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But op, can I ask why you saw the need to refer to her as garbage? I'm genuinely curious...

It's such an odd thing to say but I want to understand you clearly.

RollinTNDA:
The older I get the more I understand marriage.

Women are like pet dogs
You pet her too much, you spoil her
You become firm with her. She respect you

Just like pet dogs, women want to be feed by you. They depend on you for food.
Telling a woman that she needs no man
Is like telling a dog that it needs no owner

No dog wants to be a stray dog
No woman wants to be without a man

Stray dogs and independent women have to survive and hunt for their survival.
While pet dogs just chill and get feed by the owner.

Some will say this is Misogyny
But this dog pet analogy is the real truth that women are scared to admit because it will make them look like a sub ordinate.

Our fathers married some fierce women
The reason was they know this woman is troublesome and a troublesome woman will fight tooth and nail for her children.
So these men marry such women in the hopes that if they die, these women will fight and protect his house and children.

Just like you get a bulldog to guard your house
Some will get a chuwawa that can't fight but will bark up and down and disturb your peace.

Dogs want to be feed by owners
Women want to be feed by men (owners)

Choose a dog you can handle

Is this you implying that your mothers and sisters are pet dogs then? 🥲

Please I don't understand anymore. Why is it that anytime I open a thread that is celebrating a throwback or trying to bring back old memories in the spirit of nostalgia, I end up seeing dumb comments like, "Gen-Zs shift one side" or "indomie generation can't relate". That was how I saw a thread with pictures of brick phone batteries that were the in thing back in the day and the poster had to dampen the mood instantly by asking Genzs to take a hike, in typical ignorant social media user fashion. That was literally the first phone I ever used in my lifetime, and I remember the occasional scratching on hair or teeth we subjected the batteries to, to bring them resuscitate then.


Please and please, Gen-Zs are not zygotes that were formed three minutes ago in your bedroom. They are people born between 1997-2012. A person born in 1997 is already 28 years old this year. Someone born in 2000 is 25. So We know all these things. We know what brick phones are. We used blackberries at some point. We know when fuel was still sold for as little as #125 and most importantly, we know what life was before Bubu and his almighty successor came into power because those years practically shaped our childhood.



Let's all be guided please.😩😩😩

jagaban002:
I tried to reach out to u but I can’t mail u , pls i have something very important to discuss with u if u free .
I no bill u money . U can reply me here as well .
Thanks

Good day
How can I help you?

Reflect7:
I feel the same.

It even feels embarrassing.

We should be talking about an African lingua franca by now, not perfecting our English.

Do you see Chinese or Indians, South Koreans, or Japanese struggling to excel in English?

They don’t care about that.

The level of hypocrisy is palpable!!! You're apparently advocating the use of "African Lingua Franca"(whatever the hell that means), yet you're still making use of the white man's language. Why not kukuma type in your language, so we know you're actually serious...🙄🙄🙄

Streetinvestor2:
Nothing special to this for me
That is white man language and adds not value to problem solving. Why are the white not having the same achievements in our local language. You go surprise she can't even speak igbo language fluently. To me Nothing special

Of course it's nothing special to you! Yet here you are still using the same white man's language to spew the trash you typed here🙄🙄🙄. Why can't people just appreciate good things and pass?

I'm just coming from a thread about a single mother that decided to shower her son with Christmas gifts, and one of the commenters decided it was a good idea to list out all the "God so terrible things" that happen to boys raised by single mothers. As if children raised by both parents can't also end up "lazy and redundant ", "effeminate ", or "stalkers in the US" as he so put it. It's ridiculous. How many criminals in prison today were raised by single mothers? What about those great men like Ben Carson that we're raised by single mothers? How come no one talks about them? And hoe are children raised by single fathers better off?

It's honestly sickening how y'all pass out judgement and make generalisations about people who are mere victims of circumstances on this app. If we're not tackling single mothers, were tackling their offspring. As if it was still not your gender that put most of them in that condition in the first place.

