Jesus.... mods wetin una dey wait for ? Please seun and lalasticlala please push this to the promise land . Youths beware of cultism

Oyindidi:
Go pay house for another place cut all ties with that your father till you're man enough to say no to all his demands and wahala.

I no dey keep toxic people around me.

Thanks

Guitarlife:

Am sorry I came too hard on you.
I am surprised that someone with your level of exposure will still allow himself to be taken advantage of.
In Africa children are seen as properties so dont expect that your parents will treat you any better.

Your father has no atom of respect or good plans for you, it is your responsibility at your age to identify that and work hard to make your life better without allowing anyone to blackmail you emotionally.

I am telling you this cos I also have some experience about the challenge you are facing with your family, your father is selfish, lazy, unfaithful and probably depressed, he has lived his own life, be a man for once.

Move on with your life without him, the only person you should break your back for now is your sister. Dont think too much about your parents for now, maybe in future when you break through and have made your own money but for now your life will waste away if you dont isolate yourself , toughen up, resisit the emotional blackmail and make a success of your life.

I am sorry if I was too hard on you earlier, but you need to act like a man now. You are a man just as your dad, he has lived his life and made his choices dont allow your own children call you a lazy man because of your lazy father.

Thanks boss

Theyoungmatron:
Damn bro, you are one hell of a hustler!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Thanks boss. People no understand wetin others dey pass through . They generalize due to localized datas of their area. They are used to suffering and they feel once a young man makes it , then he is into fraud or rituals

tabithababy:
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You be boss

Oshe

Guitarlife:
When grown men talk like this It makes me sad. You are a man at 30 years of age and you cannot stand up to your father and mom. I feel like slapping you, you are fast on the path to becoming worse than your dad.
Apparently you are into something illegal, probably yahoo or something, your self confidence is down and you dont seem to have enough intelligence to understand good advise.

I dont know where to start, but you cannot blame your father for your stupidity. A 30 year old man who cannot make his own choices and set his own targets and boundaries and still believes he needs the affirmation of his parents is a wimp.

Lets start from here, how did you make those money ? Did you steal ? Did you do Yahoo ? How did you make all these money and your failure of a parents would rather spend such ill gotten wealth without questioning the source of the money.


YOur problem is deep, if you are ready for real advise, how did you make all that money ?

I really do not like responding to messages like this but let me correct your thinking . You do not have to engage in fraud to make money bro. What have I really achieved that is so special that cannot be achieved with hard work ? Bro tell me.

Look man, I have worked my ass out bro . When I dropped out of school , my dad warned me about a particular cousin and their family and tried to pain them in a bad light . That cousin linked me up with someone in Lagos and I hussled in a ship day and night bro. Cold hammer my life . My whole life be life refrigerator and I was asthmatic and I had to do it. Ventolin inhaler and aminophylline injection go school for my body . You do not sit in the comfort of your home and pass judgement , people go throw a lot . My plan was to work in the ship for one year and make enough to go back to school as the pay was good. I worked with Arabs bro and during my one year, things started changing . A new set of Arabs where brought in and they where homo sexuals . Bros , I had to run as I was almost raped and they threatened to throw in the middle of the sea . The hussle to Bleep ass was real. I left there and went to work with Indians bro. They where better off but don’t pay much as they complain of government and no
Money but I had to manage. Some Nigerian guys had to present their ass to the Arabs to remain onboard. I worked with the Indians and I was able to save some cash bro . Whenever I am off, I had friend who sells wrist watches and necklaces and I told him the Indians I work with love wristwatches . I introduced him and he made his first supply which was about 370k . The Indians later discovered the watches where fake and I was used as the sacrificial lamb . I lost the job . I tried looking for a better job on board but I couldn’t get any . I then met a guy who was into oil theft for naval officers . He introduced me and asked me to start work in two weeks . I later got a news from his brother that he died and was killed by propeller . The little I gathered I wanted to cross into Europe throw Morocco and desert movement and I was about making the move when my pastor called and asked me to stop every movement that he had a vision and saw me dead. I then met a friend I knew in school and he told me about Georgia and that Georgia is a good country . I told him I had some money and wanted to do business . He convinced me to go to Georgia and buy clothes and sell and he also said he can link me up to Ankara turkey . I started that business bro and I was almost duped but I held my ground bro . Na Beijing person never enter buy goods. Bros , men dey wey hussle legit . The only problem I have is family , they do not see my effort to help . I work my ass out just to help but they fucking don’t care .

