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You are agitated and this will contribute to it. But I will advise you engage in 5 minutes Kegel exercises every day. Trust me, within one month, you will get your self back.

There’s a tribe in West Africa that already had ancient contact with aliens before the world ever knew about them.

The tribe was said to have astronomical knowledge that should have been beyond them. Specifically, relating to the star sirius.

The tribe were reported to have carried that information with them down through their long history, which is remarkable in itself.

But first who exactly are these people and how did they first come in contact with aliens when nobody else knew about aliens?

The Dogon are an ethnic group located mainly in the Bandiagara and Douentza districts of Mali, West Africa.

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helinues:
The LG in Nigeria would really have a tough time with the state governors and their puppets state assembly for this autonomy issue.

Imagine under the cage of the state governor, the Kosofe LG boss is still able to do something meaningful. Now imagine being in full control of LG funds directly from FG

State House of Assembly has no control over local government. Local Government councils have their legislators - the ward councilors. But it would work better if INEC conducts local government elections instead of the State Electoral Commission.

It’s purely a political calculation.

2024 is Edo State election.

And Some people aren’t happy with his performance.

So, he wants to appoint new cabinet members and give slots to some political big wings who are currently not be happy with him.

The same thing these twitter influencers were doing on election day.

They tried to shape the perception so that gullible followers will fall it...

You guys are already in court while spreading fake news that could cause calamity in the land

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This is a welcome development.

But they are still under NURTW

Sorry, but have you done DNA test for your child? I don't want to be negative but there's high chances that that child is not yours.

The question now is Who is the 15-years-old-boy? how did he get him to follow them abroad without his parents consent? Which tribe is he from?

It's possible that this Bast*rd kidnapped a random homeless boy and brainwashed him to follow them.

By the time the identity of the boy is revealed, more issues go come up..

Ormor, delegates dey hustle. They know say if zoning happens nothing for them.

Lol!!!

@OP, what will it take you to clearly state that it's the Niger Republic? This information is misleading. People may think that it's Niger State, Nigeria.

Africa biggest market place that has only 29 members

This your information is misleading...

Bro, I don't know if people will tell you the truth here, but I hope you read my comment.

Let me ask you three questions

#1. What was the attraction between you and your wife? what did you find interesting in her? Is that thing still there?

#2. Has your wife always been like this?

#3. Don't you think it's because of your feelings (rather an obsession) towards the chemical engineers that's making you to feel this way?

From what you wrote, I can reliably tell you that you are the problem in your marriage. You are married bro, and if you want to have a happy marriage, limit the number of female colleagues that call you unnecessarily while at home.

It is what it is. Your wife is only suspicious because you must have seen your chat or conversation between you and the mechanical engineer.

You gat a daughter and a woman who seems to love you, please I beg you in the name of whatever you believe in, try to make your marriage work.

have a proper conversation with your wife. Ask her to tell you the things you are doing that she doesn't like, you should tell her the things she is doing that you don't like at all.

At the end of such a conversation, you will know your boundaries and start living happily.

No woman is good o. That one you are fantasizing over (the chemical engineer), but the time you destroy your marriage because of her, you would regret it in the future.

Hmmmm! Wahala dey o

this is really heartbreaking, kindly drop your advice for her. And I hope women learn from this.

I am running mad here. I just found out that my husband is responsible for my sister’s 5 months old pregnancy.

I am a woman in her late 30s woman who has been TTC (Tring to Conceive) since I got married 5 yrs ago. It has been so challenging for me and my husband who was very supportive or so I assumed.

My sister who is a University second-year student has been living with us and going to school from our house. This was my own way of helping to provide accommodation for her and save my parents that fee.

Off-campus accommodation is very expensive and since we are living in the same city as her University we said let us help her.

She has a good relationship with my husband who treats her so well and gives her money! I didn’t know they were sleeping together all this while under my roof�����.

I didn’t know my own sister was banging my own husband. I mean my was climbing my own blood sister. Obi agbawalammm (my heart is broken)�����.

How could they do this to me? How could my own blood sister do this to me? How could the man who swore to love me in sickness and in health for richer and for poorer do this to me

Is it because I am TTC (Trying to Conceive) That they decided to shame me this way? What crime did I commit

I am a good wife, I have been a very good wife All I needed was a little bit more patience. We were trying to do surrogacy.

I discovered my sister was pregnant about 2 months ago, and she refused to say who the father was. My parents have been devastated that she was pregnant and I am even begging them on her behalf to allow her to keep the baby.

Being a TTC woman, I couldn’t bear the thought of her aborting the baby. So, I insisted they allow her to have the baby under my care.

That I will help her with the baby. I have been begging her to tell us who the father is but she refused bluntly.

Only for me to read her WhatsApp chat with my husband where he was begging her not to say he is the father of the baby����. I mean, the baby I prevented them from aborting is my husband’s child with my sister ����.



