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Romance / Re: What No One Will Tell You About Masturbation!! by xpanciated: 2:50pm On Apr 11, 2020 |
Ekakamba: 1. That depends on ur definition of success. 2. Among those key areas I mentioned, masturbation sure affects one, two or all of the areas I mentioned. 3. I have had the rare opportunity of counselling the so called 'successful/wealthy' people and they have inner pains they can't show the world. 4. Those addicted to masturbation knows exactly what I'm talking about. .....Thanks for ur submission though. |
Romance / What No One Will Tell You About Masturbation!! by xpanciated: 1:45pm On Apr 11, 2020 |
RAW FACT ON MASTURBATION. You sleep with a male or female... You call it sex. You arouse yourself and ejaculate alone... You call it masturbation. Should i be very candid with you? Each time you masturbate... You are having sex with a spirit (demon) Which eventually leads to soul ties with that spirit... Just same way you are joined as one, the moment you have sex with anyone. Then, the demon is at will to affect any area of ur destiny... Especially your finances, relationships and marriage. If that soul tie is not broken... I'm afraid to be the carrier of bad news... They will keep affecting key areas of your destiny. I masturbated for 24 years before i quitted 5 years ago and i have counselled more than a 1,000 people on the issue of masturbation so.... Please, before you argue, doubt or criticize me... Ask the Lord to reveal the authenticity of what i just posted, to you. ....My book on masturbation addiction is very much available...in eBook format and hard copy and it comes with a FREE ONE MONTH FOLLOW UP ONLINE BY ME WASSAP: 08099449449
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Romance / Re: Am Finished: See What Masturbation Caused Me. (picture) by xpanciated: 10:20pm On Apr 09, 2020 |
Scientists: Its alright bruv....but I believe there are many out there who really wants to stop....such time will always come....wish u best bruv.... 2 Likes |
Romance / Re: Am Finished: See What Masturbation Caused Me. (picture) by xpanciated: 10:01pm On Apr 09, 2020 |
I was addicted to masturbation for 24 years. I understand what you are talking about because, I’ve experienced worse scenarios but I can tell you that, I was able to quit 5 years ago! Masturbation addiction in this context refers to a situation when you cannot do without masturbation. You are said to be addicted to masturbation if the following holds true in your life: • When you find masturbation continuously attractive; • You Keep masturbating even though there are clear negative consequences; • When you find masturbation irresistible; • When you attempt to keep your masturbation secret; • When masturbation becomes a daily/weekly routine or practice; • You use masturbation as a way to cope • When you can't seem to stop yourself from masturbating; • Your personal relationships deteriorate • When you are always interested in any discussion or gist involving masturbation; • You masturbate to the point of self-injury • When the urge to masturbate always overcome your resolution or decision not to masturbate and • When you feel you need it to deal with your problems. You might be wondering why having an orgasm feels so great. As a matter of fact, ejaculating after masturbation feels pretty close to the sensation you get during sex. The reason masturbation is so pleasurable is because your brain gives off “happy” chemicals – endorphins and dopamine. Endorphins are feel-good peptide hormones that relieve both pain and stress. On the other hand, dopamine is a neurotransmitter that makes you feel motivated and concentrated. They are also responsible for masturbation addiction. This is a habit that’s been heavily built-up your mind, becoming a self-repeating pattern that has taken years to form. There are guys with chronic masturbation issues that have to ejaculate for over 6-7 times in a single day just like me. And each time they masturbate, they become weaker. Sexual exhaustion is a real problem. Due to the foregoing, it is also important to note that, if you masturbate once, twice or thrice a month, you are not addicted to masturbation; however, it will still have its toll on you eventually. That been said, masturbation is primarily caused by continuously indulging in masturbation; it then becomes a habit, which leads to addiction. Hence, if you must be free from this addiction, a reversal of this process ought to take place as you will see later in my revealing, expository and mind-blowing book: “MASTURBATION ADDICTION: CAUSES, DANGERS AND PRACTICAL SOLUTIONS”…My 24 years experience. Wassap…08099449449 Available in eBook and Hard cover! 1 Like
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Romance / Re: See Gbola! Pretty Lady Uses Fat Long Cucumber To Sex Herself On Instagram Live by xpanciated: 10:10am On Apr 09, 2020 |
