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Religion / Re: What Does The Bible Say About Masturbation? by xpanciated: 8:38am On Apr 12
M00N:
Good Evening Nairalanders

I have a young friend of mine who has been masturbating since he was eleven years old and he is going to be twenty this year. His parents are divorced and he does not live with any of them.

We where talking today and he confided in me that he's been masturbating since he was eleven and that he has been struggling to stop out of guilt but he eventually stopped trying ever since he saw that it was almost impossible so he continued.

But I tried to encourage him to stop because I have been there. I started when I was in the university and struggled till 2018 when I eventually got more control. I realized that while I was still a chronic masturbator that I had almost no drive to succeed in anything which affected me a lot because I kept to my self, had no friends, felt guilty, weak and empty but my friend argued that he won't even bother trying because it was just impossible and doctors say it's healthy to masturbate, I argued that those doctors were lying and that it is not Scripturally okay but he also argued that were in the bible is it written? and I couldn't argue more cause I also relapse at times.

So please, that is why I have come here to ask for the advice on how to encourage him to keep on fighting against addiction and what bible verses can I quote for him?


I masturbated for twenty four (24) years and quitted five years ago. Masturbation has dire spiritual implications. There are scriptures available in the Bible that discourages any form of sexual immorality or perversion which masturbation is part of.

Due to the foregoing...I wrote an expository, revealing, mind-blowing and point blank book: "MASTURBATION ADDICTION: CAUSES, DANGERS AND PRACTICAL SOLUTIONS" which also contains my 24 years experience and how I quitted.

It comes with a FREE one month follow up guide and the rest is history by the grace of God! It comes in eBook and Hard copy formats.
U can chat me up for more info and you won't regret it bruv....08099449449

Romance / Re: What No One Will Tell You About Masturbation!! by xpanciated: 2:50pm On Apr 11
Ekakamba:


Just like having headache and avoiding Panadol. grin tongue

@OP, but how comes that most successful people mass-tube-bait? Is it the spirit of wealth/success that take control over them?

1. That depends on ur definition of success.
2. Among those key areas I mentioned, masturbation sure affects one, two or all of the areas I mentioned.
3. I have had the rare opportunity of counselling the so called 'successful/wealthy' people and they have inner pains they can't show the world.
4. Those addicted to masturbation knows exactly what I'm talking about.
.....Thanks for ur submission though.
Romance / What No One Will Tell You About Masturbation!! by xpanciated: 1:45pm On Apr 11
RAW FACT ON MASTURBATION.
You sleep with a male or female...
You call it sex.
You arouse yourself and ejaculate alone...
You call it masturbation.

Should i be very candid with you?
Each time you masturbate...
You are having sex with a spirit (demon)
Which eventually leads to soul ties with that spirit...
Just same way you are joined as one, the moment you have sex with anyone.
Then, the demon is at will to affect any area of ur destiny...
Especially your finances, relationships and marriage.

If that soul tie is not broken...
I'm afraid to be the carrier of bad news...
They will keep affecting key areas of your destiny.

I masturbated for 24 years before i quitted 5 years ago and i have counselled more than a 1,000 people on the issue of masturbation so....
Please, before you argue, doubt or criticize me...
Ask the Lord to reveal the authenticity of what i just posted, to you.

....My book on masturbation addiction is very much available...in eBook format and hard copy and it comes with a FREE ONE MONTH FOLLOW UP ONLINE BY ME
WASSAP: 08099449449

Romance / Re: Am Finished: See What Masturbation Caused Me. (picture) by xpanciated: 10:20pm On Apr 09
Scientists:


Don't stress yourself writing long Epistle. Who told you that I want to stop?

I even Thank God. If not, by now Women for Don finish my money, Disease, Virus, e.t.c which may affect my ability to give birth.

I will only stop when I marry. If my wife do shakara for me over sex, I will continue fucking my hand.

Its alright bruv....but I believe there are many out there who really wants to stop....such time will always come....wish u best bruv....

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Romance / Re: Am Finished: See What Masturbation Caused Me. (picture) by xpanciated: 10:01pm On Apr 09
I was addicted to masturbation for 24 years. I understand what you are talking about because, I’ve experienced worse scenarios but I can tell you that, I was able to quit 5 years ago!
Masturbation addiction in this context refers to a situation when you cannot do without masturbation. You are said to be addicted to masturbation if the following holds true in your life:
• When you find masturbation continuously attractive;
• You Keep masturbating even though there are clear negative consequences;
• When you find masturbation irresistible;
• When you attempt to keep your masturbation secret;
• When masturbation becomes a daily/weekly routine or practice;
• You use masturbation as a way to cope
• When you can't seem to stop yourself from masturbating;
• Your personal relationships deteriorate
• When you are always interested in any discussion or gist involving masturbation;
• You masturbate to the point of self-injury
• When the urge to masturbate always overcome your resolution or decision not to masturbate and
• When you feel you need it to deal with your problems.

You might be wondering why having an orgasm feels so great. As a matter of fact, ejaculating after masturbation feels pretty close to the sensation you get during sex. The reason masturbation is so pleasurable is because your brain gives off “happy” chemicals – endorphins and dopamine. Endorphins are feel-good peptide hormones that relieve both pain and stress. On the other hand, dopamine is a neurotransmitter that makes you feel motivated and concentrated. They are also responsible for masturbation addiction.

This is a habit that’s been heavily built-up your mind, becoming a self-repeating pattern that has taken years to form. There are guys with chronic masturbation issues that have to ejaculate for over 6-7 times in a single day just like me. And each time they masturbate, they become weaker. Sexual exhaustion is a real problem.

