't advice me to borrow to pay for that and it's clear that this is what they want or else I don't have a claim on the child Thirdly, if you think I'm just cohabiting with her to have sex you are clearly getting it all wrong, if it's sex I want they are many ways to get it bit I truly love this girl and want us to build a family together but the family isn't seeing reasons with me until I pay bride price NB: the school fees of the girl I paid isn't even half of the list of things I need to pay for the bride price but like someone said I can negotiate it with them,that's if they agree , I'll work on it Thanks 1 Like |
Family / Re: My Mother In Law Doesn't Want To Let Me See My Daughter by Witlee1: 6:32pm On Nov 29, 2021 |
Kajaard:Thanks for your indulgence I have done the introduction, that is bringing my family to show my intentions This said, tell me how to go about it Thanks |
Family / Re: My Mother In Law Doesn't Want To Let Me See My Daughter by Witlee1: 5:59pm On Nov 29, 2021 |
crackhaus: I'll do my investigations but I don't think that's what they want to do I'll gladly love it if you can tell me how I can go about this if it's true |
Family / Re: My Mother In Law Doesn't Want To Let Me See My Daughter by Witlee1: 5:57pm On Nov 29, 2021 |
Saintmary: My intentions has always been pure, I'm igbo and there's something we call knocking on the door which I have done at least to make my intentions known but they clearly want the bride price to be paid which I don't have atm Maybe I've lost my gf to another person like someone said plus I don't want to fight the family cuz they are the family I want to marry from And talking about culture, I guess any Nigerian law supercedes customary law so I'm not bothered about that |
Family / Re: My Mother In Law Doesn't Want To Let Me See My Daughter by Witlee1: 5:05pm On Nov 29, 2021 |
pocohantas: Thanks How do I send gifts to the child? |
Family / Re: My Mother In Law Doesn't Want To Let Me See My Daughter by Witlee1: 4:58pm On Nov 29, 2021 |
Saintmary: Thank you I appreciate your concern Is there any reason I should let her be for now? And how do I get to see my child often because I can't be sending gifts and money to someone I don't see.. NB:I'm not requesting for the custody of the child but just time to time visitations is cool for me 1 Like |
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