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RomanceI Don’t Think Romantic Relationships Is Made For Me by Wyrax(op): 2:59am On Feb 07
I am really not to happy about this
But I don’t really know how to get a woman
I really desire to have romantic relationship that will lead to marriage but unfortunately

The closest I have been was a 2 months old relationship that I ended due to the fact that the lady asked for data from me know she has a job.

I am not broke tho
But it is very difficult for me to talk to girls all my talking stage no dey pass 2 days
Also I don’t know how to treat woman
I sent too much of long text to woman after I get angered or disappointed or rejected by them


I unusually end up regretting this
RomanceRe: Is It Possible To Get A Lady To That Take Care Of You by Wyrax(op): 10:50pm On Nov 12, 2025
lordm:
Lazy boy. Better man up, no one likes a liability
It's not about being lazy.
Obviously I will work she will work as well.

And we will both take care of eachother
RomanceIs It Possible To Get A Lady To That Take Care Of You by Wyrax(op): 7:51pm On Nov 12, 2025
This question has been bothering me.

Most girls now are after men that will spend lavishly on them without giving anything in return
RomanceRe: Stuck In A Cycle. How Do I Get Over Her For Life by Wyrax(op): 1:47pm On Jul 15, 2025
Tharmon:
You should take from Your savings?? Damn that girl is taking advantage of you bro..she doesn't even love you from the start, she just agreed to the relationship just to milk you!

Forget her and move on..you were the only one in that relationship
That was the statement that triggered me.

I think I was right to end it. But I am just consumed by her thoughts
RomanceRe: Stuck In A Cycle. How Do I Get Over Her For Life by Wyrax(op): 12:33pm On Jul 15, 2025
verminnel:
Move on she's obviously not into you. The short lived relationship u had with her was borne out of pity she had for u to have stuck around fighting for her love lol. Save urself the stress
I understand that I need to move on.

But how. Even before we got in the short-lived relationship I was always thinking about everyday. Without even talking to her
RomanceStuck In A Cycle. How Do I Get Over Her For Life by Wyrax(op): 8:21am On Jul 15, 2025
Good morning, Nairalanders.

So, I am extremely unhappy, sad, pained, etc. If you check my previous posts, there is this one girl that has been breaking my heart consistently for years with consistent rejections. We had been friends. When I asked her out, she declined, saying she couldn't date me. A year later, she called me, saying she missed me... Then, we got talking again. I asked her for a relationship again, and she declined again. I had a fight with her, and we didn't even talk for over a year, until I just apologized to her for my behaviors. That was 2023. Early this year, she called me, saying that though I had asked her out several times and she had declined, she loved me and would like to be in a relationship with me. I thought about it and gave it a chance. Unfortunately, I got too attached again.
She started a crisis talk. I observed she was testing me for a particular week.

What caused our breakup was the fact that she asked for data, which I didn't have enough money for. She then started saying it's not like she asks for much from me, that ordinary data I couldn't buy. I told her I really didn't have it. She dragged it to the point where she said, "We are still early, and we can break up if I don't care about her." I told her we should end it. I said this because she's been selfish. I actually didn't have the money for the data. She even started saying I should take from my savings if I truly love her. She pushed it to the extent that I had to tell her she does things I can't cope with, and also I am not ready for a relationship.

Now, we've broken up. I've been thinking I've made a mistake. I've begged her, but she's just resisting my plea. I love this girl so much. For more than 5 years now, we've been doing this on and off, and she's been consistently on my mind. How can I completely get over her?
RomanceRe: I Just Ended This Short Term Relationship by Wyrax: 7:15am On Jun 22, 2025
You should have been patient before ending it
RomanceRe: Am I Wrong? by Wyrax(op): 8:20pm On Dec 29, 2022
peterincredible:
Bros u did well most girls just love attention you asked her out she rejected you, u moved on and only greet her but she continued to try to get your attention you told her point blank that you are not ready for frienship and now she is angry, the truth is she is angry because she isn't getting any attention from you and it hurts her, she coming to you is not because she likes you but she want to use you for just validation and nothing else you are a man and a strong man

What men don't know is that women love to keep men around just for attention when their boy friend gets them angry dey go look for the one they have rejected who she is stringing along to validate her self and once she and her boyfriend get back together she withdraw from the simp

Men know this you attention is value only give it to some one that Is worthy of it

I faced one like that during my service year I cut communication with here she did the chasing and I Neva looked back after the rejection
I am facing another one at work she rejected me I moved on greet her in the morning but don't talk to her she is craving for attention from me I just ignore here or give her one short reply and go my way at first she got angry that I gave her space now she is coming back trying to get my attention but I don't give a second chance there are many women out there

Pls op don't give her any attention just greet her when you see her but don't give her attention she is just an attention freak
And don't start a friendship with a woman you want to date be honest go to her and tell her if she rejects you cut communication and move on don't be friends it will only make you sad and open you up for manipulation
Hmm
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Wyrax: 8:19pm On Dec 29, 2022
Smartb0y:
Do guys still ask girls out. I must be living in another world.