Like I said in my book...."Every Lesbian masturbates...and any lady that is addicted to masturbation has the tendency of becoming a lesbian" I masturbated for good twenty four (24) years….from the age of 4 to 28 years…until I quit five years ago by the grace of God. Due to the foregoing, I can authoritatively tell you there are several triggers, or preferably factors that fuels masturbation. These triggers could be mental, physical, emotional, social or psychological in nature. Without much ado, I documented Seventeen (17) major triggers or causes of masturbation: i. Pornographic Materials: This is situation when one is attached or always around audio, visual or written materials that contains explicit sexual contents. Examples of these include: pornographic websites, sexual adverts, pornographic clips, sexual movies, adult magazines/novels, songs depicting sex etc. Once you find yourself always around these materials, you may eventually be tempted to masturbate. ii. Sexting/Sex-Chat/Audio/Video-Sex Calls: This is one of the most common trigger or method through which many (especially young people between the ages of 15-45) people masturbate. It involves two or more people (usually male and female) texting or chatting what I consider to be ‘sexually arousing, provocative or exciting’. They make use of sexually-vulgar lingos, sexy emoticons, seductive language and exchange of explicit sexually-suggestive words to arouse themselves, which leads to masturbation eventually. This also applies to audio/video-sex calls. However, in audio-sex, it involves audio communication that is laden with various sexual acts or suggestions. That of video-sex calls involves both parties (i.e the male and the female) seeing each other while masturbating. The funny aspect of this, is the fact that, you must not know the person from the other end to engage in this act. Hence, most ladies have commercialized their bodies for the sole purpose of this act, where men pay and watch them masturbate. iii. Curiosity: ‘Curiosity kills the cat’, says a popular saying. This is one of the triggers I fell for that led me to masturbate for more than two decades! I ‘mistakenly’ engaged in it just once and since then, I became very curious on what it is all about. That was how I kept on engaging in it until I quitted. Be careful on what triggers your curiosity. iv. Loneliness: Some psychologists consider masturbation a disease caused by loneliness. Loneliness here means that the person doesn’t have any social interactions with the members of the society and he is deprived of warm and friendly relationships. If loneliness continues, the person might be deprived of his interests. v. Associating with those who always discuss about Sexual Activities: ‘Show me your friend and I’ll tell you who you are’ is yet another popular saying that depicts the power and influence of association and relationships. What you spend time hearing or seeing becomes part of you! Find your ‘square root’ whenever you find yourself amidst such friends or discussions. vi. Skin Sensitivity: There are people whose skins are very sensitive to the point that, if they touch their skin or body in an unusual way, they tend to be sexually aroused. In such situation, how do you cope? Just keep reading! vii. Avoidance of STDs: If you ask most people the reason why they masturbate. The most common response you will get from them is, they are trying to avoid any form of Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs) or unwanted pregnancy (as you will see later). To me, this is just a situation of been in-between the devil and the deep blue sea! viii. Environments Saturated with Women Dressed Half-naked: If you find yourself in an environment where most of the ladies dress almost unclad, the tendency for you to fall under the grips of masturbation is quite high. ix. Frustration, Stress and Anxiety: These are major triggers that you ought to watch out for. These emotional triggers have a way of dousing your tension temporarily through masturbation. Culled from my book "Masturbation Addiction: Causes, Dangers and Practical Solutions" My 24 years experience as a chronic masturbator. Wasap...08099449449 4 Likes
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Poems For Review / Unbroken! by xpanciated: 5:47am On Apr 08, 2020 |
UNBROKEN! I’ve seen raw hate…not cooked one I’ve seen green envy not blue one I’ve experienced concentrated lack…not diluted one Brother...I’ve seen a drink called gossip! They forced me to take a sip! But no matter how hard they try... I remain....UNBROKEN! I’ve been disappointed severally I’ve been betrayed I’ve been lied against I’ve been used and dumped Yes...I’ve been neglected and dejected I know I have the weaknesses am battling with But no matter how the devil tries... ...I still remain UNBROKEN!! She promised love...and I saw pure love She promised to be there...and she was there Infact, love was learning work from her But alas!...when the center could no longer hold Things must eventually fall apart Because, when she promised forever...I saw never Yes...she tried to break me.... But...I'll forever remain Unbroken!!! ©2020 Emmanuel Benjamin (Xpanciated Emmy) |
Literature / If U Know What Are People Going Through by xpanciated: 5:39am On Apr 08, 2020 |