My sister misplaced her phone and was looking for it. I happened to find it but before giving it to her I decided to see if I can find the identity of the father on her phone.

That was how I went through her WhatsApp chat and found the chat with my husband and to my utmost shock, my husband was begging her not to reveal his identity for now. And my sister had agreed with him.

I have confronted them and they have been begging me. Since Monday they have been crying and begging me for forgiveness. They said they have regretted it so much.

My husband said that the weight loss I noticed was because of his worrying over this.

I noticed he was losing so much weight and I was telling him to go to the hospital to be sure he is not sick. He said it is because of this that he lost so much weight because he lost his appetite and has not been sleeping well but has been hiding it from me.

I don’t want to tell my parents because it will kill them. I haven’t told anybody else but you. I don’t want our family members to know. My parents will become a laughing stock.

I just want to let out steam, I wanted to open up to someone and the anonymity of a platform like yours is protective. My heart is breaking and I needed to tell someone to unburden myself.

I feel I am living with people who can kill me. I think I am losing my mind. How could this happen right in my home Did I do wrong by accommodating my sister Did I do wrong by trusting my husband

How do I handle this? Pls, note that I don’t want to leave my marriage. Leaving my marriage will not change what has happened!

I want to save my marriage and I want to save my relationship with my sister. Is this possible?

Pls, post anonymously let me read from people. If anybody has anything comforting to say to me. I pray people on your page will be kind.

Source: https://www.naijalovetips.com/my-sister-is-5-months-pregnant-for-my-husband-what-should-i-do/

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It's a good thing you are realistic to yourself. I would advise you to learn copywriting and other digital marketing skills. It will go a long way to help you in your career. Gone are those days when engineers work in oil and gas companies, manufacturing companies, et al.

There's a paradigm shift. There's a new job description in the engineering niche today, and it's called Sales Engineer.

In its simplest term, a sales engineer is someone who sells products and services for a scientific, technical, and engineering company. Interestingly, to succeed in this niche, you need to have a blend of sales and engineering skills.

The beauty of being a sales engineer is that you aren't exposed to the everyday hazard engineers face. But because of your technical background, you can easily bring in some real figures (in terms of cash) to the company.

There are several companies in Nigeria that would employ you without stress once you have sales skills as an Engineer. We are looking at companies like SKF, BOSCH, ABB, etc. In fact, there are many engineering companies out there that would pay you very well as a sales engineer.

Then again, if you don't want to be a sales engineer, being a copywriter would help you to sell anything to anybody including a politician that just lost election. I mean anything to anybody.

Trust me, if you learn copywriting skills and you are good at it, you will 'NEVER' be broke in your life...

What's the battery capacity?

ezechi24:
All of una just dey say start business, start business... No be money them take dey start business?... No be money dem take dey register for skill acquisition?... Most people where just lucky to have family members that would help but for some people that does not have anyone to help how do you want them to start ...op dey say him shame for the guy wey wan buy okada...do you know how much okakda men make a day?...do you know that with good plans and peinciples in a year that guy would have made enough money to start up a good business?... See let's face reality squarely and stop beating around the bush...Nigeria school na biiiiggggg scam....atop all those your unnecessary praise for school... Education is the key but not in Africa...na only English we dey learn finish.

That is the misconception Nigerian graduates have, settling for less. Do you know you can start a good business with less than 50k? My wife started her importation business wit 40k, today she is making millions...

It's all about connect with the right people...

Start planning your future today, don't wait till after NYSC. It's usually frustrating then...

Meanwhile check out these 21 smart ways to earn money online ===> https://sidehustlepoint.com/earn-money-online/

The Nigerian labor market is the real definition of ‘street hustle.’ You may not know the true reality of life until after NYSC.

During my undergraduate days, I always had a mental picture of my life three years after graduation. Ignorantly, I was certain that a month or two months after NYSC, I will have a job with a blue-chip company.

And after working for a year, I will get a nice car and marry my girlfriend then. I even imagined myself living in my duplex after working for about five years.

Hey! Don’t blame me; I probably watched too many Nollywood movies when growing up. And I unconsciously set a standard for myself based on what I saw in movies.

But reality dawned on me after NYSC. 5 months to the end of my service years, I started sending my CVs to every job vacancy I saw online. I sent over 100 CVs (I’m not exaggerating), but I only got one Interview Invitation.

Guess the company that sent me an interview invitation? It was Andron homes and Properties.

Of course, I was excited! I didn’t know much about the company. So, I did some research about them; I even called the company. And they told me that it’s a commission-based job. In other words, my income solely depends on how many lands and properties I sell. So, I didn’t attend the interview.

