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I MASTURBATED FOR 24 YEARS! AND QUITTED 5 YEARS AGO!

Masturbation is a highly controversial subject that has left many confused as ever even among believers.
Many who engage in it are seeking for ways to quit but no matter how hard they try...they still fall back (relapse). Despite all the prayers and fasting....no avail.

1. What is masturbation all about?
2. What are the various types of male and female masturbation?
3. Why is it difficult to quit masturbation no matter how hard you try?
4. What was my addiction to masturbation for 24 years like?
5. How was I able to quit 5 years ago?
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legendEMT:
congratulations sir, I pray many more under this spirit are delivered and liberated too in Jesus Name, amen.

Amen

pcguru1:
lol haba that one join too, I am just impressed he wrote a book and I want to buy but congrats OP also , have you also though about selling on Okada books too ?

Wow! Tanks so much....lemme check it out sir

pcguru1:
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kenzysmith:
U worst past me o 24 wetin

Lolllzzss!!!! It's all in the past now sha

Tanks

pcguru1:
Congratulations on your book.

I MASTURBATED FOR 24 YEARS! AND QUITTED 5 YEARS AGO!

Masturbation is a highly controversial subject that has left many confused as ever.
Many who engage in it are seeking for ways to quit but no matter how hard they try...they still fall back (relapse).

1. What is masturbation all about?
2. What are the various types male and female masturbation?
3. Why is it difficult to quit masturbation no matter how hard you try?
4. What was my addiction to masturbation for 24 years like?
5. How was I able to quit 5 years ago?
6. What are the dangers/effects of masturbation addiction?
7. What are the practical ways to quit and get your life back again?

THESE AND MANY OTHER QUESTIONS WERE ANSWERED IN THIS MIND-BLOWING EXPOSITORY BOOK: "MASTURBATION ADDICTION: CAUSES, DANGERS AND PRACTICAL SOLUTIONS"

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Aplaudez:
I'll reach out! I know you're married, how many kids do you have now

good morning sir....I'll be expecting you.....I'm not married yet...lols

Good Morning Nairalanders...

Over the years, I read online how many battle and struggle with masturbation.
I also read how many defend masturbation and provide its benefits.

Anyway, this post is meant solely for those who have masturbated for years and have seen the negative effects on their relationships, sex life, health, spirituality, emotionally and physically and sincerely wish to quit within a month through my one on one follow up for FREE.

Personally, I masturbated for good TWENTY FOUR (24) YEARS and I quit FIVE YEARS (5) ago by the help of God and certain simple principles as embedded in my book (eBook and Hard cover): "MASTURBATION ADDICTION: CAUSES, DANGERS AND PRACTICAL SOLUTIONS" It contains in details my 24 years experience and how I was able to quit...I know how masturbation dealt with me friends.

Please be guided. I'm not here to judge anyone (I'm also a victim for 24 years). Mind you, masturbation is a natural feeling. The major problem arises when you can't do without it anymore and when it has started affecting your life negatively.

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Good Morning Nairalanders...

Over the years, I read online how many battle and struggle with masturbation.
I also read how many defend masturbation and provide its benefits.

Anyway, this post is meant solely for those who have masturbated for years and have seen the negative effects on their health and sincerely wish to quit within a month through my one on one follow up for FREE.

Personally, I masturbated for good TWENTY FOUR (24) YEARS and I quit FIVE YEARS (5) ago by the help of God and certain simple principles as embedded in my book (eBook and Hard cover): "MASTURBATION ADDICTION: CAUSES, DANGERS AND PRACTICAL SOLUTIONS" It contains in details my 24 years experience and how i was able to quit...

I'm not here to judge anyone (I'm also a victim for 24 years). Mind you, masturbation i a natural feeling. The major problem arises when you can't do without it anymore and when it has started affecting your life negatively.

Do you need help on masturbation?
Do you know of anyone struggling with masturbation?
Do you need more info on Masturbation

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Heylonmusk:
So I created this account few minutes ago to seek for help,

I am an undergraduate in a popular Nigerian University, I was first introduced to porn in secondary school and it was fun but I got over it later.

I'm 18+ now btw.


The issue is sometimes (like one in three weeks) when I sleep, I release cum ,I guess it's normal for my age (wet dream).

I've never released while conscious so during this lockdown, after watching a scene from money heist, I decided to see if I can release on my own so I watched porn and imitate their up and down movement on my bed and I get to release, but the problem now is I get to do it every night and when I'm alone l, even without data I will use freebasics to view some pictures in romance section, repeat the movement and cum during the process.

I KNOW IT WOULD AFFECT ME ONE DAY SO I NEED ADVICE ON HOW TO STOP.


I've decided on my inner self in stopping but the sweetness I enjoy when releasing keeps calling me.