Due to the foregoing, it is also important to note that, if you masturbate once, twice or thrice a month, you are not addicted to masturbation; however, it will still have its toll on you eventually.

That been said, masturbation is primarily caused by continuously indulging in masturbation; it then becomes a habit, which leads to addiction. Hence, if you must be free from this addiction, a reversal of this process ought to take place as you will see later in my revealing, expository and mind-blowing book: “MASTURBATION ADDICTION: CAUSES, DANGERS AND PRACTICAL SOLUTIONS”…My 24 years experience.

Wassap…08099449449
Available in eBook and Hard cover!

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Romance / Re: See Gbola! Pretty Lady Uses Fat Long Cucumber To Sex Herself On Instagram Live by xpanciated: 10:10am On Apr 09
Like I said in my book...."Every Lesbian masturbates...and any lady that is addicted to masturbation has the tendency of becoming a lesbian"

I masturbated for good twenty four (24) years….from the age of 4 to 28 years…until I quit five years ago by the grace of God.

Due to the foregoing, I can authoritatively tell you there are several triggers, or preferably factors that fuels masturbation. These triggers could be mental, physical, emotional, social or psychological in nature. Without much ado, I documented Seventeen (17) major triggers or causes of masturbation:

i. Pornographic Materials: This is situation when one is attached or always around audio, visual or written materials that contains explicit sexual contents. Examples of these include: pornographic websites, sexual adverts, pornographic clips, sexual movies, adult magazines/novels, songs depicting sex etc. Once you find yourself always around these materials, you may eventually be tempted to masturbate.

ii. Sexting/Sex-Chat/Audio/Video-Sex Calls: This is one of the most common trigger or method through which many (especially young people between the ages of 15-45) people masturbate. It involves two or more people (usually male and female) texting or chatting what I consider to be ‘sexually arousing, provocative or exciting’. They make use of sexually-vulgar lingos, sexy emoticons, seductive language and exchange of explicit sexually-suggestive words to arouse themselves, which leads to masturbation eventually.
This also applies to audio/video-sex calls. However, in audio-sex, it involves audio communication that is laden with various sexual acts or suggestions. That of video-sex calls involves both parties (i.e the male and the female) seeing each other while masturbating. The funny aspect of this, is the fact that, you must not know the person from the other end to engage in this act. Hence, most ladies have commercialized their bodies for the sole purpose of this act, where men pay and watch them masturbate.

iii. Curiosity: ‘Curiosity kills the cat’, says a popular saying. This is one of the triggers I fell for that led me to masturbate for more than two decades! I ‘mistakenly’ engaged in it just once and since then, I became very curious on what it is all about. That was how I kept on engaging in it until I quitted. Be careful on what triggers your curiosity.

iv. Loneliness: Some psychologists consider masturbation a disease caused by loneliness. Loneliness here means that the person doesn’t have any social interactions with the members of the society and he is deprived of warm and friendly relationships. If loneliness continues, the person might be deprived of his interests.

v. Associating with those who always discuss about Sexual Activities: ‘Show me your friend and I’ll tell you who you are’ is yet another popular saying that depicts the power and influence of association and relationships. What you spend time hearing or seeing becomes part of you! Find your ‘square root’ whenever you find yourself amidst such friends or discussions.

vi. Skin Sensitivity: There are people whose skins are very sensitive to the point that, if they touch their skin or body in an unusual way, they tend to be sexually aroused. In such situation, how do you cope? Just keep reading!

vii. Avoidance of STDs: If you ask most people the reason why they masturbate. The most common response you will get from them is, they are trying to avoid any form of Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs) or unwanted pregnancy (as you will see later). To me, this is just a situation of been in-between the devil and the deep blue sea!
viii. Environments Saturated with Women Dressed Half-naked: If you find yourself in an environment where most of the ladies dress almost unclad, the tendency for you to fall under the grips of masturbation is quite high.

ix. Frustration, Stress and Anxiety: These are major triggers that you ought to watch out for. These emotional triggers have a way of dousing your tension temporarily through masturbation.

Culled from my book "Masturbation Addiction: Causes, Dangers and Practical Solutions" My 24 years experience as a chronic masturbator.
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Poems For Review / Unbroken! by xpanciated: 5:47am On Apr 08
UNBROKEN!

I’ve seen raw hate…not cooked one
I’ve seen green envy not blue one
I’ve experienced concentrated lack…not diluted one
Brother...I’ve seen a drink called gossip!
They forced me to take a sip!
But no matter how hard they try...
I remain....UNBROKEN!

I’ve been disappointed severally
I’ve been betrayed
I’ve been lied against
I’ve been used and dumped
Yes...I’ve been neglected and dejected
I know I have the weaknesses am battling with
But no matter how the devil tries...
...I still remain UNBROKEN!!

She promised love...and I saw pure love
She promised to be there...and she was there
Infact, love was learning work from her
But alas!...when the center could no longer hold
Things must eventually fall apart
Because, when she promised forever...I saw never
Yes...she tried to break me....
But...I'll forever remain Unbroken!!!

©2020 Emmanuel Benjamin (Xpanciated Emmy)
Literature / If U Know What Are People Going Through by xpanciated: 5:39am On Apr 08
IF U KNOW WHAT ARE PEOPLE GOING THROUGH

If you know what people are going through
You won’t be in a hurry to judge and condemn
Coz of the pains and anguish they are in
But well covered up with smiles and laughter
Just to give themselves hope
In a world where people don't really care!

