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Great! now Teni will understand how men are the reason women shouldn't help financially in a home.

So, is that why Obaseki has left Edo people at home or did he forget he told them to stay at home because of election? our prayers are no longer with him that's why he is about to lose

Aflix:
Arrrrrrrggh, why do some females try to sound dumb at any given opportunity, You still try to reason sometimes. Yes we all know that they are some cases that cannot be prevented but they are others that can be prevented. The other day a female said that even if a naked woman should wobble her ass on a man's dick, the man should not touch her if she says no cos "her no means no". In my mind I was like If any woman should try that them go rape her till her t*t* tear and if she takes the matter to court she will only end up being sued for defamation of character.

the problem with the world is that the dumb people are always the loudest. see how you are shouting aaarrgghh as if you are about to make any sense. tchwwww.

Beverlyjean:
U are not being logical... rape can never be eliminated completely...its impossible...preventive measures are the only way it can reduce to its barest minimum...let's not only focus on the rapist , but also those that have made themselves susceptible to rape... some men also have been accused falsely....now , no one was there when it happened, it's her word against his word , no real witness... guys should stop inviting girls as well if u hv not agreed to sex. Prevention is better than cure

haha madam logical what then have you said?
So you want to use logic to explain away rape cases? then logically explain the cases I mentioned (which are also real cases) why were they raped too

logically explain that away please. I'll like to read.

I didn't say it can be completely eliminated but seems to me you want likes and applauds from apologists so you will add anything...enjoy the likes

and you claim we can't focus "only" on the rapist, But in your post (and the the first poster I mentioned)you didn't even address the rapist. and that right there is the problem.

Sysdatek:
My issue is that when a guy is raped, women turn it Into a joke

But when vice versa, they scream murder
Rape is rape and no one should downplay it when it happens to men

It is still men that downplay it when it happens to men, even comedians make jokes about it and you all laugh as if its trivial. women fight for their own, it is not our fault that men choose to make jokes with their own cases, you make it seem like you like it, it's fun for you. is it women that will still come and fight for you Nawa o

johnkey:
I hope you know there is a huge difference between justifying rape and advising our young girls on tips to not make them victims? Cos most peeps here don't know, you're tag a rape apologist once you advice girls without looking at the fact that there will always be a rapist lurking in the dark somewhere no matter how much you preach against rape(so who's fault is that), so it's up to us to also protect our daughters and sisters against dangerous people not just shouting 'no to rape' everytime there is a rape incident.

is it daughters you will advice here or sons? this is how you guys have endorsed rape till now, ok tell us, what could Uwa have done to prevent those monsters from raping her in church did she wear mini skirt? what about the child? was her Pampers too exposed? or should we ask the grandma why she was tying that big rapper when she knows there will always be rapists "lurking in the dark

you guys are the reason there are new rape cases everyday, it's on your head and all who will blame the female child instead of cautioning the male child.

Asensio13:
This is the reason I don't and will never trust any girl In this life, even my future wife don't deserve my trust completely

who cares have you been able to "deserve " /earn anyone's trust yourself?

people be expecting of others what they can't offer.

ZeroShenanigan:
Without checking your profile, I know this a female voice.
This is how majority of you always sound.
If I come come over here to seek for an advise during those period, people like you will ask me to go ahead without thinking of the implications.
Did you see me mention that I'm perfect? I'm a career also, AS. If I have known this earlier, I will insist on a relationship with only AA. Please, I can't stand any negative comments this moment as I'm a kind of guy that will never give a damn about your derailing opinion. I believe so much in God's will as well human personal endeavor to achieve whatever you desire. Gbogbo epe to ba she, o ma pada so ri e ni.
I bring out my story for others to learn ni. Only God knows what will happen later as I'm only contemplating divorce which I have not done yet. How many SS children have you helped to survive if you want people to continue breeding sickler?

Oga, what if you were married before you found out?? you are just looking for an excuse and you think you got one.
you guys should never have gotten married because having a SS child doesn't benefit the wife, husband, child or even the society, except the doctors. But why blame it all on her(otherwise why the resentment towards her) as if you were a neutral in this decision? you didn't check on time, it came late, might as well be after wedding. So you two should make decisions from here on what to do about it, not you recenting and blaming only the woman as if you are guiltless

I beg they should kill her, people like that are psycho and should not be allowed roaming the society.

Poloyanabo1:
That CSP was unenlightened!
RIP tho!
But didn't he see the cables run over the tree?
Na wetin make i dey avoid trees wey dey under HT and LT cables, one for my area like that the branches joined with the HT cable, rain com dey fall ontop. Oboy i jejely cross to the other lane, FG should set up a taskforce to checkmate these overgrowing trees under powerlines.
But a whole Csp was that jobless to carry knife and climb a tree? were there no constables and corporals at his disposal to do the job?
Orishirishi somtin.

because those ones are better off dead abi?? people like you are the problem we have in this country

Men are their own enemies.
why will a man go on another man's bed to fvck his wife SMH

You are already breaking the guys heart

there's a lot of things the bible didn't say/mean and God doesn't care about but men have twisted and retwisted until some people are now tired of Gods words because they think it's a trap. but that's just the devil using men to win.