Please I Don't know if it qualifies to be called masturbating because I know masturbating is mostly by hands.
PS: I've never had a girlfriend and I don't use my hands and soap before just up and down movement.

Insults and criticism are welcome.

Thanks as you advise me.

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M00N:
Good Evening Nairalanders

I have a young friend of mine who has been masturbating since he was eleven years old and he is going to be twenty this year. His parents are divorced and he does not live with any of them.

We where talking today and he confided in me that he's been masturbating since he was eleven and that he has been struggling to stop out of guilt but he eventually stopped trying ever since he saw that it was almost impossible so he continued.

But I tried to encourage him to stop because I have been there. I started when I was in the university and struggled till 2018 when I eventually got more control. I realized that while I was still a chronic masturbator that I had almost no drive to succeed in anything which affected me a lot because I kept to my self, had no friends, felt guilty, weak and empty but my friend argued that he won't even bother trying because it was just impossible and doctors say it's healthy to masturbate, I argued that those doctors were lying and that it is not Scripturally okay but he also argued that were in the bible is it written? and I couldn't argue more cause I also relapse at times.

So please, that is why I have come here to ask for the advice on how to encourage him to keep on fighting against addiction and what bible verses can I quote for him?

I masturbated for twenty four (24) years and quitted five years ago. Masturbation has dire spiritual implications. There are scriptures available in the Bible that discourages any form of sexual immorality or perversion which masturbation is part of.

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Ekakamba:
Just like having headache and avoiding Panadol.

@OP, but how comes that most successful people mass-tube-bait? Is it the spirit of wealth/success that take control over them?

1. That depends on ur definition of success.
2. Among those key areas I mentioned, masturbation sure affects one, two or all of the areas I mentioned.
3. I have had the rare opportunity of counselling the so called 'successful/wealthy' people and they have inner pains they can't show the world.
4. Those addicted to masturbation knows exactly what I'm talking about.
.....Thanks for ur submission though.

RAW FACT ON MASTURBATION.
You sleep with a male or female...
You call it sex.
You arouse yourself and ejaculate alone...
You call it masturbation.

Should i be very candid with you?
Each time you masturbate...
You are having sex with a spirit (demon)
Which eventually leads to soul ties with that spirit...
Just same way you are joined as one, the moment you have sex with anyone.
Then, the demon is at will to affect any area of ur destiny...
Especially your finances, relationships and marriage.

If that soul tie is not broken...
I'm afraid to be the carrier of bad news...
They will keep affecting key areas of your destiny.

I masturbated for 24 years before i quitted 5 years ago and i have counselled more than a 1,000 people on the issue of masturbation so....
Please, before you argue, doubt or criticize me...
Ask the Lord to reveal the authenticity of what i just posted, to you.

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Scientists:
Don't stress yourself writing long Epistle. Who told you that I want to stop?

I even Thank God. If not, by now Women for Don finish my money, Disease, Virus, e.t.c which may affect my ability to give birth.

I will only stop when I marry. If my wife do shakara for me over sex, I will continue fucking my hand.

Its alright bruv....but I believe there are many out there who really wants to stop....such time will always come....wish u best bruv....

I was addicted to masturbation for 24 years. I understand what you are talking about because, I’ve experienced worse scenarios but I can tell you that, I was able to quit 5 years ago!
Masturbation addiction in this context refers to a situation when you cannot do without masturbation. You are said to be addicted to masturbation if the following holds true in your life:
• When you find masturbation continuously attractive;
• You Keep masturbating even though there are clear negative consequences;
• When you find masturbation irresistible;
• When you attempt to keep your masturbation secret;
• When masturbation becomes a daily/weekly routine or practice;
• You use masturbation as a way to cope
• When you can't seem to stop yourself from masturbating;
• Your personal relationships deteriorate
• When you are always interested in any discussion or gist involving masturbation;
• You masturbate to the point of self-injury
• When the urge to masturbate always overcome your resolution or decision not to masturbate and
• When you feel you need it to deal with your problems.

You might be wondering why having an orgasm feels so great. As a matter of fact, ejaculating after masturbation feels pretty close to the sensation you get during sex. The reason masturbation is so pleasurable is because your brain gives off “happy” chemicals – endorphins and dopamine. Endorphins are feel-good peptide hormones that relieve both pain and stress. On the other hand, dopamine is a neurotransmitter that makes you feel motivated and concentrated. They are also responsible for masturbation addiction.

This is a habit that’s been heavily built-up your mind, becoming a self-repeating pattern that has taken years to form. There are guys with chronic masturbation issues that have to ejaculate for over 6-7 times in a single day just like me. And each time they masturbate, they become weaker. Sexual exhaustion is a real problem.

Due to the foregoing, it is also important to note that, if you masturbate once, twice or thrice a month, you are not addicted to masturbation; however, it will still have its toll on you eventually.