IF U KNOW WHAT ARE PEOPLE GOING THROUGH If you know what people are going through You won’t be in a hurry to judge and condemn Coz of the pains and anguish they are in But well covered up with smiles and laughter Just to give themselves hope In a world where people don't really care! If you understand what people are passing through Your anger will turn to pity Coz most people are very broke and needy Living from hand to mouth... But they may not utter a word to you Coz they live by faith And hoping things will change someday ...Suffering and smiling In a world where people are less concerned! If you see what people are experiencing You won’t just conclude and assume Cos they are going through a whole lot! Rather...u will earnestly pray for them Coz their matter pass your own You will love them genuinely Coz of how they still stood strong In a cold harsh world where almost everyone is 'On-your-Own-O.Y.O' 2020 © Xpanciated Emmy |
Romance / Causes Or Triggers Of Masturbation by xpanciated: 5:22am On Apr 08, 2020 |
CAUSES OR TRIGGERS OF MASTURBATION I masturbated for good twenty four (24) years….from the age of 4 to 28 years…until I quit five years ago by the grace of God. Due to the foregoing, I can authoritatively tell you there are several triggers, or preferably factors that fuels masturbation. These triggers could be mental, physical, emotional, social or psychological in nature. Without much ado, I documented Seventeen (17) major triggers or causes of masturbation: i. Pornographic Materials: This is situation when one is attached or always around audio, visual or written materials that contains explicit sexual contents. Examples of these include: pornographic websites, sexual adverts, pornographic clips, sexual movies, adult magazines/novels, songs depicting sex etc. Once you find yourself always around these materials, you may eventually be tempted to masturbate. ii. Sexting/Sex-Chat/Audio/Video-Sex Calls: This is one of the most common trigger or method through which many (especially young people between the ages of 15-45) people masturbate. It involves two or more people (usually male and female) texting or chatting what I consider to be ‘sexually arousing, provocative or exciting’. They make use of sexually-vulgar lingos, sexy emoticons, seductive language and exchange of explicit sexually-suggestive words to arouse themselves, which leads to masturbation eventually. This also applies to audio/video-sex calls. However, in audio-sex, it involves audio communication that is laden with various sexual acts or suggestions. That of video-sex calls involves both parties (i.e the male and the female) seeing each other while masturbating. The funny aspect of this, is the fact that, you must not know the person from the other end to engage in this act. Hence, most ladies have commercialized their bodies for the sole purpose of this act, where men pay and watch them masturbate. iii. Curiosity: ‘Curiosity kills the cat’, says a popular saying. This is one of the triggers I fell for that led me to masturbate for more than two decades! I ‘mistakenly’ engaged in it just once and since then, I became very curious on what it is all about. That was how I kept on engaging in it until I quitted. Be careful on what triggers your curiosity. iv. Loneliness: Some psychologists consider masturbation a disease caused by loneliness. Loneliness here means that the person doesn’t have any social interactions with the members of the society and he is deprived of warm and friendly relationships. If loneliness continues, the person might be deprived of his interests. v. Associating with those who always discuss about Sexual Activities: ‘Show me your friend and I’ll tell you who you are’ is yet another popular saying that depicts the power and influence of association and relationships. What you spend time hearing or seeing becomes part of you! Find your ‘square root’ whenever you find yourself amidst such friends or discussions. vi. Skin Sensitivity: There are people whose skins are very sensitive to the point that, if they touch their skin or body in an unusual way, they tend to be sexually aroused. In such situation, how do you cope? Just keep reading! vii. Avoidance of STDs: If you ask most people the reason why they masturbate. The most common response you will get from them is, they are trying to avoid any form of Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs) or unwanted pregnancy (as you will see later). To me, this is just a situation of been in-between the devil and the deep blue sea! viii. Environments Saturated with Women Dressed Half-naked: If you find yourself in an environment where most of the ladies dress almost unclad, the tendency for you to fall under the grips of masturbation is quite high. ix. Frustration, Stress and Anxiety: These are major triggers that you ought to watch out for. These emotional triggers have a way of dousing your tension temporarily through masturbation. You become a masturbation addict if you always resort to masturbation when faced with any of these emotional triggers. x. Lasting Diseases/Confinement: There are various illnesses, diseases or disabilities that propel one to masturbate due to their inability to have direct intercourse with their