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Procashtips:
Do you still need solution?

sorry just seeing this now,I know it's very late...I desperately still do,please don't ignore,I just wasn't coming on nairaland...please reply.

Please doctors in the house help me...I went to the hospital for weak erection and I was told to do a seminal fluid analysis, testosterone n scrotal scan.
Scrotal scan was normal,testerone too was okay.as was said.
However,the issue is with my semen analysis results.
Appearance: milky
Consistency:Hypoviscous
Volume:0.8mil
Motility: acting 30%
Sluggish 60%
Non-motil 10%
Morphology-Normal 60%
Abnormal 40%
Count:2.1 ×10(6-i.e,the 6 is on the top of the 10)cell
Pus cells: Numerous.
They said the appearance, consistency,volume,acting motility and count is bad...that that is the reason for the weak erections,and drugs were given to me to take,Please,take a look at my result and tell me what you see please,I want other pair of eyes and takes.

Please doctors in the house help me...I went to the hospital for weak erection and I was told to do a seminal fluid analysis, testosterone n scrotal scan.
Scrotal scan was normal,testerone too was okay.as was said.
However,the issue is with my semen analysis results.
Appearance: milky
Consistency:Hypoviscous
Volume:0.8mil
Motility: acting 30%
Sluggish 60%
Non-motil 10%
Morphology-Normal 60%
Abnormal 40%
Count:2.1 ×10(6-i.e,the 6 is on the top of the 10)cell
Pus cells: Numerous.
They said the appearance, consistency,volume,acting motility and count is bad...that that is the reason for the weak erections,and drugs were given to me to take,Please,take a look at my result and tell me what you see please,I want other pair of eyes and takes.

Baba me n others wey no talk dey follow abeg, premature ejaculation and week erections wan end my marriage like this,keep going,make we learn abeg.

Bro you can say it here if you don't mind,some of us also are in similar situation albeit married..I have sent you an email though for access but if you can spill it here for wider audience to be blessed by you,that would have been the best.

Chonchin:
I was once in that kind of a situation years ago. Now I’m out of it. Send me a private message. I will tell you my own story and what to do. It will cost you zero naira

I think it's average,she just have alot of expectations about the experience and not getting it that way yet...haha,your ex case was really something

ubola:
Also find out if your wife's libido is high. If she's a high libido person, start talking to her to give you time to work on yourself. If she's not God fearing and has high libido, she'll start compromising outside in order to satisfy herself. This is the reason for courtship, your strength and hers can be determined. If you know you are a 2minute man and she's a horse, then both of you are not on same page maritally. B4 marriage I had a gf who knacked me 6 times b4 daybreak and will make sure I don't sleep well until she's satisfied in all the rounds. I had to disengage bcoz I was the hustling type that gets tired b4 getting home, and would do one round at bedtime and 2 rounds b4 daybreak. I japa leave am go marry low libido girl.

Thanks for this,I really do appreciate

ubola:
It's a psychological thing don't be scared. Do regular exercise like jogging every morning, check your diets, eat a lot of unripe plantain, swallow garlic (2 seeds) every evening for 1 month, chew ginger always during the garlic therapy. It worked for me and always make sure you don't rush things during sex. Take your time to play with her until she cums. If she doesn't cum, please don't climb, suck whatever you can until she releases b4 going into her. You'll surely overcome it.

I am going to

LIVINGICONREBOR:
You are welcome. You can still keep me posted on the results.

Thanks for this detailed reply,I appreciate

LIVINGICONREBOR:
Hmm.
You will need stuffs to improve blood flow to your penis and waist region downwards. It will be tackled both physiologically and physchologically.

There are fruits and foods that must be incorporated into your diet.

-Banana
- Water melon
- Pineapple
- Garden eggs
- Walnuts
- Tiger nuts
- Beans and blended redbell pepper( without oil)
- Unripe plantain
- Arginine supplement ( capsule)
- Water or banana smoothie
- Garlic

Exercise

- Kegel Exercise ( Point of action is the PC muscles)
- Squatting
- Cardio Exercise, you can still throw in some strength training Exercise in the mix.


For the physiological aspect

You must try as much as possible to relax during sex. Do all lot of pre-intimacy. Acclimatise yourself with that pussy, breast, ass and other eye stimulating regions of her body. See sex as relaxation. I will even advise you stay far away from porns. They can cause unnecessary performance anxiety on the part of the man. Take the thrusting nice and slow. Don't rush. You can even just penetrate the pussy halfway and leave your dick in the pussy. Let your dick Acclimatise to the warm temperature of the pussy.

Avoid unnecessary sexual positions for now. Infact let your woman dominate you till you can control the vibration of your PC muscles. She can do the cowgirl style.

Continue to adopt your healthy lifestyle.
Avoid all those herbal drinks, they can damage your kidneys and liver on a long term.