After NYSC, I knew the definition of life. I couldn’t imagine myself going back to the village after youth service. I regretted not learning a skill during my service year, but I learned in a very hard way.

In this article, I have shared with you 7 realities you are likely to face after graduation.

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7 Realities You May Face After NYSC

If I knew what I know now, 6 years ago, during my NYSC days, I wouldn’t have stressed myself looking for jobs. But I don’t want you to leave NYSC feeling frustrated, that’s why I’m sharing this with you;

#1. Nobody Gives You Money Anymore

Except you are from a rich home, you may not get a dime from anybody after NYSC. The general belief is that you have graduated and don’t need money anymore.

Even some of your relatives and friends who were your constant ATMs while you were in school won’t send you money. They believe if you need money, you should be able to earn it.

#2. Those Who Promised You Jobs May Disappoint

When you are still in school, several people will promise to help you get a job. But after NYSC, most of them will not even answer your calls. And if you have already relied on their promise of getting you a job, you will be heartbroken when they start avoiding your call.

#3. Your Younger One’s May Start Disrespecting You
You remembered how your younger siblings treated you with so much respect during your undergraduate and NYSC days? You may not get that treatment long after NYSC, except you, are lucky to find a good job immediately. Otherwise, they will start disrespecting you stylishly.

That’s why it’s never advisable to return to your parents’ home after graduation. I know you may have a different opinion about it. But it’s strongly advisable to leave your comfort zone and start facing real-life experience.

After my NYSC in River State, I know of a guy who rented a local zinc hunt (Basha) in Port Harcourt. He never went back home. He started a lesson teacher consulting business, and today he is doing very well. In fact, recently moved to his apartment (I mean the one he built).

#4. Your Girlfriend May Leave You For Someone Else

Girls don’t like wasting their time with someone who isn’t ready for marriage after NYSC. Of course, they may show you all the love, care, and attention during your NYSC year. But when you guys are done with service, don’t expect the same thing.

At that time, your girlfriend needs something more than mere romance and Cinderella love’s fantasy. So, if she doesn’t see the prosperity light on your forehead, she may go with the next person ready for marriage.

But is that heartbreak? NO, she didn’t break your heart. Instead, she’s realistic about the situation.

#5. You May Think Some of Your Uneducated Friends Are Doing Better Than You

Today’s youths are fond of using the phrase “school na scam.” But I disagree with that notion. School is still an important variable in the success equation. However, our society has been approaching it the wrong way.

For decades, our educational system has always prepared us to be job seekers instead of job creators. And that’s why we have more unemployed graduates out there than the companies that can absorb them.

So, we were never taught how to improvise or think outside the box. Instead, they prepared us to work for Chevron, Shell, Unilever, and other big brands. Once we fail to secure a job in any top-rated multinationals, we immediately believe we are failures.

Some days ago, I read a very funny yet emotional story on Nairaland (By the way, I’m a big fan of the forum). The writer wrote that he recently finished his NYSC, and when he came back to the village, he discovered that his friends were doing better than him.

According to him, they have their own houses, wives, children, and happily. And he has been in the village for a while, and yet to get a job.

Now he’s thinking of getting an Okada for himself and start to use it pending when he gets a job.

I Felt Disappointed By His Business Idea
Really? Sorry to say, but I was quite disappointed that a graduate who went through an educational system could think so little.

You have the money to buy Okada, right? Why not think of something else he can do to take advantage of the internet? Of course, he can start mini importation with as little as 20k, and if he is consistent, he could double his capital within a month.

Don’t get wrong; I am not blaming him. But he was just a victim of a poor educational system. The system made us become slaves to money, instead of the other way round.

Remember, this is just one person out of the millions of graduates facing the same frustration. Because their uneducated friends are doing better than them, their emotions (fear and greed) do the thinking for them.

If you are a serving corps member or undergraduate in any Nigerian university reading this, take it seriously. Start thinking of a skill that will give you a soft-landing after NYSC. I don’t want to sound scary, but LIFE AFTER NYSC IS BRUTAL.

#6. If You Don’t Have a Strong Will, You May Think Fraud

Most Internet fraudsters (Yahoo boys) will always tell you that they are doing it due to unemployment. In fact, they will tell you how long they have suffered in life.

But I disagree, unemployment is not enough reason to defraud people of their hard-earned money. And mudslinging the country’s reputation. You can channel the energy you use to defraud innocent people to something legal and more productive.

#7. Getting a Job is Never the Answer to Your Financial Problem.

Let me quickly ask you a question. Who did you feel when you got the job, you are doing now? You were so certain that it would be the beginning of your financial liberty, weren’t you?

But what happened after the first few months, your expenses have increased. And the salary that seems so attractive at first is no longer enough.

It’s not because you are extravagant. But it’s because your salary is a short term solution to a long term problem.