spouse. Confinement, in this context means when one is incarcerated or imprisoned. Such persons don’t always have access to the opposite sex. Hence, they resort to masturbation. xi. Avoidance of Unwanted Pregnancy: This is similar to item ‘vii’ in the sense that, a lady may feel, instead for her to get unwanted pregnancy, she better succumb to masturbation. Same with a guy, he may use masturbation as an alternative to avoid the trouble that comes with unwanted pregnancy. xii. Unguarded Thoughts: The Holy Bible says: ‘Guard your heart with all diligence, because out of it comes the issues of life’. Learn to mind your mind by taking into cognizance the type of content you allow to stay in your heart. Learn to dispel any sexual-depicting information from your thoughts and you will be better for it. One of the easiest ways to do that is to enrich and flood your thoughts with positive and productive information. xiii. Sense of Inferiority: There are folks who find it very difficult to relate to the opposite sex. They feel too ‘unworthy’ or ‘incapable’ for any lady, not to talk of approaching a lady. Such may only fantasize the girl of their dreams and probably masturbate with her image in mind in order to compensate his self esteem. Let me tell you, inferiority only exists in your mind. I’m talking out of personal experience because this trigger also contributed in fuelling my masturbation addiction. xiv. ‘I Don’t Want to Cheat’ Mentality: There are guys and ladies who feel, in order not to cheat on their partner, they prefer to masturbate to kill the sexual urge when their partner is not around to douse it. xv. Unsuitable Clothes: The studies conducted by the psychologists and education experts proved that wearing tight clothes, especially a tight pair of jeans may make the teenagers sexually excited and result in masturbating. This implies that, the type of clothe you wear as a lady or guy matters. If the clothe puts you in the ‘mood’, then, you ought to adjust. xvi. Divorce: In most cases, when couples are divorced, it can force one to want to masturbate due to the absence of the partner. xvii: ‘No Sex Period’ between partners: There are several instances when there are ‘no sex period’ between couples. This could be as a result of pregnancy, birth, menstruation, illness, disease or quarrel between the couples. Any of these can propel any of them to masturbation. Culled from my book: “MASTURBATION ADDICTION: CAUSES, DANGERS AND PRACTICAL SOLUTIONS….My Twenty Four (24) Years experience as a Chronic Masturbation Addict” WASSAP: 08099449449 Email: xpanciated.forever@gmail.com 1 Like
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Romance / Re: My Strange Observations After Quitting Masturbation by xpanciated: 11:18am On Apr 07, 2020 |
Kingzizu: I can relate bruv....I masturbated for 24 years until I quit five years ago....I did an in depth research on the issue and authored a powerful, thoughts provoking, revealing, mind-blowing and expository book titled: "Masturbation Addiction: Causes, Dangers and Practical Solutions" it contains my twenty four years experience in the world of masturbation, oath of secrecy and one month free follow up plan. Its in eBook and hard cover....check my Sig and recent posts here on NL U CAN CONTACT ME ON WASAP OR CALL 08099449449 21 Likes 3 Shares
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Health / Masturbation Facts by xpanciated: 6:54pm On Mar 29, 2020 |
Due to the number of testimonies I do receive daily on my book: “MASTURBATION ADDICTION: CAUSES, DANGERS AND PRACTICAL SOLUTIONS - My 24 years experience as a chronic masturbation addict” I saw the need to update us from time to time on few verified facts about masturbation…let’s go there! 1. Women do masturbate: According to one survey by TENGA, nearly a third of women prefer it to sex. Oh, and in case you weren't aware, trans and gender non-conforming people masturbate too. 2. Masturbation affects the penis: Frequent or overly vigorous masturbation can irritate the skin of the penis, and can injure the urethra in such a way that urine exits the penis not in a stream but in a hard-to-control spray. Barbara Bartlik, MD, a psychiatrist and sex therapist in New York City, says she's seen facedown masturbators with urethral trauma IQ so severe that they are no longer able to use a urinal and must urinate while seated. 3. Affects relationships: Of course, some men become so obsessed with masturbation that they begin to lose interest in having sex with their partner. The resulting hurt feelings and alienation a partner feels can make it hard to sustain the relationship. 4. Retarded ejaculation: Experts warn that men who frequently masturbate in ways that don't simulate sex with a partner -- for example, stroking very rapidly or with great pressure or friction -- can develop retarded ejaculation. That's a type of sexual dysfunction in which it is difficult or even impossible to climax during partnered sex. 5. Leads to prostate cancer: Contrary to previous studies, in a later study published in BJU International, researchers found that frequent masturbation in young men raised the risk for prostate cancer. Google is ur friend my people! My book is very available in eBook and hard copy formats….#500 only! 080.9944.9449 xpanciated.forever@gmail.com Facebook.com/Emmanuel Benjamin (Xpanciated Emmy) Instagram: @Outspoken Xpanciated