Just be married before sex. as long as you're not hurting yourself or your partner in the process, God doesn't care.

is it all crime that leads to prison??

attention seeker oshi!
why are you now mentioning yourself? abi the story never finish?
behaving like ebenezer2o2o

Skales4ll:
i think the op's point is very clear.
he's not justifying rape but only trying to tell you that Indecent dressing is also among the reason why lady's get raped.

NO IT IS NOT

a rapist is just a rapist. nothing has to trigger them they only take advantage of whoever is available be it a girl, woman, grandmother, baby, boy or even animal. Stop making excuses for them. when I swear for rapists I don't forget to swear for everyone making excuses for them to suffer the same fate.

AdamsAbubakar:
The punishment in Saudi Arabia is not harsh compared to other countries. Is life imprisonment or death sentence not worse than exile? Saudi Arabia records very low levels of various crimes including rape. Their morality is one of the key factors. The post said ".. Indecent dressing is not the only cause of rape.." I don't know why you intentionally ignored that part.

a rapist is just a rapist. nothing has to trigger them they only take advantage of whoever is available be it a girl, woman, grandmother, baby, boy or even animal. Stop making excuses for them. when I swear for rapists I don't forget to swear for everyone making excuses for them to suffer the same fate.

lies

all these rapist looking for an excuse, it's the laws in Saudi Arabia that reduced rape cases not decent dressing.

Indian women don't wear scanty clothes yet the rape case there is more because there is no law.

So children and babies also get raped because diapers are too scanty abi
what about guys that gets raped? and animals too

all rapist and rapist apologists una no go die well. Oloun

you sef no get sense? so you want fvck girl wey you just meet later you wonder why men die earlier than women.

None of these people care about the masses, So the only stupid person here are the masses who will support them.

But if you are to judge, Obaseki's has made more sane workers than oshiomole who thinks like an abgero.

Thathustler:
Good evening guys. Please I could use some advice right now cos I am honestly confused.
I love my man so much and we have been together for a couple of months. Before I agreed to be in a relationship with him, it took a lot of convincing from him cos we don’t share the same faith. I later agreed and in the beginning he used to treat me like an egg, he would go above and beyond to see me satisfied but now? He’s changed.
We are not together now cos I travelled to another state for business, we’ve been apart for like 2 months and a half due to the lockdown delaying what I came to this state for. So ever since I travelled, he has been acting distant. Our conversations got shorter, he wouldn’t chat with me for long and when he does, it seems like I am the only one trying to sustain the conversation or make it interesting. If I don’t make an effort to make our conversations fun, it would be boring. No effort at all from him. I told him about this like three times already and he said he would change. Could it be that someone else is distracting him over there? Or he’s getting tired of being away from me? I know for a fact he doesn’t like distant relationships but all this distance is not my fault but the pandemic.
Secondly, he is now so rude and has suddenly developed this I don’t care attitude. He speaks to me anyhow, today he legit told me I asked a stupid question when I asked him about something. He didn’t directly call me stupid but he said I asked him a stupid question and that I should have known already without asking him. I actually knew but I needed clarity. He sounded so irritated and angry over a little thing.
He has clearly lost his respect for me, even when I try and spice the conversations up, he just replies with monosyllables and short words. I accused him of cheating when all this rubbish started but he swore to me that no, he can never do that. He would rather break up if he’s tired and he’s not tired, that he loves me.
Now, how can I make him respect me more? He snaps at me over every little thing these days. Should I ignore him? I have tried that but he hates me ignoring him. Should I start distancing myself too? Or reducing the way I talk to him? Should I start replying with short words too? What should I do to bring him back? I can’t travel to our state now( where we both live) and I really love him, I don’t want to lose him.

Manipulative AF He is manipulating you.

you already lost him, a mature man should know how to communicate his feelings without being rude, if you put up with this you will never recover, this is what boys do, he is testing you, he wants to know how much of his BS you are willing to put up with.

just cut your loss and start praying for a better man, if you love yourself.

uchkochi:
No man boasts about God publicly and see shame. Boast about what God can do.

God can change my situation for the best in a day.
and to be honest God has done too much in my life I don't even need to brag, it speaks for itself

johnkay1:
They look like famer

akinreals:
exactly what was on my mind. See billionaire dress like gateman. Na wah o

he for wear blingz or suit abi?? that's why you no be billionaire so

why would she return?? when even people here want to go there.

does she have to return? have we driven out all Lebanese from our country? why can't there be a rule to treat Nigerians right in other countries when we give them the best in our own? why is it always return our yeye government know

very True

But the government is worse they also know alot of people are suffering, they just don't care

LedRock:
Totality brutality , OP na the same ladies you dey try defend na im still finish you.

like the OP you too are not smart, I hope this is not how all current generation of men are now...sad

I am not fat and even the fat ladies he did not defend them.