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xendra:
RUBBISH, Oya go marry the one that is not stingy then...

A frustrated and very stingy wife spotted

MzPecs:
Hehehehehe

...and more houses will I buy for you!

Amen oo!

tosyne2much:
Let's wait and see how the ladies will devour the OP

Mehn, the bashing from ladies is from every corners bro.

MzPecs:
So 1k is common?

Anyway, i'll surprise you!

I am waiting! anyway I dey joke. I have always known you to be a generous lady especially when you bought a house 4 me.

4C2215131:
This was what I meant by STRONG mind in my post earlier on.

I believe she meant that our societal views with regards to single ladies push ladies not strong and independent enough in the mental (she happens to fall into this ilk) into wedlock they would rather do without.

I tell my female friends not to be swayed by society into making a mistake when it comes to the right choice of men (when I say choice, I also advice them to be reasonable in their list of potential hubby attributes) as they'll be the ones to live with that mistake forever.

Nothing kills a human faster than mental torture occasioned by living with a spouse you detest as this scenario snowballs into terrible conditions that can impact the physical, emotional, spiritual and even psychic well being of all involved.

The mistake has been made and she doesn't have to live with it. She can get up and get a life by seeking a life of her own without him. Hard I know but the manual of marriage never said it'd be easy.

S'times one is forced to thank God one is still single, sometimes, but not all the time as it gets lonely sometimes. Oh yes it does!

You are very diplomatic brother. Nice one. It's a pity that the decision has been made and it's either she accepts the man or file for divorce which may add more emotional torture for her and the children.

Funkybabee:
if its pain u too go swerve to 'odo osun'
and did I beg u to quote me
abeg mind ur own business oo
seun or lalatisca abeg come warn him oooo

They are on sabbatical leave. So no one to save u . U go hear am today

omoharry:
I can only borrow my husband money but not my boyfriend...na so i borrow my x bobo 30k till now he refuse to pay back the money..I have learnt from experience i will never try it again unless he is my husband..

What kind of women is the world breeding recently? So you can't give your husband money but just borrow him? Huh!

MzPecs:
I'm still thinking abourrit!

You are thinking about common 1000 naira since yesterday? u are very very stingy jor!

Funkybabee:
rubbish!!!!!!!?!!?
nonsense!!!!!;!!!





all na lie


go ask me from iya risika she go tell u am not stingy,but I normally did some things u wrote down

Nobody is seeking for your opinion to whether u are stingy or not and what's our business asking from iya sikiru about your generosity. Abeg swerve go pacific ocean

missyadorable:
Yes,i was forced into the marriage by my society!

Oh no wonder! I really feel for you because the pain of not marrying the one you love will never cease to lingers in your memory. It is well madame. I honestly don't know what to say than for you to accept me the way he is since he is now your husband.

missyadorable:
Thank You Madam! I hope you are married and you deeply love your husband...for your info,am not in an abusive marriage...I dont love my husband,yes! because men don't deserve love

May God have mercy on your husband. I wish he can be reading this. Well I feel your predicament is deeper than i thought. Seems u were forced into the marriage sef

menabae:
noted,can u goan die now?please

Are you related to Adams oshiomole

Our naijababes sef?

MzPecs:
Good

Will you subscribe for my next subscription please? don't disgrace in front of these people

ameboismyhobby:
I av half of dis traits to say d truth bt dat doesn't mean am stingy, am jst being careful wit my money, so wen u break my heart, I no go too cry nd say Choi, Udeme, Udeme, afta evritin I did for u

My friend Udeme!

Wait all these ladies that cry bitter after heartbreak is because they spend immensely on their boyfriends? I don't think so. I think most cry because their trust is boomerang with deceit and their kitty cat was well harnessed.

missyadorable:
Well,for me I grew up with the mentality that my money must not reach a guy except my brothers.

Spending money on my guy in cash or kind will make him take me for granted,like "she is spending her cash on me,she is desperate" cos that's how African men think

I didn't think gifts were necessary.I didn't play romance with my money....

I could agree to split the bills on date but my weak point was getting my guy gifts on special occasions...I didn't pester for gifts too cos I could afford whatever I wanted..