And what would U say about children of widows and divorcees? They're also "stalkers" and "redundant people" Abi? Making someone feel unnecessarily bad for something that is not their fault. I wonder who you guys think those single parents and kids would feel when they see most of the hurtful comments you people make on this app.

And yes, I was raised by a single mother and I turned out much better than most of you guys that make such comments.



Make everybody go rest jor.

APOPTOSIS:
My issue lies with the mom raising that boy alone. BOYs raised by single moms end up very dangerous and deadly.
Most are stalkers in the United States.
They rarely appreciate healthy competition.
They become territorialiastic like their mom.
They hardly accept a "NO".
They nag a lot and rarely move on.
They share their wife's secrets with their mom with no single limitation.
They are poor at managing crisis.
Most are raised to be Lazy & redundant.
Such Boys become effeminate and end up making bad fathers in future. At the slightest onset of any issue, they mismanage it and blow such out of proportion.
These are well known facts.
Imagine someone like TonTo Dike raising her son all by herself.
That's destruction.






These are my greatest fears.

I despise mindsets like these...
The way people like you are always in a haste to generalise and raise judgemental presumptions about people with circumstances beyond their control ehhhh...
How do U know that all boys raised by single mothers end up like everything u just listed out?.
Were Ben Carson and his brother not raised by a single mother?
Abi is it children raised by single father's that are better of?

NwaNimo1:
You don't see private businesses crashing up and down because of low patronage?

the more public sector employee's earn, the more is spent in the private sector securing jobs and then wage rises!

https://storage.ko-fi.com/cdn/useruploads/display/b3ddaa36-20a9-4928-b976-b9842214fef9_17.gif

Its called the trickle down effect.....

This makes absolutely no sense 😕

Please someone should make me understand. Why does it look like Nigerians are forgetting the fact that about 60 percent of the country's workforce are private workers? If this new minimum wage is implemented, would it also be enforced in private industries, schools and the likes? And supposing it is, how are the owners of these companies supposed to handle it if their profit per capita can't keep up with said wages? Won't that amount to massive job loss in the end? And if the minimum wage is increased, won't business owners capitalise on that and increase their prices? How are private workers supposed to keep up with their stipends then?



Please someone should break it down for me. Because I don't understand all this clamour for a new minimum wage when everyone is not a government worker. Not that I'm not in support of what NLC is advocating for but then.... someone should just make me understand please.

bluefilm:
It's amazing the large number of our youths who want to go and waste four or five years of their lives all in the name of attending a university and acquiring a useless knowledge in the process...

What a pity

So what would you have them do instead? Marry all your daughters and raise families in your ancestral home?

And if you check sef, said daughters might even be graduates 😒

Eriokanmi:
Bully here bully there , yen,yen,yen.

Our society is so rotten now. In my time a senior would ask me to go and pick my cutlass, he would take me to an open field and measure up to 100m portion for me to cut every morning before assembly. They would flog us with cane. You dare not report them

Nowadays, we keep sparing the rod and spoiling the child. The so-called bullying nowadays were a commonplace in those days. They only made us become a much stronger generation. In many schools,.you dare not beat a student nowadays. Nonsense! In remember the first time I toasted a girl as an SS2 student...heeey, my senior caught us, punished me like kilodee. He said, so you want to end your career at sec schl abi? You want to end up in a village with her after integrating her? I can't forget that day. The fear made me to not have time for girls till I gained admission, graduated and went for my nysc before I knew what's called gf. The punishment really shaped me up.

In 2016 @ Day waterman college where each student pays up to 20m naira per session, a student approached his teacher openly and wooed her, even promising to give her triple what the shool was paying her if she could allow him sleep with her. What bullying could be worse than that from a student to his teacher ? Yet, they couldn't do anything about it cos once the student reports to his parents that they're punishing him, they'd withdraw him and the school wouldn't want to lose money so they just ignored that.

Who born that student in our time? Na to flog am openly for assembly ground and call his parents to take him away. That would be his end in that school and it's environs. Today, the reverse is the case. I imagine what the next generation would look like.

