codedgalaxy:
Man: What are you doing shoveling shit tommy?
Tommy: just remiding myself what i would have become if i am not what i am today.(chuckles) Yea! A shit shovler.
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The above scenerio is from a movie scene from the "peaky blinders" series .
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It is of my believe that every made person like tommy has over time had a point were they had two options,which is either to be overwhelmed by their pain/situation or to go ghost mode for a period and come back reborn .
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Which begs the question,
*Have you ever gone ghost mode to be reborn?
If so, what prompted you?
*did you achieved your aim?

ImoleNaija:
For weeks, I have lost interest in sex. Even when I try to force the erection, I lose it before mounting, as there's no strength to sustain it at all. All her words of encouragement/motivation hold no water. She's so pitiful.

Experienced husbands, how do you manage your sex drives & financial depression?

blaise26abj:


What kind of stupid life is that ? Hacking and monitoring your wife’s phone ? Really ? Like someone that has nothing better to worry about . I will never stress about a grown up decisions . For a child or teen ? Very much . A woman that will cheat will cheat and you will catch her . It’s just a function of time . Why stress about the revelation when you know it will come if she is cheating . Better to find out like the poster out of the blues than live a life of constant suspicion .

pradoyeep:
What will you see in a person or your dating partner that will convince you that such a person is the person you must marry?

(a) True Love.
(b) Good Communication.
(c) Outstanding beauty or handsomeness.
(d) Virginity.
(e) Dream
(f) Faithfulness
(g) Spiritual sign

Please you can elaborate and explain yours.

MrCork:



Brother did u juss ask me to connect u to guys wit big priiiicks?
...is this normal or are u normal sir?(no ooofencse)

chazon:
Am in my 30’s, My wife and I have been living in separate locations about 4yrs now. With intermittent visits 3-4months intervals.
Few days back wen she visited, I exchanged one of my new fones with her so while I was checking out the fone so I could delete some stuff and familiarize with the fone(her previous fone ,now mine)I casually stumbled into her FB & WhatsApp and saw sex chats with different men including her ex. This will be first ever I would be checking her SM, calls, SMS or whatsoever.
When I confronted her with these evidences, she rather than apologize to me, began guilt tripping me with how she’s been ignoring my own philandering (but no evidence, she’s just basing them on speculations).
She dragged the fone in a bid to snatch it from me at the Mall in public.
I told her point blank how disappointed & angry I am and am separating from her.
I arranged for for logistics to take her to our house in the town she stays.
She’s called my dad. I have no idea what she’s told them, but I got evidences.
We do not yet have a child together.

Did I overreact??
How do I deal with this situation
Mature advices will be appreciated from experienced people

MrCork:
Why why why??
Please advise!!

mikmash:
Hi nairaland,

Hope this finds you well. In the midst of this hard economy,lack of job and the financial frustration that comes with it. I need somebody to teach me a skill that could help me rebounce back.

Kindly assist.

silvoclaira:


Reach me Patience 09116109601

IbrahimSalihu:
Let me just say that the saying "Family is everything" is just a lie made by society to make us believe that we should stand by our family members regardless of their behaviour. So if a father sexually molests his daughter, is family is still everything? Is the family meant to ignore and hide the father's behaviour just because family is everything?

I've come across several stories where I read about unspeakable things family members do to each other and all I can say is that if my family does such, I'd definitely disown and distance myself from such family members. I read a story where a mother locked up her son in a cage for years and was torturing him. Then tomorrow they'll expect that boy to take care of his mother in her old age because family is everything!!! If na me, i no go send my mama in her old age!!! the PTSD from such trauma would be almost impossible to cure.

Please let us not be deceived by the saying that family is everything but rather, "reliable and responsible family members are everything" . Please share your opinion, would you allow your family members destroy your mental health because family is everything?

doneback04:
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Regard this how can someone hack someone WhatsApp account, not to scam anyone ooo just to know the chats
because I feel someone is trying to deceive my babe and it's her close female friend I was opportune to see her Whatsapp messages and before I could see this she refused not allowing me to do so it just a coincidence I had to see it and after then the look on my babe face was fill with guilt

frank155:

How can you say this, then proceed to give him HBP inducing answer?



From his grave?

Kirisuto:


🤣😂 The solutions you offered will even hasten the high blood pressure. Best to always assume they are guilty and be at peace than installing some apps to track them.

Obolor123454:
NB, I OPENED THIS ACCOUNT FOR THIS

Hello my friends, I need you different view and please I need your in put about my wife.
We live in the states. she is in kenya for a three weeks visit with the 2 kids. She has been in kenya for about 10 days, three days ago, she called me and said she will be attending her friend's marriage ceremonial, which is taking place 600km away she did not say if the person is a male or female ( I did not ask because I was just kind of not wanting to be drawn into the discussion), she said she may not be able to come back same day, because event is starting late that she will like my brother to come with her, because she does not want to go alone. This is the first time I am hearing about this occassion, she never mentioned it before and I do not know the friend she is talking about. (or at least I am sure, because I do not really know most of friends, and she is not the friend keeping type)
I just told her that I am not ready for the discussion yet.
Please guys what are your take, I do not feel like telling her to go ( well, she may still go without my consent )
Please it may sound stupid, I just need your genuine advice

gameova:
Try placing your hand in a burning gas cooker fire for just 10 seconds, imagine the pain? Worse still, remember the Aluu 4 boys that where burnt to death in 2012, remember their agony? Now we are meant to believe that a loving God will place his priced creation in a place of everlasting fire burning for all eternity because of finite transgressions and not believing in the death of his son? Even Hitler or the worse human in all history doesn't deserve such punishment.

Christians please make it make sense. Thanks

tuzle:
I was listening to two a guy and his girlfriend talk and what they were saying got my attention. The girl asked the boy what he saved her number as and he said he saved it with her name, then she asked him why he couldn't save it with loml(love of my life). He replied her by saying it is childish, which she tried to defend that it isn't. Then he directed a question to her that how many ex has she had before him and she said 2 he then asked her again if she saved the two of them with loml which she replied yes and the shocking thing is that the 2 guys where all in the space of two years which means her present bf is now the love of are live.
Now I am wandering is that how easy it is to have love of my life or it is just a charade because me since i started loving, I have only truly loved one person.

babamoha:
Am a male in my late 40s am in need of female friends in Lagos or Ibadan
I need mature ladies
08053245542

doneback04:
Pls regards to this , I just wondering what kind of business I can add to my personal life because the country now it not too good someone to do one thing to survive, ,

Peter532:
I Just don't know what to do ever since I was a teenager till now that I am in my 40s.
My prick is over killing me.
I have even asked a pharmacist for a medicine for it and he suggest I visit a teaching hospital.
They could give me a pill to surpress it

I get erected easily even as I am typing right now.
It goes on for hours and so long.
The annoying thing is I don't even think about sex or women it Just comes on its own.

mamagee3:
Hi all, one part of my aunt and cousins don’t mix up with the rest of the family and they don’t visit.

Hell we don’t even act like family and there is no cordiality between us. It’s like they think they are better than the rest of the family.

They always want to stay within themselves and not reach out..

How do we tackle this issue? Do we just let them be or continue to reach out

AshBurned:


You know a lot about it since you in Africa. Yeah I was just trying to know the difference between the two.

LadyGBU:
How do i go about doing my PPA in a bank please, I need it to aquire relevant experience to my field (Economics).. please help...

Ruth6565:
I need advice about going to Cairo as a lady from Nigeria