That been said, masturbation is primarily caused by continuously indulging in masturbation; it then becomes a habit, which leads to addiction. Hence, if you must be free from this addiction, a reversal of this process ought to take place as you will see later in my revealing, expository and mind-blowing book: “MASTURBATION ADDICTION: CAUSES, DANGERS AND PRACTICAL SOLUTIONS”…My 24 years experience.

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Like I said in my book...."Every Lesbian masturbates...and any lady that is addicted to masturbation has the tendency of becoming a lesbian"

I masturbated for good twenty four (24) years….from the age of 4 to 28 years…until I quit five years ago by the grace of God.

Due to the foregoing, I can authoritatively tell you there are several triggers, or preferably factors that fuels masturbation. These triggers could be mental, physical, emotional, social or psychological in nature. Without much ado, I documented Seventeen (17) major triggers or causes of masturbation:

i. Pornographic Materials: This is situation when one is attached or always around audio, visual or written materials that contains explicit sexual contents. Examples of these include: pornographic websites, sexual adverts, pornographic clips, sexual movies, adult magazines/novels, songs depicting sex etc. Once you find yourself always around these materials, you may eventually be tempted to masturbate.

ii. Sexting/Sex-Chat/Audio/Video-Sex Calls: This is one of the most common trigger or method through which many (especially young people between the ages of 15-45) people masturbate. It involves two or more people (usually male and female) texting or chatting what I consider to be ‘sexually arousing, provocative or exciting’. They make use of sexually-vulgar lingos, sexy emoticons, seductive language and exchange of explicit sexually-suggestive words to arouse themselves, which leads to masturbation eventually.
This also applies to audio/video-sex calls. However, in audio-sex, it involves audio communication that is laden with various sexual acts or suggestions. That of video-sex calls involves both parties (i.e the male and the female) seeing each other while masturbating. The funny aspect of this, is the fact that, you must not know the person from the other end to engage in this act. Hence, most ladies have commercialized their bodies for the sole purpose of this act, where men pay and watch them masturbate.

iii. Curiosity: ‘Curiosity kills the cat’, says a popular saying. This is one of the triggers I fell for that led me to masturbate for more than two decades! I ‘mistakenly’ engaged in it just once and since then, I became very curious on what it is all about. That was how I kept on engaging in it until I quitted. Be careful on what triggers your curiosity.

iv. Loneliness: Some psychologists consider masturbation a disease caused by loneliness. Loneliness here means that the person doesn’t have any social interactions with the members of the society and he is deprived of warm and friendly relationships. If loneliness continues, the person might be deprived of his interests.

v. Associating with those who always discuss about Sexual Activities: ‘Show me your friend and I’ll tell you who you are’ is yet another popular saying that depicts the power and influence of association and relationships. What you spend time hearing or seeing becomes part of you! Find your ‘square root’ whenever you find yourself amidst such friends or discussions.

vi. Skin Sensitivity: There are people whose skins are very sensitive to the point that, if they touch their skin or body in an unusual way, they tend to be sexually aroused. In such situation, how do you cope? Just keep reading!

vii. Avoidance of STDs: If you ask most people the reason why they masturbate. The most common response you will get from them is, they are trying to avoid any form of Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs) or unwanted pregnancy (as you will see later). To me, this is just a situation of been in-between the devil and the deep blue sea!
viii. Environments Saturated with Women Dressed Half-naked: If you find yourself in an environment where most of the ladies dress almost unclad, the tendency for you to fall under the grips of masturbation is quite high.

ix. Frustration, Stress and Anxiety: These are major triggers that you ought to watch out for. These emotional triggers have a way of dousing your tension temporarily through masturbation.

Culled from my book "Masturbation Addiction: Causes, Dangers and Practical Solutions" My 24 years experience as a chronic masturbator.
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CAUSES OR TRIGGERS OF MASTURBATION

I masturbated for good twenty four (24) years….from the age of 4 to 28 years…until I quit five years ago by the grace of God.

Due to the foregoing, I can authoritatively tell you there are several triggers, or preferably factors that fuels masturbation. These triggers could be mental, physical, emotional, social or psychological in nature. Without much ado, I documented Seventeen (17) major triggers or causes of masturbation:

i. Pornographic Materials: This is situation when one is attached or always around audio, visual or written materials that contains explicit sexual contents. Examples of these include: pornographic websites, sexual adverts, pornographic clips, sexual movies, adult magazines/novels, songs depicting sex etc. Once you find yourself always around these materials, you may eventually be tempted to masturbate.