Zero,no sex life.

Foodqueen:
Before you decided to be celibate, how was your sex life.

Will keep practicing,it's just that because of no quick turnaround Its affecting us negatively..thanks

Connected1:
Practice makes perfect they say.

Do some pre-intimacy before penetration, your system has been trained to not understand the feminine gender sexually, hence the poor erections, for the quick ejaculations that's about anxiety or excitedness.

Try having sex regularly, go to the market and buy natural sex enhancers from the market women, if it still doesn't work out then try it with another woman and never say a word about it.

From there we know if you got a problem.

Thanks

TheManPregnant:
Do you know why I asked that question?

There is a psychological aspect and a physiological aspect of sex. Now, at first glance, there seems to be nothing wrong with you physiologically (until proven otherwise by a competent doctor). The next thing is to probe your psychology and understand why you are not performing.

One of the commenters on this thread advised you try having sex with someone else. It is a bad advice, but it might be one of the ways to truly determine the root cause and eventual solution to your challenge.

Try another lady that you are attracted to discreetly and find out if you experience the same thing. You don't need to go all the way. Just check if you can get and sustain a proper erection in her presence.

Yes

TheManPregnant:
Hmmm...

Are you sexually attracted to your wife?

We are not looking for a baby now,it's the least of our worries,a healthy sex life is the priority for now

Kelechi009:
Madame, this is what I am still trying to tell you. Satisfaction problems hasn't absolutely nothing to do with the health of your sperm count, It is an issue with blood flow from the brain, if you have 5 minutes, do some research from Google or Youtube about this, so you won't be arguing with me. You can be 100% 2-3hours marathon sex man & your sperm count is absolute ZERO, this is because all you need for sex is blood flow. Not health of sperm.

Thanks,I am not fat,I am fit,I exercise alot,my wife have problems with other means of sex as she prefers or hopes for penetration alone... atleast for now

TheManPregnant:
One man's nightmare is another man's reality. Even after a celibate lifestyle. Chai life no balance at all.

If you are fat or have a pot belly, please get rid of it and lose weight. Change your diet and eat not just healthy foods, but testosterone boosting foods. Check if you are pre-diabetic or have any form of insulin resistance, this too can affect sexual performance.

Do not leave your wife, and do not allow her to leave you. Also explore other ways to have non-penerative sex and sexually gratify your wife. It is not good to enter marriage with sexual ignorance. Please consult a physician before using any sex enhancer, some of them out there can kill you. Hopefully, you will overcome.

If you can share it here,it will be appreciated

meum:
Solution dey & evritin Dey your hand

Just being trying some traditional stuffs like the massage I mentioned,but I haven't gone to the hospital...will be looking at that too.
Thanks

frozen70:
You never mentioned a y thing related to getting medication and treatment

You have to seek medical attention and it's best you go with your wife because you need her cooperation to come out of it

You and her have to discuss it
If you handle it alone, you will be dying in silence

Whatever the case result is, she has to be there to understand how it's going to be properly treated


You will be placed on drugs amd if possible place on special diet of which she will be the one to prepare the meal

Such a situation can kill a woman desire for sex
So keep loving her and keep doing your best to make her happy

With maximum cooperation you all will come out with pregnancy

Wasn't having sex earlier,wanted to stay celibate till marriage and so didn't feel like checking the regularity and strength of erections as I felt it was actually useless since it wasn't being used,infact less erection was good for me as I could keep my mind fully off sex,and I believed once I am ready it will all work out well since I have been having some erections before marriage,so the thought process was, marriage will make it more since a woman is around.

Kelechi009:
There is something strange happening here, did you not discover this issue before marriage.

CUM-ing quick is different from Weak Erection, and you should NOT have gotten married without fixing your issues, you can't be learning how to drive while driving on 3rd milan bridge.

I am in deep mess,got married like two months ago and have not been able to have a regular erection,even when it comes it's usually weak that it can hardly penetrates.

When it does penetrate,it's still not hard enough that she cannot feel it and before you say jack,I have released already.
While I am feeling really beaten by it, needless to say that the love I thought we shared is becoming confusing as it is now "my problem",I am desperate and my self esteem is going down by the day.

I don't smoke,hardly takes alcohol,no sugar n sugary drinks,does exercises almost everymorning,never really mastubarted much before marriage either.

In theory I will think I should be alright but I am not,infact I think the erections are even reducing since marriage and as I begin to believe I have a problem,went for message for three days,the man suggested something pulled out and he has fixed it,but nothing is fixed...I am deeply worried.

Hate to see the look in my wife's eyes when I try and fail,it's like"I knew it wouldn't even work"the idea of romance is dying and it is affecting our whole relationship.

I posted this here because I felt this section have more matured audience as opposed to just more views,please, everyone,if you can help me with some suggestions I'd like it,I beg you.