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Religion / Re: Corona Virus: The Sleeping Church by xpanciated: 6:31pm On Mar 26, 2020 |
Samunique: I'm so grateful for ur contributions...Thanks a milla! I agree with what you posted... |
Religion / Re: Corona Virus: The Sleeping Church by xpanciated: 5:46am On Mar 25, 2020 |
Eviana:Wow! I sincerly do appreciate ur take on this and ur indepthness on the issue....I'm seriously learning! Tanks a bunch! 1 Like |
Religion / Re: Corona Virus: The Sleeping Church by xpanciated: 5:43am On Mar 25, 2020 |
Samunique:Thanks so much sir....I perfectly understand what you said and you're on point....the mind of God in times like this is crucial! |
Religion / Corona Virus: The Sleeping Church by xpanciated: 6:08pm On Mar 23, 2020 |
THE CHURCH IS SLEEPING… The church has been sleeping… This includes me, myself and I… Corona virus is out and all I see among most Christians is fear, unbelief, doubt and confusion… How come, the rapid spread of Corona Virus is waking some of us up to start taking our walk with God seriously? As a church, are we not supposed to be proactive? Why are we mostly reactive to issues? Then, of what use is the precious gift of the Holy Spirit given to us by God? Of what use is the power of God at work in us? What use is the Rhema we claim to have? Were we not born for a time as this? Why do we scamper for safety together with the world that ought to run to us to guide them on how to be safe? Is this not the issue of identity crisis? I bless God for the continuous spiritual investments of prayers and intercessions by genuine believers, evangelists, prophets, apostles, pastors and our fathers of faith…. In the situations before us….What would Jesus have done in times like this? What would the apostles do in moments like this? What would have happened if it were during the times of God’s generals like the Azusa street revival? Is the God of those times different from the God of today? Where have we lost or missed it? Instead of us to bring the world to a standstill by spreading CHRIST HOLY VIRUS, we are grounded by the world system….were we not meant to invade cosmos? Finally…in this ship we are in…. It’s about to sink coz of the storm of corona virus… But THE CHURCH IS STILL SLEEPING inside this ship just the way Jesus did…and the world has been waking us up to save them from this pandemic storm… But…until we decide to WAKE UP with ONE VOICE and ONE BODY as a church to calm this storm and many more to come….we may be at the mercy and dictates of what the COVID-19 chooses to impose on us…that WILL NOT be our portion in Jesus Name. Emmanuel ‘Xpanciated’ Benjamin
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Religion / Re: How God Saved Me From Masturbation And Pornography Addiction After 10 Years by xpanciated: 1:17pm On Feb 23, 2020 |
Op....praize God for ur testimony....I masturbated for twenty four (24) years. I was a chronic masturbator addict. But I stopped five years ago by the grace of God through several practical steps. I wrote a book on it and it will help you....contact me for the eBook or hard copy....08099449449
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Religion / Re: Spiritual Implications Of Masturbation: My 24 Years As An Addict by xpanciated: 4:20pm On Jan 15, 2020 |
[quote author=ojaysam25 post=85797630]does masturbation have side effects apart from the spiritual aspect of it...pls I would like to know.[/quotee] Why not sir? It's all in the book! I masturbated for 24 years. I've interviewed more than a hundred masturbation addicts....I've distributed more than five hundred questionnaires over the years getting relevant info on the effects and I've researched from various scientifically proven literatures.... |
Religion / Re: Spiritual Implications Of Masturbation: My 24 Years As An Addict by xpanciated: 12:00pm On Jan 14, 2020 |
Abuventure: Tanks so much! More blessings! |
Religion / Re: Spiritual Implications Of Masturbation: My 24 Years As An Addict by xpanciated: 11:58am On Jan 14, 2020 |
bigiyaro: Tanks so much....the book is scoped mainly for addicts who are already neck-deep into it without control.... |
Family / Re: Masturbation Techniques For Males And Females by xpanciated: 11:56am On Jan 14, 2020 |
saintneo: U got me all wrong... It wasn't intended to promote masturbation at all At least you could have read the disclaimer. |
Religion / Re: Spiritual Implications Of Masturbation: My 24 Years As An Addict by xpanciated: 7:02am On Jan 14, 2020 |