ii. Sexting/Sex-Chat/Audio/Video-Sex Calls: This is one of the most common trigger or method through which many (especially young people between the ages of 15-45) people masturbate. It involves two or more people (usually male and female) texting or chatting what I consider to be ‘sexually arousing, provocative or exciting’. They make use of sexually-vulgar lingos, sexy emoticons, seductive language and exchange of explicit sexually-suggestive words to arouse themselves, which leads to masturbation eventually.
This also applies to audio/video-sex calls. However, in audio-sex, it involves audio communication that is laden with various sexual acts or suggestions. That of video-sex calls involves both parties (i.e the male and the female) seeing each other while masturbating. The funny aspect of this, is the fact that, you must not know the person from the other end to engage in this act. Hence, most ladies have commercialized their bodies for the sole purpose of this act, where men pay and watch them masturbate.

iii. Curiosity: ‘Curiosity kills the cat’, says a popular saying. This is one of the triggers I fell for that led me to masturbate for more than two decades! I ‘mistakenly’ engaged in it just once and since then, I became very curious on what it is all about. That was how I kept on engaging in it until I quitted. Be careful on what triggers your curiosity.

iv. Loneliness: Some psychologists consider masturbation a disease caused by loneliness. Loneliness here means that the person doesn’t have any social interactions with the members of the society and he is deprived of warm and friendly relationships. If loneliness continues, the person might be deprived of his interests.

v. Associating with those who always discuss about Sexual Activities: ‘Show me your friend and I’ll tell you who you are’ is yet another popular saying that depicts the power and influence of association and relationships. What you spend time hearing or seeing becomes part of you! Find your ‘square root’ whenever you find yourself amidst such friends or discussions.

vi. Skin Sensitivity: There are people whose skins are very sensitive to the point that, if they touch their skin or body in an unusual way, they tend to be sexually aroused. In such situation, how do you cope? Just keep reading!

vii. Avoidance of STDs: If you ask most people the reason why they masturbate. The most common response you will get from them is, they are trying to avoid any form of Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs) or unwanted pregnancy (as you will see later). To me, this is just a situation of been in-between the devil and the deep blue sea!
viii. Environments Saturated with Women Dressed Half-naked: If you find yourself in an environment where most of the ladies dress almost unclad, the tendency for you to fall under the grips of masturbation is quite high.

ix. Frustration, Stress and Anxiety: These are major triggers that you ought to watch out for. These emotional triggers have a way of dousing your tension temporarily through masturbation. You become a masturbation addict if you always resort to masturbation when faced with any of these emotional triggers.

x. Lasting Diseases/Confinement: There are various illnesses, diseases or disabilities that propel one to masturbate due to their inability to have direct intercourse with their spouse. Confinement, in this context means when one is incarcerated or imprisoned. Such persons don’t always have access to the opposite sex. Hence, they resort to masturbation.

xi. Avoidance of Unwanted Pregnancy: This is similar to item ‘vii’ in the sense that, a lady may feel, instead for her to get unwanted pregnancy, she better succumb to masturbation. Same with a guy, he may use masturbation as an alternative to avoid the trouble that comes with unwanted pregnancy.
xii. Unguarded Thoughts: The Holy Bible says: ‘Guard your heart with all diligence, because out of it comes the issues of life’. Learn to mind your mind by taking into cognizance the type of content you allow to stay in your heart. Learn to dispel any sexual-depicting information from your thoughts and you will be better for it. One of the easiest ways to do that is to enrich and flood your thoughts with positive and productive information.

xiii. Sense of Inferiority: There are folks who find it very difficult to relate to the opposite sex. They feel too ‘unworthy’ or ‘incapable’ for any lady, not to talk of approaching a lady. Such may only fantasize the girl of their dreams and probably masturbate with her image in mind in order to compensate his self esteem. Let me tell you, inferiority only exists in your mind. I’m talking out of personal experience because this trigger also contributed in fuelling my masturbation addiction.

xiv. ‘I Don’t Want to Cheat’ Mentality: There are guys and ladies who feel, in order not to cheat on their partner, they prefer to masturbate to kill the sexual urge when their partner is not around to douse it.
xv. Unsuitable Clothes: The studies conducted by the psychologists and education experts proved that wearing tight clothes, especially a tight pair of jeans may make the teenagers sexually excited and result in masturbating. This implies that, the type of clothe you wear as a lady or guy matters. If the clothe puts you in the ‘mood’, then, you ought to adjust.

xvi. Divorce: In most cases, when couples are divorced, it can force one to want to masturbate due to the absence of the partner.

xvii: ‘No Sex Period’ between partners: There are several instances when there are ‘no sex period’ between couples. This could be as a result of pregnancy, birth, menstruation, illness, disease or quarrel between the couples. Any of these can propel any of them to masturbation.

Culled from my book: “MASTURBATION ADDICTION: CAUSES, DANGERS AND PRACTICAL SOLUTIONS….My Twenty Four (24) Years experience as a Chronic Masturbation Addict”
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