I detest comments like these....
Justifying evil shamelessly...
So because of the animalistic conditions you were subjected to as a child, it is now okay for a child to inflict undue pain on another person's child in the name of trying to make them stronger? Did you even watch the video to see how helpless and defenceless the girl being bullied really felt? If it were your daughter that was being slapped that way, you would tell her to chest it because it would make her stronger Abi?
You're obviously a very shallow minded human being and it is very dangerous to have someone like you parent a child. Honestly.

Afamed:
Go through the link and update your Nin

The link attached to the SMS?

Please a lady recently called my mum and asked for her NIN for verification in relation to the grant. Has anyone else received any similar calls? We feared it was a scam or something

flokii:
Go and run HIV test.. it could also be as a result of reaction to either water or soap.

Im thinking it's water because the well water were using in Enugu is terrible but I don't really know what else I can use

money121:
Ita
Get better herb

Is it dangerous?

In recent months, I've discovered these strange rash-like looking things on my skin. However, they don't itch or hurt or give me any issues at all. Their just all over my two arms and even worse at my back, and I don't know what they are. Dermatologists in the house, any diagnosis?

Today, January 2nd, marks World Introvert Day. A day when we celebrate those special men and women who prefer not to bother themselves with the stresses that come along with socialisation and society at large, and just choose to enjoy the company of their own spaces and thoughts. World Introvert Day was created by German psychologist Felicitas Heyne who frequently wrote on introversion. He felt introverts deserved a quiet day after the marathon of holiday and celebrations that started with Thanksgiving/Christmas and ended on the New Year's Day. The day could help them recharge and prepare themselves for the days ahead.


And to set the records straight, introverts are not weird. We are not proud or arrogant either. We really just don't care for excessive friendships and the drama that come along with them. Most of us neither have the energy, nor the time. But there are days we wished we'd be a bit more different though, that we would just put ourselves out there a bit more and show the world the incredible stuff we're made of. Introverts are probably the most brilliant people you could ever know. If you're in doubt, you can ask the likes of Bill Gates, Mark Zuckerberg, JK Rowling, and so on. Our hidden talents are top notch and when we choose to showcase them to the world, we excel and make waves all around. Just look at Keanu Reeves and our very own darling, Genevieve Nnaji. When we love, we love whole heartedly and when we are broken, we keep everything within ourselves as we don't want to bother others with our struggles. We don't give out our trust so easily but once we are comfortable with you, we can move mountains for you. Introverts have a beautiful soul but often times, we are misunderstood and so people choose to keep their distance. But the funny thing is that we really don't care, and we even prefer it that way 😂😂😂😂


So my fellow introverts, get up and celebrate yourselves today with a bottle of wine, Netflix or a nice book lot of junk food and a much longer time on that bed (just like we always do anyways 😂). And always remember that you are not weird. You are neither lazy nor arrogant nor weak not heartless. You and I both know that we could bring down heaven for those we loved if we could. And as for non introverts, pick up that phone and text the closest introvert you know (don't call or visit oooo, that's a desecration to our fortress of solitude 😂😂😂) and remember to always hold on to them tightly, because they are the most valuable things you could ever have....



Happy New Year 🌟🌟 🌟

Righteousness2:
Wherever you are on the Face of the Earth, Listen to the voice of reasoning
Listen to the word of GOD
Listen to GOD'S Standard of Marriage so you don't use your hands to destroy yourself.

Marriage is between a Man and a woman and it is For better for worse! Until death do you part.
GOD Hates Divorce.
The Only permission given to anyone to remarry is if your spouse is dead. Outside that you are living in Adultery, Fornication, Deceiving yourself and on your way to Hell.

Departing from your spouse and remarrying either as a man or woman is Adultery.

If you are 2nd, 3rd, 4th so on wife in a home, as long as the First legally married wife is alive, you are Decieving yourself. Pack your bags and leave that Home. Eternity is a Personal Race. It is not a family or community race.

If you are a Man and you jumping up and down from one woman to another in the name of wife, you are jumping to Hell. Your 1st legally wife is your wife. Settle and Discharge the others. Eternity is a Personal Race.