And most of us from this part of the world carry the entire family’s financial responsibility once we start working. You may start paying your younger one’s tuition, receive calls from extended relatives, friends appeal for funds, the problem is ‘ad infinitum’ (endless).

These are 7 realities most Nigeria graduates face after NYSC. What other reality do you know of? Let us know in the comment section. And don’t forget to share with your friends on social media.

Source: https://sidehustlepoint.com/realities-of-life-after-nysc/

My guy, I perfectly understand what you are going through, it can be frustrating. But you are a million times better than your guys who are buying lands and building houses through their every day Okada riding business.

You aren't alone on this, there are several other graduates out there who are facing the same problem. But it's not your fault. It's not your fault that after graduation you are contemplating on becoming an OKADA rider. It's our unrealistic and unorganized educational system I blame.

That's why you will see a graduate of Mechanical engineering who can't even open an engine or tight a bolt. Similarly, I have seen electrical engineering graduate who couldn't fix a ceiling fan. Some computer science graduates in Nigeria can't operate system very well.

So, it's a systemic issue.

But I advise you not to get an OKADA, trust me, it's not what you should be thinking right now.

Let me ask you a quick question; What did you study in school?

Why don't you learn skills like programming, computer engineering, software engineering, mobile engineering, content writing, graphic design etc.

With these skills, you can easily become a freelancer. Talking of freelancer, here's a resources on how to become a freelance ===> https://sidehustlepoint.com/how-to-become-a-freelancer/

If you need more guidance or assistance, drop a comment after reading the article on how to become a freelancer. I will genuinely teach you how you can earn enough to achieve all the things your friends have achieved within a year. And I will teach you FREE of CHARGE. But you must be willing to learn...

I know life after graduation is very tough. But be optimistic, nothing good comes easy. Las las God Nor go shame us ooo.

ollins:
Let me cut the story short. Had a fling with this girl, along the line she got pregnant. You know all that talk of "if you could sleep with her, then you must marry her" "if you got her pregnant then you must marry her", Iooking back now, I wished I hadn't listened to all those voices.

I knew in my heart that I didn't love her, even she knew but the pressure from the family was too much, I had to marry her. On my marriage day I was practically crying within me.

Her character is just opposite of all I wanted in a woman, she's barely educated, loud and loquacious.

That's my cross I am carrying today, stuck in a loveless marriage.

The warmth and Romance is absent from our home, we have not had intimacy since beginning of the year till now, we just have no interest anymore in each other. We are just living together for the sake of our child.

My question now is how does one cope�? Is this how I am going to live the rest of my life?

@OP I will ask you three question...

Does she cheat on you?

Is she disrespecting you?

Is she making you to spend too much?

If the answer to the above questions is NO, bro try to make your marriage work.

NO marriage is perfect. Try to correct her and over time things will work out. Get her to learn a useful skill so that she can bo supporting the family. Guy, package your woman and you will be happy...

Kennethvnimrod:
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Your skill could be your greatest asset on campus. they skills you learn today could help you beyond campus.

People still underestimate the importance of having a useful skill in this part of the world. Yet it’s one of the most valuable currencies in the 21st century.

Indeed, getting a university degree is still important (don’t listen to those people saying ‘school na scam’).

However, ensure that you have a good and lucrative skill alongside your certificate. After all, if your certificate can’t get you a good job, your ‘sabificate’ (talent) will always bail you out.

I stand to be corrected. Most Nigerian graduates lack skills that will help them in real life.

Don’t you believe it?

How would you explain a situation when a computer science student doesn’t know how to build a website, write elementary coding, etc.

But it’s not their fault. Our educational system is designed to make students cram bookish definitions and regurgitate them during examinations.

Let me tell the ugly truth. Nobody cares if you are a first-class or distinction graduate anymore.

What people are concerned about is your skill. That thing you think you know as a first-class student that makes you unique, a search on Google will reveal it in a few seconds.

If you are a Jambite reading this article, you can do things differently.

While you wait for Post UTME activities, you can learn a skill that could help you throughout your life.

Instead of spending your day at home seeing the latest movies. You can actually use the time to learn something more creative that will make you financially independent on campus.

So, in this article, I will share with you some smart skills every Jambite should learn before gaining admission.

21 Smart Skills to Learn Before Gaining Admission

If you take these skills seriously, you will become financially independent on campus.

I understand that not everybody is tech-savvy. So, the list contains a blend of tech and regular skills.

#1. Writing

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Writing is one of the most frequently demanded skills on the internet right now.

If you are a good writer, there are several earning opportunities for you.

I know what you are thinking… How do you learn how to write, right?

Well, it’s simple, start by having a genuine interest in learning.

Once you made up your mind to become a writer, start watching tutorial videos online.

There are a lot of resources that can teach how to write on YouTube.

Just be focused on learning and don’t think about the earning initially. If you do, it could discourage you.