If you understand what people are passing through
Your anger will turn to pity
Coz most people are very broke and needy
Living from hand to mouth...
But they may not utter a word to you
Coz they live by faith
And hoping things will change someday
...Suffering and smiling
In a world where people are less concerned!

If you see what people are experiencing
You won’t just conclude and assume
Cos they are going through a whole lot!
Rather...u will earnestly pray for them
Coz their matter pass your own
You will love them genuinely
Coz of how they still stood strong
In a cold harsh world where almost everyone is 'On-your-Own-O.Y.O'

2020 © Xpanciated Emmy
Romance / Causes Or Triggers Of Masturbation by xpanciated: 5:22am On Apr 08
CAUSES OR TRIGGERS OF MASTURBATION

I masturbated for good twenty four (24) years….from the age of 4 to 28 years…until I quit five years ago by the grace of God.

Due to the foregoing, I can authoritatively tell you there are several triggers, or preferably factors that fuels masturbation. These triggers could be mental, physical, emotional, social or psychological in nature. Without much ado, I documented Seventeen (17) major triggers or causes of masturbation:

i. Pornographic Materials: This is situation when one is attached or always around audio, visual or written materials that contains explicit sexual contents. Examples of these include: pornographic websites, sexual adverts, pornographic clips, sexual movies, adult magazines/novels, songs depicting sex etc. Once you find yourself always around these materials, you may eventually be tempted to masturbate.

ii. Sexting/Sex-Chat/Audio/Video-Sex Calls: This is one of the most common trigger or method through which many (especially young people between the ages of 15-45) people masturbate. It involves two or more people (usually male and female) texting or chatting what I consider to be ‘sexually arousing, provocative or exciting’. They make use of sexually-vulgar lingos, sexy emoticons, seductive language and exchange of explicit sexually-suggestive words to arouse themselves, which leads to masturbation eventually.
This also applies to audio/video-sex calls. However, in audio-sex, it involves audio communication that is laden with various sexual acts or suggestions. That of video-sex calls involves both parties (i.e the male and the female) seeing each other while masturbating. The funny aspect of this, is the fact that, you must not know the person from the other end to engage in this act. Hence, most ladies have commercialized their bodies for the sole purpose of this act, where men pay and watch them masturbate.

iii. Curiosity: ‘Curiosity kills the cat’, says a popular saying. This is one of the triggers I fell for that led me to masturbate for more than two decades! I ‘mistakenly’ engaged in it just once and since then, I became very curious on what it is all about. That was how I kept on engaging in it until I quitted. Be careful on what triggers your curiosity.

iv. Loneliness: Some psychologists consider masturbation a disease caused by loneliness. Loneliness here means that the person doesn’t have any social interactions with the members of the society and he is deprived of warm and friendly relationships. If loneliness continues, the person might be deprived of his interests.

v. Associating with those who always discuss about Sexual Activities: ‘Show me your friend and I’ll tell you who you are’ is yet another popular saying that depicts the power and influence of association and relationships. What you spend time hearing or seeing becomes part of you! Find your ‘square root’ whenever you find yourself amidst such friends or discussions.

vi. Skin Sensitivity: There are people whose skins are very sensitive to the point that, if they touch their skin or body in an unusual way, they tend to be sexually aroused. In such situation, how do you cope? Just keep reading!

vii. Avoidance of STDs: If you ask most people the reason why they masturbate. The most common response you will get from them is, they are trying to avoid any form of Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs) or unwanted pregnancy (as you will see later). To me, this is just a situation of been in-between the devil and the deep blue sea!
viii. Environments Saturated with Women Dressed Half-naked: If you find yourself in an environment where most of the ladies dress almost unclad, the tendency for you to fall under the grips of masturbation is quite high.

ix. Frustration, Stress and Anxiety: These are major triggers that you ought to watch out for. These emotional triggers have a way of dousing your tension temporarily through masturbation. You become a masturbation addict if you always resort to masturbation when faced with any of these emotional triggers.

x. Lasting Diseases/Confinement: There are various illnesses, diseases or disabilities that propel one to masturbate due to their inability to have direct intercourse with their spouse. Confinement, in this context means when one is incarcerated or imprisoned. Such persons don’t always have access to the opposite sex. Hence, they resort to masturbation.

xi. Avoidance of Unwanted Pregnancy: This is similar to item ‘vii’ in the sense that, a lady may feel, instead for her to get unwanted pregnancy, she better succumb to masturbation. Same with a guy, he may use masturbation as an alternative to avoid the trouble that comes with unwanted pregnancy.
xii. Unguarded Thoughts: The Holy Bible says: ‘Guard your heart with all diligence, because out of it comes the issues of life’. Learn to mind your mind by taking into cognizance the type of content you allow to stay in your heart. Learn to dispel any sexual-depicting information from your thoughts and you will be better for it. One of the easiest ways to do that is to enrich and flood your thoughts with positive and productive information.

xiii. Sense of Inferiority: There are folks who find it very difficult to relate to the opposite sex. They feel too ‘unworthy’ or ‘incapable’ for any lady, not to talk of approaching a lady. Such may only fantasize the girl of their dreams and probably masturbate with her image in mind in order to compensate his self esteem. Let me tell you, inferiority only exists in your mind. I’m talking out of personal experience because this trigger also contributed in fuelling my masturbation addiction.

xiv. ‘I Don’t Want to Cheat’ Mentality: There are guys and ladies who feel, in order not to cheat on their partner, they prefer to masturbate to kill the sexual urge when their partner is not around to douse it.
xv. Unsuitable Clothes: The studies conducted by the psychologists and education experts proved that wearing tight clothes, especially a tight pair of jeans may make the teenagers sexually excited and result in masturbating. This implies that, the type of clothe you wear as a lady or guy matters. If the clothe puts you in the ‘mood’, then, you ought to adjust.

xvi. Divorce: In most cases, when couples are divorced, it can force one to want to masturbate due to the absence of the partner.

xvii: ‘No Sex Period’ between partners: There are several instances when there are ‘no sex period’ between couples. This could be as a result of pregnancy, birth, menstruation, illness, disease or quarrel between the couples. Any of these can propel any of them to masturbation.