Consult the Word of GOD so as not to make mistakes!
Matthew 19:4-9, Malachi 2:16

You are the type of person that would have easily spearheaded Osinachi Nwachukwus death

Meddymeddy:
I think that presidential hotel is in Port harcout although my message came with the exact venue. I suggest you join the Facebook group

Ohhhh
I didn't even realise that it was a branch thing...
Because from what I can see here, yours is taking place in Abuja...
Do U live close to the FCT

Terkx:
first I want to start by congratulating you for I myself auditioned and at some point dropped out of the race but you got selected. I feel you'll need to go to their social media pages and look at the flyers. You'll see one or two contacts to reach out to

Okay. Thank you so much

Please Guys, I just received a text informing me that I was shortlisted for the voice africa auditions S1, but the issue is that I'm not sure about the location. It was indicated that the audition would take place in presidential hotel, but they didn't specify the state. Now I'm not sure if it is in Lagos or in Port Harcourt, or even in Abuja. Please Guys, your help would very much be appreciated. Thank you.

Hopebringer:
Show us proof.

This isn't a beer palour...

How can you post a story you heard in a brothel here as news ?

What are U talking about
There are videos all over the freaking internet,,!!!!

I am absolutely surprised that no one in Nairaland, got wind of the story of a father, who killed HIS OWN SON, along with his wife. I never saw it in the front page for once, as grotesque as the story is...

Anyways, the incident happened in the Osisioma Ngwa Local Government Area of Abia State. According to reports, the deceased was a twenty five year old man, who had decided to come and spend some time with his father and his wife aka evil stepmother. It was reported that the witch of a step mother became jealous of the guys success (he had some plots of land here and there) and wanted her own son to become the first son. So she slowly started to poison his food, until the victim became very ill and when he was weak enough, she connived with her husband and killed him. His own father for crying out loud!!!

Anyways, after they had carried out the dastardly act, he was buried in a shallow grave. It was after a few days that neighbours started perceiving the stench of the corpse and became suspicious. Also, there were rumours that the guys ghost actually visited his friend in a dream and informed him of the evil that had been carried out on him. So, the youths of Aba all stormed the evil couples house, beat them black and blue, and forced them to dig open the shallow grave. It was an absolutely dreadful sight as the corpse had already started to swell.

The demon possessed husband and wife were later stripped naked and paraded around the streets of Aba Sha. Though I'm not sure if they were arrested though, because I heard they were ostracized. It was disgraceful, with all the leaves tied around their necks and the dirt painted on their faces, and their nudity in all it's perfect glory to top it all.

Like I said, I'm still surprised that this news piece never got to Nairaland, as horrible as it is. Or maybe I'm wrong though, I wouldn't mind some clarification. It kind of makes me wonder if Aba people don't know about Nairaland or something...


And if the world can get any more evil....

BigYash:
If him preek big,no need to fear.. Na advert for political zugar mummies.. Just kidding o.. That guy na mumu sha.. Where he dey waka go for d room,when he dey move up and down..? Busy body Op ,e no go pass you when this thing happen to.. Talk true

Chai, God
I don suffer sha

falcon01:
Wizzyonyxphoenix
Tell her to go ahead and release it, don't be a pussy. At least you smashed the gir own it and let the fire burn. The moment something is not in your hands just dint stress yourself que cera cera.

For heaven's sake I'm not the one involved in this!!! Sha U won't try defending myself on a faceless forum. I gat no time for that stress

GoldSantana:
Blackmail is a crimal offense. Report to the police.

Believe me I've already adviced him to do that. But u know how shitty our police system is here in Nigeria. They'll NEVER take him and his case seriously, unless he brings money that he clearly doesn't have. And threatening the girl with the police might only infruirate her even more because she's aware of this fact.

OyeofIkoTuN:
shatap biko

He invited his female friend for hook up..

HIS FEMALE FRIEND for hookup ?..

Ion understand �
Are female friends above hook up or what?

cassidy1996:
Fake story

Fake? What makes you Think it's FAKE Abi U don't believe girls can do something like this or what? Ion understand