₦airaland Forum

Waxxy: @Disguy,
i dont think it would be as difficult as it seems. Collection is a tricky issue as u cannot get Nigerians to sort out waste as we do here, even some of us are forced to do so by threats from borough officials

But remember that labour is cheap in Nigeria compared to the UK so employing people to do all the work would not be much of a hassle.

my main worry is the machinery to carry out the project. If i am correct, a cardboard compactor/ bailer alone cost my firm about £250,000 (about 63 million Naira), and you would probably still need a polythene bailing machine etc


@Zhia2000,
could you please elucidate on your research on local recycling strategies, will it be functional in Nigeria?

Trust me waste collection is not an issue, assign those mallams at the dump sites here in Lagos. I supervised the construction and test running of a pelletising and recycling plant. So i know waste collection isn't an issue.

mendy2: if you want to know how to get a plastic visa card accepted anywere visa is accepted, i've the manual.

Yeah right. My GT mastercard is accepted anywhere, i have done trades in china and paid with my mastercard, even in the US. People pls walk into your bank and ask questions.

How much are the pouches, and do you always have supplies, do also have screen protector. I am interested.

ronkebp: There are people that spend hours on networking sites that still do not indulge in nonsense, is it every person that sends a personal e-mail to you, you will reply to? Especially when you are already married? So many people will still try their luck whether on the networking sites or not, but it is left for the woman to respect herself and maintain her dignity.

The man gan sef, got what he deserved, because really!! what is he snooping around for ?

What should a married person be doing on a dating site in the first place. That person must have intents then.

Freiburger: So Seal also needed. pappers u 're a big joke.

Duh! Seal needed a boost in his identity and already failing career.

Analytical: It's like some people still don't get it. Here is a sister displaying such irritating attitude of "it's my brother's property, you might as well go to hell and I can do whatever I choose, afterall you are just a wife" and some expect the wife to just swallow it and be tolerant? It doesn't end there. I am almost 100% sure wife does all the dishes after they all must have eaten! Afterall, she is 'our wife', expected to worship her in-laws and take loads of rubbish in her own home. Which responsible husband beats his wife, right in front of his sisters? It's even annoying that he has a sister living under his roof that refuses to talk to his wife from the day she came.

We've seen such types countless times. That is why I don't blame the girls, but the spineless husband whose wife's dignity means nothing to him. To those saying what is the big deal, you have to realise this is the wife's territory. Aside from the bedroom, wives guard their kitchens (pots especially) jealously. To this particular husband, both actually mean nothing to him. That is why the sisters can be sleeping on her bed shortly after her sneaking out. To think these sisters will one day become wives too!

The husband refused to take charge of his home. From day one, you make your people know whoever 'touches' your wife touches the apple of your eyes! You don't give people the opportunity to disrespect her. The way they see you treat her will send a message to everyone to behave. It's not the wife that should do that. That is why I am angry with the husband. It's his duty to protect the wife before his sisters turned her to a garbage.

During the early years of my marriage when one of my younger ones was around and left plates for my wife to pack after eating, nobody told him to pack them when he saw me carrying my own plates to the kitchen. In fact, he rushed to collect the plates from me and came back to clear the remaining. And that was the last time it ever happened! Now, it wasn't my wife that did that so she didn't even come into the picture. But it sent the message down.

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Oh, the advice to the OP? I have none right now as I am still angry with the husband.

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@nikkygal, Amen.

Oh my! Analytical *sigh* U're the best.

obasijoy: @ op. I have been married before but now divorce with a son. I know no matter how good you are to your husband people and him, what will happen must happen, still that continue to be good because there is a great reward for it. MY ADVISE to you which I know it must quench that fire in house is simple, as for now your husband's mind is poisoned that you don't love any member of his family. Please just call your husband and his sister together *TOGETHER* tell them this please I don't like how devil wants to destroy this happy home because of food or something else. If food is the problem, chioma or whatever your sister inlaws name eat and honey depending on what you call your husband please we don't have to destroy our own home or generation pls we are all one. I am part of your family *you are now answering there name* I am chioma's elder sister if she wants to respect me let her do but if she doesn't want to respect me your wife and you are in support of it so be it. Please all I want in my home is peace. Honey I love you so much and also your family we are all one please. N/B: make sure you talk to them together. I promise you this must restore your joy and respect in your home more especially your hubby love for you. I believe the have sense. Please don't you ever revenge. IF REVENGE IS SWEET, WHY DOES IT LEAVE A BITTER TASTE.

By josh! This is the best advice to me. OP, il advice you take to this advice, this advice would not add any problems to ur marriage unlike some i have seen here, it can only help mend it.

davidylan: your husband is a bloody wimp. If i had a sister and she went and took food from my wife's pot without letting her know, she would have to find a hotel that night. Regardless of how you feel about your wife, She must ALWAYS come first before extended family.

This.

jennykadry: ^^You are crazy. Infact devil punish you the next time you mention "apologise". A man physically hurt his wife who just put to bed recently and you are here telling her she wasn't diplomatic. Thunder blend your nyash like cray fish diaaaaa. EEDIOT oshi, ewu ocha, anu mpam.

@Jenny, i tire o! Imagine talk ''apologise''

joeydozzy: This is a pointless thread cos guys will say girls and girls-guys. So if I weren't biased,i would say guys.

This!

ZIM DRILL: the husband is stupid to agree on what the his family says to him

and also you are to blame, unless if am missing something how can you hire a maid when you are just the two of you

was that house being built 24/4 and those people couldnt continue doing the work for few hours that you could go to buy groceries?

Did you even read her post

otokx: This is a normal occurrence in Nigeria; how could the poster have been so blind? Her parents have handled it very maturedly; stay put in your house even if you become a house girl afterwards. Life is not all about wealth and riches as most of the young girls think today.

So what's your point really, and in what way was the poster blind?