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RomanceRe: My Mother In Law To Be Doesn't Want Me To See My Child by Witlee1(op): 4:55pm On Nov 29, 2021
Ussycool:
It is too bad bro.
The issue on ground is too complicated, you have said your part man, how can we hear the other part of the story?
Well, you have every right to take ur child and take full responsibility as a father. You don't owe them much, but marry your girlfriend should be your priority. If you realy love her, don't distance yourself from her.
Thank you I appreciate, I have plans to marry her but not when I'm finding it hard to get on my feet
I have tried engaging my gf on what is on ground but she isn't even showing any sign of wanting to have a talk, people have advised me to blank her totally with the child but cuz I love her I don't want to
RomanceRe: My Mother In Law To Be Doesn't Want Me To See My Child by Witlee1(op): 4:49pm On Nov 29, 2021
FlipModeSquade:
Life's so unfair?

To you or to your girlfriend and her mother?

You didn't want to marry her and yet you insisted on the baby?

And You wonder why her mother is against you?

You want to eat your cake and have it?

Ogbeni..

Carry your load..
How can't you take your time and read? I'm surprised people like you passed out of school successfully that's if you went to school.
Where did I write I'm insisting on the baby?

You are just daft
Enjoy the mention you won't get it again
FamilyMy Mother In Law Doesn't Want To Let Me See My Daughter by Witlee1(op): 4:42pm On Nov 29, 2021
My gf got pregnant, I'm not an advocate of abortion so I told her to keep it so I and my live-in gf had a child (girl) outside wedlock who is 2 years old now and I took care of her and the child for 1 year and 8 months,paid the hospital bills and everything, which a single dough of the girls family didn't come to the wellbeing of the child, it was All me which the mother of the girl is aware of.

Though I dont want to marry the girl now due to the harsh economy of Nigeria but I have plans to marry her later on due to the harsh plus I can't just jump into marriage when I'm not yet able to cater for a family yet so I told her to keep the child with her mother till I can be able to stand on my feet and foster for us all,me and my gf still lived together without the baby and I helped her pay some fees for her school cuz I understood that for my baby to be educated the mother needs to be .

Fast forward to now, the mother of my gf doesn't want me to see my child because I don't want to marry my gf now, my gf and her mother had to even report me to human rights for me never to contact my gf any longer cuz I am threatening her which I never did... I tried contacting my gf to know what is happening, she's not picking her calls neither is the mother too and when I texted my gf she rained insults on me lol (life's so unfair)

NB: I learnt from a reliable source that the mother of my gf is the one Influencing her this way,my gf is also in her 3rd year at school
I'm so confused, please advice me on necessary steps to take
RomanceMy Mother In Law To Be Doesn't Want Me To See My Child by Witlee1(op): 4:36pm On Nov 29, 2021
My gf got pregnant, I'm not an advocate of abortion so I told her to keep it so I and my live-in gf had a child (girl) outside wedlock who is 2 years old now and I took care of her and the child for 1 year and 8 months,paid the hospital bills and everything, which a single dough of the girls family didn't come to the wellbeing of the child, it was All me which the mother of the girl is aware of.

Though I dont want to marry the girl now due to the harsh economy of Nigeria but I have plans to marry her later on plus I can't just jump into marriage when I'm not yet able to cater for a family yet so I told her to keep the child with her mother till I can be able to stand on my feet and foster for us all,me and my gf still lived together without the baby and I helped her pay some fees for her school cuz I understood that for my baby to be educated the mother needs to be .

Fast forward to now, the mother of my gf doesn't want me to see my child because I don't want to marry my gf now, my gf and her mother had to even report me to human rights for me never to contact my gf any longer cuz I am threatening her which I never did... I tried contacting my gf to know what is happening, she's not picking her calls neither is the mother too and when I texted my gf she rained insults on me lol (life's so unfair)

NB: I learnt from a reliable source that the mother of my gf is the one Influencing her this way,my gf is also in her 3rd year at school
I'm so confused, please advice me on next step to take
CelebritiesRe: Babatunde Omidina 'Baba Suwe' Is Dead by Witlee1: 3:39pm On Nov 22, 2021
RIP baba