Ladylite: I sincerely do appreciate ur submissions on my post. However, it is very crucial I draw ur attention to certain facts u may be unaware of: 1. I'm glad u accepted it is a sin. 2. Does sin affect our consecration to God? If you say no....then what is the essence of Isaiah 59:1 and 1 Corinthians 6:9-10? 3. For ur info...I have sent free copies to many so...its wrong to conclude DAT I'm only after selling the book. Why will I want to do free one month follow up if I'm not sure of the result I'll get? 4. You may have ur different view, which I'm not against but don't encapsulate ur experience or view as the final. 5. In fact, the practical solutions DAT focuses on the mind in the book is contained in about 9 pages while the spiritual aspect is just a page and half. Why judge when you don't have the clear picture of the book? 6. Through out my 24 years as a masturbation addict, did I mention DAT God abandoned me or I never had relationship with Him? Was it not out of His infinite mercies through my relationship with Him DAT He exposed me to the light? 7. Who am I to judge or condemn anyone when I'm a product of His mercies? 8. You only have a pixel idea of the book and not the whole picture of the book....so...its too early to judge please. It has been working for those who sincerely want to quit. |
Religion / Re: Spiritual Implications Of Masturbation: My 24 Years As An Addict by xpanciated: 6:33am On Jan 14, 2020 |
RiyadhGoddess: Calling me a wicked person is a very weak way to start my dear. I'm not holding anyone by the jugular to get d book. If you can proof beyond any reasonable doubt here that what I posted on the techniques of masturbation was copy and paste, then you are free to call me a wicked person. Seems u didn't read d disclaimer before I went ahead with the techniques. Can u write on the evils or dangers of examination malpractice without highlighting the types? It was only meant to guide the reader to be aware or wary please. The risks or effects cuts across spiritual lines... |
Health / Re: What You Don't Know About Masturbation! by xpanciated: 6:28am On Jan 14, 2020 |
knowyaself2: With all due respect....I did an indepth research and the scientifically tested proofs are littered in the book, backed up with concrete references at the bibliography... I won't burn my energy here explaining to you what I have taken time to explain in this expository book. May I remind you that...you are not under compulsion or duress to get the book but, those who truly need it understands better. |
Family / Re: Masturbation Techniques For Males And Females by xpanciated: 6:21am On Jan 14, 2020 |
RiyadhGoddess: Calling me a wicked person is a very weak way to start my dear. I'm not holding anyone by the jugular to get d book. If you can proof beyond any reasonable doubt here that what I posted on the techniques of masturbation was copy and paste, then you are free to call me a wicked person. Seems u didn't read d disclaimer before I went ahead with the techniques. Can u write on the evils or dangers of examination malpractice without highlighting the types? It was only meant to guide the reader to be aware or wary please. The risks or effects cuts across spiritual lines... |
Health / Re: What You Don't Know About Masturbation! by xpanciated: 6:10am On Jan 14, 2020 |
knowyaself2: Was I referring to masturbation or masturbation addiction If you want to talk about the safe side of masturbation....what happens if you put it on a scale as against its side effects?? You may have ur proofs that it's 100% safe, what if I bring scientifically tested and proven evidence of its social, psychological, emotional, health and physical dangers, effects and risks? Mind you....the book is nothing close to religious coloration....may I remind you never to judge or conclude on this book by its cover or my post? |
Religion / Spiritual Implications Of Masturbation: My 24 Years As An Addict by xpanciated: 5:39am On Jan 14, 2020 |
If none have ever told you before, I will inform you now that, masturbation has it’s spiritual element on the very high side. For instance, the following are the spiritual implications of masturbation addiction: i. Guilt: If you must be sincere with yourself, don’t you feel this guilt each time you finish masturbating? You then become helpless. This guilt lowers your self esteem and makes you always feel unworthy before God. ii. An Opening for the Free Operations of Demons in your Life: Each time you masturbate, believe it or not, it opens your life to the free op.erations of demons. You will agree with me that, you are not always comfortable with your dream life if you are a chronic masturbator. You will also agree with me that, there are things that happen to you that you don’t understand but deep you know, something demonic is behind some of your predicaments. These are demons having a field day in your life because you opened the door of your spirit to them. Frankly speaking, each time you masturbate, you are depositing your destiny to the demonic spiritual sperm bank, making you not to understand your life adequately. iii. Invitation of Spiritual Husbands and Wives in your Life: Masturbation gives invitation to spiritual husbands and wives to hold you down in perpetual bondage. This will make you not to enjoy your relationship or marriage. iv. Negatively affects your Consecration to God: Consistent masturbation affects your commitment to God. It affects your prayer life negatively, it makes you have less or not faith in God, you can’t claim to live a holy life with continuous masturbation. Hence, in summary, you consecration to God is affected negatively. Culled from my expository, revealing and explosive e-book on masturbation on my 24 years experience as a chronic masturbation addict and practical steps on how I quit five years ago! Order now! And enjoy one month free one-on-one follow up to break free! Calls/text/whasapp: 080-9944-9449 Facebook: Emmanuel Benjamin (Xpanciated) xpanciated.forever@gmail.com 1 Share