While you watch the tutorial videos on how to write, ensure that you put in much practice.

The easiest way to improve your writing skill is to practice every day.

You can start by writing articles based on what’s happening in your environment.

However, whenever you write an article or story, give it to experienced people to read.

They will point out areas you need to improve on and guide you properly.

How to Earn From Writing

Once you are a writer, there are several activities you can engage in to make money for yourself.

You can either become a Freelancer, a blogger, and a host of many other things.

If you are good at writing short, emotionally appealing stories, you can write eBooks and sell on amazon.

I know a few exceptional writers who are making real money online. Interestingly, one of them is still a student.

#2. Web Development

Web development is another smart skill you can learn as a jambite before gaining admission. It involves the building and maintenance of websites.

For every website that looks great, works fast, and provides seamless users’ experience, there’s always a web developer behind the scene.

There are a lot of earning opportunities available for you as a developer – both offline and online. If you are good at what you do, you will be completely independent while in school.

Guess what?

Most web developers are self-taught. Meaning they taught themselves how to build beautiful websites. So, you can easily teach yourself web development. And if you are consistent about it, you could become an expert within a year.

How?

It’s simple, watch web development videos on YouTube. And ensure you put whatever you learn to practice after every lesson.

Some of the best website and mobile app developers out there are self-taught. You could be one of them.

It’s simple; all you need is a laptop, steady internet connection, and your commitment.

How to Monetize Your Web Development Skill

Learning how to design websites and mobile apps is one thing: monetizing the skill is another thing. I know of web developers with exceptional skills, yet they don’t know how to monetize them. Here are some easy ways to monetize your web development skill;

Freelancing Websites

Freelancing websites are platforms that bring sellers (people with skills to offer) and buyers (people looking for the services of a particular skill) together.

You can sign up as a freelancer in any of freelancing websites and start selling your web design skills. Some of the most popular freelancing websites are; Fiverr, Upwork, Freelancers, etc.

Most freelancing websites are a bit competitive these days (Especially Fiverr). It takes serious commitment, hard work, and patience to start earning big on these platforms.

However, it’s a bit easier to start getting jobs on Upwork. It has fewer freelancers and more buyers. And clients on Upwork tend to pay better.

BUT Upwork doesn’t accept freelancers easily like other platforms. The platform rejects 4 out of every 10 freelancers that apply.

However, if you are genuinely interested in registering your business on Upwork, I can help. Just indicate by typing “Yes” in the comment section of this article and drop your email address. I will send you an ebook that will guide you to open an Upwork account.

Referrals from Friends and Family

Let your friends and family members know that you are a website developer. Referrals from them could go a long way to boost awareness about your skills.

Develop Personal Apps and Upload them to Mobile Download Platforms
Depending on how impressive your skills are as a developer, you can develop personal apps and upload them to mobile download platforms like App store and play store.

All you have to do is to be creative with your designs. Ensure that the app you are developing can solve a particular problem people are facing.

#3. Graphic Design

Graphic design is another frequently demanded skill you can learn before you gain admission.

Ordinarily, when someone mentions graphic design, what probably comes to your mind are: artistic advertisements, attention-grabbing websites, and nicely designed book cover.

Of course, you are right, but the term graphic design is an umbrella term for several other things like; poster designed, infographics, product labels, business cards, website layouts, etc.

In a nutshell, graphic designs involve planning and projecting ideas and experience with visual and textual content.

Like web and mobile app development, you can also teach yourself graphic. All you need to do is watch graphic design tutorial videos on YouTube and practice after every lesson.

You can start monetizing your graphic design skill once you become an expert. Register your skill on freelancing platforms like Upwork, Fiverr, etc. and start selling your expertise.

If you can hone your graphic design skills before gaining admission into the university, you will be self-dependent. You won’t be like every other broke student on campus.

If you have a good relationship with people on campus, you can be designing fellowship flyers, campaign posters, etc.

But you need commitment, focus, and dedication to teaching yourself graphic design.

Check Out: 9 Amazing Jobs that Make a Lot of Money

#4. Basic Computer skills

Times have changed, and technology is the new normal. So, it would help if you have basic computer skills before going to the university.

Every job these days requires a basic understanding of computer. Sometimes, your computer skills (both intermediate and advance) can serve as an added advantage when searching for jobs.

I got my first job in a reputable company in Lagos because of my computer skills. Several people applied for the jobs as usual. But 7 candidates were left after a series of interviews and tests.

The last 7 candidates, including myself, were all great fits for the job. We had the educational qualifications, grade requirement, and skill set. And the company needed only four.

The HR manager (a lady) brought 7 laptops to us in the conference room. And gave us each two pages document to type.

Ordinarily, my typing skill is awesome, and I finished in less than 15 minutes. She (the HR manager) was impressed and told me then and there that I’m hired.

