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To find money...hard...to find true love..hard....To even sleep ...hard

Kingogbotor:
➜To find money...hard...to find true love..hard....To even sleep ...hard

Without money, you will never find true love. You can find a broken/damaged individual— a person who does not even begin to know how to love oneself(people who don't first have self-love and self-culture don't know how to love) —to be with, but love... nah. No way!

Men don't love for real
How on earth will a normal guy walked up to you and the only thing he can say is about how he likes your skin . I don't understand before you know it started calling you goddess

Marriage is not for everyone, so stop pressuring yourself over something that is not for you.

Kingogbotor:
To find money...hard...to find true love..hard....To even sleep ...hard

As a man once you arrange and position yourself
Everything will align...

my advise for ladies
Visit him, eat chicken, drink wine,shawama, food, then start crying that u want to go home and take ur H!V drugs🙄🙄🚶

Samantha125:
Marriage is not for everyone, so stop pressuring yourself over something that is not for you.

Speak for yourself
Your bad attitude will not get married

xtianchris:
➜As a man once you arrange and position yourself Everything will align...

Like the over 20 million married Nigerian men living in abject poverty today, abi? 🥱🥱🥱

Misery really does love company! 🙄🙄🙄

Kobojunkie:
Like the over 20 million married Nigerian men living in abject poverty today, abi? 🥱🥱🥱

Misery really does love company! 🙄🙄🙄

I guess you writing From experience I doubt if you understand what I wrote there
😂😂😂 Is it your Poverty ...
There's poverty love. ..
That's UCHU. ..😂😂🤣🤣😂😂. I than by what I said.
if a Man is cleaned up the rest his history

xtianchris:
➜I guess you writing From experience I doubt if you understand what I wrote there
😂😂😂 Is it your Poverty ... There's poverty love. ..Love have link with Poverty and That's UCHU. ..😂😂🤣🤣😂😂.
➜ I than by what I said. if a Man is cleaned up the rest his history

Poverty/struggle love is to be blessed for the over 100 million Nigerians existing under abject poverty conditions today. Is that the love you are telling OP about — this selfish and wicked rebooting of struggle on millions just because?

2. If poverty is his history and present, what does it matter what else he imagines is cleaned up?

There's so much confusion and misplacement of priorities among ladies of nowadays. These ladies allow playboys who don't really have interest in marrying them to deceive them thereby missing out on their rightful men! By the time they realise what's up they have lost the genuine guys while the playboy moves on to the next gullible lady and the cycle continues. Ladies should also avoid what I call "crowd mentality" which is the tendency to fall for what everyone is falling for! This is because those things everyone wants to have in their potential ideal men are usually unrealistic, and you find out that those who set such "standards" are usually people of the higher social class (eg celebrities). When you as a random girl from an average to poor family background wants to align yourself with the celebrity lifestyles and "standards", just know you're setting yourself up for a prolonged stay in the spinsterhood market.

Be realistic in your expectations of your ideal man! Know yourself and your background and cut your coat according to your clothes... period

Kingogbotor:
To find money...hard...to find true love..hard....To even sleep ...hard

Man life no easy at all.

Kobojunkie:
Poverty/struggle love is to be blessed for the over 100 million Nigerians existing under abject poverty conditions today. Is that the love you are telling OP about — this selfish and wicked rebooting of struggle on millions just because?

2. If poverty is his history and present, what does it matter what else he imagines is cleaned up?

I guess you confused with what I'm saying.
Once a man has positioned himself all these the Op is saying won't come up...

xtianchris:
I guess you confused with what I'm saying.
Once a man has positioned himself all these the Op is saying won't come up...

Nonsense! 🥱🥱

Positioned himself, how? Keep running all over the place with this vague and meaningless bullsheet you lot are notorious for. When you are done, come back and admit that you are the one who has been confused from the start!🙄🙄

Many ladies have missed the chances of getting hooked with their ordained husbands on some flimsy considerations. And one thing about nature is that once one misses the opportunity to grab that which God wanted for one, it is gone forever.

must you get married cant you be on your own why trying to impose yourself on someone else when you cant fend for yourself


the only thing you should be thinking about is not making money but cultivating a skill set that renders goods or services.


first of all you should be educating yourself , its so sad most people only think of education in terms of going to school and graduating from academic instuition. the internet has made education so accessible but does anyone want that?? no what they want is constant consummation of social media

must you get married cant you be on your own why trying to impose yourself on someone else when you cant fend for yourself


the only thing you should be thinking about is not making money but cultivating a skill set that renders goods or services.


first of all you should be educating yourself , its so sad most people only think of education in terms of going to school and graduating from academic instuition. the internet has made education so accessible but does anyone want that?? no what they want is constant consummation of social media

Kobojunkie:
Nonsense! 🥱🥱

Positioned himself, how? Keep running all over the place with this vague and meaningless bullsheet you lot are notorious for. When you are done, come back and admit that you are the one who has been confused from the start!🙄🙄

Your waiting will be like the second coming of Jesus.I stand firmly by what I said.

Well, I wasn't talking to you...🤷🤷🤷

Powerbandooo:
Speak for yourself
Your bad attitude will not get married

Kobojunkie:
Without money, you will never find true love.

With money, he will only find fake love.

Kobojunkie:
Without money, you will never find true love. You can find a broken/damaged individual— a person who does not even begin to know how to love oneself(people who don't first have self-love and self-culture don't know how to love) —to be with, but love... nah. No way!

Lies. Without money people do find true love. It's happened before and still happens now. White women keep showing y'all examples but y'all don't wanna learn.

Diamond098454:
Men don't love for real
How on earth will a normal guy walked up to you and the only thing he can say is about how he likes your skin . I don't understand before you know it started calling you goddess

Those men who loved you for real, what did you do to them? I guess you rejected them on some flimsy grounds! Ladies don't value true love. They'll rather make the guy who truly loves them look stvp1d and eventually reject him for the irresponsible playboys!

Jman06:
Those men who loved you for real, what did you do to them? I guess you rejected them on some flimsy grounds! Ladies don't value true love. They'll rather make the guy who truly loves them look stvp1d and eventually reject him for the irresponsible playboys!

jman you are right. But you won't blame some of us for being selective and you know guys do the same too

Kaido:
With money, he will only find fake love.

Start by telling us what this true love is then since you pretend to know of it. Also, tell is how you discovered that it exists amon to those who are poor.

Kaido:
With money, he will only find fake love.

But there is no such thing as True love. And those who have money don't really go looking for true love but for a partner that their money can afford them on the most part -- transactional partnership aka love which is what we mostly know as humans.

There is nothing bad in selecting the very best for yourself, I hope you're among the very best too?there's no reason why a useless and valueless girl will be all out hunting rich valuable men up and down.
Pls note ass and breast aren't no value.

Diamond098454:
jman you are right. But you won't blame some of us for being selective and you know guys do the same too

zenithgroup:
There is nothing bad in selecting the very best for yourself, I hope you're among the very best too?there's no reason why a useless and valueless girl will be all out hunting rich valuable men up and down.
Pls note ass and breast aren't no value.

zenith please don't take it personal

Diamond098454:
jman you are right. But you won't blame some of us for being selective and you know guys do the same too

It is what it is.. Real valuable men are very selective, and they're not afraid to be single.

zenithgroup:
It is what it is.. Real valuable men are very selective, and they're not afraid to be single.

I know you are one of them because of the way you sound🔊