dimco:
I am shocked to the marrow. From what you have narrated so far, you literally sacrificed your comfort to better the lot of your family yet your evil father is making life miserable for you. Death is not an option, bro. You just have to love yourself first before your family because at the end of it all, no one actually cares about you. If you die today, they will only mourn you for few weeks and then forge ahead with life. You are an ambitious young man and at your age, you have done so well for yourself. You are not in competition with anyone. Jettison every wanton idea of suicide, brace up, pull up your socks and prove to your dad and the society at large that you are no failure. We are not ready to eat your burial rice and pomo yet. Don't let family pressure weigh you down. The most important lesson I want to leave with you is learn to please yourself first before others albeit not in a selfish manner. Keep doing good but not at the detriment of your wellbeing. Peace.

Thanks boss

pweedie:
Am really bad at this. I don't even know where to pick it from. Let me start from somewhere. From the post I can c ur dad loves money and he's irresponsible (sorry about my tone of language).
I think you are old enough to say No to ur pop man and stand by it. Don't look at the insults or wordings from him abeg. Just shank the man. Send money to your mum monthly for upkeeping and let your p-man be. You killing yourself would actually make your pop man words looks true about you being weak, stupid and foolish. Don't give him the power for that. Live through all his bullshit and be a better man he never thought you would be. Biko

Thanks dear

greatnaija01:
WOW..... DON'T KILL YOURSELF.... you can still recover, but if you kill yourself, you may never know what you missed.