This should be the works of head sla**ers smiley
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: Leicester City Vs Chelsea (0 - 3) On 20th November 2021 by Witlee1: 12:32pm On Nov 20, 2021
Blaqstick:
But can you stake 50k on this game
The odds are in favor of Leicester
Leicester to beat Chelsea like 3 odd
Draw is like 4-5 odd
150-200k can be yours if you go against Chelsea
Someone that can't stake even the 100 naira he wants to use to drink Garri grin
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: Leicester City Vs Chelsea (0 - 3) On 20th November 2021 by Witlee1: 12:31pm On Nov 20, 2021
Suspect33:
Another L for Chelsea
I go knack you two by two o
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: Leicester City Vs Chelsea (0 - 3) On 20th November 2021 by Witlee1: 12:30pm On Nov 20, 2021
Up Chelsea

Like for Chelsea, share for Red Norwich grin
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Witlee1: 11:58am On Nov 19, 2021
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Tell that f**l up there to gift her dad that took care of her till date he needs it more
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Witlee1: 5:34am On Nov 19, 2021
ubunja:
Okay, what I'm going to say will have many variables and question marks and holes,, but I'm just putting it out there to give a general idea of things. It must not be taken as a complete, ironclad theory or set of principles.

Bro you're on point on this.

Never invest in a woman because you're just improving her SMV (sexual market value). Which will activate her hypergamy. Keep her where you found her and use your money in such a way that if she disconnects from you and goes, she'll find herself where you found her.

There's a huge difference between marrying a beautiful woman whose hair, nails and makeup are top notch AND marrying a plain woman then making her beautiful with good hair, nails and makeup. The first is you getting what you deserve or can afford. While the second is you INVESTING in a woman - Which is what men must avoid. You can use your money to maintain a slay queen. But if you find an average girl and turn her into a slay queen then you're investing in her. Which will backfire spectacularly, Because after you're done with her, her SMV will be higher than when she started, which means she's now considering you BELOW HER - nevermind you yourself improved her said SMV.

Investing in a woman includes things improving a woman's education, helping her start her own business (which will inevitably lead to her independence from you) etc. You must keep her dependent. Supply her needs and wants without putting her in a position where she can replace you. She must not own anything but be happy. (Hard but not impossible) . You must be her provider, not investor. You can very well give a woman a good life, a nice home, fun trips and good experiences without investing in her. But just showing her how much you love her.

Pïmps mastered this game ages ago. They keep all the money but make sure their women get the best of anything - the best accommodation, the best food and the best outfits. The women get everything they ask for - except for cold hard cash. That's always a no. These pïmps even do the shopping on behalf of their women to stay ahead of the game. Cause give a woman cash, no matter how little - she'll find a way to grow it. It's their gift. Pïmps prevent this and keep cash away from women.

This may seem unfair, cruel or extreme in this day and age; but women do play the same game with men as regards to sex. A Woman always keeps a man dependent and relying on her and her alone for sex. A man is not allowed to even masturbate. If a married man services himself you'll hear all the wailings from women shaming him and demanding to know if his wife is not enough for him!! He'll be Condemned for destroying his wife's self-esteem and confidence. He must always get his sex from the wife. If she's not in the mood, he must wait for her. Not go elsewhere. Not even to a prostitute.

Now, because women are masters of the game, they monopolized the sex and also monopolized men's money:
Did not our elders, fathers and uncles hand over their own hard-earned money to their women, the WOMEN who would then give the men money bit by bit on a daily basis as the needs arise, eg every morning he's given transport money and every weekend he's given beer money. This was the norm a few generations ago in many places. This is how cunning women have been. Pïmps merely give women a taste of their own medicine - with brilliant results. It needs be that men start looking closely at how those flesh peddlers mastered women.

But many men are intent on achieving women's growth. They'll take a woman from the bottom and keep pouring money into her growth until she outgrows him. Then she leaves. Men are out here educating their wives, getting their women plastic surgery, buying investments and the like. Which is foolish.
All that money and effort and even plastic surgery must have been for themselves. For the men. To keep their own SMV ever so high. And yes I said it, men must not shy away from plastic surgery. If you've something about your face that you don't like, save money and go get it fixed. Leave the scratches and scars, they add to your masculine beauty. But that nose, that eye, those ears - get them fixed if you ain't happy. Same goes for teeth: if yours are discolored, go whiten them. If they're crooked, consider investing in braces to straighten them. If a front tooth is missing, move heaven and earth to replace it. All this may sound all too shallow and even feminine... But it will pay dividends. Cause combine this with the body game (gym) and you're an Adonis. women will come. And you won't be invested in any of them because you invested, instead, in yourself.
On point
Does this apply to baby Mama's ? Cuz elevating them would mean elevating your kids value or what you think?
I'll love to get a reply on this from you...thanks

Ubunja
CrimeRe: Is This Not public Money Laundering? by Witlee1: 4:42am On Nov 19, 2021
philiancoop:
Guy you no wise.