Culled from my book: “MASTURBATION ADDICTION: CAUSES, DANGERS AND PRACTICAL SOLUTIONS….My Twenty Four (24) Years experience as a Chronic Masturbation Addict”
WASSAP: 08099449449
Email: xpanciated.forever@gmail.com

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Romance / Re: My Strange Observations After Quitting Masturbation by xpanciated: 11:18am On Apr 07
Kingzizu:
Good day,

I've been masturbating at an average of twice a day for the past 8 years, I really can't explain how it got to that level but I was so addicted to it that I could self-service when I'm sick or even fasting.

So recently I decided to call it quit, it's been 1 month now and it seems I'm waking up to the reality of not being in a relationship all my life, I'm 26 BTW and I've never felt so much urge and desire to be in a relationship as I'm feeling right now. I'm always of the opinion that I don't need a girl now and would definitely get one when I'm ready to settle down but it seems very hard for me to approach a girl and the thought of being in a relationship scares me, I feel the relationship might not last, I might not be committed and the girl might get bored and leave.

Through out my stay in the university and my NYSC days I had no single female friend and presently I have no female friend. When I'm in the midst of people I don't give audience at all to any female and might not even speak to them but I have lots of male friends, I know I'm not gay but I just don't feel that need to talk to a girl or keep up with them, I don't even have a single female contact on my phone.

I'm working and fairly comfortable now but I'm beginning to worry that I might not be able to fall in love or even get to approach a lady for any meaningful relationship and the worst of it all is relapsing (start masturbating again). Please I need your advice.

I can relate bruv....I masturbated for 24 years until I quit five years ago....I did an in depth research on the issue and authored a powerful, thoughts provoking, revealing, mind-blowing and expository book titled: "Masturbation Addiction: Causes, Dangers and Practical Solutions" it contains my twenty four years experience in the world of masturbation, oath of secrecy and one month free follow up plan.

Its in eBook and hard cover....check my Sig and recent posts here on NL
U CAN CONTACT ME ON WASAP OR CALL
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Health / Masturbation Facts by xpanciated: 6:54pm On Mar 29
Due to the number of testimonies I do receive daily on my book: “MASTURBATION ADDICTION: CAUSES, DANGERS AND PRACTICAL SOLUTIONS - My 24 years experience as a chronic masturbation addict” I saw the need to update us from time to time on few verified facts about masturbation…let’s go there!

1. Women do masturbate: According to one survey by TENGA, nearly a third of women prefer it to sex. Oh, and in case you weren't aware, trans and gender non-conforming people masturbate too.

2. Masturbation affects the penis: Frequent or overly vigorous masturbation can irritate the skin of the penis, and can injure the urethra in such a way that urine exits the penis not in a stream but in a hard-to-control spray. Barbara Bartlik, MD, a psychiatrist and sex therapist in New York City, says she's seen facedown masturbators with urethral trauma IQ so severe that they are no longer able to use a urinal and must urinate while seated.

3. Affects relationships: Of course, some men become so obsessed with masturbation that they begin to lose interest in having sex with their partner. The resulting hurt feelings and alienation a partner feels can make it hard to sustain the relationship.

4. slow ejaculation: Experts warn that men who frequently masturbate in ways that don't simulate sex with a partner -- for example, stroking very rapidly or with great pressure or friction -- can develop slow ejaculation. That's a type of sexual dysfunction in which it is difficult or even impossible to climax during partnered sex.

5. Leads to prostate cancer: Contrary to previous studies, in a later study published in BJU International, researchers found that frequent masturbation in young men raised the risk for prostate cancer.

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Religion / Re: Corona Virus: The Sleeping Church by xpanciated: 6:31pm On Mar 26
Samunique:
Christianity has suffered alot in Nigeria from the internal and external enemies, through severe persecutions, killings, destruction of christian properties, most especially in the north, and also, political manipulations to choke the church growth. But inspite of all these, the church has always come out strong.

However, the most deadly war, which the church is not taking seriously in Nigeria now, that may consume the church very soon, is the e-war, online sponsored lies and propagandas by the enemies of the church, 80% of which is coming from the camp of the other religion.

Ever since that particular religion was exposed for its lies and terror inclinations as a result of many deadly terror attacks being carried out on daily basis here in Nigeria and all over the world, their camp here in Nigeria has drawn up evil plans to destroy the church using online lies and propagandas through some machinations and paid agents, to dig out videos, so many other things to desecrate and discredit christian faith.

If you notice, our top men of God in Nigeria are being attacked and ridiculed daily all over the cyberspace in Nigeria.
Why ? Bcs that's the agenda! "since they call us terrorists let us call them thieves". and destroy them through our tongues!!!