Thanks

Hello Nairalanders,

I really do not know the best section to post this and so I am settling for the family section as this is about my family . I am 30years of age and I have just a sister . I gained admission into the university at the age of 21 years. My dad is a priest and during my second year in school, my dad had issues with the church and he was suspended indefinitely . This affected my education Badly . I couldn’t even feed and pay my school fees. I tried to engage in fraudulent activities to bypass the school fees team but I was caught 6 times in the exam and I couldn’t write my exams . My landlord in school have me heat and so I had to drop out and hussle . My younger sister gained admission also and my parents complained about money for both of us and so dropping out was the best so as to enable her finish her school. I started hustling just to make ends meet. I started having breakthrough 4 years after dropping out of school and so I decided it was time I go back to school. I was young at the time I dropped out and I couldn’t even think properly about deferring my admission . By the time I realized, it was late . I decided to write jamb again. Meanwhile , when I started hustling , the little I made, I always give my dad to take care of the house . I tried my best even at a very young age . I decided on jamb and I failed jamb twice as I couldn’t meet the cut off mark for my course . I then proceeded to OAU and collected a pedigree form for distant learning . I couldn’t also meet the cut off mark . After trying for 3 years with no luck , I decided to settle for a private school. I took the form and boom , I got the admission to read Geology and petroleum studies . I had to hussle and my first school fees was 438k. I was able to settle the fees and I was happy I am back in school ( delay ain’t denial ) . The course was expensive and so I couldn’t get a place of my own and so I decided to put up with my parents at that age . The course was expensive but that was my dream course . Even with that, I sill tried my best to carry the house along . During my 300 Level, my dad became tired of me staying with him . I am asthmatic and so I couldn’t stay in the school hostel . During my 200 level, my dad owed his family members 350k and at the time , I wanted to pay my fees , the insult was much on the family and so o asked my mum to give him the cash for my fees to settle the family . My mum was my accountant then so I don’t spend money anyhow . Boom, dad came back again that he wanted to buy an Audi car and the car was 750k. He knows my expenses and that I need money for school and especially field works to igarra . I explained to him and the man started carrying face ooo. I then decided to give another 400 and so make him add the balance . At times , I was broke and I wanted to settle some pressing issues in school that needs instant cash , my dad will tell me to meet my mum. My mum and I struggled to make sure I finish the school. There was a particular time I wanted to go for independent field mapping and I asked my dad for 30k as my mum said she would raise 10 for me. My dad said he doesn’t have money, he said I should ask my mum . My mum had to borrow from cooperative . That evening as I was putting my things in order , my dad came and asked me to plug his phone, immediately a text came in with account details . My dad was about to send 60k to a woman and he asked the woman not to call because family is around and so she sent her bank details . I confronted him and he kept quiet . I was able to finish up my school and due to the pressure about school fees and all that as I was not ready to drop out again, I had an extra year. It’s been one problem or the other about my dad . There was a day I wanted to go get things outside , I saw an Audi approaching and I confirmed it was my dad and mum driving to my place . The vehicle was loaded with properties . The church kicked them out and asked them to leave the vicarage . I immediately took them in and arranged the extra room for them . I immediately called an agent to look for a 2 bedroom apartment for me. I removed the aircondition from my house, the fridge I was using , the television I had and also my gotv for them . I purchased a set of chairs for 250k and paid house rent of 240k. Furnished the house and asked them to move in. Even with all this, my dad no want make I settle down . Because I do not have a car to call my own, my dad insults me every minute and reminding me that my mates and juniors are doing better and he calls me a fool because I don’t have money to give him at the moment . I reminded him that yes some of my juniors are better and some are also dead but I thank God for my life . I believe with God I will conquer . I am currently in a depressed mood as there is absolutely nothing to leave for as the only hope I have which is my family , they have all abandoned me . My dad has been building his house for like 20yrs now. He spends so much on girls and refused building his house . Now he is forcing me to finish the house which I agreed but asked him to give me time . My younger sister got a job of 30k monthly and my dad has been on her neck . My dad even call the owner of the company for money . He bugs the man with text messages and calls every two weeks for cash and the man had to sack my sister . I purchased a land and wanted to start developing my own house but my dad calls me a never do well and a useless child. I am trying my best. I am working my ass out but family don’t see any good . My sister had fibroid issues and I had to borrow 240k with my certificate just to please them . I am in a depressed state and just staying my mind and speaking out to this community now I see death as the only option as I type this with tears . I see death as the only hope . I have two bottles of sniper and I have been having thought to just end my life . I am depressed .

Lols only two comments? Make una comment no worry, Nigeria go better....

No be leg him injure? Abi injury reach that zone?

How old were you when you found out tangerines come in different colors ?

It happened this morning and i witnessed it. Supremacy battle between Vikings and the Ayeee. Vikings killed a member of the Blak axeee and they retaliated by killing 2 vikings this morning. This is really sad. Youth which way?

Lalasticlala, seun , mynd44 we need to let them know cultism is bad. For those wey wan join, this is the end result .


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=91VtLNfQzf8

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Hey nairalanders,

I need your help. There is this girl I so much fancy . Thinking about approaching her but it seems difficult. She works in a fast food restaurant and the crowd Makes it impossible to approach her . Should I buy her a gift ? How do I get her full attention ?

Thanks for the help

stanliwise:


Why would anyone disclose the location of another person to you wen you are not a cop?? How do we believe your story is real!!
How are we sure this is not a frame-up...
Get the help of the police bro.what you are asking is illegal nevertheless it is just an advise.

Don’t mind that guy. Arm robber just drop ID card, we be mumu . Na Nollywood. Black arrow drop him ID after operation.

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May

June

Briee:
A woman that is angry cos you're planning for the future is not your wife.

I no get time to beat around the bush.