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Family / Masturbation Techniques For Males And Females by xpanciated: 4:57am On Jan 14, 2020 |
For more than a decade now, I have researched, interviewed, observed and heard one-on-one life experiences of people (males and females) engaged in the act of masturbation. The following methods of masturbation are the basic ways through which people masturbate. I can bet you, if you’ve ever masturbated or you know of one who does, it must be through one or more of the following methods of masturbation. The honest truth is, I didn’t intend to include this sub-topic in this book due to its ‘implications’. However, I realize that, it will help many to be aware and be wary whenever they notice any of the following methods of masturbation anywhere: FOR MALES: It is important I point out clearly here that, it’s difficult to masturbate without watching a sexual content or harboring a sexual image in your imagination. Hence, the following methods of masturbation are used by males with a sexual fantasy in their imaginations: i. Handful/Lubricant Method: This is the act of grasping and rubbing to and fro of one’s penis with soap or Vaseline or any lubricant till he ejaculates. This gives the feeling as if he is involved in sex with the opposite sex. ii. Thrusting Method: This is the act of creating or digging a hole in a soft material like mattress through which the male can insert his penis and keep thrusting in and out as if he is having sex with a female until he ejaculates. iii. Frictional Method: This method involves scrubbing to and fro, faced on a flat or soft surface so as to create friction between your genitals and the surface. It produces pleasurable sensations that eventually lead to ejaculation. This was the method I was accustomed to. iv. Helping-Hand method: This is a situation when another person (male or female) manipulates your genitals through any means for you to ejaculate. v. Compression Method: This is a situation where you twist your legs to compress and scrub your genitals till you ejaculate. This method is used mostly in public places where one is attracted to a lady he is seeing. FOR FEMALES: Just like their male counterparts, the following methods of masturbation are used by females with a sexual fantasy in their imaginations: i. Insertion Method: This is the use of fruits and materials like cucumber, candle, banana, plantain to insert or thrust in and out of the vagina to attain sexual pleasure or orgasm. ii. Compression Method: This is a situation where you twist your legs to compress and scrub your genitals till you reach orgasm. This method is used mostly in public places where one is attracted to the opposite sex she is seeing. iii. Fingering Method: This is the act of using your fingers to massage, manipulate and finger your genitals to achieve sexual pleasure. iv. Sex-Toy Method: This involves the use of vibrators and other artificial tools to achieve orgasm and sexual pleasure. v. Helping-Hand method: This is a situation when another person (male or female) manipulates your genitals through any means for you to orgasm. For more original and deeper insight on masturbation addiction based on my 24 years masturbation addiction and how I quit five years ago....Order for my new and highly anticipated book and quit masturbation in one month!: "Masturbation Addiction: Causes, Effects and Practical Solutions". I'll follow u up one-on-one online for free. Fb: Emmanuel Benjamin (Xpanciated) 08099449449 (calls/text/whasap) xpanciated.forever@gmail.com
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Health / What You Don't Know About Masturbation! by xpanciated: 4:17am On Jan 14, 2020 |
I started masturbating at the tender age of for to twenty eight years. Meaning, I masturbated for good twenty four years! the physical, health, mental, spiritual, emotional, academic and psychological effects are devasting! I stopped five years ago and still counting! How was I able to stop? What is it that you don't know about masturbation DAT has been hindering you from quitting the act? It's all revealed practically in my new revealing and expository e-book: Masturbation Addiction: Causes, Dangers and Practical Solutions" It comes with a free one-on-one follow-up with me! Get for urself or friend! 080-9944-9449...(fb: Emmanuel Benjamin (Xpanciated).... xpanciatedmindz@gmail.com
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Romance / My 24 Years As A Chronic Masturbation Addict! by xpanciated: 3:51am On Jan 14, 2020 |