But my biggest worries are these,
So many of the so called Nigerian christians are ignorant of this thereby falling for the scam, while many are even helping the enemies ignorantly to achieve their goal by dancing to their tunes,not knowing that the music is from the camp of the enemy.

Lastly, u said Islam is the predominant religion in Nigeria?
That's the biggest lie they tried to sell to us!!!

I repeat, it's the biggest lie of the millennium!!!

I will send you a link later, by a nairaland brother, it may be of help to you for some research on your own.

Meanwhile, shout-out to the op !!!

@Xpanciated


I'm so grateful for ur contributions...Thanks a milla! I agree with what you posted...
Religion / Re: Corona Virus: The Sleeping Church by xpanciated: 5:46am On Mar 25
Eviana:



First off, very interesting OP @ xpanciated.
I agree with most of what you wrote.

Samunique,
Very well written.
Just scrolling down the Religion section looking at the titles here on Nairaland, makes me sorrowfully pity Nigerians.
When I think I've seen it all, something new pops up beyond my imagination.
I agree with you though that the enemy and his minions have been waiting for the chance to fully blame the religion of Christianity...note that I said Christianity....for what's occurring.
Remember:

Ephesians 6:12-18 (KJV)


12 For we wrestle not against flesh and blood, but against principalities, against powers, against the rulers of the darkness of this world, against spiritual wickedness in high places.

13 Wherefore take unto you the whole armour of God, that ye may be able to withstand in the evil day, and having done all, to stand.

14 Stand therefore, having your loins girt about with truth, and having on the breastplate of righteousness;

15 And your feet shod with the preparation of the gospel of peace;

16 Above all, taking the shield of faith, wherewith ye shall be able to quench all the fiery darts of the wicked.

17 And take the helmet of salvation, and the sword of the Spirit, which is the word of God:

18 Praying always with all prayer and supplication in the Spirit, and watching thereunto with all perseverance and supplication for all saints


I have to remind myself of the above quote when I come to Nairaland, because sometimes I actually envision little demons typing away invisibly and giggling with a high-pitched screeching voice saying,
" I got em' now..heeheehee!"
However, it's human beings fully demonically possessed sitting at their computers, devices or typing ferociously and rapidly on their phones like starving wolves.

They have allowed the enemy access, turned their ears away from truth and have been blinded. They now are completely taken over used by satan sadly.
Only a very few will eventually repent and surrender.

2 Peter 3:3-9 (KJV)


3 Knowing this first, that there shall come in the last days scoffers, walking after their own lusts,

4 And saying, Where is the promise of his coming? for since the fathers fell asleep, all things continue as they were from the beginning of the creation.

5 For this they willingly are ignorant of, that by the word of God the heavens were of old, and the earth standing out of the water and in the water:

6 Whereby the world that then was, being overflowed with water, perished:

7 But the heavens and the earth, which are now, by the same word are kept in store, reserved unto fire against the day of judgment and perdition of ungodly men.

8 But, beloved, be not ignorant of this one thing, that one day is with the Lord as a thousand years, and a thousand years as one day.

9 The Lord is not slack concerning his promise, as some men count slackness; but is longsuffering to us-ward, not willing that any should perish, but that all should come to repentance.


I haven't experienced folks here in the U.S. blaming the church. Of course Nigeria would mock and blame the church because there is a blatant war specifically against Christianity there.
I read about it daily right here on Nairaland.
Which I find so interesting because, if "religion" is to blame and Islam is the predominate religion over there then....blame would have to go....um...hmmm.....oh nevermind before I get censored or threatened.
However, prophecy tells us that the whole world will persecute those who stand for Christ Jesus...so I'm sure there are little pockets here and there in the U.S. who also like Nairaland/some Nigerians want to blame the church.

I so love the Lord and His Word because He tells us what will happen.
We may not know the exact time and date, but we should always be sober and vigilante.
You said it correctly though by stressing that God is trying to say something.?





Wow! I sincerly do appreciate ur take on this and ur indepthness on the issue....I'm seriously learning! Tanks a bunch!

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Religion / Re: Corona Virus: The Sleeping Church by xpanciated: 5:43am On Mar 25
Samunique:
Thanks op for this beautiful write up.

However, in a situation like this, we need to actually know what God is saying. The church is not responsible for this pandemic problem but the world itself.

And the world itself is not ready to ask for the help of the church, rather, it has chosen to mock and castigate the church and her children for what she knows nothing about. In fact, it's looking like the whole thing was plotted from the pit of hell to ridicule the church.

Before now, science and religion has been on each other's neck, with the formal being used as a manipulative tool against the religion and the existence of God by the power that be, even though the religion in some aspects is also scientific.

What a perfect time such as this for the world to make mockery of what they have always wanted to, even though they are dying.

Now, go round the nairaland and other social media platforms, u will be amazed at what people are vomiting against the church as if she is the one responsible for this scourge.

Then what do you want the church to in this situation?

Is the world ready to humble itself before God?

Even the Bible says, "Jesus could not perform much miracle in His home town bcs of their unbelieve".

I can assure you that millons of believers are praying over this case , you and I inclusive, but then, the will of God must also be done.

The question is , what's the mind of God?
What's He saying in this situation, this is the area I will agree with you that the church needs to wake up, bcs the Bible says, there's always a reason and purpose for anything that happens under the sun.