Ah thanks . I am in pains . This is just what I get . Thanks for your input .

Iamtosignno:
Marriageable Age or Non Am enjoying My Single Life God Go Do The Marriage Not Me Leave Everything To God Hands Man...

Thanks man

Iamtosignno:
If i say you're fool don't be angry cos am referring to both of us although am not in marriage age
I once had Girlfriend like that My First Ever Love to be precisely the thing do me i will never low myself just because of love imagine how she describe my life because of my education
man woman deserve no good man at all
Lemme Congratulate you for the acquired of that land
Leave Her Alone Live Your Life
A woman dat will love you unconditionally will come
And A Woman that truly love never make excuses and hurt she think you will be her forever ATM Who know maybe she has cheated so many times without getting what she want as she want
And Mind You You're Fetching Water Into Basket
NOTE Everybody Deserve Everybody and You have to worth the Deserve That My Quote Maybe it's Senseless to others i don't know but am right in my own opinion

You are not of marriageable age but your wisdom spreads like the basaltic ocean floor. Thanks

eniolorunfe:
I think your gf doesn't feel she is priority in your life.

You seem to always have something else to prioritize rather than her or what is important to her. How long do you want her to keep on hanging out with you before she becomes priority

She has been with you for 6 years, yet nothing concrete to show for it except promises and that is why she is moving on. There is no guarantee that something else won't crop up tomorrow....after all, that is what life is all about.

That girl doesn't feel valued....period!

No one here can tell you if she is wife material or not...only you know that! If you think she is valuable to you then go after her and start considering her and her feelings in your decisions else, you can let go.

N.B) Getting married doesn't have to be rocket science as long as both parties are on same page.

This means both of you can always work out something if you ready.

I thank you for this . She has always been my priority . I only wanted to make it easier for us so we can build together immediately we settle down. I truly love this woman and I have begged all through today and even apologized if I have ever offended her to deserve this . It’s kind of hard to see her go . I don’t know If getting a piece of land will bring down my relationship . It matters a lot to me. Can this be salvaged ? Can I get a life line ? I have read a lot of stories on here about breakups and I was happy I had that perfect relationship. Lalasticlala seun mynd44 I need your help .

Issaboss:
Sorry to say this but all these while i think she was actually interested or stuck to you cos of your promise of marriage and car. Now you don't appeal to her anymore, i just think you should get money and win her back if you really want to spend the whole of your life with a money-hungry h** or just move on.

Thanks

Hello nairalanders, I really need your help as I am passing through a lot and your advice will help me get through. I will to make this brief . I have dated my woman for 6years and we have been planning to settle down. I noticed a change in her attitude and the reason I think for the change is stated below:

I am a promising young man doing well financially until recently I started having issues. During the period I had , I saved through her considering the fact I am not a good saver . I was able to raise 3million in four months . We planned on getting a nice car and also settle down with the rest. I gave her everything she needs and trips na all round stew . Then I called and had a change of plan considering the car but the plan for the marriage still stands. She frowned but I was able to convince her that we should get a land and start building so that when we get married , I can get a corrolla for her while I still hustle and use bike until I finish the house . I then purchased the land and after so much expenses , I was left with just little and I do not wish to go into marriage with that and so I talked her to give me time and since we have acquired the land in a good place, it’s a plus. She frowned that so we are no longer getting married again, I told her we should be patient for 6 months and we can start the preparations, that was the beginning of my problems . She stated giving attitude because I no longer have much to
Marry and foot her bills . She can not be patient for me to bounce back. My sister had fibroid operation and I was about to go see her, I had an accident that affected me, I told her and she never asked of my health or anything . I had a serious operation on my leg and she never cared to call me for days in the hospital. I called her and I told her I wasn’t happy and she couldn’t ask of me, she just said she was busy . Is the hand writing clear on the wall that the relationship is over or Can I still salvage my relationship? I need your help .

Lalasticlala
Seun
Mynd44