So, learn some basic computer skills like the use of Microsoft office words, Excel, PowerPoint, typing, etc.

#5. Computer Repairs

Let me start by clarifying a common misconception. You must not study computer science or computer engineering before you can repair faulty computers.

It’s a skill you can learn from experienced computer technicians. If you are passionate about learning this skill, you can become a professional within one year.

As a student on campus, you can earn a steady income from the skills. You can be fixing your friends, course-mates, lecturers, and even your school’s computer.

BUT computer repairs isn’t a skill you can teach yourself. So, it’s advisable to learn under the tutelage of an experienced repairer. That way, you can learn the skill and understand it better.

#6. Phone Repairs
Like computer repairs, learning how to repair phones is another skill with high earning potential on campus.

Everybody uses a phone on campus (from simple to sophisticated ones). Being a phone repair technician, you can easily have a small table and chair in front of your hostel where you can repair phones for people.

With you can learn this skill very well, you would become one of the biggest boys on campus in no time.

Again, you can’t learn how to repair phones on YouTube tutorial videos. You should learn under an experienced person who understands how to repair phones and other gadgets.

If you are serious about it, you will become an expert within 6 months. However, you have to be consistent with training. That’s the easiest way you can learn the skill fast.

#7. Hairstyling
Yeah, I know it’s not a tech-related skill. But it has a high earning potential on campus. Most ladies invest heavily in their looks on campus (especially those who render special services to senior citizens).

If you learn this skill before going to university, you will be earning steadily every weekend.

Interestingly, hairstyling isn’t too difficult to learn. You can learn the basic knowledge within one year.

#8. Nail Technician
Have you ever noticed that most big hairstyling shops have nail technicians attached to them? Oh! A nail technician refers to anybody who specialises in fixing manicures and pedicures.

The skill is one of the frequently demanded styling skills on campus. It takes less than 6 months to perfect this skill.

Once you are admitted, let your friends know that you are a nail technician. If possible, approach some of the big hairstyling shops on your campus and ask if they need a nail technician.

#9. Makeup Artist/Headgears and Gele Maker
Makeup is another great skill you should learn before going to university. The earning opportunities for a makeup artist is endless.

If you think this is something you will be interested in, start learning it now before gaining admission. The skill goes together with Headgears and gele making.

#10. Photography
Photography is another great skill you can learn. Unlike what most people think, photography is still in vogue. And to be an outstanding photographer, you need to learn the skill.

Some of the skills you will learn as a photographer are; creativity, technical photography skills, patience and concentration, strong networking skills, team working skills, etc.

#11. Interior Decor
Interior decor is one of the most lucrative skills on campus. Your job as an interior decorator is to determine the look and feels of your clients’ home. You will help them select decorative elements like paints, textiles, furniture, and wallpaper.

Look for someone who can teach you interior decor skills (even if it requires you to pay), and you will become an expert in no time.

Ensure that the person you are learning from is always busy with other interior decor tasks. Because the more jobs your teacher has, the better you will become.

#12. Vlogging
Vlogging is another amazing skill that could earn you money. It’s a tech-based skill with high earning potentials. Some youngsters like you make as high as $10,000 a month from YouTube.

It doesn’t require any particular skill. All you need do is to create a YouTube channel and start uploading content.

If you are knowledgeable in a particular area like relationships, tech, or everyday hacks, you can make a video of yourself teaching some of those hacks. And upload it on YouTube.

YouTube will pay you based on the number of views your video has. In other words, the higher the views, the more you earn.

BUT it could take months sometimes a year of committed effort before you start getting results from your channel.

While you wait for your YouTube to grow, you can also create an account with TikTok. Although they aren’t commercializing the app yet, it has excellent potential. And if you build your followers on the platform, it would be beneficial to you in the future.

#13. Fashion Designing
Fashion designing is a trending skill that could help you make money on campus. Try to learn from fashion designing skills from an experienced and professional person who can teach you the nitty-gritty of the profession within a short time.

Try to have an Instagram account where you can showcase some of the beautiful dresses you have made. In no time, you will build your followers on the platform and start getting jobs.

Similarly, you can advertise your Fashion designing skills to your friends and close associates by wearing the beautiful clothes you sew yourself. This is an indirect way of advertising your skills.

Sometimes, those who saw you wearing nicely designed clothes may ask you to create the same style for them. And within a short time of consistency and focus, you can become one of the most famous fashion designers on campus.

#14. Shoe Making
Shoemaking is another exceptional skill with great potential. Interestingly, you could become an expert in making different types and styles of shoes in less than six months.

Ensure you learn under someone creative in coming up with different styles of shoes. Be committed to the learning process and ask questions to clarify issues you don’t know.