Thanks so much sir....I perfectly understand what you said and you're on point....the mind of God in times like this is crucial!
Religion / Corona Virus: The Sleeping Church by xpanciated: 6:08pm On Mar 23
THE CHURCH IS SLEEPING…
The church has been sleeping…
This includes me, myself and I…
Corona virus is out and all I see among most Christians is fear, unbelief, doubt and confusion…
How come, the rapid spread of Corona Virus is waking some of us up to start taking our walk with God seriously?
As a church, are we not supposed to be proactive? Why are we mostly reactive to issues?
Then, of what use is the precious gift of the Holy Spirit given to us by God?
Of what use is the power of God at work in us? What use is the Rhema we claim to have?
Were we not born for a time as this? Why do we scamper for safety together with the world that ought to run to us to guide them on how to be safe?
Is this not the issue of identity crisis?

I bless God for the continuous spiritual investments of prayers and intercessions by genuine believers, evangelists, prophets, apostles, pastors and our fathers of faith….
In the situations before us….What would Jesus have done in times like this?
What would the apostles do in moments like this?
What would have happened if it were during the times of God’s generals like the Azusa street revival?
Is the God of those times different from the God of today?
Where have we lost or missed it?
Instead of us to bring the world to a standstill by spreading CHRIST HOLY VIRUS, we are grounded by the world system….were we not meant to invade cosmos?

Finally…in this ship we are in….
It’s about to sink coz of the storm of corona virus…
But THE CHURCH IS STILL SLEEPING inside this ship just the way Jesus did…and the world has been waking us up to save them from this pandemic storm…
But…until we decide to WAKE UP with ONE VOICE and ONE BODY as a church to calm this storm and many more to come….we may be at the mercy and dictates of what the COVID-19 chooses to impose on us…that WILL NOT be our portion in Jesus Name.

Emmanuel ‘Xpanciated’ Benjamin

Religion / Re: How God Saved Me From Masturbation And Pornography Addiction After 10 Years by xpanciated: 1:17pm On Feb 23
Op....praize God for ur testimony....I masturbated for twenty four (24) years. I was a chronic masturbator addict. But I stopped five years ago by the grace of God through several practical steps. I wrote a book on it and it will help you....contact me for the eBook or hard copy....08099449449

Religion / Re: Spiritual Implications Of Masturbation: My 24 Years As An Addict by xpanciated: 4:20pm On Jan 15
[quote author=ojaysam25 post=85797630]does masturbation have side effects apart from the spiritual aspect of it...pls I would like to know.[/quotee]

Why not sir? It's all in the book! I masturbated for 24 years. I've interviewed more than a hundred masturbation addicts....I've distributed more than five hundred questionnaires over the years getting relevant info on the effects and I've researched from various scientifically proven literatures....
Religion / Re: Spiritual Implications Of Masturbation: My 24 Years As An Addict by xpanciated: 12:00pm On Jan 14
Abuventure:
masturbation is a sin of lust and the bible condemns it. it also show one's lack of self-control.

Tanks so much! More blessings!
Religion / Re: Spiritual Implications Of Masturbation: My 24 Years As An Addict by xpanciated: 11:58am On Jan 14
bigiyaro:
I know many well to do individuals that masturbate, and their lives are going real well, infact masturbation completely removed the chances of promiscuity in many people's lives hence they escaped so many heart aches n diseases, i know of a mopol driver that bought a vibrator for his wife, she was sex starved as hubby was mostly at special duty, and naturally she began hunting but the issue was quickly solved. masturbating cures or somewhat solves the problem of premature ejaculation, it elongates the joystick too. one can masturbate to relive sexual tension instead of raping or patronising oloshos untill ur babe comes around. Ain't nothing dangerous about it, but just like every thing, too much of it is bad.

Tanks so much....the book is scoped mainly for addicts who are already neck-deep into it without control....
Family / Re: Masturbation Techniques For Males And Females by xpanciated: 11:56am On Jan 14
saintneo:
OP: please repent.

I didn't bother read this crap.

The world needs normal humans that can socialize. Masturbation kills the social life of humans as well as godly connection and protection.

U got me all wrong...
It wasn't intended to promote masturbation at all
At least you could have read the disclaimer.
Religion / Re: Spiritual Implications Of Masturbation: My 24 Years As An Addict by xpanciated: 7:02am On Jan 14
Ladylite:
Masturbation does not affect your relationship with God.

Bros your points are very non scriptural. Please where did you hear sperm bank? Did your Bible show it to you or you just listened to some pastor who seems to have some results and mentioned it. Yes it it a sin but no different from lying or fornication, so which on is sperm bank again.

Your understanding of sin and the gospel is messed up on a big scale and your book will not sell. Because you are selling the problem, Rather than goodnews.

So if God is truly our father then our sins will make him far from us? Is that how your own biological father treated you? Or you think we are in the old testament where sin makes God far?

Did Abraham repent of the lies he told, did Isaac? Even Jacob was the first yahoo guy and God was still with him. Let us visit CAIN... He was plotting evil and after the evil God still spoke to him and they communicated well to the point God even protected him... So please stop erecting false doctrines from hell.

If a person, a Christian will stop the habit, it will start from their mind, not really their spirit. So unless you are holding a deliverance service, books with prayer points will not help anyone. Even you were not delivered like that.

Let's stop deceiving ourselves. This is why Christians in Nigeria are finding out bitter truths that make them think it's all a scam.