When you ask a girl out, it's akin to begging for her permission to just being around you.

Now, let me ask you ,does it seem lame or not ?grin

A woman secretly yearns for a man to advance without permission.

Hmm
Only a weak ass ask for permission.

There can't be two weaklings in a relationship ,can they huh

To be a man is not by size, it's by mentality.
RomanceRe: Am I Wrong? by Wyrax(op): 7:50am On Dec 28, 2022
Thank you all for you input.

It might be a good decision after all.
RomanceRe: Am I Wrong? by Wyrax(op): 10:07am On Dec 27, 2022
toujurs:
You just behaved childish,you messed up big time but you don't know, she even told you she wanted friendship, while you wanted to Bleep her, and you still blocked her. It's from friendship you two can get into a relationship, and you will get what you want. You are too fast, slow down.

There are ladies that are very reserved, especially introverts, they have E-friends, and very quiet and boring.

If you see her talk to her physically, don't do chat, talk physically more often with her
She didn't tell me she wanted friendship tho. She's an introvert like you said. I am also.

But I have to cater for my wellbeing too.
RomanceRe: Am I Wrong? by Wyrax(op): 9:58am On Dec 27, 2022
SPAMBOX7:
You could have told her point blank you not interested in friendship if she's not ready to fvck. Y'all soft niggas always quick to block women. That's some weak ass move man. Let her see you thrive and regret
undecided
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Wyrax:
There's a lady I had been friends with. I asked her out twice but she said no.

She still kinda trys to make friends with me and all sort.
she revives the feelings I have for her and makes me make bad decisions

So, I told her point blank that she needs to stop making contact with me etc.

She didn't really till I restricted her on WhatsApp (I use GB WhatsApp).

So I observed she doesn't have my number again I guess she deleted when she thought I had blocked her. And also she doesn't greet me again when she sees me physically.

I don't know if I did something extreme. Or bad?

I know she wanted friendship. But I am NOT in a relationship now. I would just die if jealousy if
I allow it continue.

Caveadullam ubunja gidtheredpiller
RomanceAm I Wrong? by Wyrax(op): 9:46am On Dec 27, 2022
There's a lady I had been friends with. I asked her out twice but she said no.

She still kinda trys to make friends with me and all sort.
she revives the feelings I have for her and makes me make bad decisions

So, I told her point blank that she needs to stop making contact with me etc.

She didn't really till I restricted her on WhatsApp (I use GB WhatsApp).

So I observed she doesn't have my number again I guess she deleted when she thought I had blocked her. And also she doesn't greet me again when she sees me physically.

I don't know if I did something extreme. Or bad?

I know she wanted friendship. But I am NOT in a relationship now. I would just die if jealousy if
I allow it continue.
Christianity EtcRe: What Are Your Best Christmas Songs? by Wyrax: 9:48am On Dec 25, 2022
chuksp09:
Who knows that background Christmas song that plays on AIT back in the day?
That’s my best till date, I can’t seem to find it anywhere though
I was about to ask the same question.

Please who knows it ooo
The lyrics goes thus

It is time to celebrate celebrate to .... That's me and you you and me...
RomanceRe: How Do I Find Love And Actually Love Someone. And Show Love Again by Wyrax(op): 10:45am On Oct 09, 2022
Please I need more input
RomanceRe: How Do I Find Love And Actually Love Someone. And Show Love Again by Wyrax(op): 7:34pm On Oct 08, 2022
Demigod22:
If you like stay away from girls in ten years, when you return to them Nigerian girls will still serve you breakfast. Prepare your heart for more heartbreaks until you no longer have heart.

PS: Jesus loves you too.
Hmm. This is my fear
RomanceRe: How Do I Find Love And Actually Love Someone. And Show Love Again by Wyrax(op): 12:15pm On Oct 08, 2022
JASONjnr:
You're damaged and all you need is to re-evaluate yourself and work what you need from a woman....

What type of girl do you desire?

Are you masturbating? if you do, it will add up to your difficulties in finding love.
I was but I have stopped
RomanceHow Do I Find Love And Actually Love Someone. And Show Love Again by Wyrax(op): 11:08am On Oct 08, 2022
4 years ago, I was heartbroken by my ex gf I loved so much.
It took time for me to move on. I eventually moved on. That's after more than a year.

She wanted to reinitiate contact with me but I have moved on. And I don't love her again

However, I have lost confidence in dating/relationship. Ever since then tho I have been asking people out ,, but I have not been able to actually get hold of a relationship.

One, 2019, I asked her out. She said she will think about it. Actually she later agreed but I shyed out of it. I didn't make any contact with her at all till date. She even tried making contact with me but I blocked her.