Once you have perfected your shoemaking skill, start by designing some nice styles for yourself. And when people see you wearing them, there’s a high chance that they will pay you to design theirs.

Similarly, you can also open an Instagram page and start posting beautiful and attention-grabbing shoe styles that you know you can design.

Again, try to come up with creative capture. Something like “with just N5000, your leg will be crowned with this beautiful pair of shoes”.

#15. Painting
I know what you may be thinking, painters always look dirty. I agree with you; they are dirty while they are doing their job.

But they earn far better than some guys who dress corporately and wait for their monthly take home.

While I was serving, I met a guy who was doing a white-collar job during the week. And goes to site on weekends to handle painting projects.

Many people thought he was over laboring himself. But he was comfortable and seldom had money issues.

There you go – the 15 smart skills every jambite should learn before gaining admission. If you can learn any of these skills before going to university, you will hardly go broke.

The skills will always help you to weather the storm of unemployment after graduation.

Source: https://sidehustlepoint.com/21-smart-skills-every-jambite-should-learn/

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Words of affirmation are strategic ways to lubricate your relationship/marriage

The world of women or ladies deserves to be loved, pampered, and cared for by their men. Most often, it’s not always by buying them gifts or going out for dates, but ladies want to hear sweet words of affirmation and encouragement from their respective hubbies/brothers/friends.

How many guys say these words? If you have not been saying these words, then your woman is hungry to hear those sweet and affirmative words coming out of your lips.

Recognizing a lady’s efforts is so important to make her grow, and we guys are the greatest source of strength for all the ladies out there. Praising your lady or woman with encouraging, complementing, beautiful, truthful, and loving words will add a boost of power to your relationship.

On this note, Let’s drown out those voices with the applause of affirmation – words of beauty, truth, and love that every wife wants to hear, but also needs to hear often.

101 Amazing Words of Affirmation to Spice Up Your Marriage

You are Beautiful (complimenting a lady about her appearance, is one of the favorite words she’d want to hear).

You never cease to amaze me.

I’ll never stop loving you.

I’m so lucky to have you as mine.

You make everything wonderful.

I love to be around you

At all times, I impressed by your ability to do things at ease.

I am so proud of you baby

I thought about you today when I was at work.

Thank you for this meal, it’s so delicious.

You are doing a fantastic job

I love it when you smile

How are you so creative?

I love to get ideas from you

The fact that you are so unique makes me love you more every day

I would love to help you out

Beautiful Words to Make Your Lady Smile

You’re the kindest person I ever know

You look gorgeous on that dress

I never dreamt of having a beautiful home like this. But you make it happen.

You’re my pride

I wouldn’t have been the man I am today if not for your love and support.

I like to hear your voice when I’m really stressed out at my workplace. It relieves me of all the worries.

You are so much fun to be with and I enjoy each and every moment of my life with you.

You always have a solution to my problems. You’re such a problem solver.

Your eyes are the world I live in.

You’re such an amazing woman and you’ll always be.

You’re such a strong lady, and I admire your inner strength

Your eyes are so innocent so as your character

You’re the best mother in the world

I really don’t know what I’ll do without you in my life

Thank you for always respecting me all the time

You’re the most person I trust

There’s nothing I can’t do for you baby

God brought you to me just to make me a happy man

Words of Affirmation For Your Loved Ones

Even if they point a gun to my head, I’ll never deny you.

If you’re with me, I can always face my fears

You are fantastic sister

You are an unselfish person

Your Godliness is something that wow me.

You are such a good person

I love your new hairstyle

You did a great job

Thank you for loving me

Thank you for taking good care of me

The thought of having you in my life always makes me happy.

There’s no one else I’d rather be with right now

I not only like you, but I also love you

I love spending time with you

You are a dream come true

I am so grateful for you

I am so happy for you

Your smile is one of the things I love most about you. Please keep smiling

Thank you for making me a better person

You are a woman of God’s heart

Thank you for helping me through a tough time.

You made me smile today. Thank you.

You always have the right words to say

I am honored to walk beside you

With you, I am the happiest man on earth

Words to Soothe Your Partner’s Heart After a Fight

I love your courage

You are a beautiful person, inside and out.

You’ve got what it takes to make things happen.

I love the way you impress me, you really do!

You are a woman of integrity.

I admire you a lot

You’re no pushover. I love your spine of steel.

You are a considerate person, of me, and of everyone else.

You’re one in a million . . .

I’m a rich man because you are my lady.

I’d be happy with you anywhere!

You make it all worthwhile. I wouldn’t want it any other way.

I’ll love you forever.