Now,am married and I can't imagine buying my husband a gift...I didn't give him any gift on his bday in January and on valentine's day.i just behaved like it was every normal sunday.Although, he bought me a gift which I didn't see as a big deal.just muttered "thank you" n tossed it aside

3 days ago,he passed a comment about it and I replied "you are a man,what do u need gifts for? You need anything,you go and buy it,you can afford it"

And he took offence! And I don't understand why a supernatural human being should want a gift from a "lesser" being called woman

Good morning ma. I have been going through your comments but all I can see is that you are not enjoying your marriage just like the way you want it. People have stylishly ask if your husband is not the caring type but you state your stance about his caring attitude is 2nd to known as the only derogatory thing about him is that he is a womaniser. Well no wife pray for his husband to be a chronic flirt but u have a role to play but instead u are folding your arms to watching things fall apart which I don't pray it happens in your marriage. Kindly play your role concerning any area you are find wanting/lacking and watch your man drifting back to you like magnet.

olakan22:
it is wrong o. The decision of men to be dependent on women is a major cause of break ups. Men are naturally the head and they should be in charge. When a man starts collecting money 4rm his fiancee...that marriage don get comma be dat o...and if them no careful it'd be a full stop

Brother, yes I agree with you but in a situation where the guy fails to hold much with him, is it too much to asks as a gentleman to spilt the bill?

mizthorlu:
rubbish!!!

Thank you stingy and grubbing housewife

Adufetohposh:
are you stylishly begging?

Lol you got me real hard my dear friend. I just want to know if she will be a supportive wife

missyadorable:
Well,for me I grew up with the mentality that my money must not reach a guy except my brothers.

Spending money on my guy in cash or kind will make him take me for granted,like "she is spending her cash on me,she is desperate" cos that's how African men think

I didn't think gifts were necessary.I didn't play romance with my money....

I could agree to split the bills on date but my weak point was getting my guy gifts on special occasions...I didn't pester for gifts too cos I could afford whatever I wanted..

Now,am married and I can't imagine buying my husband a gift...I didn't give him any gift on his bday in January and on valentine's day.i just behaved like it was every normal sunday.Although, he bought me a gift which I didn't see as a big deal.just muttered "thank you" n tossed it aside

3 days ago,he passed a comment about it and I replied "you are a man,what do u need gifts for? You need anything,you go and buy it,you can afford it"

And he took offence! And I don't understand why a supernatural human being should want a gift from a "lesser" being called woman

Madame, I dont pray another lady snatch your husband. please appreciate his effort by getting a gift for him even if he can gallantly afford it. Tnx.

SIGHSS...

zikIPE:
Stingy is when she only calls you with mtn bonus airtime that will expire at midnight 8-)

Lmao

dollyjoy:
she is actually right,it doesnt just seem right to start donating money in front of a waiter/waitress.



It either the guy is settling it,or the lady settles it,not spilting bills for Godsake

That's not what I meant in the article. Now take for instance u agree to go out on a date with guy and he didn't hold enough due to unforeseen circumstances. If he ask as a gentleman to split the bill, is it too much to ask?

ronald4lif:
Haha, if them use am carry me will mean I went through same route I came from. My brother what's bad in that?

He that was born will die someday thus dying in the middle of ecstasy isn't a bad one if you ask me.

Falls from mango leaf!

Wahala dey oo

dollyjoy:
a million likes.


It actually embarrassing!!

This girl sef

ronald4lif:
Lol, true that. Can't cope without sex but can cope with a reasonably demanding lady. But sex fvck no. What's the use of a relationship without riding kitty-cat.

I no pray make dem use kitty cat carry u go one day

Baba, kilode. U too like am

tosyne2much:
I don't give a damn about your pathetic life.. Why would you even ask me for recharge card in the first place? You work put for my hand? Lazy bone !!! No go find work do, you think say na only ur kitty-cat go put food for table for you? Shiooor !!!


Just get da fucck up my mention and stop being an attention seeking nincompoop...

My God, fantastic blow o!

Holyfield1:
OP Its like u know someone in my family Cox all the aforementioned characteristics is of no one but my uncles wife, One would help her work from morning to night sweating profusely like a Christmas goat yet not even a 50 naira coke to wash the internal sweat down my throat....Such a woman is indeed the definition of stinginess...Na them dry always pull person trouser for soup money

My goodness. To be candid she is stingy.

Lalasticlala, wider view please, tnx

menabae:
yes especially when he is not yet ur hubby

Wow, a stingy wife spotted

MzPecs:
Thank God i'm not stingy!

Can u subscribe for me when my current subscription runs out? Let's start from there

The boobi is still hidden. smh

KingRex1:
Hep me ask her

She never answer me

Kachisbarbie:
I bought #60 from iAmCharis
This my guy planned to hoard dollar till it becomes $1=N1000, thankGod he hasn't started the hoarding, hypertension for sure for am

Lmao. I just called a BDC and he said he is trading @ N240 now.