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if that's her hair, then which hair she come take deceive us for lions heart

Oritsewhandey:
..... You should never have written that, then!

she no fit be nairalander na

she looks different now, she used to be prettier.
well I hope she never reads this

FzanyAjibs:
Well xendra, I guess their is no manual to loving someone. The Bible teaches about love and about being at peace with everyone.

The best I can offer on 'how to love' are just tips here and todos there.

But we discover that life is complex and can be random. A man's food is another man's poison. People change, people walk away, lovers are snatched away, finance can mess up stuffs.

You really made a good point. However, that is what the person asked for.

My philosophy in life is to just be happy. I would do whatever would bring me happiness. Even if it's to be single. I can't burden up my mind with love issues when I have a promising career to build.

Exits sometimes are the best option but the problem is the mind won't let go.

Some remain in toxic relationships, some endure abusive marriages. They say because of kids or because they have no where to go.

Some logically go separate. Be it break up, be it divorce. Even when children are involved.

Painfully, I say painfully, some make marriage/ relationship matter take over their mind. They loose themselves. They commit suicide, etc.

I guess there is no crime in letting go when one has accepted the situation. The mind too must cooperate abeg.

I belong in a group that's just for women, and if a woman posts something like this the only replies you get is " what happened " so that we first know if the relationship really needs separation or just needs work. You have to start genuinely caring about other people's happiness you know, not everybody do well being alone some people just don't know how to put little efforts that'd make their relationship work. having a life partner is important if you get lucky to find the right One, so advising people to leave all the time is not always helping.

nobody is even asking you what happened naija men and their bitterness, they all want you to be lonely as they are. they can't teach you how to love but experts on " how to unlove"

jericco1:
I like you but you talk too much

if you don't like that I talk too much then you don't like me.

oh! so Uti has private jet

correctguy0900:
Feminism kee u too

you asked for it? You will get it. you want a woman to do everything while your lazy ass sit and watch t.v ABI? spit!

correctguy0900:
Is it a criminal offence if u add some cash to it in order to cook a better food?

Once it comes to money, men nd women are not suddenly equal.

yes it is. let me bring the money then and he cooks the food. modern slavery kee U there.

mcthwww ....na hungry no beat you.

any man that draws a cheap price table like this is dull and not a husband material. If you get sense and na only 480 you get, you for kuku chop beans

khiaa:
Killed for what, don't you know he is paying her to treat him like the animal he is. Those people are sick in the head.

whaaaa! there's such a thing? men SMH

is she mad this kind shouldn't be arrested, they should be killed. like that crazy Nigerian guy that does this same shit.

Gaspardd:
I bet there are so many nice guys you re forming an unattainable elite for right? I hope you remember all that when you start questioning God about how all men re scum.

question God ke' , nice guys bawo? all of them like you are scums some are just coded.

lol some of you men can be very annoying and irritating in your approach, see how bitter you sound as if it's by force.
now you come here and drop your own side of the story to make her look bad. Ode!

SMH
who says Nigerian men are not problem, so it's no longer Nigerian women now una don enter western women matter?

not only say you no get sense, you no go ever get sense. be looking for excuse to treat women like trash because in all 5.6billion women of your stat, they are all single, Good and ready to mingle

FortuneDeGreat:
please forgive men, you're always on our neck, I wonder why and how that one man offended you so severely to an extent you spread the aggression across board, all men are not devils, good ones still abound. I love you.

joe4christ:
My dear, our civilization is still at "toddler" stage compared to it's potential and capacity.
As we advance technologically and scientifically, we will get answers to all basic questions of life as we know it, and when we get to that stage, we will be able to solve all problems of life. There will be no more impossibility. We will have cure for every sickness. Our Government and technology will be so advanced and organized so much that our daily activities will be so calculated and predictable. Life will be so ease, I can bet by then our mind will be so enlightened that there won't be room for discrimination. And the gap between the rich and the poor will be so slim that it will appear non existent.

There will be a world new order and humanity will be better for it!

Ive seen this day, so I'm sure it's not mere prediction. Its happening now!

yea! That's the period after the rapture, the bible mentioned it

FortuneDeGreat:
You're too over reactive, can't you pass on your message with milk of conscience and compassion, is it a must you respond to every sarcasm? Girl chill ooo, the world ought not to be this mean, sometimes laugh over nasty stuff and move on.

and his reply to her was with "milk of conscience " ABI? or you men will die if you advice each other right?

donstan18:
It seems the word "Virginity" triggered you.


Are you angry that this thread reminded you of your virginity and how you screamed when the hymen got broken?

ode, why would I care about virginity? is your mother a virgin?

all this useless men looking for what they themselves can't give. why will anyone keep virginity for a community prick

so he fingered her and lied to her that he was checking for virginity? any man or woman that can think of the children or siblings romantically should just be killed for posterity sake

feji12:
Can't someone just see a decent matured lady on nairaland? Each time they call always looking for transport money , money for hair and many other stupid bills am really confused. please if you know you are matured and u think u are serious for serious relationship kindly call me on 08065916870 Charles from Delta state

you men have made women believe that decency doesn't pay anymore, i mean who wants to be decent for the kind of guys that flock the street these days

Nasakwa:
you are the cheap ass bastard now. When he tells you his networth now you run to him and start sucking his dick. I dont know why broke ass girls like you with just only ass and breast to offer thinks every person you meet online is as broke as your father. Shediot

brother "brokerd" please go and make money and Bleep off my mention

PHOTSEE:
When you meet a guy, don't know. i guest that is the first question that runs in your mind?

these days? YES! because most of y'all got nothing else to offer

nuggarito:
500naira with a dick that can change your life

nah!!! You can keep the dick, I'd rather go for that one with good networth

nuggarito:
How do you know I'm cheap, you don't even know me. If yours is available you can dm me also.

what's your networth

graceyramah:
That was the mistake I made. It's just 4days...Maybe, it's hormonal changes. Can't really tell if I can get pregnant that fast.

you can it depends on what changes you are experiencing now

Baddiezz:
I had to like your dp