I want to grow old with you

You are a unique person

You are God’s perfect choice

Your heart is safe with me

I know my heart is safe with you

You bring me joy – always

Whenever I see you, you always take my breath away

You are such a loyal person

It’s you I only have eyes for

I don’t need anything else – just you

I have faith in you – always

Like I always tell you, I don’t deserve you… But, I’m glad you are mine

You’re an awesome lady

Beautiful Words to Grease Your Relationship

I solely rely on your intuition

You are so thoughtful

You are a good role model

I love the fact that you are a cheerful giver

You are perfect to me – no flaws

Your secrets are safe with me

I believe my secrets are safe with you

Your happiness is my happiness

I wish you could see yourself through my eyes

I am so addicted to you

You are so precious to me

I have never met such a wonderful lady like you before

You understand me in a way no one else does

You are positive-minded

I need you in my life

I learn something new from you every day.

Pick from any of these words of affirmation because every lady wants to hear you say them. It might be to your wife, your daughter, your sisters, or even your mother. They are all ladies.

Every word included here are words of affirmation that pronounces the love and affection you have for every lady, especially your woman. So, add these words of affirmation to your voice as you live and interact with them. They love to hear it.

Source: https://www.naijalovetips.com/words-of-affirmation/

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Some dates are fantastic and make your day beautiful. But some others are as boring as hell. Mhen! There are instances when you go on a date and discover that it’s a bad one. And when you find yourself in such a situation, a 20-minute date may look like one month to you.

The question most people often ask is this – What should I do when I find myself on a bad date. Well, the answer is simple, cut it short. So, in this article, I will share with you 7 guilt-free excuses to cut a bad date short.

Ordinarily, there are several ways to cut a bad date short without stressing yourself. But you have to be sensitive to your date’s feelings. I’m sure you won’t want a situation whereby you are feeling guilty after bluntly walking out of date.

There are some subtle ways to cut a date short without making him feel bad. That’s what you will learn in this article.

#1. Fake an Emergency Call From a Friend

This is one of the oldest tricks to cut a bad date short. It’s a bit simple; all you need to do is to plan with your friend before going on a date.

Once you notice that the date is becoming too dry and boring, just text him/her a code word. The text is a signal telling your friend to call you.

Immediately your friend calls you, act as if it’s an emergency and apologize for cutting the date short. If possible, promise to reach out to him to reschedule the appointment. With this approach, your date will not feel bad or humiliated.

#2. Spend Time in The Bathroom

When you discover that the date is boring and he has nothing intelligent to offer in your conversation, you can cut the date short by going to the bathroom. Be polite about it; tell him you are going to use the convenience.

Spend a reasonable amount of time in there; ensure you go with your phone so that you don’t get bored. After like 5 minutes, come back to the table and tell him that you are going to attend to something at home that needs your attention.

He may want to convince you to stay, but don’t fall for it. You may spend another boring 15 minutes of your life listening to a dry and meaningless conversation from him.

#3. Intentionally Spill Something on Yourself

If you want everything to look real, you can intentionally spill something on yourself and run off to change alone. It’s one of the best ways to cut a bad date short. Once you spill something on yourself, you will react by saying Oh no! I have to change. Boom, the date is over. It’s as simple as that.

#4. Tell Him You can’t Stay Outside Too Long

What most guys do during a first date is to impress you. And they will try as much as possible to buy enough time to make you fall for them.

However, when you think the date is becoming boring and bad, you can cut it short immediately without feeling guilty. All you have to do is to tell him that you can’t stay outside too late because you have an early morning engagement the next day. With this approach, you can quietly cut a date short without stress.

#5. Be Sincere About How You Feel About Them

Most times, it’s advisable to let your date know how you feel about them. Some people may think it’s blunt, but it’s better to stop it before it starts instead of giving him false hope.

Of course, he may feel bad, but you will not be guilty of not telling him the truth. That’s the beauty of being sincere about how you feel from the onset. Again, he may want to convince otherwise, but don’t give room for that.

#6. Talk Bad About the Political Party He Likes

This is bad, but it’s the best way of pissing him off indirectly. Once you notice that you guys can’t work out, you can start talking bad against his political party. It’s the easiest way to make him leave the table angrily.

#7. Fake Falling Asleep at the Table

Oops! This is one of the rudest ways to cut a bad date short. It’s advisable not to use this method if you have an iota of feelings for your date. But if you think nothing can happen between you guys and the date is already boring. It’s simple, try to doze off at the table.

Once he talks to you about sleeping off, tell him you had a late night and you want to go home and rest. With this approach, he won’t even attempt to convince you to stay. After all, he saw you dozing off during the date.

There you go! These are the guilt-free excuses to cut a bad date short. With these tips, you can easily cut a date short once you sense it’s boring.

However, don’t use any of these tips on someone you have been seriously crushing on. It could ruin your chances of being with him.

Lastly, always do your due diligence before going on a date with any guy, especially if he’s someone you met online.

Source: https://www.naijalovetips.com/7-guilt-free-excuses-to-cut-a-bad-date-short/