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I am really not to happy about this But I don’t really know how to get a woman I really desire to have romantic relationship that will lead to marriage but unfortunately The closest I have been was a 2 months old relationship that I ended due to the fact that the lady asked for data from me know she has a job. I am not broke tho But it is very difficult for me to talk to girls all my talking stage no dey pass 2 days Also I don’t know how to treat woman I sent too much of long text to woman after I get angered or disappointed or rejected by them I unusually end up regretting this |
lordm:It's not about being lazy. Obviously I will work she will work as well. And we will both take care of eachother |
This question has been bothering me. Most girls now are after men that will spend lavishly on them without giving anything in return |
Tharmon:That was the statement that triggered me. I think I was right to end it. But I am just consumed by her thoughts |
verminnel:I understand that I need to move on. But how. Even before we got in the short-lived relationship I was always thinking about everyday. Without even talking to her |
Good morning, Nairalanders. So, I am extremely unhappy, sad, pained, etc. If you check my previous posts, there is this one girl that has been breaking my heart consistently for years with consistent rejections. We had been friends. When I asked her out, she declined, saying she couldn't date me. A year later, she called me, saying she missed me... Then, we got talking again. I asked her for a relationship again, and she declined again. I had a fight with her, and we didn't even talk for over a year, until I just apologized to her for my behaviors. That was 2023. Early this year, she called me, saying that though I had asked her out several times and she had declined, she loved me and would like to be in a relationship with me. I thought about it and gave it a chance. Unfortunately, I got too attached again. She started a crisis talk. I observed she was testing me for a particular week. What caused our breakup was the fact that she asked for data, which I didn't have enough money for. She then started saying it's not like she asks for much from me, that ordinary data I couldn't buy. I told her I really didn't have it. She dragged it to the point where she said, "We are still early, and we can break up if I don't care about her." I told her we should end it. I said this because she's been selfish. I actually didn't have the money for the data. She even started saying I should take from my savings if I truly love her. She pushed it to the extent that I had to tell her she does things I can't cope with, and also I am not ready for a relationship. Now, we've broken up. I've been thinking I've made a mistake. I've begged her, but she's just resisting my plea. I love this girl so much. For more than 5 years now, we've been doing this on and off, and she's been consistently on my mind. How can I completely get over her? |
You should have been patient before ending it |
peterincredible:Hmm |
Smartb0y: |
Thank you all for you input. It might be a good decision after all. |
toujurs:She didn't tell me she wanted friendship tho. She's an introvert like you said. I am also. But I have to cater for my wellbeing too. |
SPAMBOX7: ![]() |
There's a lady I had been friends with. I asked her out twice but she said no. She still kinda trys to make friends with me and all sort. she revives the feelings I have for her and makes me make bad decisions So, I told her point blank that she needs to stop making contact with me etc. She didn't really till I restricted her on WhatsApp (I use GB WhatsApp). So I observed she doesn't have my number again I guess she deleted when she thought I had blocked her. And also she doesn't greet me again when she sees me physically. I don't know if I did something extreme. Or bad? I know she wanted friendship. But I am NOT in a relationship now. I would just die if jealousy if I allow it continue. Caveadullam ubunja gidtheredpiller |
There's a lady I had been friends with. I asked her out twice but she said no. She still kinda trys to make friends with me and all sort. she revives the feelings I have for her and makes me make bad decisions So, I told her point blank that she needs to stop making contact with me etc. She didn't really till I restricted her on WhatsApp (I use GB WhatsApp). So I observed she doesn't have my number again I guess she deleted when she thought I had blocked her. And also she doesn't greet me again when she sees me physically. I don't know if I did something extreme. Or bad? I know she wanted friendship. But I am NOT in a relationship now. I would just die if jealousy if I allow it continue. |
chuksp09:I was about to ask the same question. Please who knows it ooo The lyrics goes thus It is time to celebrate celebrate to .... That's me and you you and me... |
Please I need more input |
Demigod22:Hmm. This is my fear |
JASONjnr:I was but I have stopped |
4 years ago, I was heartbroken by my ex gf I loved so much. It took time for me to move on. I eventually moved on. That's after more than a year. She wanted to reinitiate contact with me but I have moved on. And I don't love her again However, I have lost confidence in dating/relationship. Ever since then tho I have been asking people out ,, but I have not been able to actually get hold of a relationship. One, 2019, I asked her out. She said she will think about it. Actually she later agreed but I shyed out of it. I didn't make any contact with her at all till date. She even tried making contact with me but I blocked her. Though it's not fair. But I was scared. Early 2020. I met with another lady she's a great woman financially independent, beautiful and good heart... But I couldn't ask her out. I eventually didn't but she said she doesn't sense that I love her. And she said no. How do I get over my initial heart break and find a good person |
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Prettygirl200:I think you are the person I asked out. Just almost similar way I was dumped. |
MediMedi:Abi |
KingDash:Lol. This is part of what I am saying. That's the way some one suggested that I should argue. See where it has led me |
Blue86:Okay... So I know that Jesus is not shy.i also don't want to be. I have prayed and fasted against this spirit. And it's always seen like anytime I pray against it, it gets worsened. I have tried some un Christ like means to boost my confidence (like arguing etc) but I have discovered that I created a wrong spirit within me. I am most times always solitary. I have adopt some destructive addictions because of depression from disappointment I gets when I drop the ball in public. I don tire sef. |
How do I overcome this extreme shyness and lack of confidence. It has affected me in a whole lots of potential relationships, jobs and even as a Christian. I have no friends at the age of 27 years, I didn't get to talk to a lady till I was 24,(it didn't last up to 2months) I have lost a very good job because of this. I am most times always on my own Etc. |
Hypnotise:Lol |
I am a virgin at 25. I once had a gf. That was 2years ago. I declined having sex with my ex girlfriend. We ve since broken up. I tht she was the one I prayed for. I currently don't enjoy my life as it is. I watch porn and masturbate alot. Because of the way I handle issues. People have suggested that I engage in sexual activity. I am a huge introvert. Talking to girls seem so scary to me. I in fact don't get liked by them. My ex., when we were today actually wanted to have sex with me but she wanted it raw and to lick her. I declined due to dangers of unprotected sex. I think I am sex starved or may there something else wrong. I don't really enjoy my life |
Well I really don't know why I always feel incompetence or that I don't deserve what I am doing or I can't do somethings. but this feelings usually come real. I said psychological... people have yabbed and left me all because of my ideas... |
I will keep this short and simple. I am having a psychological problem of low self-esteem! |
Bifrost:How do I know that |
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