I sincerely do appreciate ur submissions on my post. However, it is very crucial I draw ur attention to certain facts u may be unaware of:
1. I'm glad u accepted it is a sin.
2. Does sin affect our consecration to God? If you say no....then what is the essence of Isaiah 59:1 and 1 Corinthians 6:9-10?
3. For ur info...I have sent free copies to many so...its wrong to conclude DAT I'm only after selling the book. Why will I want to do free one month follow up if I'm not sure of the result I'll get?
4. You may have ur different view, which I'm not against but don't encapsulate ur experience or view as the final.
5. In fact, the practical solutions DAT focuses on the mind in the book is contained in about 9 pages while the spiritual aspect is just a page and half. Why judge when you don't have the clear picture of the book?
6. Through out my 24 years as a masturbation addict, did I mention DAT God abandoned me or I never had relationship with Him? Was it not out of His infinite mercies through my relationship with Him DAT He exposed me to the light?
7. Who am I to judge or condemn anyone when I'm a product of His mercies?
8. You only have a pixel idea of the book and not the whole picture of the book....so...its too early to judge please. It has been working for those who sincerely want to quit.
Religion / Re: Spiritual Implications Of Masturbation: My 24 Years As An Addict by xpanciated: 6:33am On Jan 14
RiyadhGoddess:
Op you are a very wicked person. Stop confusing people. Just come out straight that you are here to sell your book and only fools will buy your copy and paste book.
The first thread you opened, you were teaching Masturbation techniques and now you are talking about the spiritual consequences of masturbation... Oga fun e ooo.

Calling me a wicked person is a very weak way to start my dear.

I'm not holding anyone by the jugular to get d book.

If you can proof beyond any reasonable doubt here that what I posted on the techniques of masturbation was copy and paste, then you are free to call me a wicked person.

Seems u didn't read d disclaimer before I went ahead with the techniques. Can u write on the evils or dangers of examination malpractice without highlighting the types? It was only meant to guide the reader to be aware or wary please.

The risks or effects cuts across spiritual lines...
Health / Re: What You Don't Know About Masturbation! by xpanciated: 6:28am On Jan 14
knowyaself2:

I await your submission on the scientifically tested and proven evidence. Thanks

With all due respect....I did an indepth research and the scientifically tested proofs are littered in the book, backed up with concrete references at the bibliography...

I won't burn my energy here explaining to you what I have taken time to explain in this expository book.

May I remind you that...you are not under compulsion or duress to get the book but, those who truly need it understands better.
Family / Re: Masturbation Techniques For Males And Females by xpanciated: 6:21am On Jan 14
RiyadhGoddess:
Op you are a very wicked person. Stop confusing people. Just come out straight that you are here to sell your book and only fools will buy your copy and paste book.
The second thread you opened, you said Masturbation has spiritual consequences and now you are talking about the different techniques of masturbation... Oga fun e ooo.

Calling me a wicked person is a very weak way to start my dear.

I'm not holding anyone by the jugular to get d book.

If you can proof beyond any reasonable doubt here that what I posted on the techniques of masturbation was copy and paste, then you are free to call me a wicked person.

Seems u didn't read d disclaimer before I went ahead with the techniques. Can u write on the evils or dangers of examination malpractice without highlighting the types? It was only meant to guide the reader to be aware or wary please.

The risks or effects cuts across spiritual lines...
Health / Re: What You Don't Know About Masturbation! by xpanciated: 6:10am On Jan 14
knowyaself2:
Masturbation is 100% safe and healthy, stop misleading people. Religious folks, Christians in particular, are the ones making it look like an evil act.

Was I referring to masturbation or masturbation addiction

If you want to talk about the safe side of masturbation....what happens if you put it on a scale as against its side effects??

You may have ur proofs that it's 100% safe, what if I bring scientifically tested and proven evidence of its social, psychological, emotional, health and physical dangers, effects and risks?

Mind you....the book is nothing close to religious coloration....may I remind you never to judge or conclude on this book by its cover or my post?
Religion / Spiritual Implications Of Masturbation: My 24 Years As An Addict by xpanciated: 5:39am On Jan 14
If none have ever told you before, I will inform you now that, masturbation has it’s spiritual element on the very high side. For instance, the following are the spiritual implications of masturbation addiction:

i. Guilt: If you must be sincere with yourself, don’t you feel this guilt each time you finish masturbating? You then become helpless. This guilt lowers your self esteem and makes you always feel unworthy before God.

ii. An Opening for the Free Operations of Demons in your Life: Each time you masturbate, believe it or not, it opens your life to the free op.erations of demons. You will agree with me that, you are not always comfortable with your dream life if you are a chronic masturbator. You will also agree with me that, there are things that happen to you that you don’t understand but deep you know, something demonic is behind some of your predicaments. These are demons having a field day in your life because you opened the door of your spirit to them. Frankly speaking, each time you masturbate, you are depositing your destiny to the demonic spiritual sperm bank, making you not to understand your life adequately.
iii. Invitation of Spiritual Husbands and Wives in your Life: Masturbation gives invitation to spiritual husbands and wives to hold you down in perpetual bondage. This will make you not to enjoy your relationship or marriage.

iv. Negatively affects your Consecration to God: Consistent masturbation affects your commitment to God. It affects your prayer life negatively, it makes you have less or not faith in God, you can’t claim to live a holy life with continuous masturbation. Hence, in summary, you consecration to God is affected negatively.

Culled from my expository, revealing and explosive e-book on masturbation on my 24 years experience as a chronic masturbation addict and practical steps on how I quit five years ago! Order now! And enjoy one month free one-on-one follow up to break free!

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Family / Masturbation Techniques For Males And Females by xpanciated: 4:57am On Jan 14
For more than a decade now, I have researched, interviewed, observed and heard one-on-one life experiences of people (males and females) engaged in the act of masturbation. The following methods of masturbation are the basic ways through which people masturbate. I can bet you, if you’ve ever masturbated or you know of one who does, it must be through one or more of the following methods of masturbation.