I masturbated for good twenty four years! the physical, health, mental, spiritual, emotional, academic and psychological effects are devasting! I stopped five years ago and still counting! How was I able to stop? It's all revealed practically in my new revealing and expository e-book: Masturbation Addiction: Causes, Dangers and Practical Solutions" It comes with a free one-on-one follow-up with me! Get for urself or friend! 080-9944-9449...(fb: Emmanuel Benjamin (Xpanciated).... xpanciatedmindz@gmail.com
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Literature / Motivational Fever by xpanciated: 4:16pm On Sep 15, 2019 |
Motivational and inspirational books and materials has infiltrated our personal libraries and cyberspace to the extent that almost every youth can boast of reading a handful of such motivational or inspirational books by Robert Kiyosaki, Zig Ziglar, John Mason, Napoleon Hill, Robert Greene amongst a host of others. However, what beats my imagination is the fact that, despite all these motivational books they read and insightful seminars they attend, the ecstatic, zealous and passionate feeling that comes immediately is quite awesome and mind-blowing! But, after a couple of days, all the zeal, drive and passion will be evaporated into thin air: this is what I call MOTIVATIONAL FEVER. It simply means the period or time taken to retain an inspirational/motivational thought, feeling or idea before it evapourates. DANGERS OF MOTIVATIONAL FEVER The following are ways through which motivational fever can affect you negatively: It leads to procrastination It leads to delay in achieving success It makes one confused It keeps you distracted It feeds you with false hope It gives you an untested confidence It makes one’s life to be retrogressive, circular or stagnant How then, can you make the best of every inspiration? WAYS OUT Focus on one book or source of motivation until you begin to experience practical result in your life before venturing into another. Be patient to try one method exhaustively first before venturing into another. Remember, it is not the number of motivated books you read that matters but the ones you put into use and works for you. If you have put all the inspirational messages and motivational books into use, your life won’t be at this stage. So, please focus on even just one book that will change your life forever. If you adopt these, it will save your waste of precious time, resources and energy, which will further boost your productivity, value and essence. Your Friend, Xpanciated Emmy
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Crime / Why Kidnappers Kidnap by xpanciated: 4:06pm On Sep 15, 2019 |
At the mere mention of names like Evans, Wadume etc, it gives one the shivers because, these names are epitomes of kidnapping in Nigeria. Kidnapping refers to the crime of seizing, confining, abducting, or carrying away a person by force or fraud, often to subject him or her to involuntary servitude in an attempt to demand a ransom. Ransom in this sense may not necessarily be in monetary terms. It may be in exchange for something else. Kidnapping is no longer a new form of crime in Nigeria but it has risen to be a well-organized and very lucrative crime perpetuated by dare-devils. Kidnapping is a trade that is difficult for the operators to quit. This trade is like child trafficking. It is a multimillion criminal industry in the world especially in Nigeria. This criminal business is the fourth most lucrative commerce in Nigeria after oil bunkering, prostitution and child trafficking (NAPTIP, 2019). The kidnappers go as far as even killing their victims sometimes even if the ransom has been paid! WHY KIDNAPPERS KIDNAP 1. Unemployment/Joblessness: An idle man they say, is the devil’s workshop. Moreover, without any source of income, kidnapping amongst other crime comes to mind. 2. Greed: The insatiable desire to be wealthy at all cost motivates the kidnapper to venture into this act. 3. Poor Security Network: A kidnapper only kidnaps when his strategy supersedes that of the security network in that environment. 4. Personal Vendetta/Avenger: Most kidnappers are on a revenge mission or to avenge for friend or relative so as to settle a score. 5. Political/Spiritual Protection: Most of the kidnappers that were eventually ‘kidnapped’ by the police often speak of their sponsors, godfathers or spiritual protection which aids them to ‘flourish’ in their business and evade the law (at least temporarily!) I will conclude by saying that, kidnappers see it as a business that can never be abolished by any government in Nigeria. This is because, the government of Nigeria is yet to take a bold step to find a lasting panacea to this barbaric act. Once the government comes with a stiff action against the kidnappers and if the issues highlighted above can be dealt with decisively from its roots, the issue of kidnapping will be an issue of the past in Nigeria. Watch out for my next article on ‘HOW TO AVOID BEING ON A KIDNAPPER’S LIST OF TARGETS’ Your Friend, Xpanciated Emmy
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Business To Business / Re: Apply For Soft Loans And Get Paid Within Two Working Days by xpanciated: 1:15am On Jun 01, 2017 |
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