Though it's not fair. But I was scared.

Early 2020. I met with another lady she's a great woman financially independent, beautiful and good heart... But I couldn't ask her out. I eventually didn't but she said she doesn't sense that I love her. And she said no.

How do I get over my initial heart break and find a good person
RomanceRe: Please Help !!!!i Am Extremely Shy!!!! by Wyrax(op): 4:54pm On Aug 02, 2022
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RomanceRe: Please Help !!!!i Am Extremely Shy!!!! by Wyrax(op): 12:53am On Jul 14, 2022
Tozic:
Dude chill.. grin
RomanceRe: Please Help !!!!i Am Extremely Shy!!!! by Wyrax(op): 8:38am On Jul 12, 2022
Prettygirl200:
Oga rest!!!!
RomanceRe: Please Help !!!!i Am Extremely Shy!!!! by Wyrax(op): 7:07am On Jul 11, 2022
Prettygirl200:
Lol I have met a guy that's actually too too shy for my liking, I couldn't date him when he asked me out. Am an introvert and also shy but kind of hot tempered and somehow harsh so most the guys I usually come across are cool headed guys but this one own dey excess he is not lively, doesn't talk and I became scared na so I leave am oooo. My point is too much of everything is bad op try and work on yourself go out make some friends pls.
I think you are the person I asked out.

Just almost similar way I was dumped.
RomanceRe: Please Help !!!!i Am Extremely Shy!!!! by Wyrax(op): 6:37pm On Jul 10, 2022
MediMedi:
Which other dreams will he achieve when he's been loosing jobs?
Abi
RomanceRe: Please Help !!!!i Am Extremely Shy!!!! by Wyrax(op): 12:08pm On Jul 10, 2022
KingDash:
Watch a lot of horror movies bro, that shit helps
Lol. This is part of what I am saying. That's the way some one suggested that I should argue. See where it has led me
RomanceRe: Please Help !!!!i Am Extremely Shy!!!! by Wyrax(op): 10:38am On Jul 10, 2022
Blue86:
As a Christian , Christ Jesus is your life. Is he a shy person? He is the lion of Judah. And boldness is affixed to a lion.

Meditate on that above, let it enter your spirit with prayers.
Then use it to cast down the shy stronghold in your life.

Question is ; will you do what I have said or resort to other avenues, while you claim you are Christian?
Okay... So I know that Jesus is not shy.i also don't want to be.

I have prayed and fasted against this spirit.
And it's always seen like anytime I pray against it, it gets worsened.

I have tried some un Christ like means to boost my confidence (like arguing etc) but I have discovered that I created a wrong spirit within me.

I am most times always solitary.
I have adopt some destructive addictions because of depression from disappointment I gets when I drop the ball in public.

I don tire sef.
RomancePlease Help !!!!i Am Extremely Shy!!!! by Wyrax(op): 10:52pm On Jul 09, 2022
How do I overcome this extreme shyness and lack of confidence.

It has affected me in a whole lots of potential relationships, jobs and even as a Christian.

I have no friends at the age of 27 years, I didn't get to talk to a lady till I was 24,(it didn't last up to 2months)

I have lost a very good job because of this.
I am most times always on my own
Etc.
RomanceRe: Do I Need Sex Or? by Wyrax(op): 7:47am On Dec 11, 2021
Hypnotise:
See you.

You ought to hit the next ashewo joint, but use C.D... 25 years with no experience?

I started doing it at the age of 16
Lol
RomanceDo I Need Sex Or? by Wyrax(op): 3:55am On Nov 23, 2019
I am a virgin at 25. I once had a gf. That was 2years ago. I declined having sex with my ex girlfriend. We ve since broken up. I tht she was the one I prayed for. I currently don't enjoy my life as it is. I watch porn and masturbate alot. Because of the way I handle issues. People have suggested that I engage in sexual activity. I am a huge introvert. Talking to girls seem so scary to me. I in fact don't get liked by them. My ex., when we were today actually wanted to have sex with me but she wanted it raw and to lick her. I declined due to dangers of unprotected sex.


I think I am sex starved or may there something else wrong.

I don't really enjoy my life undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided cry kiss cry cry cry cry cry cry cry
RomanceRe: Please Help! by Wyrax(op): 4:38pm On Jun 02, 2019
Well I really don't know why I always feel incompetence or that I don't deserve what I am doing or I can't do somethings. but this feelings usually come real.


I said psychological... people have yabbed and left me all because of my ideas...
RomancePlease Help! by Wyrax(op): 2:43pm On Jun 02, 2019
I will keep this short and simple. I am having a psychological problem of low self-esteem!
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Polaris Bank Graduate Trainee Recruitment 2019 by Wyrax: 2:55pm On Apr 17, 2019
Bifrost:
Don't you know your cgpa?
How do I know that

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