The honest truth is, I didn’t intend to include this sub-topic in this book due to its ‘implications’. However, I realize that, it will help many to be aware and be wary whenever they notice any of the following methods of masturbation anywhere:

FOR MALES:

It is important I point out clearly here that, it’s difficult to masturbate without watching a sexual content or harboring a sexual image in your imagination. Hence, the following methods of masturbation are used by males with a sexual fantasy in their imaginations:

i. Handful/Lubricant Method: This is the act of grasping and rubbing to and fro of one’s penis with soap or Vaseline or any lubricant till he ejaculates. This gives the feeling as if he is involved in sex with the opposite sex.

ii. Thrusting Method: This is the act of creating or digging a hole in a soft material like mattress through which the male can insert his penis and keep thrusting in and out as if he is having sex with a female until he ejaculates.

iii. Frictional Method: This method involves scrubbing to and fro, faced on a flat or soft surface so as to create friction between your genitals and the surface. It produces pleasurable sensations that eventually lead to ejaculation. This was the method I was accustomed to.

iv. Helping-Hand method: This is a situation when another person (male or female) manipulates your genitals through any means for you to ejaculate.

v. Compression Method: This is a situation where you twist your legs to compress and scrub your genitals till you ejaculate. This method is used mostly in public places where one is attracted to a lady he is seeing.


FOR FEMALES:

Just like their male counterparts, the following methods of masturbation are used by females with a sexual fantasy in their imaginations:

i. Insertion Method: This is the use of fruits and materials like cucumber, candle, banana, plantain to insert or thrust in and out of the vagina to attain sexual pleasure or orgasm.

ii. Compression Method: This is a situation where you twist your legs to compress and scrub your genitals till you reach orgasm. This method is used mostly in public places where one is attracted to the opposite sex she is seeing.

iii. Fingering Method: This is the act of using your fingers to massage, manipulate and finger your genitals to achieve sexual pleasure.

iv. Sex-Toy Method: This involves the use of vibrators and other artificial tools to achieve orgasm and sexual pleasure.

v. Helping-Hand method: This is a situation when another person (male or female) manipulates your genitals through any means for you to orgasm.

For more original and deeper insight on masturbation addiction based on my 24 years masturbation addiction and how I quit five years ago....Order for my new and highly anticipated book and quit masturbation in one month!: "Masturbation Addiction: Causes, Effects and Practical Solutions". I'll follow u up one-on-one online for free.

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Health / What You Don't Know About Masturbation! by xpanciated: 4:17am On Jan 14
I started masturbating at the tender age of for to twenty eight years. Meaning, I masturbated for good twenty four years! the physical, health, mental, spiritual, emotional, academic and psychological effects are devasting!
I stopped five years ago and still counting!
How was I able to stop?

What is it that you don't know about masturbation DAT has been hindering you from quitting the act?

It's all revealed practically in my new revealing and expository e-book: Masturbation Addiction: Causes, Dangers and Practical Solutions"
It comes with a free one-on-one follow-up with me!
Get for urself or friend!
080-9944-9449...(fb: Emmanuel Benjamin (Xpanciated).... xpanciatedmindz@gmail.com

Romance / My 24 Years As A Chronic Masturbation Addict! by xpanciated: 3:51am On Jan 14
I masturbated for good twenty four years! the physical, health, mental, spiritual, emotional, academic and psychological effects are devasting!
I stopped five years ago and still counting!
How was I able to stop?
It's all revealed practically in my new revealing and expository e-book: Masturbation Addiction: Causes, Dangers and Practical Solutions"
It comes with a free one-on-one follow-up with me!
Get for urself or friend!
080-9944-9449...(fb: Emmanuel Benjamin (Xpanciated).... xpanciatedmindz@gmail.com

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Literature / Motivational Fever by xpanciated: 4:16pm On Sep 15, 2019
Motivational and inspirational books and materials has infiltrated our personal libraries and cyberspace to the extent that almost every youth can boast of reading a handful of such motivational or inspirational books by Robert Kiyosaki, Zig Ziglar, John Mason, Napoleon Hill, Robert Greene amongst a host of others.

However, what beats my imagination is the fact that, despite all these motivational books they read and insightful seminars they attend, the ecstatic, zealous and passionate feeling that comes immediately is quite awesome and mind-blowing! But, after a couple of days, all the zeal, drive and passion will be evaporated into thin air: this is what I call MOTIVATIONAL FEVER. It simply means the period or time taken to retain an inspirational/motivational thought, feeling or idea before it evapourates.

DANGERS OF MOTIVATIONAL FEVER

The following are ways through which motivational fever can affect you negatively:
It leads to procrastination
It leads to delay in achieving success
It makes one confused
It keeps you distracted
It feeds you with false hope
It gives you an untested confidence
It makes one’s life to be retrogressive, circular or stagnant

How then, can you make the best of every inspiration?

WAYS OUT

Focus on one book or source of motivation until you begin to experience practical result in your life before venturing into another.
Be patient to try one method exhaustively first before venturing into another.
Remember, it is not the number of motivated books you read that matters but the ones you put into use and works for you.
If you have put all the inspirational messages and motivational books into use, your life won’t be at this stage. So, please focus on even just one book that will change your life forever.

If you adopt these, it will save your waste of precious time, resources and energy, which will further boost your productivity, value and essence.

Your Friend,

Xpanciated Emmy

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