What is money laundering.

A simple Google Search would have saved you this disgrace
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RomanceRe: Who's Awake? by Witlee1: 3:20am On Nov 16, 2021
I need to to make money ooo..... Eyes don see shege na why e no easy for am to close at night..... I still got to wake up tomorrow early morning to hustle and bustle
PetsRe: A Kitten Needed by Witlee1(op):
garriAndsugar:
I have rat now..
If you can manage it later I will bring the cat.. grin
grin
You are not well
Use it to cook soup for the family
PetsA Kitten Needed by Witlee1(op): 7:07pm On Nov 08, 2021
Anyone with a little cat for a pet, I'm ready to buy at your price, I really need a cat as a pet
CelebritiesRe: Daddy Freeze Tells BBNaija Housemates What To Do If They Can't Win The Show by Witlee1: 6:59pm On Oct 29, 2021
Damn nigarrrrr
Issorite
RomanceRe: I Need A Mature Woman To Marry by Witlee1: 4:23pm On Oct 28, 2021
Kissmyassbiach:
One would think it’s women who are desperate for marriage.

I don’t think you’re looking for a wife for the right reasons but whatever.
It's still women that are desperate for marriage, try stroll to your church sometime and see how women are praying for a partner
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PoliticsRe: NIMET: Thunderstorms Expected Across Nigeria Friday To Sunday by Witlee1: 8:26am On Oct 15, 2021
Mjshexy:
Lol...they predict twice a month
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FoodRe: This Breakfast I Gave My Husband by Witlee1: 7:52am On Aug 09, 2021
Preciousgirl:
I can hook you up if you are a CHRISTIAN with good character; marriage ony
Can you hook me up too? I'll appreciate. The only problem wood be learning to eat those kinda food embarassed
SportsRe: Nigeria Vs Mexico. International Friendly (0 - 4) On July 4th 2021 by Witlee1: 8:51am On Jul 04, 2021
Strawberryg:
stingy bros grin grin grin
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SportsRe: Nigeria Vs Mexico. International Friendly (0 - 4) On July 4th 2021 by Witlee1: 1:28am On Jul 04, 2021
Cossybob:
Damn nigga
Let's go whoop their butts niggy cheesy
If mexico no win I'll share 20k worth of airtime
AutosRe: 2007 Honda Civic Only 650k @yaba (09015269577) by Witlee1: 9:24pm On Mar 03, 2021
500k and letsdeal
RomanceRe: A Pretty Female, Lively Chat Buddy Needed by Witlee1: 11:42pm On Sep 15, 2020
I'm in need of one too, matured mind too
TravelRe: What Victoria Island Looks Like In 2020 (pics, Video) by Witlee1: 8:05pm On Sep 14, 2020
If you travel abroad you’ll know that this is just a small country side compared to overseas
PoliticsRe: Buhari Loans: Nigeria Is Now On The Auction Market - PDP by Witlee1: 6:55am On May 29, 2020
Urchman200:
a government is piloting ur affairs now condemn them for their reckless management of the economy as a patriotic citizen,most of us condemn them pdp when they where in power that is only reason why apc won election in this country as that time,if everyone were like u pdp will rule forever.
Are they really piloting your affairs or looking for their personal gain?
Think about it!!!
PoliticsRe: Buhari Loans: Nigeria Is Now On The Auction Market - PDP by Witlee1: 5:16am On May 29, 2020
Who is talking?

Are you any good?

You looted and milked Nigeria for 16 years until her br**st fall

Useless politicians !!!
HealthRe: Kogi State Disagrees With NCDC, Says Kogi Is COVID-19 Free by Witlee1: 5:04am On May 29, 2020
Audio Numbers
CrimeRe: George Floyd: Minneapolis In Chaos As Shops Are Looted And Burnt (video) by Witlee1: 4:58am On May 29, 2020
To be a black man is a disease, so says Trump

So were you expecting anything less ?
Btw that serves them right cuz the black Americans look at Africans in a shitty way
Nairaland GeneralRe: Happy New Year, Nairalanders by Witlee1: 12:00am On Jan 01, 2020
My second ftc in the beginning of a year consecutively 2019 to 2020

I dedicate this to all struggling youths out there trying to make their daily bread , We shall all harvest in a big way our fruits

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